HalifaxMan58 2206 Report post Posted August 30, 2013 Empty83 said it very nicely! The kissing, hugging & cuddling is very important to me. It is this sort of intimacy that is most important to me. Everything else is just icing on the cake so to speak. Without any of these 3 things aforementioned it would be a deal breaker for me. I always ensure the lady does these three things before confirming an appointment. Usually all one has to do is look at their profiles and it is all there in black & white, one of the things I love about this site. My 5 cents worth. ;) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
canuckhooker 19202 Report post Posted August 30, 2013 No hugs? WTF No cuddling? Ditto No Kissing? Deal breaker. Did too much of that stuff with pros in Europe years ago before GFE. Now I would rather take care of myself if those are off limits. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
toklat77 4616 Report post Posted August 31, 2013 Without kissing and cuddling it is more of a cold experience. The intimacy is what a lot of us crave not just the act! Kissing and cuddling is about intimacy to me and makes me feel like the sp cares and wants to spend time with me instead of just doing the act and waiting for the next client. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bcguy42 38594 Report post Posted August 31, 2013 What? I thought cuddles, kissing and hugs were what I was paying for and all the rest was just add-ons! (Tongue firmly in cheek) 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
someguy 67067 Report post Posted October 4, 2013 I just had an amazing session with one of my favourite GFE MA's. Hadn't seen her for a while and I was a bit starved for affection and requested extra kissing and cuddles. I got more then I expected, kissing from start to finished. It's nice to be with a girl that enjoys kissing, especially when she has her eyes close and seems to be really enjoying herself. Plenty of cuddles, and several times we just had some nice tight hugs. Nothing better then hugging a beautiful sexy girl naked :). I left feeling happy and relaxed. Felt like a good makeout session with a girl friend when I was a teen. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Luckyme 41401 Report post Posted October 4, 2013 I had a similar wonderful session with my ATF this afternoon. Lots of hugging, kissing, and caressing , then cuddling and chit-chatting in bed with lots of laughter. Gosh, I just love to spend time with her! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123366 Report post Posted October 4, 2013 If I can't cuddle and kiss you I don't want to see you. Love my cuddles and kisses! 9 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
someguy 67067 Report post Posted November 14, 2013 Recently I had a second session with a Sp that I just started seeing. I asked for extra kissing and cuddling. It was more then I could ask for, she kissed me passionately for a while, and through out the session. licking my ears and nipples. At the end we just cuddled and chatted for awhile before it was time to go. It made it a fun and exciting date. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ice4fun 78396 Report post Posted November 23, 2013 I can't imagine a session with no kissing or cuddling... 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest realnicehat Report post Posted November 23, 2013 I can't imagine a session with no kissing or cuddling... Sadly, I can. But I've gotten much better at choosing my playmates so it is a very distant memory :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest c**io**m7 Report post Posted December 4, 2013 Seems I am with the majority. Kissing and cuddling always a must. As I have gotten older I have found that, without it, the sessions seemed empty...almost boring. The intimacy and sensuality as lips lock in passionate embrace, the body anticipating what is to come was the lifeblood of a satisfying encounter...all else was just gravy. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300291 Report post Posted December 4, 2013 Kissing, cuddling, hugging, to me that's what makes an encounter have real intimacy, and that's what I enjoy. Sex is enjoyable, but without intimacy, and speaking for me, pretty empty without intimacy. Sex alone and again, speaking only for me, is more about release, but sex with intimacy (including kissing, cuddling, hugging) that adds a connection you make with a lady. So very important to have kissing, cuddling, hugging, it creates a connection between you and the lady, and my memorable encounters have had that connection A early morning rambling RG 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FootFetishTess 1261 Report post Posted December 4, 2013 As a fetish provider, I don't offer GFE (more like "friends-with-benefits" experience?) so kissing doesn't tend to happen. But hugs? Sure. I mean, as a very tall woman who offers Size Comparison, full-body contact and feeling enveloped are integral to the experience. But beyond that? Hugs are wonderful. They're a lovely way to welcome someone into my space and let them know they're... "not just a number", y'know? Hugs are important. :-) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Athos 108589 Report post Posted December 4, 2013 Intimacy is critical to a great experience ... so kissing, cuddling, and hugging are vital. I could enjoy an encounter that didn't involve sex, if the kissing and cuddling is present, but I don't enjoy a session that involves