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I'm curious to hear from the SPs how valued regular clients are. In the traditional 'business world' many companies are seeing that it is greater value to retain existing clients than try and attract new ones. Does any of this apply to the hobby world? To what degree do SPs value and try and retain regulars? From a client standpoint and speaking only for me I can say that I feel a huge loyalty to the SPs I've made a connection with in my short time exposed to this. I view it as a business relationship with huge personal/emotional/physical attributes and wonder if the value I place in those relationships is shared. Guys feel free to chime in with your views on loyalty to a given lady.

The idea for this question comes from the movie "Chloe". In the movie, Julianne Moore's character asks Amanda Seyfried, who played the escort in the move, "How do you do it". Amanda Seyfried's character answers: "I try to find something to love in every client I meet" (Note: Since I am quoting from memory the quote may not be quite exact, although I think I got it right because I found it to be the most memorable line from the movie). I would like to put aside the somewhat condescending nature of the question asked in the movie, and opt for a more narrow interpretation. I would therefore like to ask the ladies of CERB: How are you able to bring yourself to provide your usual level of quality service to clients whom you find unattractive or downright repulsive? Before ending this post I would like to relate a personal antidote to illustrate my perception of how difficult I believe it may be for an SP to service an unattractive client. On the surface this antidote may seem only peripherally relevant to my post. However, it's purpose is to provide an idea of my empathy for how an SP must feel when dealing with an unattractive client. After graduating from university my first job was in the Toronto area. I had lived there for only a month and didn't know anyone in the city when I ran a 10K. After the race a quite average looking (plain Jane type) woman, 10 years older than myself, starting hitting on me and we ending up spending the day together. At the end of the day she asked me if I wanted to come back to her place to have sex, and I said no. I was a painfully shy person. At the time I did not have a girlfriend, I had not had sex for months, I did not know anyone in the city and was painfully lonely, I was acutely aware that she herself was also desperately lonely, because of her age I knew she was in her sexual peek and could have taught me a lot, and I felt bad for rejecting her. Yet, I said no to her because I felt zero attraction for her and could not be intimate with someone whom I had no attraction for. She was not repulsive in any way, just ordinary looking, but if felt repulsive to me to be intimate with someone for whom I felt no attraction, despite all the extenuating circumstances which I have just enumerated. The fact that I felt zero attraction for her trumped everything else. I have related this story to give you an idea of my interpretation of how repulsive it must feel to an SP to have to service an unattractive client. Getting back to my question to the ladies of CERB: How are you able to bring yourself to provide your usual level of quality service to clients whom you find unattractive or downright repulsive? How are you able to deal with the psychological dissonance you must feel from having to service an unattractive or repulsive client? Do you have a specific philosophy or approach which helps you deal with these particular situations? Thanks,

