To the very few SPs and MAs it May Concern: Hygiene issue.

[Guest m**t****ka]

Before starting I have to warn you guys that if you are easily disgusted, you might not wanna read this post. However, I believe this issue has to be addressed. Also, I will not reveal who this post is about. And no, I don't believe the lady is on Cerb. My objective is not to put anyone down.

 

I've seen several posts urging gentlemen to take care of their hygiene. Some of the ladies need to address this issue as well.

 

A few days ago, I went to see a lady for some bodyrubs/bodyslides. She gave me a great massage. She looked and dressed beautifully. I could not be more satisfied. However, when it came time for me to enjoy the bodyslide part of the session, I turned from totally relaxed to totally cringed up and disgusted. Nothing turns me off more than a lady who does not take care of herself down there. I couldn't stand the smell. She told me to get comfortable and touch her. I wanted so bad to ask her if she could go wash her private area, but I didn't want to hurt her feelings and risk being called an @$$hole.

 

I tried so hard to stay calm and not let my facial expressions show how disgusted I was. I convinced myself to do as she said. As I entered a couple of digits down there, I felt a gooey substance, like some thick cream or gel. It was really sticky.

 

That did it for me. I instantly lost my manhood.

 

I went ahead and took a shower. She got in as well after a couple of minutes. I washed myself, she washed herself. I paid special attention to see if she was gonna wash the concerned area. She only ran a piece of cloth on the outside. So that gooey disgusting stuff remained right where it was.

 

I know 90% + of the ladies respect themselves and their clients, and make sure they are fresh and clean for the session. However, for those who just don't care, please, pretty please... take care of your hygiene.

 

If you are going to receive a client, make sure you take a very good shower and take very special care of that specific area that we love to enjoy so much.

[Jabba 18389]

Uuoohhh dude.

Yep - Hygiene is a large part of the experience. It sounds like your session was less than desirable....in fact it may have been a health issue at play.

 

Hard to know what to do in your situation except to protect yourself, advise your provider & keep your distance. Ouch.

[Capital Hunter 18263]

Improper hygiene is certainly an issue with small minority of providers and as you mentioned it is not limited to hobbyists and is indeed a real turn off. Not limited to down there either (breath issue as well sometimes) and is likely more than a few cases but an issue among small minority of escorts (less than 10%) and breath issue with some dancers. I am usually in shower for at least 15 minutes (and brush well as well) to ensure I am ready and deep clean for the date and I expect same from my guest before arrival. In a few cases also providers left without taking shower (even though I gave every guest 15 minutes just for that). Well they never got a second invite from me.

[CristyCurves 169032]

I may be wrong but if the smell was that strong it does sound like something that couldn't be washed away more like an infection. Perhaps a yeast infection, or something more serious that may need a doctors attention. I know it's never easy to be direct but in situations like that being diplomatic yet direct I think is best.

[Ashley Ann 75247]

You guys are all very nice with your repsonses...I am not.

 

Anyone who is an actual professional would know NOT TO WORK during any type of infection.

 

She is the one supposedly with the goo down there-so she has to know somethig aint right.

 

Since she still choose to do massages-she should have skipped the body slides and kept her pants on.

[LuxeMulvari 65764]

I am usually in shower for at least 15 minutes (and brush well as well) to ensure I am ready and deep clean for the date and I expect same from my guest before arrival. In a few cases also providers left without taking shower (even though I gave every guest 15 minutes just for that). Well they never got a second invite from me.

I'd just like to point out here, just because an sp/ma doesn't shower at your location, doesn't mean she doesn't bathe. In my personal experience, when I'm doing an outcall, I NEVER shower at the gents location, I always wait until I get home and do that immediately upon walking through door after i take off my shoes and hang my jacket.

 

Having worked in another much more dangerous city early in my career, I have had money and other property stolen while I was bathing, and on another occasion was actually locked in the bathroom and held against my will. Hence, I do not trust a stranger to be totally vulnerable ( in a bathroom with water running where i cannot see or hear what's going on) and leaving my property unattended while bathing in unfamiliar environment. Not only that, but I don't like the idea of using someone's else's shower, soap or towels when I have all these items that are mine at my home, plus my shampoo and other girly cleansing items that men rarely if ever have. Bathing time is very intimate time for me, especially after a rendezvous, it's my time to decompress and unwind. Therefore,it's something prefer to do in the privacy and comfort of my own home.

 

Even in my own incall, I wait until my guest has departed and I'm alone to bathe.

