lookingforfunxxx 615 Report post Posted October 9, 2014 Hi everyone, I think I've just done something stupid. I recently met an SP that I think I might know in real life. She looked vaguely familiar when I met her and seemed nervous. During the intro she told me her name which was different than the one in her ad. I thought she got her working name wrong and continued with the encounter. It's only a while after leaving that it hit me that she's the wife or ex-wife (I'm not too sure) of a contractor I use regularly. Intellectually I would assume that she would be discreet, but I'm worried anyway. I've been invited to their family's BBQ in the past and might be again. Any comments on this from people who have had something similar happen to them would be appreciated. Thank you Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300291 Report post Posted October 9, 2014 My guess she'd like you to be quiet about it just as you'd like her to be quiet about it. Handle it by saying and doing nothing. And no, don't panic that's the worst thing to do. Just be calm and forget about it That's how I'd handle it RG 8 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S****r Report post Posted October 9, 2014 She is likely more afraid of being outed than you are. Escorts NEVER want to out a client! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Highsexdrivebabe 11800 Report post Posted October 9, 2014 Hi darling, Our companionship involves discretion so therefore if she is really a real lady in no way will she ever say, reveal anything to anyone. As RG mentioned and Summer said she is most likely as afraid as U R to be outed and we, as companions again don't out clients. Barbara xxxooo 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jg24 3707 Report post Posted October 9, 2014 (edited) I would say your safe as she is probably afraid as you are about meeting. I met a lady off Cerb and after we got talking she says you are and I said maybe as it turned out we did know each other for a long time. Her looks had changed I didnt recognize her as her looks had changed. We seen each other several times and now she is no longer in the biz. We are now FB friends and have been to a couple parties as our families are friends. We share a giggle and we have never outed each other Edited October 9, 2014 by jg24 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lookingforfunxxx 615 Report post Posted October 9, 2014 Thanks for the feedback everybody. I can't believe how slow I was to pick up on who she is. When it dawned on me I got pretty panicky. I knew intellectually that no one wants to be outed, but it's hard to think clearly in the moment. You've been very reassuring, thanks. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest D***el B***e Report post Posted October 9, 2014 (edited) My guess she'd like you to be quiet about it just as you'd like her to be quiet about it. Handle it by saying and doing nothing. And no, don't panic that's the worst thing to do. Just be calm and forget about it That's how I'd handle it RG I think RG said it best, that's what I was thinking when I started to read your post. I understand your nervousness. ... Have a cold one and relax Edited October 9, 2014 by D***el B***e changes to post Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
backrubman 64800 Report post Posted October 9, 2014 I've run into two ladies and the protocol is always as it would be if you did not have a private encounter with them (because you really didn't and in the very unlikely event that they happen think or act otherwise they are completely mistaken) :) Discretion is always included with your appointment. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Katherine of Halifax 113931 Report post Posted October 10, 2014 I've run into two ladies and the protocol is always as it would be if you did not have a private encounter with them (because you really didn't and in the very unlikely event that they happen think or act otherwise they are completely mistaken) :) Discretion is always included with your appointment. That is a large part of a guests donation. If I see some one in the mall and I have time I duck into a store. Of course everyone knows a lot of women can read minds so best not to let them read mine ! :icon_smile::icon_smile: 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SexyJessi 100 Report post Posted October 10, 2014 I don't think you have to worry sweetheart. Most of what happens is discreet. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mikeyboy 27113 Report post Posted October 10, 2014 I agree with all of the comments here. You have nothing to worry about. Just remember that discretion is a two way street. If you ever do see each other in a social setting, don't acknowledge it or address it. Just pretend it didn't happen. If she is professional, she will do the same. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
emb3750 9398 Report post Posted October 10, 2014 I've been invited to their family's BBQ in the past and might be again. (*...says tongue in cheek...*) Can I be invited to this next BBQ too? Seriously though, I think you're safe :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
