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Suffice it to say that SPs didn't really voice in until Mia's entry. This was her decision and the SPs respected her decision to sit quiet and see if it died down. Her explanation is clear and accepted by the SPs for reasons that are our own. There seems to be no reason to continue with the discussion. If someone tried to sneak back in to see me after I had told him that he was not welcome, he would have received the same treatment from me as did Mia. Enough said. cat

I never really understand the point of these threads to begin with. They usually go, "this happened to me, now here's my biased side of the story, please validate I am correct". And in this case you've got someone putting it out there like they're taking the high road by not naming anybody, but then giving enough details for others to speculate. Just get rid of this shit, it's neither productive, informative or interesting. I read the other board, you can just tell sometimes that there's relevant information missing. When a guy says he tried contacting a girl and she won't respond to him, 9 times out of 10 it's because he was a dick somehow. Of course that part always seems to get left out.

To stay safe for residence outcalls: Screen your clients - Name, Address and phone number, ask if anyone else will be in the home as you do not want any surprises. Ask for a reference as well from another provider. Call them back on their land line, google them, and check in once you arrive with someone you trust. As well always dress discreetly and park up a few houses.

This has nothing to do with the "other" site. Her response was direct and given only after days of speculation (both in public and private) to the identity and professionalism of the sp. So to avoid being slandered in pm's she posted her response. I think she has the right to defend herself publicly. Kim

My partner got me this awesome Star Trek bathrobe for my upcoming 28th birthday. I think this is the fucking coolest thing ever. Command gold, no less. What can I say? Rank has its privileges ;) http://www.thinkgeek.com/tshirts-apparel/miscellaneous/e73b/ So what's the best present anyone has ever given you? It doesn't have to be a birthday present, any awesome present you've gotten for whatever reason will do :)

I happen to have a very special client who enjoys some bush and so these days I am in the "growing" stage - where you can see it but shave where it counts! It's sort of like party in the front, business in the middle! :icon_wink:

This forum is more about friendliness and positivity then S&*t disturbing for the fun of it. There is a difference between respect and calling out.

Looooooooooooove Christopher Moore. Was just recommending Lamb to someone the other day! My absolute favourite is A Dirty Job though. LOVE IT. I'm currentl reading 'A Spot of Bother' by Mark Haddon, who wrote 'The Curious Incident of the dog in the night-time'. Loved that one, not too big on the one I'm reading now though.

I've had the same suspicion, and it seems, at least to me and my old eyes, that some of these ladies, no change that, girls, are underage...especially looking at the Toronto sites. Me, I stay away, I get the feeling that they are forced to work off their visas I've also wondered the same thing about Russian/East European escorts too RG

I think Cleo is absolutely right. We all do what makes us feel comfortable and the decision to be an MP or SP is a personal choice. I'm an MP because I love to touch, feel and explore. That's what satisfies me in the choice I have made and constantly strive to be my personal best at it. I'm so happy to see someone that recognizes and knows there are differences. I can't tell you how many requests I get for SP services when it's known I'm an MA. I think some people think they go hand in hand. They don't and every provider is different with what her own personal comfort level and the services they provide for either. I'm cautious of spa's but the well known one's on here are safe and legit such as Club CMJ and Paradise to name the two best in my opinion. . As an independent provider, I feel safe from a bust as well as I am quiet, low volume, drug and party free. I think the police are going after the drug houses or bawdy houses where several girls are taking clients in and out on heavy volume and neighbor complaints start coming in. SP or MP, if you stick to the quality providers or spa's you should have a wonderful and safe encounter. Additional Comments: Berlin! Hahaha! Love your humor!

When i want to have a session which is all about me, I choose to see a MA. No pressure, just lay back, relax and enjoy. If I want to participate, then I choose toi see a SP. It all depends on hoe selfish I am feeling on a given day. Posted via Mobile Device

I was literally going to reply the same thing! Posted via Mobile Device

I suck at giving massages, but I give great head. End of story. Haha.

I actually have heard of more MAs being targeted than SPs so I doubt it's the legality. I think the answer to this question will differ from person to person. When I first starting thinking about getting into the biz, I first thought about massage. To be honest, the reason I thought that first was more about what other people would think of me, than what I actually wanted. I figured my friends/family would have an easier time accepting that than being an actual SP. But I never took the step of doing it, because I always knew it wasn't what I wanted. I wanted to do exactly what I'm doing now - why I can't really say, I just knew it was the right choice!

I usually can tell what the gentlemen are looking for by the way we connect threw PM and phone conversation. Some do want to just come, get it on, with little or no conversation, and want to run out the door right after. Which is fine, and that is why I offer half hour rates. But I much prefer the GFE for the same reason as you gentlemen, I too want to feel connected,adored and truly desired. The quicky is good too, especially if you have already bonded, and you just stop in, that can be exciting for the mid afternooner. But I want to enjoy you as well!I love the 4 hour or all night calls, they are such a great time to develop a mutual desire.

The emotional aspects of the experience is most important to me rather than physical aspects or sex itself (lots of huggings and kissings and emotions and feeling that she really likes me, enjoys me and my company and that she is having good time), but I may be in a minority in a sense so I am not sure I could help you with a majority response that you are looking for.

There could be more to the story then what is being said! Never judge someone or make assumptions based on one side of the story! Maybe this girl feels that for one reason or another that she can not come forward. Judge not less YE be judged! Kubrickfan: "To whatever lady is involved in this situation: You owe this guy at least a polite PM response if not an explanation. After all, he took the time to go through your vetting process and apparently did everything you asked. Quit avoiding the situation and respond. Sooner or later this type of information can get out, and its better to deal with it before the information gets out in a fashion "through the grapevine" that may not be entirely accurate or fair to you." This comment is completely uncalled for! She does not OWE him anything! He did not PAY for anything, and to make a statement like this "Sooner or later this type of information can get out, and its better to deal with it before the information gets out in a fashion "through the grapevine"", is extremely presumptuous of you! Now I am not trying to start an argument here, but everyone "assumes" that Pikes rant is 100% accurate! There is always 2 sides of every story! And when people ASSUME, all you do is make an "ASS out of U and ME"!

TWO CHANGES 1) The ladies are now permitted to respond in any general discussion area to threads if they can accommodate a specific request. For instance if a guy is looking for a lady who visits couples the ladies can respond telling the guys that they offer that service. Blatant advertising outside the announcement area is still not permitted to please DO NOT abuse this new rule. 2) The ladies are now permitted to also PM the guys if they publicly ask for a specific service. A PM in reply to a public thread asking for specific info will no longer be considered UNSOLICITED advertising as long as a thread was made asking for info. Blatant advertising by PM is still not permitted so please DO NOT abuse this new rule either. BULK advertising on the PM SYSTEM will get you in BIG trouble still. Rules have been updated to reflect this new change

I'm currently reading Michael Pollan's "In Defense of Eating." It's a follow-up book to his "The Omnivore's Dilemma" which I finished last week and which was fantastic! I learned something new on almost every page, and it took me a while to read it because some of the stuff was so unbelievable, that I had to go online and check it out to assure myself that the author wasn't just pulling my leg. "In Defense of Eating" isn't quite as gobsmacking, but it's still pretty good.