 

Just because you don't observe lady bathing doesn't mean she doesn't do it, some of us prefer to keep some aspects of our lives private;)

[Guest m**t****ka]

Thank you everybody for your replies. My other question is what to do if/when a situation arises where hygiene is an issue. If you're an SP/MA, how do you handle a client with questionable hygiene during a session? If you a client, what do you do if an SP/MA is the one guilty of it?

[Capital Hunter 18263]

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I'd just like to point out here, just because an sp/ma doesn't shower at your location, doesn't mean she doesn't bathe. In my personal experience, when I'm doing an outcall, I NEVER shower at the gents location, I always wait until I get home and do that immediately upon walking through door after i take off my shoes and hang my jacket.

 

Having worked in another much more dangerous city early in my career, I have had money and other property stolen while I was bathing, and on another occasion was actually locked in the bathroom and held against my will. Hence, I do not trust a stranger to be totally vulnerable ( in a bathroom with water running where i cannot see or hear what's going on) and leaving my property unattended while bathing in unfamiliar environment. Not only that, but I don't like the idea of using someone's else's shower, soap or towels when I have all these items that are mine at my home, plus my shampoo and other girly cleansing items that men rarely if ever have. Bathing time is very intimate time for me, especially after a rendezvous, it's my time to decompress and unwind. Therefore,it's something prefer to do in the privacy and comfort of my own home.

 

Even in my own incall, I wait until my guest has departed and I'm alone to bathe.

 

Just because you don't observe lady bathing doesn't mean she doesn't do it, some of us prefer to keep some aspects of our lives private;)

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Edited:

On another note in my view if you are doing outcalls you must make sure that you are safe in the house, bedroom and yes ahower as well. You will feel safer if you check the client out thoroughly and ask for references and be sure of your safety before you proceed to the date.

 

If your money or property were stolen or you were indeed locked in a shower in an outcall situation in the past as per your post then since outcalls are legal (but locking someone in a bathroom is illegal) then I advise you to call the police and someone like that belong to jail and away from his potential future victims. But do not assume everyone guilty!!!!!!.

[Isabella Gia (Banned) 53881]

@CH I doubt any professional lady would go visit another gentleman or host anyone without showering first. I do agree with Luxe, I would never shower anywhere other than my place. As much as I had checked references and feel safe I wouldn't feel comfortable with that. As far as germs come, I shower as soon as I get home and I do know there are no germs in my shower, meaning I am certain that is clean and I have no way to know that at someone else's. And also as Luxe pointed out we have our own products and clean clothes to wear, unless the lady who showers at someone else's place brings clean clothes then what's the point of the shower?

[Jabba 18389]

Incredible!!! So you go to the totally strangers house and you go to total stranger's bed but you feel vulnerable to take shower or be alone in his shower or his shower may not be clean enough for you!!!!!. Makes perfect sense!!!!!!!.

 

On another note in my view if you are doing outcalls you must make sure that you are safe in the house, bedroom and yes ahower as well. You must check out the gent, ask for references and be sure of your safety before you proceed to the date. Not taking shower and leaving with all the germs to your home or another poor client doe not make you safer!!!.

 

Those who have been my guests and they are plenty on cerb can testify to the fact that my house and shower is totally safe and clean and I advise you not to make unacceptable assumptions as why a few providers that I mentioned left my house without taking a shower as I .find your assumptions very offensive

 

CH, I just read into Luxe's post as an SP's perspective. Maybe a little off-topic but perhaps there was a developing perspective being made? I don't think any insult was being implied. Just my $0.02.

[Capital Hunter 18263]

@ Isabella,The small part of my post about leaving to another client was instantiated based on a TRUE story, 2 years ago when I received a lady who btw was late some 30 minutes and after she left (without shower) I got a PM here on cerb that she had been to a client place (just 30 minutes before her arrival here). The PM described that she did BBBJ on him and guess what? DFK was one of the services she provided to me ... YIKES. I was sick to my stomach needless to say. If you don't go and see another client until taking shower it doesn't mean that everyone is like you. Please do NOT take my original post personal. It wasn't about any specific provider (those posted so far have NEVER been to my place) but a general statement.

 

Additional Comments:

CH, I just read into Luxe's post as an SP's perspective. Maybe a little off-topic but perhaps there was a developing perspective being made? I don't think any insult was being implied. Just my $0.02.

