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Not a good enough reason to justify sex work with a child present. I'm not saying that is the case here, but there's no circumstance ever that could justify it. Holy fuck.

I agree with the above statement. I myself do have a little one & while the idea of entertaining clients in my home while my little one is about doesn't even enter my head, I do have resources, such as family & friends that are more than happy to babysit while I work. Some women do not have these resourses & being a single parent with no resourses is very difficult. Sure, there is income assistance, but really, with the amount allotted, it's barely enough to cover rent, groceries, utilities & bills. I agree that working while the little one is about is a very bad idea (not to mention the legality of the situation) but I've no idea what situation the sp is in. What I think is a great idea is possibly networking with other sp's in similar situations & sharing babysitting duties, perhaps.

Okay, this is a little random but if this service provider needs a babysitter, I'd be happy to do so free-of-charge as it fits my schedule. I am a teacher and can provide references. Angela - While I appreciate your concerns, I've thought about this for a bit and I think that advertising this fact may be potentially bad. The "good" guys out there will be turned away and "bad" guys will be attracted to her since she has a daughter. Just my thoughts.

The service provider amplifies the romantic situation to make it seem that she is more than just a sp, she is the ultimate girlfriend. A no-strings-attached, eager to please, and yet, completely unattainable girlfriend. I think it is a subject that should not be ignored. Myself, I have been victim to feeling more than I should for a client. This can be extremely damaging, especially since professional boundaries have been constructed. Even more so is you already have a significant other that knows nothing of your pass-time/hobby/job. I consider it to be very difficult to write about such a touchy subject, even a misuse of language could offend. However, the GFE phenomenon and its consequences are very real to this community. :oops:

I have just met a remarkable lady, both in her physical appearance and her intelligence. Kayla is brand new to OPG, having worked only briefly for another agency and spending a bit of time as an independent. Booking an appointment with Tracey at OPG was easy as always, and Kayla was right on time. She has an angelic face with blond hair and beautiful eyes. She was quite good in starting conversation, and notwithstanding the reference to a bubbly personality on the OPG website, she is definitely not one of those giggly girls, but there are definitely moments of sincere laughter. I made her a cup of tea (her beverage of choice on this occasion) and we proceeded to have probably the most interesting conversation I have ever had with such a young lady. I really enjoyed speaking with her. Kayla is remarkably well spoken, a good listener, and very, very wise for a 19-20 year old girl (as advertised on OPG). Someone you could definitely have a a long dinner conversation with. She had me thinking twice about some of my own assertions during our conversation. On the physical side, she is perfectly proportioned and has an active, if not athletic, build. Just right in every sense. And in bed, she definitely knows what she is doing. She prefers light kissing and is not big on daty for safety reasons, but there is a very sensuous lady behind her demure exterior. We finished our time together with another cup of tea and more good conversation. Repeat? In a heartbeat. Kayla, thank you ... you represent exactly what a lot of guys my age are looking for ... a perfect combination of sexiness, intelligence and fun. I hope to see you again soon!

Updates / New Features 1) Reputation comments are now shown on posts when you add to someones reputation. This lets everyone see why you agree or disagree with the persons post. Same rules apply to comments as they do with the rest of the board remember. 2) The MOBILE version of cerb was lacking a link to your Private Messages at the top of the login pages. You will now see a link up top when you log in VIA mobile device that shows a link to your PM's 3) My Notes (Beta) - This is a work in progress. You will see a MY NOTES tab at the top of the pages now in red. This will let you make comments to yourself for future reference. Think of it as a "sticky Note" for cerb as many of you don't want to leave sticky notes about escorts, contact info and dates where someone outside of the business may find them. We (the mods) use this to keep notes about current situations and a watch list. Some of you may also find value in this so we have made it available for you as well. It is in BETA so it may have some bugs... we think the bugs are all worked out but let us know if you find any.

A friend of mine who likes to hobby and check out adventure by seeing different girls went to see this SP from CL When he got there, he said she was pretty and the place was clean and as he puts it "didn't look like a drug addict", but said it disturbed him when he heard a young child in the next room. She told him to never mine the sound, that the child was fine. He was unable to perform and left (still paid her). Sounds like potentially dangerous situation for not only the client, but her. Has anyone else had this experience?

