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Every day we see people so immersed in their computers & cell phones and ignoring everything/everyone else. The truth is I do that too (bad girl!) I constantly find myself doing something and at the same time being either texting or on the computer. If I go out and for some reason I leave my cell behind I feel kind of incomplete. Is amazing how some of us create a dependence on certain things. Anyway, I heard about a video that was uploaded last year of a Thai commercial that some may have already seen but I'm posting the link as a reminder to all of us who actually have become dependant or addicted to devices ... Let's disconnect to connect and take advantage of the moments we have with our beloved ones by giving them our full attention :) So people ... Get off your electronic devices and experience life. Ok not entirely or otherwise you'll be missed on cerb lol

The best gift is Free - a nice full body massage mmmm :D

YAY!!!!!! *does happy kitty dance* In cat news, I GOT PEED ON BY A LION at the Adelaide zoo the other day!!! HA!

Be careful for what you ask for :) :) lol

I am a huge coffee freak, I love it and need to join an addiction group. I have no plans of doing this any time soon so any lovely person that brings me a Starbucks will be forever loved. Black, cream, sugar, any way at all, just bring coffee please. :icon_biggrin:

I too am an ambassador for CERB. If a client has found me via my web site rather than here, I screen much more carefully. When our playdate is over, and I liked them, I tend to take a few minutes to suggest that they go to the CERB community and visit, perhaps become a member. There are many benefits to CERB, and reasonable safety is one of them.

I really shouldn't say this as one day on my trip last week, every person I saw brought me chocolate and well, you know you have to eat it right away, it goes bad so fast! It doesn't help the waistline but I still love gifts of chocolate.

I think the standard term used is r&t, rub and tug. That kind of states without saying it, massage and hand release. And the client who is looking for massage and hj know enough to ask what the restrictions are, because they are well aware that some r&t providers remain fully clothed, some will be clothed but allow limited touching, some might go topless no touching, some topless with above waist touching, some nude no touch, some nude full touch, some GFE which is basically a GFE without full service included meaning kissing, daty, possible cbj? But the main thing is full service not offered, not requested, not expected. It isn't a very appealing term tho, so usually what you want to advertise is sensual massage with release. That should be enough to attract the guys looking for r&t with no expectations. It is then important that you indicate what your limits are. Most guys don't mind restrictions, as long as they know before arrival what they are going to be. If something, like digits and/or nudity is important to them, then a fully clothed no touch r&t provider is not going to be someone they book appts with. Also, if you do not want genital touching of any kind, then you let them know your sessions can be topliess, but not fully nude. Most clients understand the presence of panties means the area is not available lol. Other helpful words are: mature, older, gentlemen, massage, sensual, tease, arousal, relaxing, rejuvenating, pampering, stress free, etc. Anything that indicates that this is a session where they don't have to do anything, that everything is done to them and for them, and that they are expected to be mature gentlemen who know enough to ask before they do something they have not been invited to do, or something it has not been made clear is OK.

If you can still perform well when you're with a woman--and particularly when you masturbate--you don't need the little blue pill (Viagra) or any of its substitutes. Don't fall into the trap of taking meds you don't need and don't try to fix what ain't broken! :icon_wink: It sounds to me like you're needing something that's not usually available from a paid companion. You might take some time to ask yourself what it is you feel you really, truly, deeply want and need from another person in your life. You don't say whether you're married or in a steady relationship, but if you are, it could be that some of your needs there aren't being fulfilled. If your partner is going through a difficult time and you're having to carry a bigger share of the load without getting a lot back from her, right now, you may be feeling emotionally drained and physically tired. If you're single, it could be that you want more non-sexual companionship as in social connection, or a relationship based on shared interests and activities. Maybe the certainty of an encounter with a paid companion is no longer what you need; dating, with all its pitfalls, uncertainties and realities can be a joyous thing in part because the outcome is not so certain. Maybe you need to know that the woman you're with is there because she wants to be with you and not because you've paid her for her time and attention. We companions often say that we're paid to go away. Maybe you want someone who might be able to stay for a long time. Maybe, for a little while, it would be better for you to get lots of good exercise, be sure to eat a healthy diet and get plenty of sleep. It's surprising how often attending to these things can improve how we feel about everything in our lives. Whatever you feel, trust that feeling and listen to your own heart. There's absolutely nothing wrong with not wanting paid companionship, or even sex, for awhile! But if it seems that you don't feel you want want anything, or that you don't find pleasure in the things that used to delight you, please do talk to your doctor. Anhedonia (the loss of joy in life) is a symptom of depression. Depression is treatable, but when it's ignored, can cause serious problems in your life and at times may become life-threatening.

Sorry, but this whole "two way Street" argument seems to only be taken as far as you would like it to, to prove your point. Gentlemen: most of you are amazing so please ignore this as it is just to prove my point. Frankly, how do I not know that maybe YOU are mentally unstable and maybe wont take the info you know about me to the extreme? Say you visit me and during the session I dont provide something that you are very insistant on, such as bbbj. Fine. So you leave, unhappy, and lose your shit and flip! You now have my location, which can obviously reveal my REAL FULL name, my website info, my contact info, etc. Who is to say that just because I didn't Blow You without a condom that you wont reveal all my info and slander my name and put me at risk. Because of your UNSTABLE MIND I have just lost MY LIVELYHOOD, all my security of my incall. and I'm put at Extreme risk. You could easily STEAL FROM ME when you visit me(or after), BLACKMAIL ME with the threat of exposing my job, etc. Nice TWO WAY STREET huh? NEVER use mental health as a reason as a way to take it to an extreme and insult someone. It's ugly and uncalled for, as you can now see. We are in the same spot you are. If you can't trust others because of YOUR EXTREME PARANOIA and NARCISSISM, than why in the world would I trust you and invite you into my home? What makes you so important that I would pretty much destroy my whole career just to SPITE you?! It seems to me that you've lost site of the fact that to you, this is a hobby. It provides you with a luxury that you desire. To me, this is my livelyhood, my job. Not something I do for entertainment.

Not a problem for me.....If it puts your S.P at ease your experience should be that much more enjoyable....Tks

It's a matter of safety for both you and the companion. If she is asking, anyone else she has met or screened has had to provide the details. You are entering my personal space, whether a hotel or condo and I want to know who you are. Due to all the crap being pulled, screening process are getting a bit more strict with some ladies, and I being one of them, am sorry if you do not like it, but there is no way I will visit with the details. Personal safety is way more important to me than any amount of money.

Are these people still not aware of the fact that there are other boards that allow that sort of thing? But in a world of negativity and hate, thank God for cerb! :razz: