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Well...I though that in 2011 people were more accepting...and that I would never had to write a post like this... This afternoon I saw a gentlemen (well...a men) for the first time. He saw my add on duttlist, sound nice on the phone...We are down to business and everything go smoothly until he saw my pentagram and my tarot deck on my desk... Never in my life was I hurt this way by words...the lashing and the disgusting look that I saw in his eyes was brutal. Yes, something my friends will call me a Witch and I will joke with them about burning witches and the Burning Times...but I know it's just by fun...but when someone look at you with a look like this, saying that you are trash and should died....The pain that flew inside me was brutal I understand that not everyone is fond of religion or beliefs and I respect the fact that this man doesn't believe in the same things that I do... My question is...would you see an SP knowing that she have religon/beliefs different from your?

I too , am certain that I would gain more clients if I showed my gorgeous face :icon_wink:, but at the end of the day, the extra gain in my finances would mean nothing due to the fact that it could destroy my personal and family life. I still plan on exiting this business when I attain full time employment, I still go on many interviews, workshops, and testing sessions.....therefore to me, it is so not worth it...and your right Nicki, many of our pics are downloaded on onto whoever's computer......To me if you are out about it...it may be easier to show your face...and if your not, I would not suggest it, because unfortunately, we cannot control other's behavior....sometimes when we are out and about ( outside of escorting) you have to worry about the men you have actually previously met, I could not deal with people knowing me and what I do because they seen me in pics linked to escorting. The most important reason, my #1 , is because I have a child. The thought of my daughter seeing this stuff, especially since it's all online....is terrifying. Although my money helps me support my child, she deserves a happy, safe & care free childhood like I had....so therefore NO face pics for me.

I had a poem in another thread, but the thread got deleted (not bc of my poem), lol. I originally wrote it just to stop all the awkwardness, and so we can all be more awesome. Anyways, here is my poem, I had to write it again tho :(, because I couldn't remember some of it & did it off the top of my head, lol. CERB taught me threads like, "Bad Night, Turned Good" are silly CERB makes me smile like gettin' a random wet willy. CERB makes me smile & think happy thoughts like hip hip hooray. CERB taught me cool terms like DATY, MSOG, and BBBJ. CERB is like walking into to a party & making eye contact with that person you know, CERB makes it like that winter holiday with the jolly old fellow who says HO HO HO. CERB taught me 15 min services aren't good. CERB helped me get use out of my wood. CERB has taught me about SP's with perfume, and what to know. CERB taught me about negotiating a rate..... HELL to the NO!!! CERB educated me on how to avoid the ole bait & switch. CERB educated me on oral, doggy, and even a little mish. CERB taught me the deliciousness of obleas, alegrias, and Mexican cuisine. CERB is kinda awesome frickin possum, like a bowl of jelly beans. CERB illustrates why SP's aren't emotionless and do have a heart. CERB illustrates why clients aren't shady, and are quite smart. CERB taught me "chat etiquitte" and how to properly do things like "PM" CERB is like kinda really sweet, like a bunch of chocolate M & M's. CERB sometimes has silly threads like what came first, the chicken or the hen? But I sometimes with they would stop, just so everyone at CERB can just be friends. Happy Fathers Day Everyone!!!!!!!!! (p.s. i know it's the chicken & the egg, but i cant rhyme with egg. i know... *facepalm*). Imaginary Hugs all Around :)

Went there for the first (and last time ever) last summer after a golf game with friends. Not exactly a classy place. The cubicle is a chair and a drap. When we came in , there was someone just getting in the cubicle. At a certain point, we see the guy dropping is pants to his ankles............. and was only there for a song or two. This lady, the only lady on site, came to sit with us after she had, what I have to assume, performed her non-official duties with her client. Not exactly a spinner ( and I`m being kind). She smiled at me and she had no teeth. She explained that her dentures were being repaired and she proceeded to ask if I ever got gumbed before........ I kindly declined this opportunity to fulfill a long life ``fantasme``.......... and downed my beer and was happy to return home.

