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Recommendation- Soleil: When I 1st got in contact with Soleil, it was a different kind of situation for me. You see, I am a 24 year old male who has Cerebral Palsy and am confined to a wheelchair. At this time I was a virgin and was thinking that I was never going to lose my virginity. My life is really hard and there is not much joy in it. I had been talking with several Sp?s, and had actually been told by one of them that Soleil would be good for my situation. Let me tell you, I am so happy the sp I was talking with, Recommended her form me. Upon receiving Soleil?s name I sent her an email explaining my situation, and within the hour she replied back, within the hor. At this point I knew things were off to a good start. I told her that I had a disability and was in a wheelchair, she was fine with that. It was amazing. She wanted to know all about me and my needs before our time together. She really cares about her work. This was the 1st time in my life that a woman and her beauty and intelligence, wanted to me with me. Here is another point that shows she cares about her clients. With me having a disability, it is pretty much impossible for me to travel. So, she came to me, sounds simple enough, right? The only catch is that I live 4 hours away from the city. This was not a problem for her, at all. When she asked me where I lived I got very afraid, that she was going to tell me that she could not come and see me. The truth is she was excited about the challenge to come and see me. She knew that I need some happiness in my life, and she was not let distance stand in her way. That is a true description of an ?OutCall? She is truly a great person. Without her having such a great personality, there is no way this would have ever happened for me. Before our night together, I would sometimes email her up to 3 times per day with questions, and/or comments. She replied to every one of them. This really put my mind at ease. When Soleil arrived at my door, it was truly a sight to behold. She is an absolutely stunning woman. Her Eyes, legs Breasts, and hot body, are just a few of her attributes, there are many more. She gave me a hug and our night got underway. I must say something before I continue you. Being intimate with me is not an easy thing what so ever. She even helped me urinate (go to the washroom) throughout the night. She was great. This was such a nice feeling for me, trust me helping me go to the bathroom, is not as easy thing to do. Even though this was her 1st time doing this, it was like she had done it 1000 times before. Taking off my garments is not easy at all, ether, due to my very tight muscles. She still did it with a huge smile on her face. During all of this it is very hard for me with my disability, to look ?sexy? Soleil, however, treated me like I was the sexiest man alive. She helped feed/ drink water throughout the night as well, as we had snacks. (trust me, I needed the food and water, lol) My hands do not work well. So, I need help with everything this was so nice of her...... Remarkable.... she did not get upset or anything, just wanted to know what she could do next to help me. By her helping me with ALL of my needs I cancelled my homecare staff, and it was just me and her for the whole night. 2nd, have a slight speech impairment that makes me hard to understand. With Soleil however, she understood everything I said. We did some stuff in my power chair. 1st I am not going to go into detail, but it was magical. What happened next was truly amazing to me. Well, we moved to my bed. Sounds normal enough, right? Not for me it isn?t. You see, I cannot stand up No; I must use a lift to transfer. I had told Soleil about this earlier in our conversations. She had no problem with it. Seeing it in person can me a much different thing. She did not mind in the least, all I have to say is WOW!!!!!!!!!. This is not an easy thing to, but she helped me with no problems. After we got into the bed she helped move me around, as I cannot roll over, or anything. We then engaged in carnal relations, it was wonderful. After we were done, she gave me a sponge bath. We then slept in my bed for the night. Not before we talked and held each other. I could not ask for my 1st time to be anymore better. In the morning we woke each other up, so to speak, lol. Then she gave me a kiss goodbye, and was on her way. If you?re looking for a person, who puts her clients need?s 1st, and treats you like a king; she is the one for you. Not on did she help me lose my virginity, I have made a friend for life. Her name mean?s sunshine and this is what she has brought into my hard disabled life.

I have no idea how to start this particular post other than to simply say that you must read this recommendation and then take five minutes of your day to send Soleil a compliment! I for one, being a health care provider, know how cerebral palsy can affect someone's body. I believe she offered service where others may not have. So to Big Al it sounds as though you had a great time and made THE right decision on who to see. To Soleil you deserve a pat on the back if only for the four hour commute to and from the date. All the best to you both and Soleil if you are ever in my corner of the country dinner is on me!

