CristyCurves 169032 Report post Posted May 13, 2013 (edited) For the past four days I have received over 30 some stupid blowjob referencing emails, example, I love blow job, will you give me a sofa blowjob, ect, ect , from one of or all of the above! The first six or seven I ignored the next one "Will you suck my cock" I responded to saying "go ask your mother" so the twenty something more came, moral to the story and obvious common sense advice- do not respond to these kooks, ignore, ignore ignore, I should have know better, responding to these freaks is like putting gas on a fire! Edited May 13, 2013 by cr**tyc***es 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aimtoplease1 1839 Report post Posted May 13, 2013 You do have to ignore them or like you say...it's like putting gas on a fire. Keep in mind there are people on these sites that are truly mentally challenged. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Midnite-Energies 110563 Report post Posted May 13, 2013 In my experience, this is unfortunately the distinguishing point between hobbyists/lifestylers and those men who troll CL & BP looking for a "date". Just to clarify, I know there are many CERB members who use these sites it is not you I'm referring to. The men who troll seem to reduce women to playthings to be used and discarded as they whim suits them. They tend to use direct verbiage and statements such as "will you suck my cock" or "I want a blowjob, how much". There tends to be no respect, no real communication and no pleasantries, almost like we're not worth the effort of normal interactions. Unfortunately many of the girls who are looking to make a quick buck, support a habit, have esteem issues etc. accept this behavior which only serves to perpetuate it. How many CERB ladies who have chosen this as a profession/calling would even indulge such behavior? None! These men think that they're dealing with the same level of ladies and quickly get cut off at the knees. As much as we rally and fight to be recognized for what we do and why, there is still the other side of the equation that feeds into all the stereotypes and negativity surrounding the profession. Would be nice if no matter the setting or people involved, people just gave a little more respect and politeness. Yes, there would still be issues because people have issues yet even a little extra attention to how we treat people could go a long way. No worries people, I'm not gonna start a rendition of Kumbaya! 15 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fresh start 17467 Report post Posted May 13, 2013 Are they all from same user name? Can you block them? If not that would be a good feature to add to the site. I know you'll still get a few idiots but I'm sure it won't be as bad. Well hopefully those idiot read your thread and think twice but that maybe too much to ask. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
harboursmoke 3074 Report post Posted May 13, 2013 Sad. Why waste their own time wit this crap let alone yours Cristy... Ignoring can be hard, I know I'm a ginger and love a good fight lol, but sometimes it is just simply the most productive response we can provide... 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Ot**w***og****n Report post Posted May 13, 2013 Some people don't have a life Cristy...they are lacking in class, manners and intelligence. Be assured idiots like this will crawl back under their rocks. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mrgreen760 37785 Report post Posted May 13, 2013 There seems to be many on the both sides of the aisle...... just sayin Peace MG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
That-guy 120 Report post Posted May 13, 2013 Like most things in life if you keep in classy you'll have much better luck. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
futileresistenz 28253 Report post Posted May 13, 2013 Sorry you have to go through that type of anguish, Cristy. The best course of action for these mental midgets is indeed to ignore them, and ignore them always. Nothing good comes from engaging, ever! Except to make you a martyr to them. Whether it's ignorance or simply as a game is immaterial. There's just no excuse. FR 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CristyCurves 169032 Report post Posted May 13, 2013 Are they all from same user name? Can you block them? If not that would be a good feature to add to the site. I know you'll still get a few idiots but I'm sure it won't be as bad. Well hopefully those idiot read your thread and think twice but that maybe too much to ask. Thanks for your response, yes all from the same jerk, who isn't from this site, from another. I did block him but some how he still gets through my gmail, I also reported him to the said site, obviously that hasn't helped as his last pm was yesterday afternoon, he started emailing may 7th, I'm sure eventually he'll go away, I hope:) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest B**na***oy Report post Posted May 13, 2013 Hang in there sweet Cristy, this situation is unfortunate and amounts to cyber bullying, but the best advise is to just ignore that guy and others like him. It's really good that you mentioned it in a public forum as it raises everybody's awareness of the issue. Unfortunately, it's part of the business and life for that matter. Good people just need to stick together. ;-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miss S. Lane 67128 Report post Posted May 13, 2013 This is an unfortunate reality to this career choice. I ignore/delete/redirect about 75% of the emails I receive. Am I losing out on potential business by being so picky? Sure I am. But I'm here by choice, not by necessity and therefore I can literally afford to be picky. I don't need to tolerate or put up with some freakshow asking me to "suck his cock and let him blow his load in my ear" (yes, I've been asked). 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
