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An exerpt from my diary I wish to share here with the members of CERB as some of you may not frequent the diary.... Pay it forward I'm often told I should charge for the service I provide, tracking bait and switch photos and for maintaining the numbers to avoid list. Many have told me of the countless times the diary has saved them from grief and more importantly, wasting money. That got me to thinking about how we could make the diary benefit more than just hobbiests and honest providers, but how could my simple diary benefit the greater community. I could never charge for the service, after all I'm a giver not a taker. In the past all I've really asked for is your thanks. So I put this challenge to the regular and frequent visitors who appreciate the efforts of the diary. Take the money that you've saved or would have otherwise wasted on a agency or indy with phoney pics or a "date verification" scam and donate it to charity of choice. Many who choose to participate in this hobby do so as a matter of choice and are in fortunate place in life to do so. No matter how you afford to participate, it's your money it's well earned and you deserve the diversion you seek. Many people in our city don't have those choices available, they must choose between a warm meal or a roof over their heads, others are faced with ilnesses that present life challenges with vary few options available to them with out impacting their lives o those afflicted of their families. So if you've ever been helped by out by the diary, or the cowboy has come to your aid, consider making a donation of value to the charity of your choice. Big or small, the amount is not important, but the consideration and the thought are. There are many deserving charities choose one close to your heart to make the donation more worthwhile. Here's a few charities I continue to support with my time and money... Epilepsy Canada The Ottawa Mission Candlelighters Childrens Wish Foundation

I may rub some people the wrong way with this post and I am by no means a seasoned pro in this hobby but I have noticed a few things on this board since I joined and wanted to build a how to list based on my own views. Basically when dealing with life and business and people you develop certain interpersonal skills. On this board we are trying to make connections that are very intimate and should be handled with care and tact (imho). CERB is, as I have found, an excellent resource for quality companions and should not be treated like the side alley or even Craigs List. below is a list of tips in how I approach new people and felt I should share it as I see many impatient responses to announcements or weird ways of asking for information. Read their Announcements completely! Many times there is a link to the SP or MP's homepage, e-mail address or phone number. These announcements generally have availability, details and sometimes rates. Take the time to see what they are saying and decide if you want to contact them. If they have a webpage...READ IT, I have yet to visit an SP's page and not come away with a nearly complete idea of what they offer and their general rates. If they have recommendations, read them, and not just the 'score'. If you are looking for a certain type of experience the reco's usual will recount (sometimes vaguely) what is offered and what isn't. The list of services under the review header is generally pretty specific. Do a bit of research if you want to know what the SP/MP is like. A lot of the women who announce regularly also post regularly. Personally I only want to spend time with people I am interested in, by looking at what they have to say you can get a feel of their personality. If you click with someone then generally you can have a much better time. If you have specific questions do not post them under their announcement, PM, call or e-mail them depending on what information they provided. How would you book an appointment for anything else in life? If they are a regular poster on CERB they will see their PM's, many of the women even mention if they can't get to them and specify alternate methods. Do not post on their guestbook 'call me', 'are you available now' or 'PM me', if I was on the other end of those messages I would not respond or maybe not even see the notes for a while at a time. Be respectful in messages and notes. If you want to be treated well and meet some of the amazing women on this board approach them as they should be approached, with class and respect. I am not saying debate should never happen, but that is not the point of this board. I know I am a relative n00b so to speak so some may disagree with me or discount the advice but I felt I needed to get this off my chest. Anything I missed? Any comments from the SP's/MP's? From other hobbyists? I know there is a 'do not do' thread, but a concise how to guide could never hurt!;-)

In every social or professional interaction, people need to be treated with respect. That is particularly so when so when you are talking about a business in which the services are of a very personal and intimate nature. As for bars ... I'm way past that scene. Done it, can do it, not interested in it. Just as us old folks shouldn't necessarily make assumptions about young fellows, don't assume that the reason we're seeing escorts is because we all look like rumpelstiltskin. There are lots of reasons why people choose to participate in this hobby, and all should be treated as valid. Cheers, Porthos

Sometimes life is full of surprises and on rare occasions they are all pleasant. This is one of those occasions Late last fall I heard through CERB that a quality SP named Cat (actually she goes by Catia) had moved to Saint John. That was a surprise because Southern NB seems to be limited in that area. I contacted Catia and was further surprised that we easily developed a good rapport in just a few email exchanges. When we finally we met?WOW? what a surprise! I was completely stunned by her beauty! Her dark hair and light complexion are perfectly accented by her bright blue eyes. How I love to look into her eyes. The striking features of her face, her full lips, curved cheeks, and cute nose, are awesome. It does not stop there; Catia has a statuesque figure, at about 5?5?, full breast, small waist and long shapely legs that lead to a sensational butt!! Now, here is another surprise, Catia has a seductive way about her that is unique and very pleasing. I have had a few encounters with her and each has its own unique set of surprises. I won?t go into of the erotic details because, why spoil the surprise!! I will, however give you one hint; our encounters often involve some unbelievably hot lingerie. Now one more surprise. I am a mature hobbyist and was at first a little apprehensive about her young age (mid twenties). Not to worry, her interesting life experiences make her wise beyond her years. She is smart articulate and a delight to talk with. It must be obvious from my comments that I see Catia as a very beautiful and classy lady. Our encounters have been exciting and FUN. Fun may be a simple word, but it best describes my experience. I have so much fun being with Catia and thinking about her. I will definitely see her again. So if you are a sophisticated hobbyist, (and I suspect most CERB members are), who fully respects and appreciates a quality SP, then Catia is for you. (I think she is smart enough to avoid rude behavior) She has ads on CL, and you can also contact her at [email protected]

No more fantasies Love ya :(

Roarrrr and yum yum. :lol:

I just came. :twisted:

The 3 shells are for scooping shit out of your ass. It is written. See for yourself. http://www.stupidquestionsanswered.com/answered/shells.htm

Ya, that's it...we know how to appreciate women. When I was younger, I thought any girl I dated needed to have Playboy bunny looks and big breasts! It wasn't until I got older that I realized how much fun small breasts are, and realized that Playboy bunnies are few and far between and usually not too much fun either!

I, for one, am very happy to now be firmly in the "older" crowd. On the other side of 45 and having more fun than ever. From my perspective, I only wish that I knew when I was 25 what I now know. Life definitely would have been more fun. What the ladies are describing is typical of males across the animal world. Young males are inexperienced, postering and rarely get a chance with the ladies, but its the experienced, older men who lead the group and know what the women want. Hooray for being a silverback!! I also think us older guys really appreciate the beauty and charm of the wonderful ladies in this business, and understand how to show that appreciation. Porthos