Hey all! :smile: Just needed to get something off my chest here! :boobies: I have been receiving lots of phone calls and messages from people who have been asking things like "What services do you provide?" "What are your rates?" "Do you do in-calls?", etc...:confused: Please people...I'm begging you.... :???: please take the time to read the info you find before contacting someone... I get contacts that I know can only find me online because I don't advertise anywhere else, and then they begin bombarding me with a ton of questions that I know they can find the answers to right in front of them. :idea: I have had two hang-ups even, because I start to tell these folks to look at my site for the info, because I prefer to not talk too much business over the phone...guess a girl with a brain intimidates some people lol! :lol: I do understand that CERB has limited information on profiles...but bless them for giving us this place to be able to talk about things like this and keep some decorum in the profession! But I do have links to my website all over the place and it is easy to find. I really would like it if you could look over more then just the photos and then call or message me. If there is something you would like to know about me that isn't posted on the site , by all means go ahead and ask! I don't bite...unless asked! :-D But almost everything you would need to make a well informed decision is there for you to see, and then the finer details can be worked out when contact is made. Don't get me wrong...I enjoy the conversations I have with the people who contact me. :motion: But I would rather spend the time talking about other things that would make the meeting we have even better. So, anyway, that's pretty much all I have to say about that! :-P Any feedback is appreciated as well! Thanks all! :eek: Julie

I have been reading about big AL and Soleil events and posts over the last few days, and was brought to a new found level of admiration to both people involved.....actually now 3 people thanks to one silent generous person. I would like to see if we (CERB) could do something for at least 2 of the people involved. You see big AL put himself out there and opened his life and let us in to something very personal and incredibly brave in his life....... Soleil showed here true heart and her love of life by being part of big Al's life...... I feel both these people should be thanked for sharing this with us and by possibly opening some of our eyes and hearts. I would like to ask to see who would help support the idea of having 2 awards bestowed on 2 very special individuals without having to wait for multiple threads and weeks of voting Soeil.........Service Provider Award big Al........Valued Memebr Award All who agree please add your your comment

NOTE: I was writing this while Shavez posted the above post... Ladies: Bluntly put... A lot of guys call you to see what you voice sounds like, to get a feel for what your personality is like over the phone, to see how professional you conduct yourself, to see if your sweet or rude/cold. etc... they probably read your ad and know the answers they are asking, chances are they just want to "Feel you out" to see if you sound nice!! If your site answers all his questions it may leave very little to ask you over the phone... but the phone call to some of the guys is very important. I am sure most of them DID read your info and site (Sure some don't and those guys are really just idiots and jerks) but many of the guys just want to feel you out a little to see if you sound as sexy as you look to them in the photos. It could also be a first timer who is nervous... MANY reasons exist for this to happen - bait and switch ads on CL is a perfect example... many of the guys are probably SICK of being lied to and they no longer trust the crap info on the ads - they are going to ask everyone questions to see if they slip up too... if you advertise on places where you know they have a lot of BAD advertisers you can expect this MORE!! (CL). The smarter business women know to be kind, polite, flirty, sexy and use this opportunity to "real in the catch" when someone calls them asking questions - Sorry for the phrase but it's true... you got a fish on the hook are you going to let him go easily or reel him in and land the catch!! This is your time to shine and seam the deal! Some companies pay MILLIONS of dollars a year to get consumers to call them and ask questions about products. All the info could be online but companies know that it's a lot easier to sell on the phone or in person (especially with a good sales person on the phone). ... I am not saying you should chat with the guys for hours but a few minutes to land the deal is not a bad thing and unless you are a playboy playmate (or similar) and can get tons of bookings off your photos along you do need to include personality in the mix to land the deal... and it's part of a successful business. If you have the model looks and the personality to boot - look out as your going to be very busy but than again if you don't have the centerfold looks but are a sweetheart and can make the guy feel like a million bucks your going to be very popular with lots of regular clients! If you tell a guy who calls to hear your voice to go to your website instead of talking on the phone with him your pretty much saying "stop wasting my time" (We all know a lot of ladies do this) and I don't blame anyone for hanging up on a person who does this. If I call a company for information and they don't want to answer my questions over the phone... Screw'em! I am going to someone who does offer a more personal service and will take the time to answer my questions. For the ladies who do this and wonder why the other ladies get more appointments and a lot more recommendations it's because your pretty much telling them to go find someone else. I get complaints ALL THE TIME about ladies who are rude to the guys (The guys feel they need to tell me about this all the time in PM's and my reply to them is - good indication to find someone else who is not rude or bitchy to you right?) Some guys (Not all) but some NEED this first phone call to entice them enough to book time with you. I understand you may be busy at the time the phone rings but for heavens sake be nice to the guy, don't answer the phone when you can't talk in quiet and openly, have a sexy intriguing voice message so to add to his fantasy and make sure he comes back... your not selling just sex (especially those who do GFE) your selling a whole package (Sex appeal, lust, eroticism, fantasy, etc) If you do answer the phone and don't have time to answer the questions make sure you leave him wanting more and wanting to call you back. Say I am sorry I would love to talk but I can not right now can you call me back in 20 minutes and I will make some time for you to answer any questions you have... if you sweet and sexy he is going to call back and if you are polite and intriguing on the phone you will probably land the call. It surprises me how some ladies answer their business phone. Sometimes you hear screaming kids, sometimes you here people in the background yelling, some ladies answer the phone sounding like you just woke them up, some sound like they just smoked 50 cigarettes, loud music in the background, and worst of all some ladies (and agencies) are FAR from polite... Still after all these years BLOWS MY MIND but this happens to our staff all the time. On the flip side... You have the ones who answer the phone very sweet, they are super kind and inviting... often bubbly, you know they are genuine good hearted soles, those are the ladies who really stand out and I am sure the ones you have the multiple page recommendations on here for as well. The phone call is just part of the experience for many guys. Does she sound sexy? Does she sound sweet? Is she warm or cold/abrupt? The phone call is a way for the guy to say "I am interested enough to call you now sell me on your services so I will book an appointment with you". Some of you think that your website or photos and text should be enough (maybe it is for some but many need to hear your voice and feel you out over the phone first). You do need to be able to feel out the time wasters and the non-serious guys but that is just part of the business... everyone gets these guys too. Answer 1 or 2 quick questions than take control of the conversation... steer the conversation with something like "How did you find my number?" and "Do you like my photos?" or even to the point "When would you like to come see me I have some time open tomorrow at noon??" (Be in control but be sexy and intriguing) ... by this time they have heard your voice and your personality and if they continue to ask questions that are on the ad where they found you they may be a time waster or maybe they are shy and nervous still. If you rush them, brush them off, send them away to read your info like you don't have time to answer a few simple questions on the phone... they are going to assume a date with you will go pretty much the same way!! EWE!!!! You have to land the deal at the phone call time and know when they are wasting your time so you can move on if need to. It's not easy, it is the art of seduction. If you think they are dragging out the call it's your last chance to land the deal but let them know if they want more they must book some time with you. Something like "I am sorry but I have an appointment right now and have to run, I would love to see you so how bout you give me a call when your ready to come see me??" If you did the job they will set up an appointment right on the spot at that moment or they may call you back in a few days after they spend some nights fantasizing about how wonderful you SOUND! This phone call is your chance to LAND the DEAL and it is why you spend all the time making ads (and paying for ads on high traffic sites and newspapers). The ads can only go so far... that phone call is often what lands the deal so don't blow it by being rude or cold or having screaming kids or mood killing distractions like screaming people or loud music in the background! EWE!! Guys... am I wrong? How much of that initial phone calls lands the deal or not for you? How many of you have been turned off of a lady because of how that phone call went?