harboursmoke 3074 Report post Posted May 13, 2013 Thanks for your response, yes all from the same jerk, who isn't from this site, from another. I did block him but some how he still gets through my gmail, I also reported him to the said site, obviously that hasn't helped as his last pm was yesterday afternoon, he started emailing may 7th, I'm sure eventually he'll go away, I hope:) If no fuel is added to his fire it will burn out. He will get bored faster the more you just ignore him. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest webothscore Report post Posted May 13, 2013 Cristy, beautiful. I have the answer! Move to Ottawa ;) okay, maybe that is not the answer. Maybe just a greedy thought on my part. Do something great for yourself and have a great day. Hugs from ottawa. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhantomKnight 7914 Report post Posted May 13, 2013 Cristy, Does this mean I have to stop sending you these emails? I mean I really do love Blowjobs. ;) Only kidding! :) Sorry to hear your being target by a douche bag. Hopefully they get bored and stop soon! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Midnite-Energies 110563 Report post Posted May 13, 2013 Cristy, I saw this and immediately thought about you and this thread! 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jessirayne 210 Report post Posted May 13, 2013 Sorry to hear you're gettin harassed with those emails, that's so immature and super annoying!! Just keep ignorin them though, make him lose interest. I have one particular number that texts/calls me a few times a month just to try an mess with me, or say rude things. I just ignore it right away though and it never goes past his first text/call, eventually people get tired of being ignored and stop :) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brad 49548 Report post Posted May 13, 2013 What a pain to have to deal with. If blocking the email hasn't worked, you might want to try marking them as spam: Alternatively, you could try creating a filter, where you create a rule so that whenever an email from a certain address comes in it goes to a spot you assign it (presumably the trash can!): To use a particular message to create a filter Select the message in your message list. Click the More button, then Filter messages like these. Enter your filter criteria in the appropriate field(s). 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nntsci 11075 Report post Posted May 13, 2013 If they are from the same email or a small set of emails, report it as spam or block them. That is pretty easy to do. On Hotmail you simply report it as junk mail and it will then go into the spam filter. On gmail its call spam. On Yahoo, you have the additional option of reporting it as spam or blocking. Blocking will automatically delete mail from that person. I just checked, gmail also have both a spam box and blocking as options. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
oldblueeyez 15475 Report post Posted May 13, 2013 Could be just a 13 year old getting his jollies, you never know. When we were kids, we'd play porn on the VCR (without music, just sex sounds), call an escort service with one phone and put the receiver up to the TV speaker, and listen in on the other phone. LOL. Boys will be boys. I wouldn't worry about it unless you're being threatened. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest B**na***oy Report post Posted May 13, 2013 Cristy, beautiful. I have the answer! Move to Ottawa ;) okay, maybe that is not the answer. Maybe just a greedy thought on my part. Do something great for yourself and have a great day. Hugs from ottawa. That's the only realistic solution. Then I'll be in charge of your protection party and assume your personal security. You may not make much money anymore, but you'll be safe, mostly in my arms. LOL Seriously, this will eventually stop. What is comforting however is how much support you are getting from the 'good' community. It just shows how much you are appreciated. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest D***el B***e Report post Posted May 13, 2013 If I may add my 2-cents ... I admit I haven't read the whole thread and it may have been addressed but the best thing to do with unwanted email, spams and the like is not/never answer. When you answer ... you just scr.wed yourself. You confirm you have a valid email address and you run the risk of having your email address transferred to a much larger spam network. Junk mail, spams, and anything remotely suspicious should NEVER be responded to. Additional Comments: Cristycurves, Sorry to hear about your troubles but if you get more emails like that ... delete delete delete... unless of course it becomes more dangerous or threatening in which case you should know what to do. It may take a while but they will sooner diminish and things eventually return to more normal situation. All the best dear! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phaedrus 209521 Report post Posted May 14, 2013 For the past four days I have received over 30 some stupid blowjob referencing emails, example, I love blow job, will you give me a sofa blowjob, ect, ect , from one of or all of the above! The first six or seven I ignored the next one "Will you suck my cock" I responded to saying "go ask your mother" so the twenty something more came, moral to the story and obvious common sense advice- do not respond to these kooks, ignore, ignore ignore, I should have know better, responding to these freaks is like putting gas on a fire! Yep, you just broke one of the golden rules of modern life, alas! 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tsukiyo_Chevalier 3242 Report post Posted May 14, 2013 I hope that every thing works out ok, i hate people like this and i just hope that it is just some idiot that will just go away. the main thing i think about is your safety and i hope it does not get to that level. i hate that there are people out there like this and i cannot be leave some of the things they do. and all it does it spoils it for others. please stay strong and just ignore the person hopefully he will just go away when he finds no reaction from you. stay safe and if you need to talk it out i know myself and everyone here on cerb will be there for you even if we are in different parts of the country. later 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhantomKnight 7914 Report post Posted May 14, 2013 ^ a winner! Lol 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