 

Jabba, I don't know why one should quote my post on hygiene and underline the part that I wasn't happy about a few providers leaving my house without taking shower and then commenting about being locked in a shower with their money and property stolen or the shower and towel not being clean. I see implicit assumptions in that post as the reason why those few did not take shower because they were feeling unsafe in my home or unsafe in my 'dirty' shower, especially when my post was quoted and my post not specifically directed at any provider!!.

 

I am very selective as whom I invite to my private home where I live based on safety, looks, class as well as hygiene and that was the reason in my original post as those not showering not receiving a second invite. And it is my right to decide whom to invite and who not to.

[Jabba 18389]

ohhh, ok. I think I see where you're coming from.

I think there's opportunity for some clarification without hard feelings. Hang in there & count to 10 :biggrin:

[IsaMassage 54318]

I have to agree with the fact that there is nothing like your own shower at home.., but even at the spa, i do take a shower after every client sometimes with the client or sometimes after the gentleman have left... Hot water and lots of soap all over my body.., as the guys have stated..., we expect them to be neat n clean for us.., they deservevthe same...

I always offer any of the gentlemen that visit me a shkwer bevore we start, if theyntell me they just had one i trust them, so far is been ok, and the gentleman has any signs of lack of higiene.., i would offer again the shower in a very discrete matter gte him ckeaned up before thesession starts ;-)

[Andee 220524]

To Mr. Capital Hunter:

 

I have been an escort for over 15 years, and I have never taken a shower at after an outcall because I feel more comfortable doing in my own home and it has nothing to do with fear of being attacked or robbed.

 

It's just my preference.

 

And, I don't care if you have a solid reputation as being a good guy, I still wouldn't shower at yours or any other "nice guy's" incall just to prove I'm clean. Period.

 

And to say to Ms. LuxeMulvari that she should be comfortable doing that because she's willing to be there to do the call, doesn't jive in my opinion. In the shower, you are alone and vulnerable and much harder to "run" naked and dripping with water, perhaps without your belongings. That is her concern. As well, like her, mine would be having the proper toiletries and being able to dry my hair, etc. Both are valid reasons.

 

Just because a lady doesn't want to shower at your location, doesn't make her "dirty" or not worthy of a repeat visit.

 

I think you owe Ms. Mulvari an apology.

[Isabella Gia (Banned) 53881]

Ok this thread is kind of getting hijacked and becoming about if an escort should shower after an outcall which she should, as for where she should that is up to her. As long as the host will not be involved in any other physical activity with her then I don't see why it should matter to him.

 

As for a provider doing one outcall after another without showering in between that is wrong but is up to the other gentleman to decide what to do in the case the lady has poor hygiene, is not the previous host's job to make sure a lady showers to protect (assuming she will see one) her next client.

 

My point is, making a lady having to shower at the location where she had an outcall a rule not only is not doable but it also would not change anything, as you said both parties, providers and clients have to try to do as much research as possible on someone before meeting that person, it makes a huge diference!

 

 

 

 

[Guest **n****er]

Great Gazoo!

 

That has got to be some scary ish! OP...you're tough SOB for not losing your lunch.

[Guest m**t****ka]

Ladies and gents, I am sad to see that this thread has created a war of words in such a usually friendly board. That was not my intention when I started it. I wanted to gather solutions from other members about an issue that I and other people (both sp/ma and clients) have faced during a session.

 

Please let's get back on track. We are a community where we generally get along and treat each other with courtesy. We need each other. So let's resolve any bad blood that is between us and go back to the topic at hand.

[crankF 12893]

Gosh, I guess Dad's old saying turns out to be untrue:"If it smells like fish it's a tasty dish, if it smells like cologne, you'd better leave it alone".

[Capital Hunter 18263]

Ladies and gents, I am sad to see that this thread has created a war of words in such a usually friendly board. That was not my intention when I started it. I wanted to gather solutions from other members about an issue that I and other people (both sp/ma and clients) have faced during a session.

 

Please let's get back on track. We are a community where we generally get along and treat each other with courtesy. We need each other. So let's resolve any bad blood that is between us and go back to the topic at hand.

 

You are correct. And it was wrong of me to respond as it goes against the friendly and peaceful spirit of the board no matter how much I was offended. I will go back and edit my posts and would like to request kindly from Jabba if he would edit the quoted part too.

[pallen6483 130]

I had a smilar problem with a stripper. However, I was too shy to say anything, and did not last another private dance.

[Guest *Ste***cque**]

I don't like showering afterward at an SP's location (prefer going to the gym) as they might have scented products and so I can understand an SP preferring to shower once they got home. Lack of proper hygiene is "usually" not a problem with the ladies, thankfully.

