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The problem with this is you can't paint all people the same. Firstly, I take GREAT offense that us under 25 are taken are less intelligent, less adept in good conversation (both of which are common themes).. or even less into or serious about our jobs... The fact that we're more likely to be pimped is not only the most stupid of things I've ever read, but a huge insult as well.. I know plenty of people over 40 who are absolute morons.. age has NOTHING to do with it... Secondly, frequently canceling meaning psychological distress?? How about people have lives?? I've had plenty of clients that had to cancel (some more than once), if I painted them all as nuts I wouldn't be seeing any clients. I'm not saying if she cancels all the time she's great.. but psychological distress?? Honestly? Lastly, I believe most of us do enjoy our jobs.. at least until we put up with stupid people, countless questions and have to constantly defend ourselves, our actions and our choices to others. If you want to make sure she is loving her job, how about not dissecting her life, smile and way she works and just treating her like a lady... show her a good time and enjoy yourself.. if she wasn't loving her job the moment before, she will when you make her job easy by being a good client and treating her with the respect she deserves. Sorry if this seemed rant like.. I just think it's really lame when I see "Oh and this one actually enjoys her work" .. We can't all love all our jobs all time now can we? It just seems so dehumanizing that we wouldn't be like everyone else..

Hi everyone, It took me a long time to even consider posting this but I think it must be brought to everyone?s attention. It may have been posted before but I think it needs to be brought up again if it already hasn?t. This is not a rant, just some friendly advice. I understand that work and personal life issues come up; they do for me, other SP?s and Hobbyist. For me as an SP?s and others hopefully agree it takes a lot of time with emails and booking appointments and it is greatly appreciated to notify an SP as soon as possible if you are unable to keep your appointment, usually an hour to two in advance even 24hrs is appreciated by some. This gives us the opportunity and the time to book another appointment. I know and understand that you may have to cancel closer to the appointment time because you never know what the day will bring. I have had to do so myself. The real big issue is ?no shows?, I find this very disrespectful to the SP who has taken the time to book the appointments and to get ready and prepare. It only takes a simple phone call, email or text instead of not just showing up. Not showing up does not inspire trust and I or another SP may never book another appointment with someone who is a ?no show?. I understand that you may be nervous or a first timer but to just not show up and have an SP waiting is truly inconsiderate. Just notify us ASAP. I never get upset and I am very understanding but a ?no show? is a no no.

I for one, was never offended by the use of the word "cougar" to describe an attractive older woman. I realize that after awhile, it denoted a 40+ lady chasing a 25- man. Originally, I think it was used to describe sexy, sassy, Sex in the City type ladies. Then MILF became the term...but mother I'd like to ....does not accurately describe the ladies that the term is used for.... I say bring back the Cougar as it was originally intended. A beautiful woman, of a certain age, who looks after herself, takes pride in her appearence and is un-questionably sexy!!! Not all 40+ sexy ladies are seeking the attentions of younger men! Mature ladies of Canada; unite and fight for our right to be awesomly ravishing! (I completely apologize for any spelling and gramatical errors that may have occured during this, my recent rant!)

My sentiments exactly, antlerman! Additional Comments: Here's another newbie, Kayleigh Carter. She just joined cerb today. Seriously lusting over her, I admit...

I may be somewhat pessimistic, but how much a provider enjoys her job (versus how much she pretends to enjoy it) does not factor in to my decision whether to see her. The thing is, the ones that are the best at pretending are indistinguishable from the ones that truly enjoy it to me. That being said, I strive to make an encounter as enjoyable as possible for my companion. My approach is to be as courteous, respectful and clean as possible, but this doesn't guarantee that a provider will truly "enjoy" our time together - chemistry is something that can't be obtained by any one formula. Due to the personal nature of the business, no matter what effort I go to ensure a smooth encounter, the enjoyment aspect on the part of the provider will often be an illusion, and I can accept that.

hehe I got a giggle outta that! and the strange thing is that I'm a parent, so MILF is acceptable if ppl, would say I'm a Mother I'd (or they'd) Like to Fuck (if you wanna get technical, lol)...just not in the terms that everyone else uses them, lol. That and people would start looking at me like I was from Mars is I advertised myself as a MILF! maybe yummy mummy would be more suitable tho ;-) That being said, I cant wait until the day I can be a classy older woman referred to as a cougar/Milf. theres something about that Sex in the City sophisticated older woman that has really changed what being a coug/MILF is all about ;-) There was a great news story tonight on Global news for the Miss Cougar competition to be held tonight at Tattoo Rock Parlour bar in Toronto and the change in attitude surrounding the term cougar that used to mean older desperate woman chasing younger men...it now means a woman who is comfortable in her own shoes, older and more in tune with herself, in control of her money and lifestyle...mature beyond all belief and therefore attractive to the younger "cubs" that seek that in a woman yet will never find that in a woman in her 20s....it was a very interesting story. the night is being put together by this woman who is well in her 40s (you'd never guess it tho) but who has met her husband of 2 years who is 29 years old (and you'd also never guess he was that young physically) at a cougar social. it was extremely awesome to see the stigma of either term being brought to a different light....and just amazing to see the guys being interviewed saying things like "what I've found in these women, you cant find anywhere else" and "my past three relationships were with older women...cougars...all I gotta say is the...(reporter inserts the phrase "good times?" lol) were the best that any woman has offered me. these days, being an older and sophisticated attractive woman is a HUGE power attraction...and there are many men who are attracted to confidence and experience. MILF/Cougar....its all semantics...its the whole confident package that the guys that really seek out them and want them are looking for...beautiful people inside and out they all are....who are we to judge what they decide to own as their title? :-)