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Any adult having any kind of sexual engagement with a minor just makes me sick. I have no respect at all for those who do that and in my opinion they do deserve to go to jail for doing so.

Hello all, I have had the opportunity to see Belladonna Black. http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=28937 To be honest I have been intrigued by her since she started posting here. Her pics are only a small glimpse of her natural stunning beauty. When I first saw her in person I had to say I was taken aback by how stunning she really is. Gorgeous eyes, beautiful skin, sexy full lips and a body that could have only been created by the great maker himself. The only thing that rivals her beauty is her personality. A great conversationalist, intelligent, smart and funny. Time seemed to pass very quickly as it always does in the presence of a truly fantastic person. I won't go into the details as ymmv, but I felt I had a true gfe experience and left me wanting more. I decided to forego the rating system and just 10/10 plain and simple. She is a lady please treat her like one. Repeat? : Really? Do I need to answer that? Since this is my first official post here. I hope I have done this properly.

Well the girls age is what bothers me if there was a 15yr old in the room working throw the book at this jackass. There is no place in this hobby for guys or girls who use underage kids to benifit from it is just plain WRONG. I know if I go somewhere and the girl looks at all under aged I bail.

No one is going to disagree with being disgusted by this behaviour. However, what I find interesting is that we have this obsession based on a legal standard determined by a universal biological/chronological number. If she just turned 18, it's ok - but 2 weeks before that it's wrong. There's a lot of girls between the ages of 18-22 that aren't emotionally mature enough to be working in an adult business. But since it's ok LEGALLY, we accept it. Food for thought... Posted via Mobile Device

I thought I start this thread as our strip bar section has become very active (a pleasant surprise on my return to cerb). This ranking is an update on my post last year (A comparative review of strip bars) and of course is meant to be FROM CUSTOMER'S PERSPECTIVE and not dancer's. 1 - Pigale Moved up to first place in my ranking. Yes, recently I was amazed with Pigale. first time there in more than a year and they have changed for better. They have attracted beautiful model like dancers and the club itself has become liberal. The CRs are downstairs and rarely anyone checks in. The corner CRs are very private. I was there recently and was taken by surprise when I noticed the change for the better. It is a classy SC with beautiful semi-nude angels all around. That is how heaven should like:smile:. 2 - Barbarellas - Comes second to Pigale in this updated review. It is still a classy Strip bar with beautiful young ladies. The CRs are not as good or private as they used to be before the introduction of the so called Open CR concept in Ontario side of NCR. 3 - Taboo - Moves up to third place. The ladies may not be all model like as they are in Pigale or Barbs or not as young or beautiful, but the CR is still fairly private, at least daytime (remains high mileage) and a few friendly and many open-minded dancers still there. This strip bar is not as classy as top two and needs customer service improvement (by the people running the bar not ladies are fine). As someone suggested a combo pact of Taboo/Pigale (closely located to each other) may be best, though expensive. Please let us know which are the top three strip bars in Ottawa- Gatineau, in your view.

A great bigThank You for the great time i had in your wonderful butt freezing cold city..he he... A very special thank you for the gifts for the kiddies...i have donated them to the Salvation Army in Ottawa..i decided to donate them there after seeing the Ottawa news the other night ...i think they said they help something like 11,000 kids...so you have done a great deed gentelemne...Thanks:bowdown:

An interesting thread and I would propose that there are probably three types of guys who hobby. The "regular guy" who hobbies occasionally for whatever the reason. He does it once in a while, may have a few favourites, and is satisfied with the the infrequent experience. Then there are those others who are frequent hobbiests. The first of those are the true sex addicts, those who cannot control their impulses and who resort to whatever means necessary to get their "fix". When their need outstrips their means to procure the fix, problems occur. Usually that may involve ripping someone off, or spending way beyond their means, thus causing difficulties in their private lives. What is disturbing is that since they are driven to get their fix, another wise "nice guy" could cause problems when he doesn't have the means. This could mean violence, which is scary. In another life I worked in an environment where there was a high incidence of alcohol abuse. One of the key factors in deciding whether a person was an alcoholic or just a "heavy drinker", for want of a better term, was whether or not their use of alcohol caused problems in the rest of their life. (e.g. spousal abuse, problems with the law, poor performance at work, chronic absenteeism etc) In my opinion, this is the same as the true Sex Addict that has been described in Annessa's and other posts. However, I believe they are a very small minority in the hobby. The other, and more numerous type is those who have a strong sex drive and are prone to impulsive behaviour. They are one's who know that at certain times, they probably shouldn't be "making a date" or hobbying, but will do it because of a strong impulsive desire or the fear of missing an opportunity for something unique. They will not resort to extreme means, will generally check finances, and judge the "pros and cons", but will find what it is they are seeking. They act relatively responsibly, and show respect for others. They generally don't become a problem. They aren't sex addicts, they are just constantly horny. :lol: Just my 2 cents, based on life experience and a couple of University psych courses. LOL

