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Suri: Your original question was "what agency do people suggest". The thread has evolved to include discussions on Independant vs Agency and also dancing vs Escorting. I'm not an expert on any of this, but, for what its worth, I will add my.02. As for agencies I would suggest, like most business decisions, talk to a few before making a decision. As what they offer in terms of services and compare it to your needs. Consider their reputation, how long they've been in business etc. I don't imagine there is any one "best" agency. With respect to whether to work for an agency of being independant, I think its been addressed in other threads as well but I would imagine working for an agency will reduce your administration workload and provide you clients. For most that may be a large benefit. Suri, IMO, you should consider that as an independant, since due to your existing reputation on CERB, you will instantly have sufficient clientele if you work parttime and virtually no admin workload. Since you would be escorting part time, I imagine you'd have more clients than you need. Now the big one. Dancing vs Escorting. I realize your post didn't even ask for info in this area but a discussion has ensued on this topic so I will comment. I've met many SP's who said they would NEVER dance, for various reasons. I've met many dancers who said they would NEVER escort, but some of them offer "take out" to select clients. Everyone is different. Nobody can tell you what is best for you in this area. Both escorting and dancing have negative attributes as has been outlined in the thread. The best rule of thumb in either area, don't do anything you are not comfortable with, ever. If you decide to escort again, I'd recommend setting out what parameters you are comfortable with, you set the rules. Its OK, so set restrictions if you are not comfortable offerring certain services. You may just want to offer services to people you know on CERB, atleast initially, on a selective basis as opposed to mass advertising on other sites. If you are going to school at the same time, whether you would be dancing or escorting I'd suggest setting aside one or two nights a week that your clients know you would likely be available. You wouldn't be obligated to work those days but they would be your default days. That way your PM box wouldn't be filled every day and night asking if you are available lol. With very little effort (a thread saying you're available a certain day) I'm fairly certaing you'd have a full schedue and a lucreative business with very little admin. Having said all that, you have to be comfortable with it. But you know something, you're not committing to something for weeks, months or years. You can stop anytime you want so don't be too stressed of the decision. Escorting is a business. Everyone who starts a business is apprehensive and nervous at first. But don't worry, you have alot of supporters behind you. The first time I saw you in Cerb Chat I was amazed. Very few peope have character like you do Suri. You are a special person and very smart to be taking a step back to consider your options. JacK

Look, I do *both.* That is, I work for an agency and I have my own clients who I see independent of the Playgirls. Tracey knows that I'd never see a client of hers outside the agency and I keep that trust by never breaking it. In this way, I can offset the money the agency takes by seeing two or three of my own clients per week. You need to do what *you* what want to do. Don't be bullied or take any shit from people who will tell you that there is no point working for an agency because they'll just take half your cash. Weigh the pros and cons and decide what is right for you. I like working for an agency because I absolutely DO NOT have the patience to deal with the inane, offensive, ignorant requests/questions and often, atrocious spelling and grammar that comes with scheduling your own appointments. I'm terrible on the phone, I work much better in person. That's what I'm good at. So I let an agent take care of the crap I hate and I don't mind giving them a portion of the fee to do it. Also, if I'm having a shitty day and I'm not emotionally capable of seeing a client, I don't have to. I just don't go on call. I don't have to explain to anyone why I'm not working, or have an excuse for why I don't feel like it. It is not *always* about making the most money. It's about making a living in a way that is most enjoyable for you. Some of us do this because we love it, not because we're blinded by dollar signs. That being said, to answer your query, I can only recommend my agency, the Ottawa Playgirls. I've never worked for anyone else, and I wouldn't want to.

CK, you summed up for me what I was trying to say all along. I tend to get a little long-winded sometimes. SA, I am sure your posts were well meaning, but the point is, if we truly are looking out for Suri's best interests, then we will encourage her to read all the posts and decide for herself which is her best option. And I believe we have done that here. Suri, I hope you are not too confused or stressed by all of this. I am certain you will come to the right decision that is good for you. I am no means an "expert" on being an escort. Even after 15 years, I am still learning. Just when I think I have seen it all, or heard it all, I still encounter some unexpected surprises. But for the most part I would say, if you are going to do this business, make sure you have some kind of support in place, someone watching your back so-to-speak, because as much as it can be rewarding it can also be very lonely at times especially if you need to vent and feel there is no one to listen. That's why it is important to make contacts with other SPs, even if it's just one other girl or a trusted agency rep. Making money will not seem that great if you're miserable, lonely or scared. There are lots of people here on CERB, myself for example, who will support you in whatever choice you make. A simple phone call or pm can make all the difference between a good day and bad day. For example, early one morning the other day, I needed to vent and I was lucky to find Katedot in the chat room. I have chatted with her a bit in the past but we have never met, but she was kind enough to listen to me rant and it made all the difference. I am thankful that she was there and so open. So there are good people on here willing to listen and give advice. But remember, you have to do what feels right for you. Good luck to you. My final word on the subject.

Thank you both Dummpy and Angela, Suri my appologies. SA, you are entitled to your opinion. This is a discussion board afterall :) , but you seemed fixated on the fact that I used to work in them. My point was they are worse and I know that for a fact because I still know many dancers and have in the past worked with and dated them. As Dummpy and Angela have stated you are looking in from the outside as a customer. But we have all seen it from the other side, and it's not such a great view. Trust me, a woman is far more in control of her destiny, safety, finances and personal affairs as an escort rather than a dancer. I would never suggest to any one to consider working as a dancer. If they were to decide to dance I would support them, but I could not sleep at night knowing I suggested it as a viable option. This is my final word on this subject.

With DV, the ladies follow their schedule as it is display on our website. They can change it anytime. If they can't do what they say, then they can not be part of DV, part of a business. They are independant at DV, they can drive themself, they can earn and they can plan. The choosen escort can also call the client before hand of course! why not ? We filter the quality together.

Independents do more work but they make more money. Dealing with jerks as clients as an independent or dealing with jerks at agencies as an escort could require pretty much the same amount of energy. You know how well your first experience with an agency worked out Suri. So good luck in the future if you go that route.

That is great advice you are getting, You are basically paying someone to take calls, you could always get a friend to do that or make all appointments by pm, emails or msn or other chat area's. You work hard for the money, you don't want to give it away for the little you will be helped. Again I am sure your pm is full ( with mine being in there as well) ps do you still have the blue hair:razz:

I have to agree with the above comments. What the agencies will do for you of value is take calls, help you manage a schedule and take money. If you are able to manage your own schedule and you start by only booking via CERB PM's and/or email the interruptions can be minimized and the money will be maximized. If however you are unable to manage your schedule you will have trouble keeping busy and an agency may be an asset. Best of luck

You really should considering the excellent advice from Akhenaton and Dummpy. Perhaps a few of the ideependfent ladies on CERB would share best practices at lunch or later privately.

You might want to just check your inbox here, I think you'll find quite a few requests waiting for you :)

Why do you want to pay an agency? I think you can get a ton business and just keep it for yourself, the agencies don't do anything other than make you work 2x harder for the same money? If you must have an agent Erin says great things about Ottawa Play Girls. If you just want a crash course in getting started come to lunch on Thursday and we will get you started.