I was going to leave this be but guy, your insecurity is waaaay too high right now. Look at what this pretty girl with all her good looking friends have done to you! yes you could hire a model or an SP for 10 hours (which BTW at some gals social fees may cost you a 1k minimum) but what if it doesnt even phase her or she goes "okay yah whatever, he probably just paid her. you cant assume everyone is stupid. (no offense) also...you cant assume that just because you dont tagg your SP or add her to your facebook that ppl aren't going to recognize her because you think you have no friends in common.....networking is a dangerous situation on facebook. This woman obviously broke your self esteem...but the solution isn't paying a woman to pose as your fake newfound love! at the end of the day, you will have paid for a visual stab at your ex...and have nothing to gain from it other than being a phoney )and having flies buzz out of your wallet)......how is THAT going to help your self esteem??? it wont. my advice, no matter how odd of a nuclear couple you were or how hot her new guy and friends are....focus on YOU! look inside yourself and see the things that make you an individual. what is the one thing you're good at? DO IT! or join the gym and practice your people skills and stop letting this woman drag you down and start being that awesome person that attracted her to you in the first place....but not to win her back....to gain your individuality that you have lost in the process instead of posting fake pictures....post FB statuses that reek of positivity...but DO it, dont lie about it! example...post: "went for a 2k jogg today..and am now treating myself to dinner with a great buddy (but do it!) DON'T post: "went for a 2k jogg today and am now feeling the burn! seeing a hottie later! (coz even if its true, and your buddy is hot it will only be percieved by all that you are throwing it in her and her friend's face) I see friends like this do vindictive crap all the time on facebook, and I'll admit, I've done so a few years ago.....only after i saw others do the same did I wish i didnt do the same and see how it made me and all our friends cringe by doing positive things for yourself and focusing on yourself you will only attract the positive...which (eventually) might be an attractive girl who sees what an awesome person you are (EVEN IF ONLY ON A FRIENDLY BASIS!).....and with who you can post as many facebook photos, knowing that the new friendship there is REAL and not paid for also as a side note when I used to date I never had a "type" and many of the guys I dated longterm were guys that shallow girls would scoff at. I would tell them to eff-off...mainly because i would love a guy who was sincere and would make me laugh and had charisma......if your ex is so welled up in the fact that you're not GQa version of the sexiest man alive and isn't defending your relationship despite the fact you have a child......FORGET HER!!!! shes obviously way too wrapped up in what her friends think or her own insecurity (or newfound ego) that she is willing to ditch everything you have. I'm going to assume she is young as well and looking for validation....but lady, if you choose to have a child with someone, you dont leave them having to try to "show you up"....relationships (even friendships) should never be a competition. ^^This is a phrase i say for BOTH of you. Having a new friendship evenatually (even if its just a good hearted girl who listens to your problems....which is something you seem to be in dire need of now!!! its ok, not making fun here) that is REAL is something that will make you feel ten times better about yourself that having to fake it just to hurt the woman you have such a history and child with. I am going to guess that you are very young....please dont take this the wrong way, but if you really did miss your connection, you would not be going out of your way to vindictively hurt the mother of your child.....as someone said previously "silence sometimes speaks words"...no one suggested you remove her from your facebook, but if she really hurt you so badly, then why are YOU becoming the bad guy? You are trying to fight fire with the DVD "logg" (ie. the fake fire as seen on TV) on a widescreen TV. Sometimes relationships dont work out, it not because the person was "out to get you" or hurt you....this is just life, and sometimes people are discovering themselves and choose different paths.....sometimes that path doesn't involve you right at the beginning.....take a mature step back and let her do her thing and dont arise drama that isn't even there to begin with. what if she sees you with your "new girl" and thinks you're a total player and imagines that because you are so quick to move on that you dont care about her OR your child and decides to axe you out of the picture completely....forever. Think very long and hard about this. I have a child with someone who never wanted to be there....I didn't spend my life trying to cause him grief.........when you do that, that makes YOU the person who is not thinking with logic, but with crazed emotion Listen, She made her choice and shes going to keep making her choice no matter what pics you post on facebook. The key is seeking gratification from ANY one else on the planet other than her now (or paid SPs for facebook pics) if you aren't being appreciated by her and her friends, time to move on and find people that do. life is too short man! I feel for your situation but striking back in revenge is NOT the answer! ps. as a cautious note: I really hate the word "FAG" when used to describe a loser, please use more mature vocabulary is you want proper sympathy

What I mean is that if hobbiest x,y,z and sp's x,y,z have kids it is okay to be questioned them as well in a open forum? I think that Naomi said it earlier, not the place here for open discussion this is a escort forum.

No reason not to have the child in daycare for the times she places ads for working. 80 per call (or more) will more than cover an 8 hour day care stay) It is simply a matter of time before someone who walks away reports her, and then what is going to happen. Personally, I would have contacted this individual directly. I do not know if she is a member or not, but she can be easily reached through her ads. Posting the info publically does run the risk of alerting bad guys to the situation; this sp is in danger of being blackmailed by an individual who finds her and goes to see her now based on going there with this knowledge.

