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I believe everything varies, if it doesn't than I am not reactive to my partner and instead would just be going through the motions. When I see somebody that experience is unique, that person will not have the same date as someone else nor should they expect too. I may meet one date and enjoy a leisurely conversation, wine, candles and sensual seduction. I may meet another person the following week where we are insatiable in our sexual appetites, conversation goes almost no where but sexual chemistry is through the roof. One can't predict that chemistry nor do I believe in faking or forcing it, letting our personal interests and curiosity in our partner dictate the pace allows for a greater exploration of our own sexuality. What I enjoy with one person is never the same with another partner, thus everything varies depending on who I connect with on that particular day.

As many people know i go to karaoke frequently....well tonight was a different sort of evening. sitting at the bar i ended up talking to a friend who mentioned a regular..."hey you know ****? the older guy who sang the oldies and Abba songs?" I happily replied "oh yeah! love that guy!" my friend regretted to tell me he passed away in his sleep the previous week. the first thing out of my mouth was "NO!!" as if my pathetic cry for injustice would make things somehow right....when i realized that no cry for unfairness would bring him back there were involuntary tears...then full on tears... once I had excused myself to the bathroom and collected myself i went outside for a cigarette to get some air....and one of the bartenders approached me and asked what had made me teary. i told him that I had just found out that he had died....and all he could say was 'yeah well he was a terrible tipper and he used to sometimes waive his empty water-glass at the end of the night...whatever, that was problematic for me" I couldnt stomach that someone had just died and all this server could do to comfort me was to say something petty about how he made his serving life 'difficult" I said...."I hope when i die unexpected that there aren't people shitting on me because i paid them a dollar too less at the bar...for goodness sakes!" I think this should be applied in all walks of life..........this is definitely making me re-evaluate my close relationships...we are only here for a small term, dont sweat the small stuff and love everyone and anyone who is in your direct reach, regardless of your opinions or clashings..... say what you mean to say to who you mean to say it to, because you never know if you'll get the chance to again. thanks for listening.....lets all drop our hates on here......its truly energy wasted towards something we could all bond though and share in. Lets not wait until its too late to recognize each other's bond...and for those who think this is a cheese approach, go for it. But I truly think that life is too short to sweat the small stuff. *huggs*

What I think it means is for xtra or questionable services, dfk, lfk, bbbj, daty (and others) it depends most often on the client, more specifically, his hygeine, appearance and/or attitude towards these type of services and the sp in general, including his familiarity with the sp. First time with a girl not surprised when some (or most) of these are off the menu. Some of the menu items can be more personal and the sp requires a comfort level before it's on the table. Sorry, not surmising for the girl's but it's kind of been the tacit implication in my experience. And damn good question Isabella. Bravo!

As I a new member to cerb. I have been reading the postings and recommendations of the members here for a month now. This Cerb board is full of interesting articles and stories. As I am new to this hobby and have never gone to a SP before, I was looking for someone to be my first experience. I am a middle age Asian gentleman who is very shy with women and have not had any experience with oral sex. Scanning thru the recommendations I came across the recommendations for Karine19. I looked at her photo's and found her to be a stunning beautiful girl. I read her reviews from her many happy satisfied customers and decided that this girl sounded to good to be true. I pm her starting a about a month ago and tried to book an appointment. However I could not find a time that we were both available at the same time. I am busy with work and family so it is hard to duck out for couple of hours to have some fun :). However I managed to make a appointment at noon this week to finally meet her. However I have had troubles sleeping the last couple of days and have had only 3-4 hrs of sleep in the last 3 days and was extremely sleep deprived that day. I also had 3 back to meetings that morning starting from 9 to 11.30 so I was running around between buildings for my meetings. I probably should have canceled as I was not up to par, but I read that she may be leaving in a week or two to move to Quebec for her education so I didn't want to miss the chance to meet her. 5 minutes before I got to her house, it started to pour. I arrived at her door, called her to let her know I was here, and she came down to let me in. When the door open I was greeted with this sexy stunning dark hair girl with long curry hair. She was wearing a sexy outfit with a short skirt that showed her nice tanned legs. She brought me upstairs to her room and started to kiss me. She is a good kisser, we kissed for aseveral minutes before she started to take her clothes off. First her bra came off, revealing a nice firm breast and a toned abdomen. then the skirt came off revealing sexy hips. Then her panties came off showing her shaved kitty and fantastic toned bum. Guys, she is more beautiful and sexier then her pictures. I quickly removed my clothes and we kissed some more. She told me to lie down on the bed and started to give my a bbbj which last for a while. As she deep throated me she would look at me with her big sexy eyes. After a while I said it was my turn and turned her on her back and began to lick her nipples and worked my way down to her shaved kitty. Where I begin to lick her. She is very tight and she tasted good. I think that I there for at least 10 minutes as she was moaning with pleasure. We then went to the 69 position where I admired her perfect bum while I licked her pussy and she sucked my cock. This went on for a while till her came her mouth. We then cuddled and talked for a while about her body as she has a personal trainer and exercises often. Then I had to get back to work as our time was over. I got dress and she walked out the door. One final nice kiss and at the door and we said our good byes. I left one happy camper and was happy with my first experience. I will book again once I am well rested.

stressed! !!

