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In Canada, I have never had issue with LE but in the US, a very different story. So for those traveling south of the border, please do your research! As for STD's and STI's, I have never had one. Like Emma; I am tested regularly. I do believe that the statistics account for the general public who are not as fastidious with health issues. An evening out with a little too much wine and one's judgment becomes cloudy and mistakes are made. I have never believed that SPs pose the greatest health concern. We are more aware because it's our job to be. Most of us can identify by name visual dangers and I am vigilant at inspection as a precaution with all guests. I believe there is risk in every situation which warrants awareness. But we all take risks every day from contracting Staph by showering at the gym to getting hit by a truck crossing the street. We simply weigh the risk and take as many precautions as possible otherwise we would never get out of bed. Life is to be experienced every moment of every day because that is all we are ever guaranteed to have. Cat

Back from reinventing the wheel and in a ranting mood... What has happened to society? I used to read all the time how the fashion magazines were evil because they gave women the idea that you had to be paper thin or you were ugly. Have guys been looking at these magazines and jerking off for too long too? Is this now the idea that men have too, that women must be spinners or they shouldn't talk about them? Is this a worldwide thing or is this just an area specific thing? Why the rant you say? Ever since joining this site this has been something that I have been noticing more and more. The hobbiest community seems to be a spinner world. If you aren't a spinner you better have some really big boobs. What do I mean by this? Go through the recommendation section, and note the number of comments on a spinners recommendation from guys saying they can't wait to see her. Every single picture thread you see most of the the pictures posted are spinners, look through the beatiful behinds and beautiful breast threads and you will see what I'm talking about. Most of the pictures are spinners. If a picture or a recommendation is posted of a spinner it gets tons of comments from hobbiest saying that is such a great pic or I can't wait to see her, etc. But go through the recommendation and pics of the girls who aren't spinners or don't have huge boobs and you will notice they get a small percentage of the comments that a spinner gets. Is it not okay to be attracted to women with curves? Can you not talk about it out loud? Or is there a board that is just for girls with some curves? Many many times have I seen the comment she was great but she's not a spinner, or I had an awesome time but I'm not gonna write a reco because she's not a spinner, or she's not my normal body type so I'm not gonna write a reco, etc. So if you see a girl that's not your normal body type you can't talk about it??? I mean good grief some guys even said that spinners have tighter pussies than girls with curves, wtf created this mindset. There was even a comment once that a girls age was too old to be a spinner (didn't know that spinners had to be a certain age too???) This is what I refer to as the spinner complex in my heading. Why have guys gotten it in their head that it is not okay to talk about girls that aren't spinners, to say out loud that they are attracted to them, that their pics are hot, that they want to see them or better yet have seen them? Heaven forbid I might be attracted to a girl that doesn't weigh 110 pounds. Explain this to me??? Because I have been here for a bit and this is something I have never understood and it almost sickens me to see and hear because these girls are awesome girls and I know they do good business but they get maybe 10% of the comments and recos a spinner gets. Just the thoughts of a half awake delusional broken man who felt like speaking out, so if you disagree feel free to rebuke and educate me.

so this is my 100th post and i wanted it to be a thread i started. there was thread about the best breast and ass, but (no pun intended) i love staring at a woman. the face is as important as the rest of the body for me. so i'm asking you're thought as the sp with the best face. for me it's the beautiful prettypaige, she is one of the most attractive lady i've ever seen. peachy is a close second with her sweet innocent looking angelic face.

One of the topics that came up today at the lunch was the fact that a few members are rather vocal about the fact that they don't like the ladies being involved in poly events? For the life of me I cannot figrue this out, is anyone niave enough to believe that these women only see a few people? What diference is it if it is 4 guys in one day or 4 guys at the same time? Also I thought this group would be the last ones being judgmental about someones sexual preferences? As I see it non of us are out celebrating on the streets about our sexual choices, when was the last time you were in a meeting at work and mention in casual conversation that you see escorts? However here is a place that you express your irregular sexual habits and compare notes, why would you condem someone for having a slightly different fantasy than you??? 2 ladies and one guy always seems popular and has not gathered the scorn of cerbites, why is 3 ladies and 6 guys or 4 guys and a lady etc... any different? Please help me understand because at this point I just think there are some stupid and ignorant people on this board. I am sure there is a good reason I just have not discovered it yet. BTW the biggest poly group I have been in is sitting in perverts row with 50 other guys watching a lady undress on stage, does not get much more poly than that.

Oh yes, I agree with you on that! In fact, some of the stuff coming out of the States these days is mind boggling. Some of the Christians down there are morphing into Taliban-like critters! Just this morning, I was reading that a movie about Darwin can't find a distributor in the US because so many of these Christian types have decided that evolution is bunk and that Darwin is an evil man. ??? And elsewhere, I read that they have a "Creation" museum where Christian parents can take their kids for a day of dumbing down, totally confusing them on anything they might learn in science class. It's absolutely unbelievable. And, like the Taliban, while Christians make a great show of respecting women, it's a facade. Women are cherished and protected -- as long as they're good little chihuahuas and behave their masters. Jimmy Carter recently turned his back on his Southern Baptist church after deciding that Christianity -- as with most major religions -- at its heart doesn't truly view woman as a man's equal in god's eyes. So what you're saying is, if we can prove by demonstrating that we're testing clean, repeatedly for years, with myriad sex partners, we might convince someone? Unfortunately, it doesn't seem to be working with climate change, evolution, and countless other issues. Some people are determined to steadfastly remain ignorant in the face of heaps of evidence. And many of those same people will continue to distribute misinformation and stigmatize SPs for their choices. There's an old saying in skydiving: "You ask me why I skydive. For those who've done it, no explanation is necessary. For those who haven't, no explanation is possible." Might be the same with us! But definitely, I admire you for taking it on! Bravo!

