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To be honest, if you conduct business as a revolving door in a hotel, condo, or and dwelling that you wish to offer an incall from, you will draw attention to yourself and eventually get a visit from that cities finest. Why should anyone worry about visiting a low volume, up-scale lady at a hotel? If this is a worry, maybe the wrong company is being kept. Obviously the woman in question in the news, was green, and had no clue how to be discreet and let alone not operate as a factory. Sometimes it takes an eye opening experience such as this to open ones eyes (as sad as it is)

Well to clairify a few things, I was not looking for a recommendation, I was seeking a reference (completely different) which he said he had, he then told me who it was but then said I do not think you should contact her as she may not like it (this companion is reference friendly and I have been in touch with her in the past) Then he asked to use another lady, one of whom does not even ask for first names and books from payphones (so for my safety and those I know, I would never accept it). I do not understand what the big deal is, if you enjoy your regular companion SO much and are worried of her thoughts (which I am sure 99% of the ladies would be more than happy to vouch for you to see another companion) If it is going to bother you so much, like anything else WHY see someone else, or better yet find a companion that does not require a reference. I have made it clear to those I have spent time with that I am more than happy to vouch for them if ever needed. What I do not need is someone saying well I've seen Emily and she will be hurt if I use her name. Any companion who contacts me for a reference knows I screen thoroughly and never has to worry as I would only give my honest feedback. A reference is a matter of some ones safety and well being, if I choose not to give a reference and something happened to that companion during her date I would NEVER forgive myself. We are NOT in high school any more, its time everyone treats others with respect, stops making assumptions (unless they know the truth) and deals with this hobby the way it is meant to be dealt with - Relaxing and Fun This is an industry that really has no regulations so to speak and ladies run there business how they see fit....One can only hope that one day a valid reference is a requirement by all companions.

Sometimes you have to kiss a few frogs before you find your prince. Posted via Mobile Device

Her son was a priority in her life. He is with his father and is doing okay. She had chronic illnesses for years and struggled. The sex industry allowed her to work when she felt well enough and allowed her to take care of her son. Her death was unexpected though she had been fighting pneumonia. She collapsed in her home and was taken to hospital where she eventually passed a couple days later after she was taken off life support as there was too much damage done for her to return to us. She was an advocate for autism and spent a lot of time researching and educating. She was a very caring person and a great companion. She will be missed by many people. If I find out any more information about her wishes on donations etc, I will post. I know that autism would have been at the top of her list though.

Whenever I do an out call to avoid looking lost I make sure I am familiar with where the elevators are etc. I have called hotels pretending to make inquiries to stay. You can always ask a few questons and find out where the elevators are in proximity to the desk, lounges and shops. Once you have all your information just walk in like any guest and proceed with absolute confidence.

Waving back to someone who you're not sure you know, or even why exactly they're waving at you... only to realize that they're actually communicating with someone behind you.

Sean Connery, of course! Especially this one: But even now, at 80, he's still a fine-looking man, I think! I do love a man in a kilt! These make up for this unfortunate one, don't you agree?

I'm pretty lucky. I'm very sexy, turquoise eyes, small nice breast, straight nose... But this is not the case for everybody. As everybody (or almost), I have little details on my body that are bugging me... My waist is not fine enough, too small breast, very VERY pale complexion, red head, ... But I live pretty well with myself. I train every day, mountain climbing twice a week, trampoline in the backyard, eat well, and living well. I'm not rich, not poor, very ordinary. I just don't understand why people would go to the point of no return, and even farther. Huge breast, not even and wrecked, fake tan same color as a burned toast, or even facelift so hard, it looks like a witch face... I mean, we are born with a certain type of body, and we can working it out so it fits certain beauty criteria. We can do some amelioration, like a very little implant, but when does it comes to a compulsion? I mean, nobody wants to look like Joan Rivers, or have a Janet Jackson type of nose... Our society is so focussed on details that we often forget to look at the whole picture. You know what? I feel beautiful and awsome this morning, and I wish you the same!. . http://www.ocregister.com/articles/celebrities-297900-worst-plastic.html?pic=1

I didn't know who she was, but it is always sad to here about someone's passing. That was very kind of you Zoe to let us here on cerb know. My thoughts are with her family and friends . May she rest in peace. RIP Lana xoxo:frown:

I really don't think we live in a society that pressures women to get plastic surgery. I think we did in the 90's and early 2000's when plastic surgery was the newest and biggest thing to do. Yes... there is the suggestion of what perfection is provided by Hollywood and by the hottest magazines, but I consider that an illusion of perfection. I think the average man, prefers natural beauty in a woman. Some women will conform to try and fit that natural beauty category and other women who genuinley want the surgery for their own happiness and fulfillment. I think if someone is using soley using plastic surgery to find happiness, then there are deeper issues going on.

Kucky? What's kucky? :-)

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This is a thread which can raise many issues. Two that come to mind are the guys attitudes about the sex industry, first that in some ways they are participating in some shady and illegal enterprise, and the second relates to the failure to take ownership for their personal decision to participate with the ladies. Sure there are unscrupulous women who practice the bait and switch and those that have habits and are on the streets. But if you take care there are many wonderful women who are very professional and value this industry as their livelihood. They are careful to maintain there health and are careful to operate in a fairly lawful manner. Most value their privacy, and are not interested in keeping in touch outside the dates they have with you. I try to show them the utmost respect and let them know if they are free to call and leave a message. On the second point, if you are going to cheat then by all means have an anonymous email account and a throw away phone to protect your identity. But, if you are caught man up and accept the consequences. You should have already considered what the negative consequences are for you. I am rather fortunate that I don't have a significant other that I have to hide my activities from, but if I did I would definitely have to reconsider stepping out. At the outset I will say that I do have two phones, one of which is a pay as you go which I have had for many years. I have met many nice ladies in this industry who I'm quite comfortable with giving them my identity. The reason for the second is simply for maintaining my privacy in quite a number of areas. I don't want the telemarketer calling, a clingy client who I have helped as a volunteer, so I use the disposable for many things as well as this activity. It's a number that I can switch off when I want, or abandon if it becomes a problem. The other I expect to have forever and is only given to family, close friends and trusted people and organizations.

I agree with Megan, especially if you are planning on visiting a well reviewed lady. What would we gain from any kind of malicious use of your number? If you have so little trust in us, why in the world should we trust you? It boggles the mind to think that there is this view that SP's are all nefarious by nature. To paint us all with the same brush would then make me believe that all hobbyiest are all ugly sex starved freaks!

Lol. I always thought a True GFE was where the SP gets angry at the gent. He apologizes for a while, then they have makeup sex. And then she gets angry at him again. That's my take on a "True" GFE. Posted via Mobile Device