So I found myself in Hamilton on my lone business weekend during my recent trip to Canada. Not knowing anyone, I decided the best option was to find the company of a lovely lady. Fortunately (again), my main man Cato provided me with the names of two of the best escort agencies in Toronto. After looking at their site and doing some research on a few Canadian forums, I decided to go with Bettie, a beautiful 22 year old brunette from Cupids. Booking was easy. I had arranged to meet her at the hotel bar. I settled in and ordered a glass of wine and made some small talk with the female bartender and some random guy drinking his beer. A few minutes later in walked Bettie in a bright violet summer dress that didn't quite make it to her knees and these crazy gladiator sandle boots. With a confidant stride, cheeky smile and around 20 bangles around each wrist, she looked ready for trouble! She walked over and gave me a big kiss and hug. OMG, you should have seen the looks on the other people (all 4 of them including the staff). I could definately see the wheels turning. I immediately liked her. She was open, friendly and confindant. She stayed by my side with one arm around me as I ordered her a drink. After a little chit chat, we moved up to the room. Finances out of the way, we drank some more wine and I learned a little bit more about her. She is fiercely independent, honest and speaks her mind freely. I had already been eager with anticipation leading up to the meet. Now, after having spent some time with her, I was ready to devour her . Bettie is 5'7", 120 lbs with measurements of 34-25-32 and natural B cup breasts. She has several interesting tatoos which were fun to discover. Short black hair and black nail polish complete her look which many would describe as 'alternative'. We started to kiss and it was incredibly passionate and deep - right from the beginning. We helped each others' clothes off. Her skin felt amazing on mine and in my hands. I removed her lingerie and sucked and licked her nipples. I worked my way down to her shaved pussy and pleasured her until she orgasmed rather violently - burying my face deeper into her. Hardly pausing, she then grabbed me and licked her juices from my face. She was really into it! She pushed me over and returned the favour, providing me with an amazing BBBJ - lots of eye contact and attention to detail - that almost caused me to erupt several times. On with the cover and we started in cowgirl. Reverse cowgirl, missionary, doggie and caterpillar all followed. We finished in my favourite - sitting on the edge of the bed with her facing and straddling me. We continued to kiss, caress and talk until it was time for her to depart. Wow. I don't know if I was on fire, Bettie was on fire or the chemistry was right, but those two hours rocked! I treated myself fairly well during my Great White North Adventure with many punts in several cities but I really think that Bettie was my favourite. There are no facades with this woman. She is an elite escort and is proud to be one and it shows. I tried to see her again for my second night but she was already booked out - I now know why.

Democracy is rife with "what ifs". Who moderates who? Who is to be trusted to be impartial and unbiased? This is an online, virtual, anonymous community. I would not want to be in charge of finding anyone perfect enough to meet the requirements of monitoring this board, as there is not one participant that doesn't have biases and self interest at hand, while still pleasing the masses that seem to demand their perception of perfection instead of practical application. Given the pettiness, immaturity and nonsense I have seen on the board lately, I would gladly choose to have MOD continue as always and permanently ban the whiners, complainers and shit disturbers. The manipulation and games would push anyone over the fragile edge. I know many "valued" participants would be gone but it would give CERB a fresh start and I for one would be glad to see them go. MOD is constantly taken for granted by both hobbiest and SP alike. Has anyone ever thought of what would happen if CERB were shut down? I mean literally, off the air. Having this board is a privilege not a right. It costs nothing to participate and we all gain from it, but it costs $$$, time, heart and soul to run it. This whole "democracy" issue should have never happened. Who has the right to question and complain about MODs decisions to begin with? It's his board, which means his game, his rules!!! He has the right to make decisions without backlash or complaint from anyone in any form. If you don't like his decisions, LEAVE. There are other boards out there for you to participate on. Don't like those, start your own board. To all of those who have pushed MOD to this, those who complained and pitched hissy fits, give your head a shake, grow up and get a life. You have brought this on CERB. It would serve all those involved if MOD decided to simply close up shop and move on to something that doesn't require hyperbaric sensory deprivation treatments to maintain his sanity. You know who you are. All of you who chose to PM him, giving him a hard time about bans and suspensions. All of you who question his decisions. All of you who take petty squabbles to him instead of being an adult and taking the high road. All of you who feel it's more important to be right than it is to be happy. Life doesn't always work out the way you want it to. Accept it and move on. For those who have been banned, take responsibility for your part in it and....move on. Perhaps if some apologies and self policing were implemented, this would all go away. Use a little common sense and empathy from now on and maybe all of this can be resolved without complicating life any more than it already is. cat

Tulsa for what I read looks like the guys that wrote in here appreciated more your company than the 'services' you provide . Ok , a little of both ? lol Also don't forget is likely not you doing something wrong but not clicking with that particular person. The important thing is when you know you gave the best of you :) Guys & of course Tulsa hope you don't mind having another lady posting here if so, my apologies.

I totally agree about us 'older guys' being more respectful, and really understanding what this is all about ...or perhaps we have been properly broken in !!!....... Young Buck #1 - I had 2 orgasms in 1 hour ! Young Buck #2 - I had 3 orgasms in an hour ! Young Buck #3 - I had 4, and could have had a 5th in the hour but didnt want to Us Old Bucks - I had 1 orgasm in an hour.......she had 4 Enough said......... SNK