Truthfully, as embarrassing as this is, I was on anti-depressants some years back, to help me get through some very rough years. The ENTIRE time I was on these pills, I had ZERO sex drive. So from the time I was 27 to 32, I was celibate. I swear to you it's true. Some might say I'm making up for lost time, I say it's a combination of no more sex-drive-killing pills, and hitting my sexual peak. I love sex, every minute of it, and I've certainly lived without it. But why? Life is far too short to avoid things that make you feel naturally good. Who needs drugs when we have all those incredible orgasms?

interesting thread topic. I will say that I have dealt with some clients who are serious sex addicts and this is no laughing matter...it can be very dangerous. Trusted clients (whom I would almost call lovers) would turn from good people to crooks overnight. i remember when i didnt even smoke yet used to be the in-between as a teenager for a friend who sold pot and other things.....the return clients who would prove honest at first would eventually come back and ask for weekly fronts......delay paying because their wallet got stolen/ they were waiting for a cheque to come in/ got ripped off by their boss/ whatever story they had to not pay.....an uncontrolled addiction ....which is an oxymoron in itself (of ANYthing) will cause any honest person to burn whatever bridge possible to get what they want eventually...as every addiction has a price. whether it leads to a client digging himself and his family into debt, or not paying his escort, or even worse, becoming a threat to an escort for his lack of respect due to his needs......sexual addiction is VERY serious and generally has very serious results Just because you like the hobby or can't imagine your life without it does NOT make you an addict. losing control over your hobbying and taking advantage of others involved to feed your needs......thats something to worry about...and THATS addiction. we have heard many stories of SPs who trust a regular and leave the money on the table on for the client to replace some $50 bills with canadian tire money when they're not looking addiction states that you dont have a control over your hobby......there are plenty of ppl on this board who are able to keep up with their hobbying.....just because its a sweet "high" and difficult not to repeat doesn't really nail someone as a sex addict.....just the same some of us SPs thrive on the thrill of the idea of being mysterious sex-objects out on a mission of pleasure to strangers each evening.......it doesnt mean we are slaves to our turn ons and we will never put ourselves in harm's way despite our love for sex and our job. funny, I just watched the movie "The girlfriend Experience" (the movie filmed from the client's perspective" and I irked when he talked about the constant need and "going on binges" looking for street-walkers which lead to him eventually stalking a GFE.........that didn't play the role of the more respected client at all! there are so many degrees of being a hobbyist and being a sex adict is a totally different ball-game.....and a recipe for disaster or a plead for help or a proper intervention if you ask me I completely cringe when I see an SP post that shes a horny sex addict or a member jest that they have needs and are sex addicts.......sexual addiction, as buggernot said so perfectly, is more than a need for intimacy. it may start off that way but a true addict will eventually put everything and anything that really SHOULD matter (be it family, or even the women they are supposed to be paying as SPs) as a secondary priority to their selfish addiction. True clients who have needs generally know that being selfish will not land you a repeat date.......I have cut off men who I see as being consumed by a sexual addiction as it is a red flag for problems in the future I've learned many lessons about when to notice the signs, read the excuses of a trusted client. I know better now after being ripped off an over 1k chunk last month by a retainer client who saw too many girls at a time to keep up to what his pocket could manage. Ironically i found out later from a friend that he bought coke behind my back when we were out at a club...then tried to get his money back after he had done most of it because the quality was apparently sub-par. generally when an addict is faced with the invoice for what they owe there will be every and any reason to try and barter or play down the service they have received as a final plea to not have to own up to what they walked into willingly from the start.....drugs, sex, (tempted to say "rock and roll" lol), a once trusted relationship will always be thrown out the window due to money (or lack thereof) addiction tends to present itself in many forms (as I mentiond above).......generally a client who is an addict has little respect in the end for his so-called favorite SP. And an addict usually will be the one to rip a girl off or cut his losses because its not like we're a collection agency that will follow them to the grave, right? just my two (or three) cents

Well, my reasoning was very simple. Kiltman means I wear kilts...a lot. I wear them as everyday "going-out-and-about" clothing. They're comfortable and I think they look great. And women just seem to love them! K...