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I've been reflecting what I've learned being in the sex industry for 3 years now. I thought it would be interesting to share my insight, and encourage others to do the same, both from the provider and hobbiest point of views. -Men do not expect women to be perfect like an airbrushed magazine model. Men love real women. -Despite what the media tells us, men do are not looking for stick-thin women with huge breasts. Men, as a whole, love larger women and love women with small breasts. -Touch is a basic human need, almost as basic as the need to eat and breathe. -It's not true that all men just want to fuck and then leave/fall asleep. Men also love to cuddle, converse, and be intimate. -Confidence is sexy!

Ahhhh my good friend of Ottawa What every she has to say, its always from the heart! Congratulation girl !!

Wow, it would never occur to me that a client would think I was fishing for that sort of feedback. That is definitely reserved for personal private encounters, I would believe. I have had clients say it to me themselves, and well, to be honest, it feels uncomfortable, so I would never go looking for someone to say it. But that's just me. Like Annessa suggested, maybe when there's a bit of a lag in the conversation, some of us might say, "say something", or "what's on your mind" or if you had a little smirk "what"? I don't like to hog the conversation, but on the other hand, some guys are not big talkers, so sometimes it can be awkward with coming up with something to say next. I think you're ready way too much into this, but I may be wrong.

'say something" as she said.....I can say (while not potentially reflecting her intentions) might have been due to an expression on your face.....or the worse and hopefully not the case someone who is just not that great at pillow-talk and is forwardly asking you to get the ball rolling... in my experience a true provider wont put the pressure on you to engage the ice-breakers of pillow-talk...but I can understand the potential *poke*...so to say... there have been many times where i have caught an expression in a client's eyes...a downwards gaze..maybe a look of guilt.....my phrase is generally "what is that mind of your's thinking?" or..."is everything ok?" I personally will say and i would think (out of online and personal experience) that many SPs dont say things like what you said *in hopes for any client to say they love them.* that is definitely reading too far between the lines.....and you REALLY need to know your provider better and for longer to even consider this as an interpretation. Being with a great SP who is honest and loves her job and is willing to be honest with you should not make you have to question "paid fantasy" and bring "in real life" into the picture. the fact that you have described your relationship and then given your head a shake and said 'I know that in 'real life' x happens...".....you have to decide...are you in a fantasy (2-meetings?) with this woman or are you appreciating her as someone that belongs in your 'real life"......or are they crossing over and that is your dilemma? I'm not saying your provider is fishing.....I definitely think shes not, but I think the only proper answer you can gain is not by asking us all (who know nothing of your relationship) but by asking her personally "what did you mean when you looked into my eyes and said...?" There is the only place you will find your honest answer...every provider is different...and this girl could be one in a million who looks deep into your eyes and wants to know your thoughts because she wants to know if you love her. all I'm saying is the only way to know is to ask her yourself. good luck. xoxo

I've actually found that one of the best ways to use the female condom is to have the man put it on his penis and then I hold the larger-ringed end against me as he enters me. The condom slides into place easily and stays there. Meanwhile, he doesn't feel the thing. I've used them this way for anal sex, too, and find that it works very nicely. I've slowly been encouraging clients to use the female condom instead of a regular one for penetrative sex. Most of my clients are in their 50s and 60s and I notice that they often have erectile problems with regular condoms, but not with the female ones, perhaps because there's nothing that fits tightly around them that also dulls sensation. It's true that they're more expensive than other condoms, but then I'm a bit more expensive than many other companions. ;-)

If there is any money left over, I think it should go to the Salvation Army or some other worthy charity. Deciding this before hand just makes sense.

Hey guys, As a CF member who is currently deployed to Afghanistan I would like to say thank you for the offer of discounts but no thank you. As much as I love the service you fine ladies provide I think it would and has cheapened the actual meaning of Nov 11th, when done by other companies and organizations. Please don't follow their foot steps. Nov 11th is not around to give discounts to currently serving members of the the CF, or past members. It is there to pay homage and respect to the sacrifices so many made in the name of liberty and justice. The fact the we enjoy these liberties and luxuries is a direct result of the many grave yards filled with maple leaf engraved headstones. If you feel like doing something for our fallen or our currently serving and veteran Soldier, Sailors and Airmen simply attend your local ceremony, shake some hands and say thank you and if you feel so obliged buy a beer at the legion, sit down, and listen to some of the often hilarious and often tragic stories the veterans can tell. It truly is a great experience. Your front line hobbyist, Harboursmoke

^^ well said mod. many members will back-talk a lady if she takes risks towards her sexual health...the fact that you are turned off because an SP is being safe god-damn floors me. Every woman has her own health-safety measures...be it holding a condom etc etc.....if it turns you off then not only do you not respect her health, but dont care about your own if condom safety is a deal-breaker for you. also if you are trying to call out a lady on here for what you stated, you are only doing her a favor as calling her out as being one who practices safe sessions...and making yourself look like an risk-taker and flat out idiot for not appreciating that. jeezus.....