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I am a big fan of DATY, and when I find the right way to please my partner, the mutual pleasure is huge. For me, the key is to listen to the other with what she says and what she expresses in her body. Techniques, and the "how to..." way to perform DATY, put that activity as if it was a mecanical way to give pleasure. IMO, the first organ of sex is your mind, and the the way you care for eachother is the main way to live a special moment with your partner. And DATY is for sure one of the most intimate activity, that's why I feel privileged when a SP allow that level of intimacy. Even, with the same person, the "techniques" of DATY may not produce the same results; nothing is automatic. Everything is in the manner you get into the relationship, the chemistry of the moment. An SP is a real person that has real feelings and sensitivity, body and soul, and reacts differently with different persons. In every relationship, there is a mystery zone that has to be explored; the discovery of the other is part of the experience. In some occasions, the DATY part of my encounters gave us, the Sp and I, a very high level of pleasure that I will remember the rest of my life.

oh you can only comment when you're giving reputation points??

I am on your side Emma. Besides, morning sex is wonderful!!!

I am in complete agreement with Cat. Also, could you pretty please not suck it like its a penis. Mine in particular :) If you are rough, it is not pleasurable at all. No biting, no dry stimulation, no hard sucking, soft, gentle, teasing, slow, til the girl is ready is the best approach I think. I think with me, you get better effect, if you completely ignore the obvious places. My back, nape, and bum (round part, lol) areas are very sensitive to soft kisses, licks, touches and nibbles. Then zoom in for the gold. Guaranteed to fall head over heels in lust. That said, :) Some working girls hate it, some love it, some pretend, some don't, some allow it, some won't. We are just like real women in the real world, lol

I enjoyed your disclaimer mypleasure. I speak only for myself, but I enjoy a receiving from a guest if he approaches it properly. Properly for me means that he doesn't focus on my clitoris, but pays attention to the other parts of my cookie. The clitoris is a nerve center and it needs blood flow to achieve stimulation. Over stimulate and it just gets painful. I am not a 0-100 in 60 kinda girl. I like to warm up the engine, slide into the ride and then relish every curve in the road. I know you men don't like to but ASK FOR DIRECTIONS!!!!!!! Every woman is different and unless you know her body, you need to ask and then LISTEN!!!!!!!! And NO TEETH!!!!!! Biting or chewing is only appropriate if she asks you to do it. As for the psychobabble questions, every girl is different. You will have to ask each of us as you meet us! cat

Tracie! Mod is not protecting the agency. He is protecting all 3,670 active members of this board. We are all open to these type of accusations and it is all to easy to slander someone. I know your heart is in the right place but you need to take a step back from this. All the best

There are ways to promote yourself that don't involve denouncing others. What is regular to you is not regular to others. The point is to advertise and offer what you want without judging others. At the end of the day, you can't know what most people think, and you can't presume to know what services are marked 'regular' or not. If what is really important to you is what your clients think, there is no reason to judge other sps. What makes this board unique is the cross-sexual-culture of the members, and the encouragement and acceptance of difference.

I wish more couples were open like you are. That's so excellent! It feels good to confide in someone, eh? So my story, which I've told before, but goes like this. My mother and my sister know, but my father, grandparents, etc do not. Here in Ottawa, where I live, I'm out to everyone I know and people you have random conversations with and they ask, "what do you do for a living?" I always answer that I work as an escort. So my hairdresser knows, my waxer knows, multiple classes of students at the University of Ottawa and Carleton, as well as some of my professors. When you are sometimes asked to give guest lectures on the subject of sex work, you can hardly be "in the closet" about what you do. Why do I put myself out there? Because I personally believe that the more of the general population that is educated as to the variety of experience and diversity of human beings who participate in this industry, the more I can change public perception of whores/hookers/escorts/courtesans/sexual healers/sex workers/service providers. Oh and when I told my mom, she said, "I'm impressed that you have the courage to take advantage of such a goldmine." True story.