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Be you friend or foe there's something ya'll should know, I'm back in the saddle again... http://www.cowboysdiary.info thanks to all for their kind words and support. The new diary looks pretty spiffy if I do say so myself. Still some small glitches to work out, please be patient. I was busy blogging off-line while waiting for a response from google and setting up the diary, so there's some new scams to check out to.

Only Soleil knows his situation, and what I am writing is simply my experience with these types of situations. Across the board, the guests I refer to have the ability to have lasting relationships, most have good relationships with family and friends, they simply never moved into the dating realm. Positive intimate relations do not increase confidence on a social level and it is not sheer will that will overcome the challenges at hand. What is necessary is a life skills plan that enables them to move thru the steps and acquire the confidence and know how necessary to interacting with women. It can be daunting, and most would benefit from having an accredited mental health care professional on board to help. Not because they are broken or sick, but to learn skills they don't have. Unfortunately asking for help isn?t something on the to-do list. The easier route is simply picking up a phone and setting up an appointment with an SP. My guests threw themselves into academic and professional accomplishments and allowed that to be the main focus of their days and most nights. Achieving success on these levels offers a tremendous sense of accomplishment which allows them to justify the lack of dating in their lives. They leave that aspect as something that will come in time, but they never seem to make time to allow it to happen. I often give the analogy of sitting at a piano and learning to play Chopsticks in a 10 minute lesson. Even if you practice it every day, you can?t say ?I play the piano?. You must learn the fundamentals of the instrument, master them, and then allow the music flow out thru you to be a pianist. Relationships follow the same principles. You must commit time and effort and learn the fundamentals. Visiting an SP as the only outlet to get your itches scratched equates to being able to play "Chopsticks" and does not make you a pianist. One must simply be clear when choosing an SP for a first experience what the reasons are. If it is the fear of embarrassing yourself with your girlfriend because it?s a new experience that?s one thing. If you have never had a girlfriend or even gotten to second base, then there are deeper issues at hand and turning to an SP can create lifelong habits that are difficult to break. It potentially can become the Band-Aid to a situation that needs stitches? Cat

I had my first visit with Amber (Wyld). What a hottie!!!!! I was very pleased when she came to the door to let me in. Super Hot! My thing is legs and I was not disapointed. Afer some light discussion She brought me to that place where it's all good!! Very proffesional; nice pad; excellent experince;skilled.

Darling jughead, It is deeply saddening that this is your perception of half the planet, but I don't think you actually believe it. We all have an innate need for connection, and I am sorry your experiences have been difficult. I for one, do not envy men the task of dating women. I still don't understand the complexities that make up the way most women think. For me women are much like computers, I admire all that they are, but I never feign to understand the hows and whys. What I do know is that it's never too late to upgrade the skills needed to enjoy either. What I find helps is realizing its an ongoing experience that changes moment to moment. You are right, with an SP there are no head games. But will she sit at your bedside when you are sick? Will she be there when the sky is dark and there is a storm coming? I'm not saying we do not have our place in the lives of our guests, but we are more likened to a rental or a lease not a purchase. When it comes to trust I always remember that every day millions of people drive 80kms/hr down roads with a simple painted line to ensure oncoming traffic doesn't hit them head on. If you drive, you can trust. Give it a chance and trust, what you put out there will come back to you...I promise. Cat

I had a wonderful meeting with Miss Cloe last night... it was an evening of sensual and erotic pleasures. I was feeling a little under the weather, but Miss Cloe gave me some TLC all over. She is a perfect courtesan who knows exactly how to please a man and knew what I needed last night...

You'll find the best advice and the best girls right here.

I always think its funny how people assume we don't have a heart...of course we do. We fall in love just like anyone else does. Sure it's not supposed to happen{as some people think} but it does. Will it work? Who knows but if 2 people are willing to give it a try...why not? Who are we to judge? kisses, Emma A

Labels of SP and client limit and define us, we are all human. Can we fall in love? Of course we can. Asking "will it work" is a question that has no answer. What I define as a successful relationship is different from other peoples idea of successful. Accurately define "falling in love" first. It is a phrase that is thrown around and we all assume it means the same thing to all but it doesn't. Is it the physical rush that hits us when we know we are going to get see someone? Is it the constant thoughts of someone that the mind insists on thinking? Is it the impulse that manifests as a physical need to see someone and be in their presence? Is it the chemical reaction that takes place in our bodies that is addictive in its highs and its lows? These are all recognized as initial symptoms of "being in love" but I question if it is indeed love. Society's definition of love is a label of misunderstanding. The concept of love we commonly accept is a two sided blade, the positive emotion we feel towards someone can turn to hatred, possessiveness, envy, resentment and a myriad of negative emotions. Love is a state of being, not a simple human emotion that has duality. Love as a state of being has no negative, it is beyond the human minds manipulation. Do I love my guests, yes I do, each and every one of them. I have several incredible long-term relationships with people who are "clients". Do my relationships fit in the box society trys to impose for love? No they don't. Would I change it? No I wouldn't. Cat

Hi all! Thanks for all the sweet words! I had fun too then again I always do lol...

I was on a buisness trip to Halifax and was lucky enough to see her, don't miss out she is one of the best I have ever had and would love to get out there to see her again, maybe she will one day visit the peg.