I know if I did that, guys would ulitmately try to negotiate a lower rate because their argument will be that there's "no sex" taking place even when a lady specifies the donation is for her time. I consider any touching like kissing and cuddling to be outside the limits of "social time" which I do have a lower rate for I can see how guys get confused when some ladies have prices based on menu/services as opposed to time. I just explain that I don't accept a lower rate, except for social time such as going to dinner, etc. (which is usually followed by a rendez-vous behind closed doors at my normal rate). I lose my patience when someone persists on pushing a service or a price on me after I have politely declined.

Vanessa this is for you ... :bigclap: It all resumes in a word that has been mentioned .. DISCRETION and as we read in Kyra's post is for both parts not only for the lady. This is actually a topic I discussed with the first few gentlemen I met since I was starting to learn about the industry and having seen ladies with face pictures made me think I was perhaps doing something wrong but still never even contemplated changing my mind. I then found there were a lot other ladies that do not have facial photos and understood there was no rule for that. My reasons? The first one on the list is because one day I plan to have a family and I would hate someone showing or telling my kid about those pictures. Also, my family does not know about me being an escort and good or bad I know it would hurt them, not something I would like to do. I also prefer to be on the safe side by not having any evidence that would cause trouble like what someone mentioned about being stopped at the boarder. And yeah Emma is right we just have Sara's recent and unfortunate experience as an example of the consequences of that and I'm not saying is wrong for her to have face pictures, she was not prepared for that indiscretion from the SP in question but handled it well because she knows it comes with the exposure part. In my opinion there's no right or wrong when it comes to this but there is a preference that fits in the lady's life style. And the pros and cons well they probably also vary from one lady to another based on what her priorities are.

So...I decided to treat myself tonight.I had a really rough day yesterday with a guy that broke my heart once again....( I know stupid me), so I went with a friend to Barb's....and now I am more then happy:D Tonight I was up for a treat so money wasn't an issue for me.... I went in the CR with Maria and Ariel for a couple a day...!hot! It was my first duo in a strip club. Maria is a young French woman of 20 years, about 5ft4, slim and fit, but not a spinner.she have curve, but she is toned and have small natural breast. Ariel is a taller woman of about 5ft7, brunette with hair that go in the middle of her back, small breast and bublble bum! the dances together...OMG! They were really interactive and also into me...but YMMY as always... And when I came back I had the suprise to see Trish talking to my friend (that is a guy but faithful to his girlfriend)! So I took her back again for a couple of dances....hello for me:D She is hot guys...Tall brunette, really good on stage, big boobs and round butt... and when I came out with Trish...I saw this girl, never saw her before, she kept whinking at me for a while...and when she came to sat down at my table I was more then happy to buy her a drink. Her name is Riley or Railey (I apologize I am not spelling it right), tall brunette/black hair with bright pink bang. She does have a couple of piercings and tattoos on her back. And for those that know me, they know I am a total sucker for suicide girls type and she is. she is NOT a spinner. She does have some curves probably more then most dancers at Barb's, but she is gorgeous and totally worth it in the CR. she only work there on Sunday. and boobies... expensive evening....but totally worth it! and now i forget the shitty things and I am only thinking of girls!

To all the gents on cerb that have kids ... Enjoy your day. Some people say an specific day to celebrate is not needed as we should show our love every day, that is very true but nothing wrong to give extra love on a special day right? I want to say CONGRATS!!! to all the daddys :) and extra hugs for those who are single dads. Isabella Gia

The notion that the government is trying to protect women from exploitation is astounding to me. I think it surprised the Ontario Court of Appeal judges this week, too. If the government was genuinely interested in protecting women, they would not hesitate to prevent poverty--that's doable. They would guarantee that women would always be able to earn a liveable wage or to receive assistance comparable to such a wage if or when they can't work. When marriages and similar relationships end, women wouldn't have to jump through complex and sometimes expensive hoops to ensure that they receive child support from their children's fathers and the support that they received would actually reflect the cost of raising the children. Human trafficking would not only be illegal, but the police and judiciary would be zealous to root out and prosecute traffickers. Merely being born aboriginal and female would not dramatically increase one's likelihood of ending up in poverty. Sexual assault would no longer be one of the easiest crimes to get away with: when men rape women, they would end up in jail. The laws about bawdy houses, soliciting and living on the avails of prostitution are not and never were expected to reduce the exploitation of women. The laws are there to reduce competition between men. Men don't want their access to women for sex to be mediated through other men. This is important. Occasionally, someone will post something on this board expressing concern about whether a paid companion will expose him or compromise his privacy--whether meeting with one of us may expose him to coercion, blackmail or violence. In fact, it's extremely rare for a paid companion to do anything like this. It's not so rare for a pimp, however. In addition, men simply don't want to pay other men for the opportunity to have sex with women, whether they're negotiating dowries or access to a prostitute. Outlawing prostitution or driving it underground ensures that pimps will thrive. Yes, the women who work for them may be coerced, manipulated, drugged, and subjected to threats and violence. However, our society is not terribly concerned about women's safety, particularly if they are poor or aboriginal. Women know this: some of us accept the protection pimps offer because we expect men to be coercive, exploitative and violent. We hope that a man may be less likely to harm or kill us if another man knows he was with us. Meanwhile, clients want to have sex without having to pay another man for it, without having their activities monitored and without the risk of being identified if they injure or kill us or if the intermediary decides to blackmail them later. On the whole, men don't fear prostitutes; they fear each other. Laws against soliticing, keeping bawdy houses and living on the avails are there to eliminate the middle man, not protect prostitutes.

Hmmmmm.... I tend to be a wallflower at these things... maybe I should come and try to mix a bit more... heheheheheh

I would say I'm one of those persons who has booked with Cleo based on her face pics. A good face pic can be very indicative of a girl's spirit and personality. And Cleo's in particular were irresistable to me. And continue to be. Come to think of it. Since discovering I could find escorts online and leaving the days of scanning the ottawa sun behind me *shudder*, I don't think I've ever booked with a sp who didn't have at least a partial face pic. I can completely understand and respect a sp's decision to hide her face. The downside's to showing his/her face are pretty self-explanatory (discretion, safety, etc). But I guess personally I prefer face pics.. Posted via Mobile Device

The thing is, it's very difficult to outlaw prostitution. If a law declares that it's illegal to exchange money for sex, that's all well and good, but would it be illegal to exchange, say, gifts for sex? If he takes me out to dinner or away for a weekend and we have sex, is that illegal? Suppose he just pays my rent for me? What if he leases a car for me? Perhaps he might buy a condo, townhouse or a house and give it to me--would that be illegal? What if he has groceries delivered to my house every week? He might give me a gift card or arrange for me to have credit with various stores or other places. Would that be the same as giving me money and expecting me to have sex with him? My point is that it's difficult to distinguish prostitution from things that happen in dating and marriage relationships. If you think that we don't get offers of condos, cars, luxury items and even basics like groceries, you're wrong: we do. Many of us--myself included--decline such offers because we don't want to deal with the strings that are attached to such gifts. Cash transactions are simply clearer and simpler for all concerned. Nevertheless, I would not categorically refuse offers such as those I've outlined, above. I would, however, adopt even more stringent and restrictive screening policies and my fees would certainly increase, as well. The basic principles of a capitalist economy would be in my favour. Outlawing street prostitution isn't going to work. It's illegal, already, to solicit in public, but it still happens, and the women who have to work this way are the ones who are at greatest risk of harm. Nothing will change for them if prostitution itself is made illegal.

AGREED! What I would also recommend is checking out the ladies profile/website before taking her into private chat and asking these questions. Manypeople will request private chat the second I log in, only to ask me what city I'm in, what I look like, etc. All of this info is available for you - I would assume that if you want to speak with me privately, it's because you've already checked out my site and want to learn more. I do enjoy speaking with people and use chat often just to talk, however if you are looking for something specific you'll have a better time searching the site and checking out websites, instead of asking every girl who logs in what they can offer you.