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In my experience, it is young white dudes who try to come off like gangsta rappers, so I doubt if that stereotype black cliche holds up. Most (not all) younger guys act like the sp should not only be grateful that they called them, cuz they are so young and hot (and make sure you know it during the conversation) that probably the sp should pay them for deigning to meet you. Tho I am older, I have no doubt that the younger sps are also tired of that attitude. A younger voiced caller, therefore, will have to work extra hard to prove they are not a moron. Morons are not safe, because if they do not respect the sp enough to use hello, please and thank you what does that tell you about how much they are going to respect rates, boundaries and restrictions? Exactly. Many times they use the "sexy voice" (the ladies will know what I mean) Hey, how ya doin? Howzitgoin? Want some company? Sigh. Just say hello, I saw your ad and I'm just calling for a little more information. Sheesh. That is why they prefer not to see younger guys, experience not assumptions. Prove you are not a jack ass, like other younger callers, mind your manners, don't call at 3AM, don't assume that because she is an sp she takes drugs and drinks a lot, don't assume she is going to want to hang out with you because you are young, hot and can last all night. I cannot think that endurance would be an endearing trait to an sp lol. Don't assume that because she may see more older guys that you will be a welcome change. A smelly rude hot guy is never going to be more attractive than a stocky clean old guy.

Spending time with any of the ladies on here (or anywhere for that mater) is a privilege, not a right. If a lady doesn't want to see you it is her right to decide who she spends time with, it may not be to you liking (no one likes to be excluded), but you have to live with it. There are lots of beautiful ladies out there, so find a lady who wants to see you and have a great time.

in a sea of what seems to be "dos and Do-not" threads that have lead to somewhat negative perceptions of some of us ladies on here, I would like to start a more positive thread directed towards the ladies about dates they've had recently that at the end of the day make us sigh a lovely sigh and make us say "gosh darn-it....i REALLY LOVE my job!" (this is not to say we dont love our jobs to begin with. I totally do! but what special things sometimes make you REALLY REALLY love it at the end of the day? One of my new favorites definitely loves to take his time, books at least two hours and is a wonderful dancer. He happens to share my love for Jazz and we spend almost the first hour talking, sipping wine and dancing. He literally sweeps me off my feet (and if I'm lucky, I get dipped too! lol)! Sometimes I have to admit that I've caught myself watching him leave through the peep-hole...that is where I sigh to myself and definitely the inner monologue plays saying "sigh...i love my job" ;-) Another client I have always books a very nice hotel suite for us and is insistent on asking what i feel like eating as a snack or drinking for a beverage...even if I say I'm not fussy. Just the idea that someone is being so considerate is very thoughtful and goes a long way...when I hang up the phone or fire of my reply email at home setting up our date with the possibility of shrimp and lobster I say to myself "sigh...I love my job" Ladies in the industry: what little extra things or recent fun perks on the day-to-day basis of your work-life make you pause and think to yourself the same? it could be luxurious or even something simple and kind, sexual or non-sexual

I posted most of this under her announcement and then realized that there's a special place for it here. This is my first post on here, and actually my first SP experience, so I will make this recommendation short and sweet, just like her! :smile: It seems we spent nearly half of the hour session just talking becuase she is so down to earth and honest. For me, Vanilla was a dream to be with. I'm not going to go into the details, but I fully reccomend her to any guy that is looking for a 'girl next door' type SP. I've been extremely picky with the kind of girl I wanted to spend my time with and Vanillla certainly exceeded my expectations. I will go to bed dreaming about the next time we spend together. Thanks so much Vanilla!! PS: She mentioned some really rude guys she's had over the past few days, so guys, if you're gonna pay her a visit, try to treat her with respect, she deserves it! Digitalcanuck

I found an easy way to find member profiles and thought I'd share as I had been using an inefficient way to find member's profile and the time it took was becoming a pet peeve. The way I had been using had been using was very time consuming, for example, when in chat and wanting to look up someone's profile it took sooo long..... This way is quick: OK, quick way to find a member's profile is simply: - On tool bar under CERB logo, click "Members list" - On right hand of red rectangular header click "Search Members" - Type whole or part of member's name, click "Go" and there it is. An added benefit is that if your are looking for, as an example "Emma" but you don't remember the rest of her name or the exact spelling.... then just type in Emma and all the Emma's pop up..... Or if you don't remember the whole name just type in a few letters..... Hope this helps. CERB has thought of so many time saving features but I'm just finding how they work now. I imagine many members already use this method. Am I the only one that didn't know about this feature??? O, and if the member is online, an even easier way is to go to CERB home page, scroll down to the bottom and it lists all members online, today's events etc.... Just click on member's name.....