Hi Julie, I think that you don't understand what is happening here. The potential client is listening to you ; I mean really listening to you. Often not so much what you are saying but but what you are telling them with the way you are saying it. Hell anyone can write an ad. I could write your ad; but only you can tell me about you. When I contact a lady I alway want to talk. My decission is never made until we talk, it doesn't matter what her picture looks like or her list of service. It is alway the conversation that sells her so don't undersell yourself. Take a few minutes to talk. Remember it is often not the facts but the story that sells the book. Happy selling

If I may, I'd like to first thank everyone sincerely for the accolades. For me, the chance to bring some much needed joy into BigAl's life was an incredible opportunity, and I never considered for a moment not to do it. However, I would like to divert the attention from myself, and let you all know about someone else in this situation, who's altruism has restored my faith in the generosity of man. During the 'Dis/Abled Clientele' thread started by the tenderhearted Erin xo, BigAl mentioned he only receives $372 a month for disability. A fellow compassionate Cerbite, from Winnipeg, offered and donated $300 towards BigAl's next visit from me. November 2nd, his 25th birthday. Now this member has requested to remain anonymous, but his sympathy and understanding towards BigAl's financial difficulties, and the kindness and generosity he has shown myself and BigAl, deserves to be noted. With this members permission, I informed BigAl of his early Birthday gift. As you can well imagine, it made BigAl's day, and then some. A former stranger has now become a dear friend, and they'll probably never meet. But this is the sort of selflessness that makes my eyes tear. Some of you have sent me PMs to personally congratulate me. I am touched by my fellow Cerbites' warmth and compassion, but BigAl is the real hero in this story, not me.

