This morning while I drink my coffee and read the boards here, I?m struck by how many complaints we have about the guys who take advantage of some aspect of our services and then treat us badly. There are active discussions about men who:
Try to negotiate or bargain clearly-stated non-negotiable fees
Try to pay less than the agreed fee after they arrive
Try to get services that were not agreed on before the date
Complain about our screening questions
Don?t bother to take a shower, brush their teeth or trim their nails before seeing us
Assume that we're likely to rob them
Threaten to write bad reviews and/or aren?t believed when they write good ones
Insult us, our need for safety and even our looks when we don?t give in to what they demand
No one is forced to read our ads and websites, look at our photos, contact us, discuss our services with us, or meet with us. It?s all voluntary and initiated by the client. The client has needs, feelings, preferences and curiosity, but why do so many refuse to take responsibility for themselves? What they express as anger, self-righteous indignation and personal entitlement is really projected self-hatred.
I want to sit these men down and say:
If you don?t want to see a paid companion, don?t do it.
If you decide to seek out a companion, that's your decision.
What you want is not what everyone else may want. That?s usually a wonderful thing.
Recognize that we?re not like cheap candy that you can buy daily. We?re more like fine dining to be enjoyed occasionally. Plan accordingly.
If someone?s prices are too high for you, either wait until you can afford her, or find someone else. Meanwhile, don't blame her for your lack of funds. Recognize that she charges what the market will bear. That means that there are plenty of others who can afford to see her.
Always be polite and considerate. No matter what. Even if you feel confused, disappointed or insulted, be polite.
Remember that companions are human beings, just like you. We have needs, desires, dreams and things we?re worried about or afraid of, just as you do.
We will protect both your health and our own. Fair is fair.
If you're worried about your safety, know that she's concerned about her safety, too. No matter who or how important you are or think you are, the one who is taking the most risks is always the companion. Always.
Relax.