She-Ra "Princess of power"

Sorry it took me so long to jump on this train, BUT here is what I say: Age is just a number. I have had older guys treat me like a piece of meat and younger guys (my own age) treat me like a princess, just as I have had the opposite. YoungStud said it best though: the older guys just have more going for them in terms of skillz (with a 'z' for my homies) and we all know I like my sex exciting :)

After a few PM's, a phone call, and her mistaking my CERB name for someone named "butter nuts", I went down to Sabrina's location to hook up with her for a late afternoon/early evening appointment. Since she joined here, everything I have read from her and other members experiences had created an impression with me that she was not like other SP's. Everybody is unique of course, but there was a curve to her approach and general attitude that seemed off the beaten path and refreshing. So I definitely had some pre-defined expectations of what I would be getting with Sabrina before we met. And just about everything that has been said about her so far is bang on the money, so I won't get into all the mechanical details. Not my style, I don't greek and tell ;) But goddamn...this girl provides an experience that had me tingling all over. She is very sweet and direct...she told me after some ground rules/chit chat to get naked and get comfortable. She changed her attire into something more sensual and came back instructing me not to look, and then asked what my preference would be to start. By this time I was quite relaxed and opted for the baby powder massage. Sabrina definitely knows where the pleasure points are on a body and the sensations she gave me were titillating and relaxing at the same time. At this juncture I do have to mention that I've never frequented a MP, nor do I ever opt for my usually selected SP's to just pamper me...generally for me it's all about as much simultaneous reciprocal pleasure as possible. So my experience in that area is limited, but I found that this was decadent and had me tingling all over. Then the flip. This is where I discovered the real definition of butter nuts - and there were no knives or tubs of margarine involved. And then we did a whole bunch of stuff that was fit for porn and unfit to tell my mom. After catching our breath and letting my heart get to an acceptable rate to breathe and converse (well, I am out of shape), we laid in bed for awhile and did the pillow talk thing. She is very sweet and just a warm person overall....no bullshit either, I had the feeling that she is 100% genuine in how she interacts with you... So there was nothing that went on which hadn't been talked about here before, but I still felt....surprised. It was what I imagined it would be like, but wasn't at all. Now for those of you expecting to go there and be greeted by a 10/10 spinner bombshell runway model movie star girl, this is not what she is. She mentioned it herself to me that she was more into working all the senses to provide the best experience. So I would refer to her as a SP, but with a lean to calling her a Sensual Provider. I would definitely like to see her again, she really seems like she has much more to offer which I didn't even come near to exploring. Or I'll just go for the pampered treatment again, either/or.

Just got back from FINALLY seeing this sweetie. Wish I hadn't taken so long considering this is apparently her last day in Ottawa. Damn deadbeats ruining it for the rest of us! Now I gotta figure how much cab fare is to CP and back! lol. What can I say about this drop dead gorgeous angel that hasn't already been said here? The Energizer Bunny ain't got nothin' on this girl! ;) Went for the all oral option and there was not a single break in pace the entire hour! (except to move from the living room couch to the bedroom :P). And we both loved every second of it. The entire encounter ended with the kind of porn star finish I've only ever dreamed about. And no rushing right away to the washroom to clean up the mess, this girl is a trooper! As the song says "Do you have to let it linger?" Well, no..you don't.... but it's a damn nice view if you do :D I hope the Carleton Place boys eat their wheaties, they're gonna need it! Here's hoping a few stand up guys can convince her to come back around, if only to see established clients, which I am now very happy to be one of.

Samantha, you seem like a nice girl....but stay away from me with that thing! :)

http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdglossary.html CATHERINE'S WHEEL: A large, upright wheel, usually made of wood, to which a person may be bound and then rotated to any position.

I seriously think people would look great with green or blue hair and I am right This is Angelina Jolie I just googled. I think it looks very good on her. If you think about it, brown toned hair, like everybody has, is boring compared to this. (I hope you don't mind I put other woman's picture in your thread, but I can see you have other threads about yourself, and this one is about colored hair. lol)

Glad you enjoyed the thread, it was a act that I have and would sample more, trusting your partner goes along way. The restraints used were the velcro type, you have to play the part of being submissive, its all in good fun. I kinda enjoyed being the submissive one, the mind and orgasm rush is unreal, ;-)

it sounds all too unimpressive but I do keep a pocket swissAK in the hip of special panties if I'm to be tied....not for defense, only if I have to get out fast (ie. client has a medical emergency/fire etc) I never allow myself to be tied up in a situation where I cannot access my hip.

It's very natural to be nervous about losing control, such as being tied up. Couples can have problems doing it with each other, let alone people with complete strangers. I've had clients who wanted to be tied, but not helplessly... Tying large cuffs into rope (that doesn't tighten) or velcro cuffs are good for this, you're not actually tied up, but you still get to play with it a bit. Things like being tied up should never be done if you're not comfortable with them and the person you're doing them with, though that should go without saying.