A new book came out about a month ago called the Book of Awesome. It is the natural extension of a blogger's project to list 1000 awesome things... not stuff like the Sistine Chapel ceiling (which I must admit is awesome) or the Grand Canyon (also awesome.) He started the blog and book when things were going downhill in his life and needed to see simple things that made him smile. This list has stuff like "popping bubble wrap," "the cold side of the pillow," "the smell of air in a bakery." Simple stuff that makes you smile... sooooo... let's try this out.... Here goes: 1. The feel of twirling soft hair between my fingers 2. A seductive whisper 3. A kiss with a sweet aftertaste. 4. A unexpected smile from a stranger. 5. Something so funny it makes you pee (just a little bit) 6. A steak cooked to perfection. 7. A great hair day 8. The first time she says, "I love you." (that was sappy but how can you argue with it?) 9. An ice cold beer on a hot day 10. An obscure song that just takes you back to that perfect day. your turn!!!!

This leads to some good questions... Maybe a worthy poll if someone wants to create one for this topic? For instance... 1) How many people just look at the photos and don't really read the details? I know some ladies write PAGES of info (Overwhelming) others don't write enough (This may scare some people away) some use amazing well written text, others use bad language and punctuation (some have language barriers as well) 2) Do you (the guys) feel you need to be reassured? How many people do not trust the text? Have read stuff on ladies profiles only to find out that those services (Like the video service that was mentioned) were actually not on the menu (or worse... they ripped you off)? Maybe this is a big reason for the questions as well... other ladies who are not very honest in the text are wrecking this for everyone as the general population is loosing trust in your ads. 3) Do you call the lady just to hear her voice and to "feel her out" over the phone? 4) Do you call to see if she has a sexy voice?? I remember a lady about 10 years ago who advertised with one of our sites. Her photos were stunning (10/10 easy) and she called our office to make a payment and I answered the phone and was SHOCKED. She was a VERY nice lady but it sounded like she was speaking through a voice box. She emailed us at the end of the month to tell us she was disappointed as she did not get many bookings from the site. I asked her if she got many calls and she said yes but they did not book her (She didn't seam to realize that her voice was turning guys away obviously). A sexy voice would go a LONG way in this business. This topic opens up a lot of spin off discussions. The ladies in this business don't have a outlet for formal training on how to answer phones for this business... and many of the agencies (Remember most of the ladies get into this business by either friends or agencies) are agencies are often not setting a good example of how to run a business properly. Many of these ladies copy the agency and inherit the agencies ethics assuming this is how it's done in this business. Maybe we need someone to produce a DVD for Canadian escorts with some "How to" guides!! - Honestly that may not be a bad idea.... how to place ads, ethics of the business, how to answer the phones, email, texting, voice mail, how to seal the deal, how to schedule your appointments, what to say when... etc... (Probably have some legal issues in certain topics but this could really help some of the new ladies and the ladies who are struggling with different aspects of the business) I have script software from another project I worked on for a sort of clone site like the YAHOO-ANSWERS site (where you ask the question and the community helps answer the questions and you vote on who gave the best answer so that when someone else asks the question the answers show up with the best answer on top). I wonder if something like this be beneficial for our industry? I think it may!

Which is why review boards exist. Stop taking one for the team and learn from other's experiences. I have shot what's called content exchange with other porn actors and never received the footage... so I no longer shoot that way unless I also provide my own camera man. It's frustrating for sure but you learn. It's completely normal to live in the moment and once you get home you let other things get in the way. How many people forget to return a library book on time or a video? Film it yourself and then you're sure you have it. Such is true in any line of work.. not just the hobby. yeah.. it's called listening to your voice and jerking off on the other end of the line. We don't get paid for that :butt:

I agree with you...Some of us did put a lot of energy in a informative website and while it may be only one question from a guy...making by X20 it is a lot of time consuming repeating the same thing and where the info is already on website.You may be happily surprise to find out thing on that website about the provider that you didnt know.So please help us helping you..Click on the link:razz:8-)

Yes Angela, you are correct....American channels only allow access to Americans. You can view a great number of shows shown on CTV, Global, CityTv, Showcase and CBC online however...I find those channels give me more than I could ever keep up with!

My personal view is that if we have met and i did enjoy my time with you it is a courtesy and i way of showing my appreciation of previous "bussiness" from you to reply to her reference request with the positive comments so you can get to meet her and meanwhile it is to keep sp community safe. It is only normal that guys go see different providers and it is not because your are going to see that person that i am losing you as a potential client in the future..You may visit me back in the future maybe not but i am sure sharing you :)could only bring positive toward me. VJ

Nothing better than sucking off that gorgeous cock he is stroking in your face the second your eyes open up....WHAT IS WRONG WITH THESE WOMEN???? I LOVE MORNING SEX!!!!