sex, but is lacking those other things. So choice of playmate is very important. Porthos 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wolf Knight 29667 Report post Posted December 4, 2013 Intimacy is critical to a great experience ... so kissing, cuddling, and hugging are vital. I could enjoy an encounter that didn't involve sex, if the kissing and cuddling is present, but I don't enjoy a session that involves sex, but is lacking those other things. So choice of playmate is very important. Porthos I'm with Porthos. I'd take (and have taken) a passionate session of body to body contact with lots of kissing, tenderness and holding over "just sex" any day. To me it's a critical component of a great experience. Just as an aside, with a lady that I happen to have really great chemistry with I've chosen to have a passionate kissing, cuddling only session with intentional denial of sex on my part. Honestly, it was so hot and intense that we were both left raging with a pent up lust and an ache for the inevitable conclusion. The next 24 hours were excruciatingly painful waiting for the minutes to pass (for her too apparently) until we saw each other again. Seriously, the second I burst through the door the next day it was like a frantic inferno. Fuck that was hot! 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
qwertyaccount 15793 Report post Posted December 4, 2013 Great conversation, cuddles, kissing and hugs are the best part -- without them I may as well stay home and toss in a video. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Luscious.Tianna 12254 Report post Posted December 4, 2013 Mmm I love to cuddle and kiss Cuddling is so nice and intimate I love being held tight and I love the feeling of skin to skin, it's so sensual Kissing as well is important to me, kissing gets me so hott and ready Mmmm and who doesn't love hugs, I love getting a nice big tight hug...love love love it Kisses and Stay Sexy 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
someguy 67067 Report post Posted January 11, 2014 Recently had a massage with a new MA. She was beautiful and massage was good and the finish was awesome. But she did not kiss, I'm not sure if that is part of her service or not. Even through I did enjoy myself and probably will see her again. The lack of kissing and cuddling did make a difference in the overall experience. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
someguy 67067 Report post Posted February 4, 2014 Recently met a New MA, that enjoyed kissing and cuddling a lot. She even initiated a lot of the kissing herself. This was a very enjoyable session. This extra kissing and cuddling made all the difference in making this a great session and created chemistry and connection between us. Kissing and cuddling does make a difference in the session. I find it greatly enhances the experience :) 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest P*rry Report post Posted February 4, 2014 Hugging and cuddling make a good time into a special experience. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
qwertyaccount 15793 Report post Posted February 7, 2014 Hugs are great, but sometimes hard to come by: :) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dorinda Bloom 44036 Report post Posted February 7, 2014 I'm the self proclaimed Queen of Cuddles - hee hee!! :icon_lol: If a gent is not interested in snuggles, it sort of makes me feel...well, just not very nice. Compatibility is key in a fun, successful session - I loves my Snuggle Bunnies! ;) 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
someguy 67067 Report post Posted March 27, 2014 So far in 2014, I've met many new women and have repeated with some my favourite girls. Two of the new girls did not kiss, still enjoyed my massage and ending, but it's the same without kissing and cuddling. But with some of the other girls that I have seen several times, the sessions get better and better. Lot's of passionate kissing and cuddles and hugs. It makes the session more intimate. And nothing is better then a passionate kiss and hug good bye. Makes me already looking to seeing her again :) For some girls kissing is more intimate then sex, which I can understand. But to me and many others on the board, the kissing and cuddling is more important then the sex. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jafo105 39057 Report post Posted March 27, 2014 Extremely important. In fact that is what motivated me to seek out a SP the very first time. I was craving a hug and no one would indulge me. :( I had not received a hug in 11 long years. Not since my last relationship in 2000. As for the kissing and cuddling, that is an extra bonus. Now, that is what I ask for up front when arranging to see a SP. Without those three things, the sexy frisky part just isn't worth it. IMHO. 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
someguy 67067 Report post Posted April 19, 2014 (edited) Just came back from seeing Meloide from CMJ. She provided a wonderful hour with more passionate kissing and cuddling and hugs then I am used to getting. It's a YMMV experience, we had already gotten to know each other for the last couple of months chatting in the chat room. So meeting was easy as we knew a lot about each other. There was a lot of chemistry between us and plenty of kissing made this an outstanding session. She loves kissing and is very good at it. But as always YMMV Edited April 20, 2014 by someguy 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
