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I read a comment left on an entry that I made earlier today in the Highlights of the Day thread that caused me to think a bit more about our CERB family. CERB - the more that I get involved with it and the more that I read contributions that are made in its forums has many of the characteristics of a family. This does not refer to a 'traditional' family, but also to the dysfunctional family, the family divided, the extended family and probably any other sort of family that one could devise as well. There is certainly a common denominator for all of us that explains our initial presence as a part of this family, but once involved, I see so often how people begin to interact with each other in ways totally apart from that commonality that we all have. These differences are many but I am thinking today of the ability of CERB members to support each other in the same way as families members might do. I have seen so many examples of this in the past year where people who have never met each other, and in all likelihood never will meet each other have gone out of their ways to help another member. I have seen the genuine welcomes made to new members. I have seen the assistance provided to those who are finding their way through this maze called CERB. I have seen the authentic best wishes sent for birthdays and milestones. I have seen people reach out to those who are in trouble, be it those who are fighting an addiction or those who are trying to cope with a death in their circle of friends or family or those who are fighting an illness or other personal trauma. Something as simple as sending a hug when it is deemed necessary, or sending a personal PM or email at just that "right" time can make a difference to someone else. I can see or sense how the determination and ability of individuals members to cope in certain situations can and has inspired others. For myself, CERB has become a family in its own right. There are only a few here who truly know how much they have helped me. In many cases members probably cannot even think that I might be referring to them when I say that or be able to think of what they said or did that impacted me in such a profound way. Sometimes we as individuals do not realize or are never made aware of just how important a little personal gesture can be in making someone feel better or even how that simple gesture might turn a persons life around for the better. Do you recall the young fellow who got that hot air balloon ride, largely due to the CERB members and the initiative of Chanel Reign with her Random Act of Kindness thread. That is something that he shall always remember. The CERB family makes a difference in so many ways. Good on the CERB family.

I've never met you but like Cleo said, a jerk can come in all shapes and sizes. If you're a fun-loving, respectful gentleman, with a sense of humour (which is evident you are) then I could honestly give a rat's butt how much you weigh, or what year you were born. To me, those 2 set of numbers are completely inconsequential and irrelevant. :)

I like em all, big or small. A jerk is a jerk, whether he's slim, buff, or large. A fun, nice guy, is fun and nice no matter the size. And someone as awesome as you are shouldn't ever be concerned about something as trivial as size! Plus, I think you look great :)

Soul-crushing, indeed! The statistics on job happiness speak for themselves. Most notably that a shocking 87% of people who only stayed in a job (often government) for the pension kick the bucket before they cash their first pension cheque. The only thing you should ever want is happiness. (And less materialism will allow you more freedom, but these days everyone mistakes happiness for a big tv or fast car.) It takes all kinds to make the world go 'round, and there's a niche for everyone. True happiness comes from fulfillment, and fulfillment has nothing to do with materialism and everything to do with living each day fully, with joy, and in harmony with your true nature. And be aware that who we are may not be who we wanted to be. (I've run into this with friends a few times.) Posted via Mobile Device

I would love it if everyone understood the importance of energy work and the power of universal sorce energy that is available to all people. I would love if if people understood that physical problems are often the result of negative thoughts and wrong ideas that were planted in our minds before the age of three. I would love it if my Reiki practice was in high demand and that as many animals came for healing as people. I would love it if I were able to be with more people on thier journey of healing, mind, body and spirit.

Great thread! I also am loveably plus-sized and have wondered what is going through a girl's head when she sees Jabba the Hut in front of her. In a strip club, no problem... however at the massage parlour, there is no, well, hiding from it.... My experience is far more limited at the MP, but I also have been treated well. Sometimes, I think the poor attendant is thinking "WTF??". Still, they remain professional. I had to chuckle because last time, "I'm sexy and I know it" was playing as I got ready for the session. I was au naturel just in time for 'wiggle,wiggle,wiggle'. At least I got a laugh!

Celebrated on March 14th, Steak and Blowjob Day is a holiday for men, celebrated the month after Valentine's Day -- a holiday for women. The idea is simple: no cards, flowers, candy or other whimsical gifts. Ladies , you simply bestow your partner with a steak and a blowjob. Not necessarily in that order.

I have been 'dealing' with a rather major issue now for close to a year and a half, and finally decided that my way of dealing with it has not really gotten me too far, so I decided that it was time to call in professional help. I KNOW it is early days in this new approach, but am wishing I had not waited so long. So my highlight is simply recognizing that I needed some help and more so perhaps was my positive response to the start of that help. And a huge thank you to those who have had faith in me (CERB members included, as well as family and friends) - I shall do this!

The sky is the limit! What did you want to be as a kid? What would you be now if you could change the past?

Soft touch of the perky breasts because once you start rubbing those jewels and out pops an Emerald. You know you struck the right place for Treasure. BD

Ummm is the word "donation" not easily understood in this context... "Please visit my website for donation requirements and more information" Should I change it to "my rates" or "my prices" (both which I find kinda crass)? Or are the respondents just lazy????

Thanks for all the Input so far. Was really looking for a local M&F couple . Seems to be hard to find lol

I may not be a Greek God, but i still do the muscle pose in front of the mirror all he time. Why? Because i feel like a greek god and i see myself as that......at least in my own mind.....and it is the Only way to see my feet......hahahaha Posted via Mobile Device

First off I'd like to thank all for contributing to this great string (and those contemplating contributing more). As a guy who quit smoking a couple of years ago and put on a mini life raft around the middle, it is quite interesting to hear feed back from fellow cerbites. Its been a couple of years now and the weight just seems to stay, despite the gym thing - I know its a matter of "calories in calories out" in my case anyways. I've never been accused of a lack (or suplus) of confidence but must admit its great hearing from the ladies that "we larger guys" are still welcome and valued. I've pulled back from the hobby quite a bit for the past while because of a bit of the "embarassment factor", maybe its time to revisit that attitude. Thanks again all!

