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  2. Siennah Blaise Siennah Blaise joined the community
  3. Meaghan McLeod started following Can we discuss YMMV?
  4. Meaghan McLeod
    For those that don't know this term YMMV, it means "Your mileage may vary". So many hobbyists don't really understand this term and think its a way that providers promise something yet have no plans to provide it. In reality, this term boils down to consent. If you don't understand true consent, this is where everything goes off the rails. Granted, there are those that promise services without following through. Its a shame, and I wish they didn't do this. However, I want to talk about the real issue behind providers that experience hobbyists who choose to ignore our boundaries. I remember a client who took a shower, yet when he sat down on the bed, left a sh*t stain on my sheets. A client who grabbed my tits so hard without warning, that my boobs hurt for days after and were bruised. A client who tried to get a service I told him I don't provide, and got hissy at me. After he tried again, and I had to tell him to leave. A client that decided strangling me was cool, and I had to run out of his house naked, fearing for my life. I could go on. I dont care if you are minty clean, ramming your tongue down my throat doesn't make me wet. It makes me feel used and at risk. I'm pretty easy going, yet I'm amazed at the hobbyist that have no clue about what actually makes women feel safe. Everything always comes down to consent. Its enthuiastic, clear, ongoing, and can be revoked at any point. Even if you are paying for a service. I still remember an inquiry at an agency I worked at. It went something like this. Him "I want to hire a whore for my 18th birthday". Me "I'm sorry, we dont have anyone available that sees clients that are 18". Him "What? Thats discrimination. You cant do that. Im calling my lawyer". Me "would you like to give your lawyer the number of our lawyer? We would never force a provider to see a client she doesn't want to see". Bizarrely, his father called and tried to book a "hooker" for his son, and even suggested that he could be there to make her "feel safe". Like yes, having 2 men in the room will make her feel safe. So, at the end of the day, those that complain about this must look deep into their motives. Are you asking your provider if she wants to continue? Does she feel comfortable to say no? Remembering my early days where I just went along instead of stopping the encounter. Paid rape is never OK and it haunts me. I'm not the only provider who has experienced this, so check your privilege. The black pill, incel monologue doesn't work here. This is why we screen. Ask for references. Ask for deposits. Check you out. To keep us safe. We don't have an ulterior motive to fu*k you over. It's to keep us safe.
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  6. NewGuy_411
    For a very short time ahe was independent after she left Yfl.. Then after only about a year or so she retired. I heard from someone else in the hobby that she meet someone and got married and had a kid. Wheather that is true or not. I have no idea. But it makes sense . It was implied that her husband was extremely well off. Again. I have zero knowledge if this is the case or not. But I do know she retired for sure . But i can not speak about the accuracy about getting married or not.
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  8. shyness13 started following Locanto- Saint John
  9. shyness13
    I’ve seen a couple not bad not good haha just Meh 🫤
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  12. DenPerry started following Fredericton Suggestions?
  13. harboursmoke
    It's not that your wrong, it's that the reason they won't is founded on experience. Hence why legalization and regulation would put an end to these shenanigans for the most part. This would protect both sides, the vendor and the customer.
  14. luanne1
    Glenn Close - Eine verhangnisvolle Affare (1987)1080p Duration: 00:08:51 Resolution: 1920x1080 Format mp4 Size: 239.48 MB https://filejoker.net/2ui231r0m7ci
  15. MsManda started following Best for a newbie
  16. MsManda
    Check out the new to this area here 🙂
  17. LadiesFirst
    You rude 🐓🍭 i looked at her ad…. Said “no bare sex” what were you promised?
  18. AdamSandler
    The truth? You couldn't have thought for even a second publicly comparing visiting an SP to ordering a fast food burger was smart. It's ok to be disappointed you didn't get services which were mentioned but you probably could've found a better way to word it. In my experience in this very YMMV industry any services discussed before meeting in person are not guaranteed and are up to the discretion and consent of all people involved.
  19. Halifaxseeker
    Don’t ask or pm me for her twitch channel. You can ask that yourself to her when you see her. Good luck!
  20. Halifaxseeker
    I will stop commenting from today I think I should just keep the truth to myself from now on.
  21. bigbd
    Don't worry big hoss it's in the name.
  22. Skilled Hands
    Here is the thing babe. You don't get to tell me what to do. You post your opinion in here but you can't take it when others don't agree........the reason you don't have the talent to get women is apparent. It doesn't have anything to do with how you look. MY OPINION
  23. Halifaxseeker
    Don’t start you’ll end up spending all your money on this. This is worse than gambling! Super addictive.
  24. bigbd
    Comparing women to hamburgers is pretty crazy, also the 2nd quote is against rule 1 where you are not supposed to mention sex acts. Good luck.
  25. Halifaxseeker
    Skilled hands you should probably focus on keeping your hands skilled when you are this close to retirement. I just told what I felt and doesn’t mean women are cheeseburgers or men are hot dogs. It’s only trying to prove a point. When I am told that I get this then I need to get this. Otherwise don’t say you get this when you don’t give this!!
  26. Pete Gass started following Locanto- Saint John
  27. Pete Gass
    Curious if anyone has had any luck with the ladies that post on Locanto... Leolist is 90% or higher fake ads....
  28. MikeyInHalifax
    I think it's pretty evident that YMMV with this young lady. I personally had a great time. Others didn't. She wasn't unenthusiastic w/me. Not on her phone. She was engaged and very vocal during our encounter.
  29. Cutebutt
    https://yourfrenchlady.com/fw-event-slug/ashley-in-moncton-june-17-19th-pei-june-20-22nd/
  30. Dabnuldor
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  31. bowtie1974
    Yes they seem to go back and forth, now between Roblin and Selkirk ave
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  33. diloukaiv
    Anyone have visited this lady? Ads says "100% Real & Verified photos – What You See Is What You Get!" https://www.leolist.cc/personals/female-escorts/new-brunswick/moncton_hotel_near_the_casin0-11315350
  34. cptslow
    Thanks Halifaxseeker - totally agree. This is a no go - no matter how beautiful she is.
  35. Hfxboy
    Hey guys, has anyone seen this girl? https://www.leolist.cc/personals/female-escorts/nova-scotia/halifax_incall_out_dt_hali_sweet_like_honey-9157035
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  37. Rissevim
    I used my shit scr check during a meds review, and it actually helped the clinician spot an allergy I’d forgotten about, so it made the whole process smoother. If you’re sorting out medical cannabis care, having your SCR accessible through Releaf makes things quicker and avoids repeating your whole history every time.
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