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This is addressed to all the Gentlemen on the Board looking for short notice appointments (same day, within the next few hours)..... I had someone PM me and ask for an appointment within 3 hrs of the pm. When i didn't respond in time, was then told how "irresponsible" i am. Well as i have said time and time again, but will say once more..... I'm not always near a computer. I'm usually not even home. If you want to reach me short notice, CALL ME. I have a cell phone, which is always within arms reach and is on 24/7 for that specific reason. If you are shy and not comfortable calling, text me. Thank you gentlemen and have a wonderful day ;););)

Hi everyone, First thank you for reading my thread! It's long and more of a rant, but I just wanted to share and see what kind of response I got I'm just wondering, and would like feedback on this topic. It's a situation I've been having lately, specially with 21 years old. Not that they are the only ones but they seem to be the most common. They start their conversations with: "Hi I'm 21 years old, good looking, how about you cut me a deal and I treat you like a lady, you might like it!" When you give them your rate, they keep taking your time asking personal questions, then they say they don't want to book they want to be friends, get to know you and see where it goes from there. When you explain to them that you post because you want to make money, and this is your work. You are not friends, but clients, either don't believe you or ignore it and they keep persisting. I'm just curious if, and I'm sure the answer will be yes, other SPs get this type of client and if they do, what do they say to get them to either book or rid of them? I've used a lot of different techniques and none seem to work. I've even told 1 guy who said:(note: this conversation happened after he told me he was shy and needed to talk to SPs 1st before booking) "I would like to get to be your friend, go out for drinks nothing sexual, just friends and see if we click" I replied: "Great you want to be my friend, then I will meet you for drink but, I will be accompanied by my fiancee is that OK?" (I figured that would get him to give up) He replies: "why would he come?" ME: "Well see, we have an agreement, when we go out with friends we always go out together. Most times that is the only time we spend together, therefore if you want to be my friend then I guess you have to live with him being around!" I then get the obvious response: "Well I was hoping to be friends and see where it goes from there!" Note for all you hobbyist reading this: (And I'm sure most of you probably know this, so please do not think that I am being condescending to you. I'm just ranting and hoping that this will help people who don't look at life this way, to have at least a different perspective) In my humble opinion, if you see someone posting on any erotic board or boards dedicated to SPs odds are we are not looking for dates. Most of us already have relationships outside of our work. Please do not waste our time by trying to entertain a relationship right from the start. (If you are looking for a relationship, there are tons of dating sites full of women waiting to chat and do the dating thing!) Book our time, spend some time with us (for a fee), then you never know we may just like you and want a relationship! :razz: And for those of you who have this theory "I would never pay for sex!" Ask yourself this: Have you ever picked up a girl at a bar and bought her drinks, supper, movie, clothes, jewelry, etc... slept with her but didn't have a relationship her? If your answer is YES then you've paid for sex.It's not because she was in a bar that you didn't exchange something for the sex you got. This said, the only difference between that girl in the bar and an SP is; you don't have to spend 4 hours trying to pick us up by making an impression all you need to do is call and show up. With her you're not even guaranteed to get any action, no matter the amount of drinks you buy her. With us you are, if you pay of course. So if you want a relationship, pay our time instead of drinks, use the time to flirt and try and gain our attention you never know it just might work! See . Different setting.same result!

ENJOY! :mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen: http://i737.photobucket.com/albums/xx17/Ava_Foxx/sextape.jpg

Oh man! I read that as my girlfriend's Boy Friend......good thing scottthecanuck put me straight :oops: Sorry spud

I have been really busy relocating to Ottawa. Things have been hectic and I really haven't had a chance to show my sparkling and witty personality to all you wonderful gentlemen ;-), as I have been to busy to really sit down and read the threads. Anyways, so you can get an idea of what I'm like, I decided to fill out a little interview about myself. Enjoy!!!! 1.) What is your contact info? http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=31839 613-315-4405 2.) Where do you see yourself in 5 years? Finished my degree and living in either Ottawa or Toronto.....or maybe Vegas :boobies: 3.) What's your favorite travel destination? I really enjoyed England, it's beautiful there, but I'd love to travel to India and see the village my grandmother grew up in. 4.) What famous person do you most admire? Marilyn Monroe because despite her struggles she rose to the top and never let anything get her down and Wonder Woman......because she's wonder woman!!! 5.) What's your favorite restaurant? Taco del Mar has burritos to die for and Taste of India in London makes the only curry that even compares to my Grandmothers. 6.) What was your favorite concert? I can't remember.... 7.) Where do you like to be kissed? On my neck and my lower back..... 8.) What TV show do you try to plan your day around? Well, i don't plan my day around it....but i try to catch Law and Order: Special Victim's unit whenever I can....I also LOVE Sons of Anarchy on HBO.... 9.) Favorite activity besides sex or anything hobby related.. Swimming, Reading Books, painting and drawing, adventuring....I love cat naps but that not really a hobby ;-) 10.) What is my greatest fear? Drowning, but I still love to swim..... 11.) Who would you like to be trapped in an elevator with? Someone interesting.....and that smells good.... 12.) Do you have pets? No, i used to have a beautiful Boxer when i was sixteen.....never had another pet since. 13.) What is your favorite holiday? Halloween, because it's mysterious and Magical and for one night out of the year you can be anyone you want to be....I also like Carnivale in Quebec....FUN times..... and Victoria day weekend because my birthday is four days before Queen Victoria's and my birthday always falls on it....so i always get a long weekend to celebrate:cool: 14.) When were you born? when all the planets were aligned... 15.) What's your astrological sign? Taurus and my Chinese sign is Dragon... 16.) Where were you born? Toronto 17.) What turns you on about a man Cleanliness, sharp dresser and can carry a decent conversation and can laugh.Confidence is sexy. Not to be confused with egotistical:mrgreen: 18.) How Long have you been in the industry I started dancing at 18 and SP'ing when i was 20 so almost 4 yrs. 19.) Favorite Season? Summer!!!! 20.) Where would you like to live? In Toronto, New York or Amsterdam..... 21.) What are you reading right now? Chicago May...its about an Irish immigrant who became one of the most richest and notorious pickpocket/ escort in Chicago history in the 1800's. 22.) What would I do if I won the lottery tomorrow Opening a Cathouse in Vegas.....and laughing straight to the bank.... 23.) What things do I collect? Mermaids,interesting glass pieces and mirrors. 24.) favorite perfume? Versace- Red Jeans, Provocative Women by Elizabeth Arden and Can-Can. 25.) favorite cologne for a man? Million Dollar....or Cuba 26.) Do you have a housekeeper? I wish..... 27.) How old would you like to be when you retire? 25 28.) What music do I listen to? Techno and hip-hop and some alternative... 29.) Do you play an instrument? The flute...just a bit though ( I can play Mary had a little lamb and row-row-row your boat...does that count?) 30.) Do you like toys? Yes if used properly....lol...... 31.)What's your favorite drink Courvosier or Hennessey or Piniot Grignot 32.) How long does it take you to prepare for an appointment? Depends on where I am going, if I am going to a party or event it takes longer than if I was staying indoors with company. 33.) What turns me off about a man? Rude, too quiet, disrespectful, dirty, asking inappropriate and/or degrading questions, barterers. 34.) What was the happiest day of my life? When my sister got out of the hospital after her accident 35.) Are you high maintenance? No, but i like to be treated like a lady.... 36.) your sexiest body part? My eyes, my legs, my boobs and my smile... 37.) last time I cooked a home cooked meal? Today. Samosas. 38.) do you have tattoos? Yes....alot. 39.) piercings? My ears and i have a tiny diamond in my lip. 40.) Is there an SP that you look up to? Yes, a few. 41.) If you could change ANYTHING in the world, what would it be? The way people treat other people.......

I'm going to go on a bit of a rant today. I'm not trying to offend anyone, but I think something needs to be said. Lately I have had a number of clients who have name-dropped other providers they have been with and then proceeded to try to discuss personal details about their time, OR who have asked me questions about what other escorts are like--but not in a professional, because I might be interested in seeing her kind of way, but in a I want to get dirt on this woman kind of way. Personal type questions. It's not cool to ask me if so-and-so has kids and or if so-and-so does drugs. It is completely tacky to talk about other SP's and it certainly doesn't turn me on to hear your feelings about other SP's. It is none of my business and if you expect me to gossip about my colleagues, it won't happen. While I hate to paint it so bluntly, our relationships with clients are still business relationships and it shows a complete lack of discretion to try to discuss other providers you have spent time with.

Vancouver sells escort licenses, but not seriously, and no one gets fined for not having one. Plus, the GVA is pretty large, and all the neighbourhoods nearby are on a different municipality, and literally just across the street or over the bridge. No one enforces it at all. Their interest is primarily the asian massage parlours (have a business front, massage rooms, biz license etc), the micros (illegal workers working out of apartments), and the SWs (street workers). Everyone else goes at it. Edmonton is the other city that HEAVILY enforces the city escort licensing requirements. On a recent sting they collected over $90,000 in fines. They fined drivers and sps who showed up to a hotel for an outcall, because they work without licenses. This is their idea of stomping down on prostitution, lol, but in reality they are just keeping a level playing field for the ladies who do pay for licenses. The cost of a license there is high (2,000?) for an independent, but really low ($200) for anyone who works at a massage parlour. Victoria is another city to add to the list of licenses. A lot of sps get the city license (a few hundred dollars, I believe) and a lot work out of massage parlours and agencies as well. I have not ever once heard of any bylaw fines for unlicensed sps in Victoria, so I do not think they enforce the licensing. In one of those cities tho, an sp successfully took the fine to court and argued that she was a prostitute, going about the legal business of prostitution not an escort and therefore did not need an escort license. I believe she won. But the sp needs to want to go to court over it, Additional Comments: On topic, I recently read the term "leech" being applied to a guy who tries this carrot dangling approach. Needs to meet first, needs to have several phone calls, needs to go for lunch, wants to hang out, wants to hang shelves (or offer unsolicited financial advice), the list goes on, but we are talking about active board member sps with exceptional reviews, good ads and detailed website. If none of that is enough for a guy to make up his mind, then he is a leech (or looking for an sp SO). Neither possibility is attractive to ladies who are in the business of offering their company for a fee. secret admirer, please STOP referring to the sessions as "just paying for time" sort of thing or only book by phone. It is legal to discuss rates and services and to exchange $ for services in Canada. That time thing is a US affectation and could be a detriment to you spending time with some sps who do not know what you are up to lol. Be straight up, for heavens sake. No one is going to arrest you for asking how much is it for a half hour GFE appt.

I do not know this lady, never met her, so right now I am just going on my own assumptions.... for the past month or so this lady has been verbally attacked on the the list....although I do not know her, I do not believe the negative posts about her...especially since they are always detailed on the list...it is very, very, very obvious that she has many haters.....she is young, she is hot and she has many, many clients visiting her who seem to be content , happy and pleased with her as she has many reviews...and most state they plan on going back..... Although it is an absolute loser who is taking the time to trash her...it still does take a toll on a person....yes you can be the better person and ignore it, but after a while, I am sure it can really piss someone off...the 12 clients comment was basically just a<> take that motherfucker<> type of commment to the a-hole that is posting B.S about her...I am positive she was just being sarcastic....when someone messes with you like that, its only normal after a while to retaliate....I also seen that someone posted a comment regarding the grammar...I understand that, but at the same time this girl is getting viciously attacked verbally, she is trying to defend herself via post, and then someone throws that out there, I dont think it was very nice for someone to try and shame her like that...I am English and if I had to write a long ass letter like that in FRENCH...well I know that shit would not make any sense whatsofreakingever!!!!!! I know these are pretty big assumptions on my part seeing that I do not know her or have ever met her.....Just wanna put it out there in her defense as I would greatly appreciate it if someone would take the time to post something positive on my part if shitty things were being said about me....

I totally agree about us 'older guys' being more respectful, and really understanding what this is all about ...or perhaps we have been properly broken in !!!....... Young Buck #1 - I had 2 orgasms in 1 hour ! Young Buck #2 - I had 3 orgasms in an hour ! Young Buck #3 - I had 4, and could have had a 5th in the hour but didnt want to Us Old Bucks - I had 1 orgasm in an hour.......she had 4 Enough said......... SNK

When I was a stripper, I would have several young guys tell me: "It must be so great getting to dance for a guy like me rather than these old farts." Truth be told, I'd take a respectful, mature man in his 40s or 50s anyday over a cocky, hot, young dude.