A mans physical appearance is unimportant to me as long as he is clean and walks thru my door with his head in the right place. I have a tendancy to prefer my men a little on the "thick" side but it doesn't impact my enjoyment of the time together if they are tall and slim or overly robust as long as they show up with the intent of having a good time. Attitude is key... cat

I like to think of myself as a well rounded person, but must admit that physically I would prefer to be much less rounded. So it's comforting to see the nice words here from the MAs. It seems to me though this works both ways. Though most of the MAs I have the pleasure of supporting are quite stunning it is not an essential qualification for providing a great massage. When I first starting this hobby in a serious way I used to follow the same MA to the various places she worked. Her name was Sylvie and I still very much miss her. I would occasionally often have an appointment with her and find her a bit down when I arrived because a custmer, usually an out-of-towner, had cancelled an appointment because he didn't like her looks. That seemed quite cruel to me, but I also thought it was very stupid because she was great company, a terrific masseuse and the endings were always very, very happy.

Attitude is everything! I agree with Cleo that fun people are just that, fun. It's surpasses anything else. Handsome comes in different packages. ;) I love all various types, sizes and any ethnicity. I want to have fun with all of you!

As a teenybopper or a twenty-something, I had long flowing hair down past my shoulders, I am a bit less than 6', and I was skinny: "Jim Morrison-esque", I had been told. That is until I opened my mouth, and people could automatically sense that I was a colorless, humorless geek, who was constantly falling in love and getting his heart broken. Today, I'm at least 50lbs heavier than back then, i.e. I am much more "well-rounded", and flowing hair is impossible today. Also my penis is not nearly as responsive as it used to be; two shots on goal is a pipedream now. However, I also don't have marbles in my mouth when I talk to women these days, I'm much more comfortable in my own skin, and people can sense that. For example, these days at strip clubs I don't even have to ask a girl to join me, I find they often come sit down on their own with me. I ask them how their day has been, and I listen to them properly, not boredly. I've noticed women in general, seem to make more eye contact with me and smile. I lost my Jim Morrison looks, but I wouldn't trade a single thing to go back to those days again. Good looks are wasted on the youth, most don't know what to do with it.:) I find that my regulars get cheered up when they recognize my voice on the phone, and want to know if I'm dropping by. Their usual business-like voices go from business-like to loose and casual. I then in turn get cheered up knowing that there are people who are cheered up by me. Don't look a gift horse in the mouth, if people act cheerful around you, then that's because they really are.

... as long as you share the pie ;) (Happy 3.14) I'm with the lovely MA's above, but with a SP POV - A jerk will not get my time. A gent? if I have time to share. Big or small, I love men and women, and all the fun variants along the way - Tall, Short, Trans, Queer, Skinny, Fat, Old, ... its all just different colors of the same tree ;)

I love my breast sometimes ......I must say there an asset for me in this industry . Some days I wish I could just put away . Plus finding cute bra's in 36H is not easy and way much of an expense . there usually $120 - $200

I would like to point out that March 14th is also pi day. 3.14. Perhaps pie is called for as a dessert, after the steak and the blowjob. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pi_Day

HA HA HA HA! You guys crack me up! A lot of guys like protate stimulation, but not necessarily anal sex. Especially not with a horse! Posted via Mobile Device

Cerb newbie Bellaella. Thanks, Bella!

Good morning. One of our Cerb Ladies, Jennigurl27, is hurting, physically, mentally and in her heart. Jenni lost her husband a little over a month ago, has been quite ill over the last six months, and has some other "stuff" breaking her heart. Keep her in your thoughts and prayers. If you know her number, give her a call to say hi, send her a note to say you are thinking of her. She needs our support, and I know that the folks in Cerb are so good at that. Thanx all. the liquor

I have felt quite a few fake tits over the years both in escorting and in porn.. and not all are fabulous. A lot has to depend on 1) how much you paid for them 2) who did the operation 3) how new the surgery is.. techniques and quality is sooo much improved 4) whether it's under or over the muscle and of course 5) as cristy points out what they looked like before. But one thing I take issue with.. is hard implants do exist! it's not just scar tissue. and as well..not naming names. I've seen some pretty bad surgeries in porn stars that can't really be fixed due to major damage/infection unfortunately.. usually they went too big :(

Personally I think it just seems that more new ladies are going the MP route but in actuality I don't think all that much has changed. Recently Massage parlours have become a lot more active on cerb and a lot more agressive in their advertising. Until fairly recently the only place you could see Massage ads was the newspaper (ottawa sun) and the occasional ad on cl/dl. I honesly don't think things have changed at all really. There's almost always new SP's posting in the FS ad section almost daily. It's just that the massage parlours are getting a lot more exposure than what we're used to so it seems like they're taking over but I don't think that's the case.

There is no way that I could read the comments and recommendations for the MA's that have been mentioned and not recommend Kelly (Kelly On Kent is how CERB members might remember her) She has returned to Ottawa and is now once again offering an RMT level deep tissue massage that is amazing. I am sure that members of CERB who have had one of her massages would agree with me! PM for contact details. Rodehard

Until I was 14 years old I wanted to be a princess and live in a castle Now that William is marry...I need to go after Harry and plan my own royal wedding! (and when I will come and visit Canada, I promise I will pay my own expenses!) I also wanted to be a writer...and at some point I am. I had one story publish in a book with others short story...but if I could make a living out of it , I would