ON The Girlfriend Experience: This is my first post, but I've been a long time reader of the boards,..and I've probably seen about half a dozen different SP's over the years, all via this site,... They've all lived up to my expectations. I just haven't done any reviews before, because even though I've enjoyed myself during my past encounters with other girls, I just never felt the desire to repeat. There was just always something artificial about those interactions. Aside from a few good experiences, most of the time I felt like the SP just wanted me to release, and get me out...Things just felt contrived, most of the time., Of course, this didnt happen all the time, but something was always missing from my past encounters, which would leave me feeling unfulfilled on a mental level. I don't how she did it, but Alannah has changed the game for the better. I was lucky enough to see her twice during her time in Ottawa, and I am already preparing to see her again. It's been said before, but just to be clear, she is a knock-out. Model looks. Easily the best looking SP I have ever had the opportunity to meet. Beautiful from head to toe. Somehow, there is still something very natural about her, ... she is really grounded, and modest, and really makes you feel comfortable. ...it might have something to do with those eyes. If you've read her posts, or seen her albums, you'll know she likes to write. She is a great communicator, and can talk intelligently about lots of different topics. I have got to say, if you are smart, you will book her for at least a couple of hours, so you can pick her brain and get to know her for a little while, before you move into the bedroom...Trust me, it will only make what happens next even more memorable, .. After spending some time with her over a drink, we got closer and began to play. All of a sudden, you see another side to her, that is completely irresistible. Guys, you will not be dissapointed in the least. It is a completely Safe GFE, YMMV, but it is so hot, that you won't want to stop. I find sometimes girls just tune out in the bedroom, and go lifeless, or are just really bad actors. Alannah is the complete opposite., She is there to please, and her attention is always on you, And after getting to know her, it is really easy to want to reciprocate. You can tell she wants to enjoy herself too.. And she communicates even in the bedroom, .And I can't tell you how good it feels to still hear her whispers and compliments ringing in my ears, even after our time together. I don't want to get into details, but use your imagination when I tell you, this was the best safe GFE I have EVER had, and probably ever will. She just makes the experience so much fun, that you have to repeat. You will forget you are with an SP, and you might even feel like she is something more.... I gotta say, this is Alannah's biggest asset.. Her personality just changes the whole experience, and makes the playtime completely unforgettable.. Our second encounter actually exceeded my expectations, so I am really looking forward to seeing her again, ... She is full of energy, .. I don't even know how she did some of the stuff she did, ..I was in heAven... She really gives meaning to GFE, and delivers on all fronts. She makes you feel she wants to see you again too. She really is special guys, so treat her well. Shower her with your praise, and don't miss out. If you haven't seen her yet, ..send her an e-mail,and save your money,and energy) . b/c she will be back. Holy God,.. I can't wait .. ps...-good job to all the other reviewers. all touched on things i might have skipped, but they are all right. from the first phone call,you'll be intrigued. i really hope this review expresses what a treasure she is.. brokenbells, aka, Mr. Noodles **************** Dennis 'Cutty' Wise: The game done changed... Slim Charles: Game's the same, just got more fierce.

"How do you do it?" It's the question I have been asked most often about my work. People so often get caught up in the reality they see in front of them. Everything around us seems real, but in reality is truly an illusion. A persons physical body is not an accurate indication of who they are, it is simply the matter that houses the essence. We all have the same biological makeup, but some are more visually appealing than others. Does ones external appearance change the spirit inside? No, it doesn't. I see every person as a sexual being and I know intimacy is one of life's most neglected needs and is an integral part of maintaining personal wellness. I provide a service to people who are not having their needs met, and how they look on the outside is not a factor in choosing my guests. It is easy for me to enjoy someone who doesn't fit the society's current ideal because it's not the outside I'm interested in, its the inside. I know this sounds very Pollyanna, but it is true for me. Its the essence of people that hook me, not the appearances. I know better than to judge a book by the cover... cat

I have been a member of CERB for almost a year now. I am also a member of several other escort review boards. The purpose of this post is to compliment CERB and it's members on the overall friendless of this site. I have found that on other sites one has to be careful what one says when posting in order to avoid angry replies or PMs, It is almost seems as if that there are a lot of people on the other boards who have been skipping their anger management classes. It is therefore refreshing to be able to post on CERB and not have to worry about flames and arrows in reply. I have found that the members of CERB are friendly, helpful and responsive. CERB is definitely living up to it's motto of a providing a positive and friendly environment, I would also like to make special mention of the ladies of CERB. I find the participation of the ladies of CERB to be exemplary. The ladies of CERB come across as thoughtful, considerate and genuine, I sincerely believe that if we could find a formula whereby the average citizen could hear what the ladies of CERB have to say, it would go a long way towards changing society's view of sex workers and sex work in general.

I find phrases like saggy tits, average, overweight, chubby and limited sexiness are very subjective terms and should used with great caution. Saggy to some are pendulous to others and very sought after. What is average? Overweight and chubby are hurtful at best. Limited sexiness? WTF? Maybe there simply was no chemistry. Sexy takes two to happen. These girls have access to this material and I for one would be deeply offended if I were to read this about myself. Women already struggle with body image, this kind of description is unnecessary. It is why we have PM's. There is something to be said for tact and good taste. Cat