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The reality is law enforcement has a job to do, and in this industry I support their choice to try and protect the underage girls who are in these situations. From experience, I know teenagers are incredibly stubborn and naive. I am sure these girls think they are in a partnership of sorts, but they don't realize it is a pact that will leave them damaged and broken. Coercion and violence are a part of life when a girl has a pimp and they are usually estranged from their loved or less than loved ones. The police need to do what they can to protect these young girls. Quite often it takes a prison cell to keep these girls away from their pimps. The loyalty is so disturbing. The police are not looking for consenting adults who do not make a nuisance of themselves to the community, they are going after the one group that permeates this business and makes it dirty. I for one support this effort and I think we do not need to become paranoid and blow this out of perspective. Cat

I refuse to live my life in-authentically. 95% of the time I know long before someone walks thru the door if we are in the same head space. There needs to be something there in his words that makes me think. I have had guests that look like Danny DeVito and Woody Allen rock my world and pretty boys that left me wishing I could have that time back. I find myself now imagining men I meet in social situations in bed and it's seldom the pretty ones that catch my attention. Sometimes I sit in a room full of men and spend a minute in my happy place with each one of them naked. It's a fun way to spend 30 minutes when I don't have to participate in the discussion at hand. I most certainly can be attracted emotionally to someone in 3 minutes, it can happen instantly. The twinkle in a eye, or that smile that comes from inside charm. I do not feign warmth with my guests and I do not fake enjoyment. The quality of my time and my existence is mine for the making. If I do not feel there is a connection worth nurturing, I do not book a second appointment, but it doesn't mean I didn't enjoy the initial meeting. The key piece of wisdom this industry has brought to my life is that I create my reality and I happen to love my world and the people in it for who they are. I have found it brings out the best of each moment. Would I put all of my clients in a Playgirl centerfold? No, because the thing that makes them sexy to me may elude the camera. It doesn't mean they don't float my boat! Cat

I had weird situations that I do not want to experience again, with people I did'nt knew... Drunk, punk, or junk, everything's out there for us... We need to protect ourselves, including refferences... Please, there's no such insult of being hung up after asking for a CERB handle... I need to know who you are, so I can feel safe and confident to offer you the best services...

doggiedoggiedoggie ahem.... :-) and a nice missionary where the gent doesn't have to hold himself up and just huggs real close on top of me so I can wrap my arms and legs around him

Excellent answer et! ;) xox

How the girl helps you leave is equally important. Tying my shoes as I leave, now that's a turn on!

Eye contact, smile, embrace, kiss, body language in that order. However, sometimes one does encounter a shy date and you kinda have to look beyond that and take the lead, till you both become more comfortable. That could mean paying her a compliment, telling a joke or as simple as asking how her day is going. The bottom line is one must be genuine! That too gets the adrenalin going and if the chemistry is right, the shy ones do open up big time (at least in my experience). This is why we always say YMMV (especially on a first date).

The very very first thing that makes the strongest impression. Door opens, Eye contact and the first smile. A real genuine nice to meet you smile. The next one is first physical contact. Be it a friendly kiss, hand on the arm or a good old fashion hug. One of the more memorable encounter was like this: Door opens, half a face peeked out from behind the door. I can only see her eyes, then she pop out in front keeping full eye contact, one of the sweetest warmest smile I have even seen, like seeing a love one whom has just returned from a month long trip. A nice tight hug with body contact from top to bottom, a hand ran up and down my back. On release of that hug, a hand reached out, grabbed mine and lead me further into the apartment, a quick turn of her head, again making eye contact with a wink and a seductive smile. I'm not sure if she does this for everyone, but some of the lucky one in Ottawa might have the same experience with this wonderful lady. Anyone wants to guess who this might be? Nonstop724

For me, how a girl looks is almost irrelevant. Physical attraction is so subjective and your appearance is something that can't be changed...makeup and clothing only do so much. Besides, I have already made my decision whether or not there is a physical attraction based on pictures seen before. Granted, everyone loves a pretty face and that's not always shown, but that has rarely been an issue. It's all about chemistry and me getting the feeling that this person wants to be there and enjoys what she does. The chemistry may not always be there, but I am usually very relaxed and easy going and I think that most people can get along with each other if there is a mutual attempt to be courteous and afford respect to the other person. So if there's one thing that makes the difference and can be a learned response, it's appearing happy to be there. No doubt it can be hard at times depending on your mood, but if that feeling isn't really there, pretending it is might lighten the mood for the client and sp. And it works both ways... A hug and/or a kiss upon opening the door is usually a good way to warm things up immediately, but I personally never do this, even a lot of the times I repeat. It feels weird to me to initiate a hug with someone I've never met - it's too immediately intimate. Not a touchy-feely kinda guy. But if the girl initiates, it's a nice gesture and a pleasant start. Generally speaking though, if a girl seems disinterested and not trying, it's a huge turn-off. You're not going to get along with everybody, but I've noticed that the best and most popular girls have a reputation of making whoever they are with comfortable that they're always trying their best. Consummate professionals...

I was visiting Ottawa and on a whim i called Miss Cloe. She was not in town but would be for supper at a later date. After calling around for a place that was convenient for the both of us and not hard for my GPS to find. ( i have never been to Ottawa in my life) The stars aligned on that fateful day, or so i will always think in my mind. We talked on the phone and confirmed,and than it happened. There was a knock on the door and in came the most wonderful tasting wine i have ever had. Holding the bottle was a hot looking, very down to earth outgoing friendly blond. As we spoke i could tell this was going to be a memory i will always have, but never share with the ones closest to me. Dang was it a time, thought i was to far gone a few times than she stops and takes me there again over and over. If you gentleman have not yet met this Fine Women i suggest you do, or at least try. ( out of respect for the ladies i don't go into to much detail but trust me it was great) :wink: