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This is a very common thing with the ladies... Always looking for the "Reason" the business gets slow at times and always looking for answers as to why they get no shows and cancellation more at different times of the year. Most NO SHOWS can be stopped by screening your calls properly. Use the Caller ID and CALL BACK the number to verify it. Most guys will not pull a NO SHOW on someone without having the decency to call and properly cancel if you have their number. They know that come appointment time one very upset SP is going to give them a call asking WTF! It's not 100% but it sure helps for those who screen calls. It also makes the call a little more safer as that phone number is now a connection between the guy and the lady... I doubt someone dangerous is going to want to leave a number that can be traced back to them. Most of the ladies look for reasons when things are slow. I guess most of us do that when the business we are in takes a drop in sales/traffic/work load/etc.... You can spend a good portion of your day trying to figure this one out but it's not really worth the effort. It's WAY easier to just plan for these lows (Put some money aside for the slow periods) and just accept that this is part of EVERY business and it will happen. Stop stressing out and trying to point a finger at what you think is causing the slowness as your just going to convince yourself of something that is probably not correct. We have been tracking patterns in this industry since 1996 and the answer for this is... (Drum roll please)... It has no pattern EXCEPT for a few obvious LOW spots. 1) The end of Aug is SLOW every year! (Kids out of school, getting ready to go back to school, family summer vacations, etc...) This is the most popular summer weekend in the tourist industry!! 2) 1 week before and 1 week after Xmass (No need to explain this one right?) New years day too? NOT... 3) January/February for 2 weeks every year (We sum this up to winter blues and getting your credit card statements from Xmass! but we never know what two weeks it will be but for sure 2 weeks around this time it does drop... one year we did not see this and come April we saw a real low drop for 2 weeks and that was obvious weather patterns (Long winter/early spring ... warm winter/cold spring etc...) it does effect this business and you never know when this is coming exactly... so just put some cash aside for these times. 4) First nice weekend of spring (A lot of the ladies take this time off too) 5) Thanksgiving, Easter, Valentines, long weekends, really large sporting events (etc)... they also effect the business. The rest has NO identifiable pattern. You can try to blame it on the economy as a low economy brings more people into this business causing more competition and the overall amount of "Recreational money" the guys have gets a lot smaller so yes the economy does effect it but a low economy BUT it also brings more guys (New guys) in to the mix as well so it's not hit as hard as one would assume. Remember money and sex are the two big things couples fight about... When the economy drops and the money gets tight the stress levels go up, the fighting between couples goes up and the sex stops!! FACT OF LIFE... and I hate to admit it but that is good for this business for all you ladies!! When economy starts to get good again business will decrease a little at first! It's OPPOSITE of what everyone ASSUMES! As for NO SHOWS... This time of year it will obviously be higher. Kids are still home from school, Family vacations, relatives coming for visits, back to school shopping, etc.. etc... and all those people taking time OFF work for family vacations makes other people have to work more (Overtime to cover shifts, higher work loads, etc) it's all relevant.... A lot of LAST MINUTE things come up this time of the year for the "Family Man" and well... kids and family (for most people) come first so recreational visits take a back seat so stuff will get canceled more this time of year. Picture this... The guy is all ready to come see the lady he has chosen and the door bell rings and it's his brother or uncle or who knows who just "DROPS BY" for a visit... URH!? Probably with his annoying kids and wife... (Many of us have been in similar situations) This happens EVERY YEAR... Come September 17th (Or around that time) once the kids are back in school and the routine is back... things will pick up. Summer sucks as a lot more things can get in the way or throw a guys schedule off. Don't spend all your time looking for reasons why the business slows down.... it happens to EVERY PROVIDER & EVERY BUSINESS ... It can not be busy 100% of the time and it does take a little planning and anticipation.

I'll just say what everyone knows, but most don't talk about. This life can be a lonely one. Before I started out in this hobby, I could have asked myself, "Whaddya mean, great no-strings sex with attractive women isn't enough? Yeah right, buddy. Youse doth protest too much, methinks." And truth be told, it's still pretty good. It's the bread and butter of this business. That is the way things were, are, and should be. But sometimes we don't want those strings to be quite completely free. Oh, don't get me wrong. No one wants drama, stalking, irrational behaviour. No one wants messy. Still, I've heard ladies say on occasion how lonely the life is for them. Seeing a few great guys walk in their door, share a little slice of heaven on earth, and walk out again. Not knowing whether they will ever call back, whether they will ever see them again. Knowing that the code demands that no matter how much they clicked, no matter how great the time was, no matter how quiet those moments alone are in the small hours of the morning, they mustn't contact the man. It is no different for me. I know that soon after I leave her home, another will take my place in her arms, in her bed. I know that very soon I will be a distant memory, a barely remembered face in the crowd. And I know I mustn't care too much when it isn't welcome. I don't want to become something to be tolerated, to be endured, to be held figuratively though not literally at arm's length. This is part and parcel of the world I live in. This is the choice I have made, in this life, in this hobby. But I search. I search because I want more, now. I want more than just those fingers, those lips, on me, on her. I want more than those frenzied last few moments. I want something that will build up over time as I see her. First once, then twice, then thrice, then on to times beyond counting. I want that click. That pop. That wow. I search for that pretty face that lights up in an honest and spontaneous smile when I walk through her door. The one who can't get enough of my lips on hers, my arms around her. Someone with whom our joy will be unalloyed, someone with whom I'll explore new ways to play and new levels of comfort over time. I want a little sliver of real and pure, in the middle of my fat slice of fantasy. And most of all, I yearn for that lady for whom I am her fantasy, as she is mine. There was this certain special lady. We became friends, though she's gone now from the world of clear plastic heels and white envelopes. We keep in touch, but now it's in a completely different way. We never talk about our old life with each other. There is a little part of me that would give almost anything to have those days back again, but I know she's moved on for good. She has a better life now, and I'm happy for her. I have many happy memories of our times together and I'm so glad I've had them. But in some ways it's crueler having known her. Because now I know altogether too keenly what I'm missing. I want to feel what we had once more. So I keep on seeking. And I'll call that new number, walk through that strange door. I know someday, maybe soon, I'll find my little sliver of real and pure. And I'll know that my lady will have found hers as well.

I am the luckiest man alive! I won't get into details as to how all this came about, but this wasn't advertised and I ended up spending time with two incredibly amazing women last night! First Cleo, this woman has the body of a godess! Since I find tatoos to be completely intoxicating, she makes me tingle when I look at her. She also has the most beautiful blue eyes, I could stare into them all day long! Next Kayleigh, a spinner like no other. I swear she is so tiny and so sexy...the perfect spinner in every way. She's like a little energizer bunny, and has the sweetest personality! I'm never really one to give much detail as it's always YMMV, but I figure a little bit won't hurt this time. I was greeted at the door by Kayleigh with the sweetest hello and then a huge kiss. Then a big smile and hello from Cleo and huge kiss for her as well. There I was in presence of two very gorgeous women wondering why someone was smiling down on me! Right away I was led into the bedroom for some threeway kissing. Both women are phenominal kissers, and I couldn't get enough! After a couple of minutes the clothes started to fly! All I will say is this, having both women in every position possible, getting several bbbj's from both ladies and watching Cleo and Kayleigh go down on each other was an amazing experience! They are completely different women, which made for a very unique experience that you don't generally get. I am the luckiest man alive to have had it happen to me. I'm pretty sure this was a one time deal, but would I repeat...absolutely! Thank you Cleo and Kayleigh, I will be forever greatful to both of you!

Reading some of these posts got me to thinking. I know of a few people in my life that have regrets (touch wood, not yet for me) in their interpersonal relations with other friends or family members My sage advice is this. If you have a family member or (ex?)friend that for whatever reason you are estranged from, maybe try to re-establish a connection with him/her...a phone call, email etc I've seen a few too many regrets. Once a person passes away, it's too late. It doesn't matter who is right and who is wrong, be the one to make the first call My 2 cents RG

You can ADD your comments to existing recommendation threads. As a NEW moderated member you can not make a new recommendation (You must get past the moderation period first) - this stops a lot of the SHILL Posting (Fake new member accounts posting fake recommendations). The moderation period is only 5 days (and you need to have a MINIMUM of 5 posts). As for "Negative" info... it's not permitted on cerb. If someone asks about a specific lady and you wish to "warn them" in private about your experience you can using the PM system but you CAN NOT post a negative comment in public here. The reason for this is we don't know the whole story! You could want to slander someone, or knock out some of your competition... we just don't know. We can not permit one person to do it either and expect others not to... so it's just not permitted. This site is to remain a SP FRIENDLY site. Now sites exist like cowboy kenny's blog: http://cowboysdiary.info/ that reports B&S on CL in Ottawa. If your not in Ottawa you may want to make your own blog like this... but we will NOT allow links to it if your just slandering people you don't like. It must be posts with proof (Like CK does) about the B&S stuff.