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Right now I am only available during the day and where I advertise, I have the ability to be able to delete the ad which helps from having guys calling later on when I'm not available. I simply turn off the phone when I'm not around and also have set hours to answer emails. I don't hop, skip and jump for every email I get unless it is a pre-booked appt and I'm confirming for the next day. Usually emails that are sent to me are for advanced bookings and I know it can wait until the next morning. It is highly unlikely that a client will get back to you at 10 o'clock at night. As long as you reply to a client within 24 hours, I find that an acceptable business practice. Also, seperating your personal life from your work life makes sense and helps maintain your sanity. I don't see clients 24/7 so why bother having the phone on or constantly answering emails during my free time? People in other jobs and careers have set hours and then they go home. I have learned to do the same thing. Being an escort isn't easy and to those who think we just lie on our backs and make money... think again!!

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How many men who enjoy blow jobs also enjoy having their assholes handled? I'm sure some love it, and for a lot of men that is a no-go region. For you to assume otherwise shows a lack of respect for the woman you are with.

I'm an erotic dancer and I offer a private striptease with my massage. I know Jazy also does so. I don't think most strippers would offer a private striptease except to their regulars and they would probably charge a lot more than women here on CERB. The reason being, it's difficult to negotiate safety, a place, boundaries, etc. Now that I have that all worked out, I can charge a reasonable rate. When I was only an erotic dancer and not doing massage, I would have charged more than the regular rate of $20/song to meet someone outside of the club. Even now, I don't offer outcalls or striptease for more than one man (ie party, etc.). There is also the risk of legal trouble when meeting a client from a strip club outside of the club. It could be soliciting in a public place. I'm much more comfortable meeting with on CERB than in strip clubs!! Believe it or not, many erotic dancers are against escorting, massaging, etc. I think it's because the sex industry is stigmatized and they like to set themselves apart. That is why I think many erotic dancers are not interested in associating themselves with CERB. You can also get into trouble with a club if they find out you're doing escorting on the side and you could get fired. They believe you might solicit clients in the club and draw police attention.

I for one, was never offended by the use of the word "cougar" to describe an attractive older woman. I realize that after awhile, it denoted a 40+ lady chasing a 25- man. Originally, I think it was used to describe sexy, sassy, Sex in the City type ladies. Then MILF became the term...but mother I'd like to ....does not accurately describe the ladies that the term is used for.... I say bring back the Cougar as it was originally intended. A beautiful woman, of a certain age, who looks after herself, takes pride in her appearence and is un-questionably sexy!!! Not all 40+ sexy ladies are seeking the attentions of younger men! Mature ladies of Canada; unite and fight for our right to be awesomly ravishing! (I completely apologize for any spelling and gramatical errors that may have occured during this, my recent rant!)

I was fortunate enough to have the opportunity to spend some time with these two lovely ladies. Carley is a sweet heart and has become pretty well known by most around here for good reason. There's not a whole lot more I can say about Carley and her many talents that hasn't already been said. She is very well reviewed on Cerb as can be seen HERE and HERE. After numerous repeat visits with Carley solo I was much intrigued when appended to her most recent availability posting was a mention that an old friend was in town for one day only and that they would be offering duos for those that could pre-book. Very little info was available on her friend (Kila) other than Carley's assurances that she was beautiful brunette. Unable to resist I took the plunge and signed up. First off let me say that Carley's assessment of Kila (pronounced Kee-La) as beautiful was bang on. Kila is tall with long brown hair and beautiful brown eyes. She has definite model looks, a spinners body, delicious C cup breast and an ass that is simply beyond description. The moment I walked in the room and saw them both together I knew I had made the right decisions. Kila has a super friendly and sweet personality to match Carley's, but also with a bit of a "bad girl" aura to her. She seemed to very much enjoy the experience and was extremely talented at what she was doing. I should mention that this was my first duo experience, so I don't have a real baseline to compare it to, but to say that I had a great time would be an understatement. Never have I wished more to own a photographic memory. Even without, the images of taking Carley from behind while she went down on Kila, or of the two of them servicing my member together will not soon be forgotten. Carley and Kila are longtime friends and were completely comfortable with each other making for a very cool environment. I most definitely will repeat the experience and recommend it very highly to others. It's been almost a full 24 hours now since I saw them and I still have a foolish looking perma-grin on my face. I'm told that what was originally to be a one time thing is now going to become a somewhat regular occurrence with Kila planning to schedule a visit down every month or so. Kudos on that to the men of Fredericton for showing their support. We are very lucky to not only have Carley, but now also Kila available in our city. I have no idea if Kila has any plans to potentially offer solo appointments as well in the future but I really hope she does as I have no doubt that she would do very well, and I personally would love the opportunity to spend some more time with her one on one.

