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I think JoyfulC deserves special recognition as she started one of the first review Boards . Lyla's list was my first introduction to getting useful information on SPs/ MPAs.It existed long before TERB and CERB. Before Lyla's List, it was hit and miss in the Ottawa Sun. Thanks JoyfulC

I think incall vs. outcall matters in this regard as well. With the quotes you provided I would have thought that about half were incall and the other half were outcalls and some of the "gifts" are more about the specific engagement. In this industry as much as anything else you really just need to apply common courtesy and do as you are comfortable with. If she has come to your location you are the host, offer her water at a minimum and if you and she both drink then maybe a wine or cocktail. If you've come to visit her at an incall it's generally good practice that she offers you a drink, water is the standard but you'll find that some ladies will stock wine, scotch, beer, etc. in order to enjoy a glass with a client (more common in extended dates). Sometimes these items are gifts, like Mr. Green who doesn't expect it to be consumed during the appt. but in general water, ice tea, juice, etc. are more a courtesy, part of being a good host. Other items, books, gift certificates, etc. are clearly gifts and as others mentioned it's not required but can go a long way to establishing a rapport with your date. It doesn't have to be something expensive, I've actually received some gifts that were pretty much free but their bringing it demonstrated a certain amount of caring and effort which can help with the YMMV scale on a first meeting. It's not about the gift itself but about the preparation, a client that took the time to look up my website (eg. like you did to see she prefers water) to make sure that he has that drink in easy reach, or to let me know he's read some of my posts (in order to see where my interests lie) is a client that has put some thought into our meeting. I usually feel safe that if he's made that kind of effort then he likely remembered to shower, clean up and will be respectful of my needs. I've had some interesting gifts in the past and it didn't matter what they spent, what I remember is the effort. I've had everything from a single carrot fresh from a garden (he knew I was a vegetarian), a burned CD with some favorite songs (we played it during the date), a copy of a clients dissertation that was printed off at his work (on a subject he knew I had interest in),a poem he recited (he knew I enjoy poetry), a book by the clients favorite author, to full weekends at a spa, cases of wine and cheese of the month subscriptions (mmmm... cheese!). One thing that I will say is that unless I have already established a relationship with the person something very expensive can make the recipient feel uncomfortable, if it's someone you haven't met and you want to start small and personal. Good luck on your first visit!

Recommendation- Soleil: When I 1st got in contact with Soleil, it was a different kind of situation for me. You see, I am a 24 year old male who has Cerebral Palsy and am confined to a wheelchair. At this time I was a virgin and was thinking that I was never going to lose my virginity. My life is really hard and there is not much joy in it. I had been talking with several Sp?s, and had actually been told by one of them that Soleil would be good for my situation. Let me tell you, I am so happy the sp I was talking with, Recommended her form me. Upon receiving Soleil?s name I sent her an email explaining my situation, and within the hour she replied back, within the hor. At this point I knew things were off to a good start. I told her that I had a disability and was in a wheelchair, she was fine with that. It was amazing. She wanted to know all about me and my needs before our time together. She really cares about her work. This was the 1st time in my life that a woman and her beauty and intelligence, wanted to me with me. Here is another point that shows she cares about her clients. With me having a disability, it is pretty much impossible for me to travel. So, she came to me, sounds simple enough, right? The only catch is that I live 4 hours away from the city. This was not a problem for her, at all. When she asked me where I lived I got very afraid, that she was going to tell me that she could not come and see me. The truth is she was excited about the challenge to come and see me. She knew that I need some happiness in my life, and she was not let distance stand in her way. That is a true description of an ?OutCall? She is truly a great person. Without her having such a great personality, there is no way this would have ever happened for me. Before our night together, I would sometimes email her up to 3 times per day with questions, and/or comments. She replied to every one of them. This really put my mind at ease. When Soleil arrived at my door, it was truly a sight to behold. She is an absolutely stunning woman. Her Eyes, legs Breasts, and hot body, are just a few of her attributes, there are many more. She gave me a hug and our night got underway. I must say something before I continue you. Being intimate with me is not an easy thing what so ever. She even helped me urinate (go to the washroom) throughout the night. She was great. This was such a nice feeling for me, trust me helping me go to the bathroom, is not as easy thing to do. Even though this was her 1st time doing this, it was like she had done it 1000 times before. Taking off my garments is not easy at all, ether, due to my very tight muscles. She still did it with a huge smile on her face. During all of this it is very hard for me with my disability, to look ?sexy? Soleil, however, treated me like I was the sexiest man alive. She helped feed/ drink water throughout the night as well, as we had snacks. (trust me, I needed the food and water, lol) My hands do not work well. So, I need help with everything this was so nice of her...... Remarkable.... she did not get upset or anything, just wanted to know what she could do next to help me. By her helping me with ALL of my needs I cancelled my homecare staff, and it was just me and her for the whole night. 2nd, have a slight speech impairment that makes me hard to understand. With Soleil however, she understood everything I said. We did some stuff in my power chair. 1st I am not going to go into detail, but it was magical. What happened next was truly amazing to me. Well, we moved to my bed. Sounds normal enough, right? Not for me it isn?t. You see, I cannot stand up No; I must use a lift to transfer. I had told Soleil about this earlier in our conversations. She had no problem with it. Seeing it in person can me a much different thing. She did not mind in the least, all I have to say is WOW!!!!!!!!!. This is not an easy thing to, but she helped me with no problems. After we got into the bed she helped move me around, as I cannot roll over, or anything. We then engaged in carnal relations, it was wonderful. After we were done, she gave me a sponge bath. We then slept in my bed for the night. Not before we talked and held each other. I could not ask for my 1st time to be anymore better. In the morning we woke each other up, so to speak, lol. Then she gave me a kiss goodbye, and was on her way. If you?re looking for a person, who puts her clients need?s 1st, and treats you like a king; she is the one for you. Not on did she help me lose my virginity, I have made a friend for life. Her name mean?s sunshine and this is what she has brought into my hard disabled life.