brush and floss but do not floss right before our date, as this may cause bleeding gums which translate to open receptors etc..not very safe. kissing for me is HUGE. I love to kiss and have received great recos on my abilities...so for me, if I'm not able to use this skill during foreplay I feel like my client is missing out on the full experience. Kissing during foreplay also is a big turn on for me and helps me warm up for the rest of the session's actions. Not everyone can jump right into it all the time

Hello everyone! It's about 6pm and I'm going to work soon. I wanted to share something with everyone, something that some people might be aware of (more than some, I hope). I have been talking to some SP's (older than myself - and wiser to some extent) and I found that their knowledge of STDs was not very comprehensive. I want to talk about these misconceptions about STDs to further protect all individuals involved in escorting - whether they're the hobbyist or the escort. Now I'm sure a lot of you know MORE than me, so I'd like everyone to share. The more a group or collective discuss a problem, the easier it is to eradicate said problem. OK. Let's get to the point. 1. You can get herpes if they are no sores present! "Remember: you can pass the virus to your partners even when you do not have symptoms" http://www.health.state.ny.us/diseases/communicable/std/herpes.htm 2. You can pass HIV through oral sex, they are microscopic abraisions present in the mouth, where the virus can pass through (!). Vaginal fluid and semen (including pre-come) contain the virus of an HIV+ person. 3. HIV can be 100% asymptomatic. Most people don't even know they have it (I wish I remembered where I read this.) So my point is, BE CAREFUL:!:

One thing that has always annoyed me is when someone says that prostitutes are "selling themselves" or "selling their bodies." As if that is somehow wrong. What is a neurosurgeon selling? An astronaut? An airline pilot? An actor? A chef? A computer programmer? I don't know anyone who could get his job done without a body, and so it's fair to say that they're "selling their bodies" as much as I do! My work requires my mind, my body AND my personality. I can't send my body off to work without the rest of me -- without the knowledge and skill I've acquired, without my senses, without my people skills, without my heart. So why would anyone think it's wrong for me to "sell myself"? Perhaps because they think I'm selling something I don't have a right to? That's what I suspect. I believe that many religions are based on the notion that women are not valid people -- that we're somehow less than men, and that men should own and control us, as they would children or cattle. And that makes me sick. As for the Salvation Army, in these times of terrorism and security fears, one has to wonder about a religious group with such a militant name. The government protects the religious, but leaves the secular (either atheists or people of faith with no religious affiliations and no desire to see religion used as a basis for law and policy) to twist in the wind. We need to speak up to our leaders and let them know that we aren't going to take being walked on and bullied by Christians any more than we would from any other religion. If they want our vote, they must extend protection to us under the law. It should be illegal for religious people to harass secular persons minding their own business.

theres some some confusion here as to the topics addressed. I see what you mean Angela, that this thread was created and advertised by some members of the group, but behind the scenes many ladies have been judged for having multiple partners in a single session. its interesting because as dumpy and others said, our business of what we do as working ladies should not define us. everyone on here has different fantasies....some clients want to be flogged while being screamed at humiliating phrases......some are into bondage....some straight men want to have it taken up the rear by an SP in a strap-on....some men want to be with more than one women in the same hour......and many have and have advertised looking for it. has any judgment been passed? no however...when a lady agrees to be with multiple men at the same time or seeks out multiple men for a single session its not accepted or deemed demeaning?...even if shes in control of the situation and selective of those she allows in her event? perhaps some may agree to disagree but this will always be the double standard....the only plus is, as SPs, we can control who we see and thus weed out those who think we need to be "saved" from a "misguided life" of what we choose to do. My opinion is that if a client feels its his right to control what you do outside of your's and his time together....he is not a client worth keeping....not because of the business you might loose, but because of the self esteem potentially lost having someone thinking you can't make decisions for yourself. I kinda steer clear of the term "GB"...poly suits it way better. GBs tend to resonate with acts of many men taking over a sole lady or ladies in a demeaning non-willing manner. Group-sex on the clock is not the same. picture it as going on a call...sipping wine with a few gents around a table at a private call and getting to know each other...and then having everyone respect your restrictions, everyone else's pace, and other's spaceand time. yes bit of a rant but as a word of advice, any Hobbiest who claims he knows whats best for his SP and voices so without her asking for an opinion from them will most likely loose his hard-earned favoritism. When someone tries to steer me from what I want to do based on what they think I'm "good enough" for, it makes me wonder if they think they are preying on the weak...or appreciating someone's love for their art. and I would always hope for the latter....but there are those odd few who want to hear that you've come from a broken home, were abused as a child and turned to sex-work in an act of monetary desperation. hopefully some of the knights in shining armor will realize that none of those apply to some and will start realizing the gifts they have in front of them...not for the victims they feel they need to "save" but for the strong women that they are....capable of making whatever choices they want.....even if they, the client, cant relate

I have to say at my discretion, just because some guys don't know what a toothbrush is...