I guess the issue everyone is having is the assumption you're making is that every lady will/does enjoy this sensation. Based on the feedback from the ladies so far this is obviously not the case. No matter how good you are at what you're doing, if someone doesn't like something, or has an issue with certain areas of their body it's not going to end well. Best guess is they will grin and bear it but then make a mental note to not see you again. Worst case is you get a boot to the face and then another one out the door :)

This is true. I had a client who wanted to take me out to dinner once on a Saturday night. No sex, nothing in private, just dinner. I quoted him $600 which might sound excessive, but I had to give up a Saturday night of dancing (in other words, about $600) to do the dinner with him. He respected that. I also had many guys offer me $500-1000 for sex and they couldn't understand why I would turn it down. Reality is, I could lose my job or be arrested for soliciting sex in the club. $1000 is less than a week's income. Is it really worth losing your job for less than a week's income?? It also didn't make sense to me when they wanted private shows for $500 or so because I could make $500 in the club where I feel safe. Why would I take $500 to go off with a stranger when I can make $500 in a place where I am safe?? Of course, this is very different with long-term regular clients. I'm not trying to be a negative Nancy... just throwing out the dancer's perspective :)

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In my opinion, in every sweet, sticky, steamy "situation", without question, there should never be any...ugh...i've gotta say it...assumptions made in this oring..err...area! The owner of the "O" is the Keeper of the KeY. The author of the rules, and solely reserves the right to modify such rules, should she/he wish to do so, at any time of their choosing. To me, this one's logged strictly in the : "I want this done to my naughty zone, baby! Would you do that for me?" By request only from the owner of the little starfish. I'm actually a little surprised by some SPs ads offering a trip to the Isles and/or DATO without a very boldly emphasized YMMV. Not a criticism, of any sort of course. Just curious and a little surprised. Would've chalked this one higher up on the "personal mood and wants of the moment", and making certain first that the client's not packin' a fire hydrant and displaying signs of a more aggressive level of sexual conduct through the first 3 "conventional" bases. As in everything - very much a personal choice and preference. Never personally been my thing, but i've happily accomodated two exgfs who'd would've been ready to DEMAND greek ! (Actually, one did:exagerefesses:) Got so our(hers) sexual weekly menu, which started out with a single special weekly Saturday night trip to Athens, quickly became 4 day long weekends...or more! Got so the coach was having me sprint through the bases straight to the duggout. Maybe some girls' gradual approach to it when in a new relationship not wanting to be somehow viewed differently?? Wild guess. Never asked, never wanted to. Like I said - it's not my thing, but i'm certainly not against it.:lol: Can be a very addictive personal sexual pleasure. Definitely an all or nothing pleasure for most, especially women understandably. Not many "sorta like it"s out there, i'm sure. *snap*Yeesh! Getting too sexually analytical here. Time to set the bong down and surf some porn. Sorry, W.A.Jimmy, if I sorta, kinda didn't really stray off course on your post. Not too far, anyway, from DATO to Greek. Ladies - get that fireman's hydrant portrait out of your heads ! G' night, everyone.

They are two completely different sensations. Has nothing to do with "tolerance". If you need further proof; bend over...:rolleyes:...lol.

This whole area should NEVER be assumed is ok. It would be like having someone stick their finger in your eye, then asking later if that is ok, and/or ignoring the fact that you tell them it is not ok and just keep on doing it. As far as part of GFE at all, I would say no. It might be something a greek provider is open to. I would put it as part of a PSE tho, for those who offer it. Like anything, this is something you should be asking about before you start poking your fingers or tongue into anything at all lol. Also, be extremely careful of trying to combine DATO with DATY. Transferring bacteria from anal to pussy can be extremely harmful, in terms of infections. I would say the same thing about combining DATO with kissing. Just be aware of what you are doing and try to take some precautions; also to be aware of the "ick" factor. I am not too sure of how many people, m or f,, who would welcome the idea of kissing someone who has been licking their ass. A little courtesy and common sense goes a long way. There are far too many unpleasant byproducts of DATO, like exposure to parasites and hepatitis, that make it a really bad idea. But along with that is the fact that many people simply do not want anyone poking around down there, find the sensation unpleasant, and if you are expecting someone to enjoy what you are doing, you should know that going in to always ask first before you do anything whatsoever. And I suggest that if you are a fan of giving and receiving DATO, the very first thing you should get are the hepatitis shots. This will ensure, at least for some part, your continued good health. Oh, and in case anyone was confused by my post, if anyone ever tries to do this with me (consider, I tell you up front it is a no go zone) I will hurt you lol. Be prepared for a very strong and negative reaction from anyone you try this on without asking first.