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By God Emma you are always a Plan A+++ I never have a plan B, nor do I want one, I plan my encounters far in advance and know what I want...if it goes sideways (only happened once...for a good reason) I will wait for my next chance. If I really want to see X person (which is why I chose them) how could I have as pleasurable a time with another that just happens to be available. My expectation was for X and Y may not offer the same things or be the same body/look type. I dunno, I guess I have never felt that I have to have sex today or right now no matter what...I prefer the experience over the simple act. Currently I have 2 encounters set up this month (hopefully a third soon)and eagerly anticipate each one...if they fall through at the last minute, I will be disapointed, but will just go home and watch some porn methinks. As to what you do, it is a bummer, but put the planned money aside and move on, the best thing about hobbying in Ottawa is the sheer amount of amazing women we can encounter. I would still send an e-mail and give her a chance to let you know what happened, if it was an act of God or explainable reason I am sure she will make it up to you. If not visit the announcements section, then the recommendations section and try to contact another lovely and interesting woman for an encounter at a later time. I think especially because you are new at this you should make sure you do all you can to ensure you will enjoy yourself, pick someone that suits your fantasy and not just your immediate urge...if you do and it's mechanical or not what you were looking for, you may not want to try again as you were double burned.

I think there isn't really competition in this biz. No room for jealousy. Each and everyone of us is different. No 2 of us look alike, act alike, or are alike. We are all special in our own way. We all have our own thing going on. To me we are like art....everyone sees something different is us. That goes for people in general. Everyone is unique and once people understand that this world would be different. kisses, Emma A

Some friend.

I think the question you should ask is how long you want to be in the business. If it is for a short period of time, and you want to have a constant flow of business than I think a busy agency would be a good choice for you. If you are looking for a longer term thing where you build some long term clients then going Independant might be a better choice. I disagree with above comments that imply that agencies are out to scam your money. A good agency acts on your behalf and goes out and gets the business for you, screens and helps you keep things organized. Helps you out with finding hotels, drive service ect. Its like if you were to go and sell your home, you COULD do it on your own and keep all of the commission. Most people would prefer to go through an agent, so there would be no hiccups, even if it meant they had to give up a piece of the pie. Similar idea with an agency. Cerb is a great resource and a good way to pick up some business, but it is not going to keep you consistantly booked. I would say the majority of our clients don;t even know what Cerb is until I tell them. Which is unfortunate as its has some really good quality clientel.

I have a preferred list to deal with such situations Plan A - SP you book with Plan B - back up SP you can call on short notice Plan C - a porno and a bottle of hand lotion Plan D - My wife :butt:

And I would add...stick to CERB and stay away from CL...any reputable SPs who advertise there, are probably on on CERB anyways. The rest, you're taking a big chance.

THANK YOU dummpy! I thought I was the only one who though this way.

This gave me a chuckle, but only cuz I totally agree. In the past, there was only description. You had to get a sense of her personality first, and make your decision that way. Chances are that she is going to be attractive, to be in this biz for a while you really need to not be scary looking. The decision would be based on what she said and how she said it, the decision to return would be based on her looks, plus that she provided what she said she would in a way that worked for you. In the end, this is a far better way to make a decision than a photograph.. Plus some lovely people do not photograph well, others take great pics but are relatively ordinary. And the more pics available, it seems like the clients out there get greedy for more. Now the demands are for face pics, or no appt. Ladies, it is not worth your privacy and discretion to provide face pics in your ads or thru emails just to book an appt. Mod's right about the overwhelming number of fake pics used by CL Vancouver's asian micros. It has now become the norm that the pics and ages are fake, you assume that to be the case, but the price/service combo is directly related to the fakeness. So if she is advertised as 25, you know she is almost 40 and the price will be not more than 120/45 min of PSE style msog, bbbj, dfk, and rimming. It is the price you pay for wanting a cheap date with the works. The poor fellas of Edmonton are not used to this and are still shocked and surprised that there would be such big discrepancies in what is advertised and what is actually available when they show up lol.

i think if you're sweating the 300 bucks, you might need a new hobby... or at least a more economical fetish. i think it lacks class to put any of the burden for this on the ladies. going dutch on your fancy ? come on.

Just because you plan a trip with a lady does not mean she is yours 24x7? If she took a little down time who cares?? Whats the big deal?? If she told you it was first time and it wasn't that was part of the fantasy wasn't it? One of the secrets to a hot GFE is her ability to convey that this is the "first time" for anything, even sex!! Guys they are facilitating fantasies for us, they are not actually girl friends. Move on. Sorry if this sounds harsh but if you hire a date for a trip there are some basic facts you need to understand. If you were actually her boy friend you would have to do and see what she wants to do (isn't i funny how what ever you suggest is "just great"), and if she was not happy she would be complaining a lot more. You take the good with the bad.