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Bedsheets are always a good gift lol Can never have too many especially in this business
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Most people are actually great; I've been particularly fortunate and I grateful for my clients β€οΈ We're just showing why we can't promise everything to everyone who messages, because we've learned the hard way to use ymmv
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GO WASH YOUR ASS RIGHT NOW π
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I like being told what to do but different strokes!!
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Oh my the grass is always greener i suppose. As one who fondly thinks of intimate time I always thought - Be pretty cool to be a companionβ¦ Now though , all this talk of bad smells, shit stains, and cold sores. Fcuk me now Iβm just thinking of dirty sheets, especially that one with no corners, and all the washing and or throwing out said sheets and sterilizing myself and the awkward conversations of telling someone, fcuk no you dirty mfβer no acronym for you. Appreciate the work you do, good lord! π€ bedsheets s as a gift idea fellas
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I think it's an act of protest at being told what to do lol Like they think we won't notice? Or that it'll help their experience? Idk man π It's not like we WANT to have to tell em to go back to the shower π
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Who the hell has such an aversion to water that they take fake showers? Or am I missing something?
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Me as well.....
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And i get that But at the same time I don't want to feel like a piece of property and not treated like a women and be respected I prefer making connections and us both enjoying our time together not just him
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Some people just think the minute they pay for something they own it. Not the case here.
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I mean, that's kind of the point lol and I don't mind, it's part of being in the service industry But they should also consider the other person involved for such intimate things, if they want the best time possible We're humans, not sexbots lol
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Totally fair. And I don't like the idea of a checklist either but maybe there's one or two things which are important to me so I will mention them before and then may bring them up during a date. Chemistry is important as is hygiene and many other things. We are all human and we have to make decisions for ourselves. Be respectful and be CLEAN people. Shouldn't need to be said...
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It's unfortunate some only think of themselves when seeing us
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This part And it happens more than the dudes here realize, I think π We're known for being a safer bet than random civvy hookups, but that also means we have to be responsible for our health and safety over everything, including men's requests sometimes A lot of guys see ymmv as a cop out, but it's there for a reason
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It's just tricky because yes, things can be on the table, but no, that doesn't mean that every encounter gets every single acronym. Having a checklist doesn't allow things to flow as smoothly, and sometimes the flow doesn't hit every single acronym or request in 60 mins π€· She also may enjoy certain things, but not with every person.. Some people bite and my experience matters too ππ Lol well I'm glad at least one person took my π© post to heart. Spread the good word (and those cheeks) hahhaha
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Absolutely Ms Manda. All I mean, and again I'll stick with the daty example as that's just easy not to jump around but goes for any specific service and acronym. If daty is important to me all I want to know is that it is potentially on the table. If an SP doesn't offer it or doesn't enjoy it that is good upfront information and may mean I don't book. Of course some people are gross and will be denied service but knowing what might be available is also good. I have never left any π© stains and would be MORTIFIED if that happened. I remember you mentioning it in another thread and the last time i saw a provider i double checked the bed because your story made me paranoid even though I had thoroughly washed and cleaned myself twice lol
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lol π, I mean ya did the work to get in it, grab the soap π§Όβ¦..omg why? No shame
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Sorry not something I do! I have never fake advertised a service I let you know up front what I do not offer But again, if you come and you have sores all over your mouth, D looking and not smelling right I most definitely will deny a service So that would be up to YOU to know better I had someone book and come and his mouth was full of cold sores I immediately canceled the appointment Why should I return a deposit on a booking if you came in such condition? You wasted my time It's just common sense
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Don't buy it... At all
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Not regarding extras, but about the acronyms being offered or not Hygiene should be a given Ymmv because of hygiene etc in this industry, should be a given, not a complaint Just some noteworthy examples: I have met a man who loved to daty and it was very important to him. He booked a longer appt, but when I arrived, his breath smelled like rotting gym shoes in a way that mouthwash could certainly not fix He thought he was freshly showered etc π€· another shower wouldn't have helped Without giving more detail, I'm sure you can see how this made for an awkward time for all involved Many have been sent back to the shower, only to return to bed still dirty in the most necessary places, or take fake showers FAKE SHOWERS π So no, we can't be expected to provide every single service to every single person who asks. I've almost totally stopped agreeing to specifics beforehand now, and stress ymmv, because I had an entire year of people either pooping my bed, or having the most severe hygiene issues I've encountered in my whole career. That ended, but it was an entire year, every city I toured, because apparently the shit comes in waves π©π Y'all are worried about losing some cash on the gamble, but sps literally gamble their health and safety with every booking they accept. It's actually in the community's best interest that us sps do decline some people some things that they want We have to prioritize ourselves, just like you do β₯οΈ
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Whenever I see a comment like this where nothing positive is said it makes me assume quite the opposite. Anything you're willing to share? Feel free to DM me.
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