Also, providing bbbj to an earlier client and then dfk with the next is a problem not remedied with a shower. Yuck

[Guest C*****tte]

If you are going to see SPs who have intimate contact with their clients then you need to expect that they may have seen someone prior to you that day. You are hiring a SP for the same reason after all. If this is abhorrent to you then maybe this is not the hobby for you. Or maybe you need to learn how better to suspend your disbelief so to speak.

 

As for the OP question, I'm sorry you had to deal with that. I have a heightened sense of smell and can only imagine.

[Capital Hunter 18263]

Also, providing bbbj to an earlier client and then dfk with the next is a problem not remedied with a shower. Yuck

 

You are correct but actually as part of shower after daty I personally most of the time rinse my mouth with mix water/soap (yes it tastes awful) and that is because it is NOT advisable to brush immediately after encounter (I read causing bruises increasing chances of STDs). I thoroughly wash my lips and face and body though immediately. I only brush after if I am totally sure of the provider. That was what I meant by shower but yes the PM mentioned BBBJ but God knows what else was involved (for sure kissing on her body and I pray to God not cob, YIKES!!!!). The other point I wished to make was that showering immediately after (rather than half hour later) may reduce chances of STDs.

 

If you are going to see SPs who have intimate contact with their clients then you need to expect that they may have seen someone prior to you that day. You are hiring a SP for the same reason after all. If this is abhorrent to you then maybe this is not the hobby for you. Or maybe you need to learn how better to suspend your disbelief so to speak.

 

As a response to above post, I am not hiring an SP but rather inviting a lady to my house to be my precious guest for a party and a date for a mutually good time (paid for her time) and just like any other date it is not unreasonable to expect that both sides be clean and showered. It does NOT mean that because I pay for her time then I have to take all the germs from her previous date too!!!!. Just because I expect the lady to be clean and showered then it does not mean that this hobby is not for me either!!.

[Genevieve Marceau 68000]

You are correct but actually as part of shower after daty I personally most of the time rinse my mouth with mix water/soap (yes it tastes awful) and that is because it is NOT advisable to brush immediately after encounter (I read causing bruises increasing chances of STDs).

 

 

There is a product called mouthwash, and the most popular brands such as Listerine and Scope are easy to find in any good drugstores. Besides their pleasant taste of mint, these mouthwashes, available in travel size, have antibacterial properties....as opposed to soap...

 

PS. Personally, I use Purell hand sanitizer as personal lubricant. I heard it may help to prevent STDs. Joke joke :lol:

[Old Dog 179138]

Ahem.

 

I believe the issue here was about nasty business experienced by a client when he was dealing with a provider.

 

Let it be said that I have NEVER had to share that experience in the world of paid companions... or mystery house guests who want to have sex with me if I leave a money laden envelope in plain sight... or magical princesses transported to my location from the sexy planet of Humpalottus.... the vast majority of women in this industry are far more diligent about the delicate matters of pooter maintenance than women in the vanilla world. That's a fact, Jack.

 

That being said, ladies, if you wouldn't be willing to rub a finger inside and stick it under your nose and then in your mouth, the likelihood is that your cooch is a scary place. It's the same thing with foreskin... if you think you smell cheese, it's a BAD thing. Go to the shower, set the pulsating massage head to POWER WASH grab some soap and have at it... repeat until you would go down on yourself, you sexy soapy hygienic beast, you.

 

As for the post coital shower... ummmm... if you are a client, knock yourself out. Take that shower. Scrub like a demon. Apply sparkles to your junk. You deserve it ... you are one handsome, satisfied and ultra clean dude.

 

But... again if you are a client... ummmmm.... why do you care if she showers AFTER the fact and in your presence? She knows she has to maintain and frankly it's none of your business where or when it gets done! Your transaction or mystery visit or whatever the hell you want to call it is OVER. Jeebus.

 

 

and now, a song... sung to the tune of Carolina in the Morning...

 

me, me, me, me (that's just doing some vocal exercises... feel free to join)

 

Nothing could be finer than to have a clean vagina for your session,

Nothing could be sweeter than to have a cleaner wiener for your session,

Yelling dirty stories

Screamed through the door,

And orgasmic glories

Rattling the floor.

Rolling with a girlie with a necklace made of pearly in the session,

No longer you're a loner cuz she's playing with your boner in the session,

If I had Aladdin's lamp for only a day,

I'd make a wish and here's what I'd say:

Nothing could be finer than to have a clean vagina for your session.

 

I'm a freakin' musical genius....