And I am in complete agreement with you, I just don't think this is the place to be discussing such at all. This is not a morality or family forum... This is an escort forum.. People here largely practice activities that some people find just as offensive as we may find what this SP is doing. I only worry if we start judging her, it opens us up to judge on others... and this is the last place where anyone should feel judged or worry about the possibility of such. I would just rather this site be about our lovely ladies and the good times we have with. While I know this forum is open to other discussions, I'd rather them not be as controversial or judgmental as this one... ...Also... These forums are not private. Anyone can read them. Are we not increasing the chances of her getting caught simple because police can see this thread here and connect it to the one on CL? There's too much to think about here, and none of it is my business... Nai, out! xo

At the same time though there have been pregnant SPs, an not a person here jumped down their throats OR made posts about it. I get that people won't agree with it, some people will find it wrong and immoral... But, there are a lot worse situations for a child to be in. Beatings, starvation, the other day I saw a documentary on meth and the parents were smoking these chemical drugs not 4 feet from their 5 and 6 year olds. So.. while some of us may not agree with it.. I don't really think it's our place to judge. Not here anyways.

It's totally wrong... I can understand that this SP may need quick money and putting low price is easy way to have some...but don't do it when your kid is there! Service Provider and hobbyests are adults, we all consent (at least members on the board) to do this activity knowing the risk that may occur. But putting someone, a child that isn't aware of this ,No! He is innocent, he doesn't have to know what his mother do for work or if he know one day, not this way! I know some SP here have some kids and they seem to hide this part of there life well, why cannot she do it that way? A child...no, not when he is there Don't put someone innocent and that cannot defend himself in a situation like this

This is my first-ever public post because the matter is so serious I am compelled to write. I subscribe to the cerb policy, "If you do not have anything nice to say... Please don't say anything at all." But, subject of this thread is really serious -- a child is involved. I agree with CK i.e. yes, it is 3rd hand info, but enough info has been released to identify the SP, who has rights. Practically speaking, the child is probably already cognizant of the SP's activities. Whether or not the child is capable of actually corroborating the allegation(s) is besides the point i.e. the child's welfare is the concern. This is a serious matter, but no one should jump the gun. If those in the community are concerned and want to pursue this matter, I would suggest doing so privately via a PM to the SP, conveying your concerns so as to respect her rights, and give her a chance to remedy the situation. When (and if) the CAS gets involved, there are no winners, not even the child. On a final note, I would ask MOD to take down this thread.

You're right, Cowboy Kenny. I've been a teacher for 8 years and on one occasion I was accussed of striking a child. I never did so and nothing came of it, but it was one of the most terrifying experiences of my life.

This is a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation. That being said, I am going to side with the reputation of the OP who must have had credible evidence to post. In the interest of all this is important to know and at the risk of stating the obvious...that ain't right and shouldn't be encouraged or supported (i.e. by seeing the sp in question) or ignored by stating that it is a personal matter to be resolved via pm. my 2 cents

Have to agree that its disturbing and to me doesn't fall into this category B & S, scams or dangerous encounter. No doubt this parent will be faced with a moray of investigations soon based on hearsay.

I agree with Loneskater & JustJack. I no the situation is very disturbing, but she still is an Sp. This should be taken down.

I agree information that identify this lady should not have been posted and as CK mentioned we don't know the details and if ppl are concerned a PM to the SP would have been more appropriate. I hope MOD will see this tread and delete any reference to an SP. This is like writing a negative review on someone which is not allowed on CERB.

Obviouly, this thread should not have been posted publically in a way that identified the SP involved. Strongly recommending deleting the part that specifically identifies the SP.

If true that is totally not acceptable. Another thing to note is that she is a member here on cerb and most people are going to recognize who that is. I don't know what to suggest here because there are implications that could very well lead to CAS getting involved. Hopefully she will see this or someone can get through to her.

Run down and dirty.... garbage all over the champagne room floors. And they had typical "schoolroom" chair with no arms instead of the big comfy ones like at other clubs. I highly recommend another place.

I should be studying... and yet, I am lurking on CERB. I am a bit obsessed with this website. It creates a great (and sexy) diversion to exams. On to my answer: I love a beautiful Asian woman with black hair, an Indian woman with brown hair, an American woman with blond hair, an Irish woman with red hair, a punk with green hair! A woman with no hair at all! A rose by another other name would smell as sweet. A man who concerns himself with such things would miss so much of the beauty that surrounds him... a rose is a rose is a rose... A woman who changes herself to please a man who concerns himself with such things would miss so much of the beauty that surrounds her...