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First.....You never really know how much you love something/someone until it/they are no longer available!!!! CERB is the best community and missed when they have techical issues! That being said, on with my rant.... Why do you search for that someone there? Why do we post for that someone there? Lately it is full of bait and switch, nasty people and abhorent, malicious posts. Yet time and again, I keep seeing references to this horrid site right here on my precious CERB...."has anyone ever heard of so and so." From what I can tell, there is a plethora of beautiful, respected, intelligent women to choose from on CERB. It is a terrible fact that we must sometimes go to this hell hole in order to find hobbiests. Not only is it a fact but a lot of work. You not only find unsavory SP's and MP's there, but we ladies must weed threw the trash that contact us in order to find a decent man! Can we not all support the CERB community and show our support by "shopping locally"? Sorry, but today my disillusionment must have gotten the best of me! Happy CERBing to all!

Sorry, I disagree. Just because I post on CL, does not make me like those "other" girls. I believe CL is comprised of the people on it, and if we give in and stop advertising there because of the bad apples, then that's what it will be .... just bad apples. But we do have to accept that they are there and know we are swimming in shark infested water. I have complained about people posting fake ads, but is unfortunate, but I take that chance. I think guys are pretty smart to know that if ladies consistently post, mention CERB in their ad, then it not always gives them familiarity but it also promotes them to go to CERB. I also believe CERB clients know that if an SP is advertising in both places, she is probably legit, because the MOD, and Cowboy Kenny and other members are pretty on top of outing anyone posting fake pics or scamming. I do not have the liberty of just being able to rely on CERB for calls - I have met many nice men on CL, just as I have been pm'd by jerks on CERB. Not all men are jerks just because they go to CL...they have to be educated too and I have brought new members to CERB from CL. So I am one of those girls you can thank when those new CERB members who found me on CL call you (not you personally - I'm just making a point).

I agree and wholeheartedly support your post Meg. There is a caveat however... before you can appreciate how wonderful a Mercedes is, you really need to ride in a 1978 Ford Fiesta, a 1984 Lada or a Mercury Bobcat. Before you can appreciate the wonders of a Chateauneuf du Pape, you really need to compare it to a Baby Duck, Moody Blue or a Lonesome Charlie. Steve Miller once said "You know you got to go through hell, before you get to heaven." CERB is like that. You can't appreciate the wonderful community we have here without having seen what is on the "dark side." I have seen it... been horrified by it... and I am so happy to be here. So let's raise a glass of Bollinger's in the back of our Bentley and toast the finer things in life!

Shaved is sexy.. stubble is not.. I'm very sensitive ... I also shave every single day. I find that doing it in the bathtub seems to keep everything soft enough that I don't have ingrown hairs or cuts. A bonus to a guy shaving is it makes the cock look bigger without the shrubbery!

I think in these situations you need to think of this as your business, act professional, respectful and with integrity. I've had many clients that I have said no to in the past, some before we meet, some while we are together and some after our date. No one likes rejection and you can always get a little push back for your choice but if you are respectful of him as a person no one will question your integrity. Use I statements, don't reject a future encounter because of who he is let him know that it's because of who you are and your personal comfort levels. Be upfront and answer his questions directly, lying about the reason will read as false and just leave him wondering what he did (or what is wrong with you). Thank them, sincerely. They were kind enough to not only contact you but to show an interest in it again, that is a compliment in itself. As Emma said offer a suggestion of another lady or two; if your reasoning for not seeing him is simply the date didn't fall in range of what you are comfortable with then let him know what ladies might be better suited to his type of encounter. If of course you don't think that anyone will enjoy a date with him or you don't know anyone suited to his preferences then politely explain that. For future reference I believe the best situation is that if you are not having a good time during the date let him know then. It's much harder to hear that someone didn't enjoy your company, didn't share your interests and didn't speak up than to offer the opportunity to make the engagement better for both of you. Sometimes that means refunding and sending them on their way (as you won't find a middle ground) but more often than not you'll find something you both enjoy. Doing so will demonstrate your integrity and I've found most clients respect that. Very few people are truly interested in a one sided date where you are only going through the motions and in general those aren't the people you want to see. Instead speak up at the time, say "hey that's nice that you like that but it doesn't work for me, lets try this..." If you are really enjoying yourself then he'll find a pleasure in that.

I understand that people who don't know of other sites, or haven't heard of all the problems, or just want to see what's happening or get free advertising use the site. All that makes sense to me. What I don't get are those guys who talk about finding a "diamond in the rough" there. I mean, they do realize that those women aren't virgins waiting for that first man to e-mail them? Women on that site see just as many people as the others, they're not waiting for discovery- they've been discovered! It's like Christopher Columbus pretending he was the first "person" in America or something.

Yes! I tried to rep you but I have to spread it around, lol!

I have to admit, I'm a little disappointed with some of the guys' reactions to the topic at hand. A woman's period is totally natural. So what if there's a little blood involved? It's not a big deal :rolleyes:.

Well here in the Shire, it is spelled Hobbits.....

Well it was October 11, 1967 when the Penguins opened their arena with a loss to Montreal... and 43 years later... the Habs win the last game in the same arena... bookends. GOTTA LOVE IT HABS WIN HABS WIN HABS WIN!!!!!!!!! carry on...

I am not saying I'm one of them, but I know they are out there. They are out there for anything you can imagine. Think of something you don't like....somewhere someone else loves it! :-)

Nothing better than sucking off that gorgeous cock he is stroking in your face the second your eyes open up....WHAT IS WRONG WITH THESE WOMEN???? I LOVE MORNING SEX!!!!