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If I want to agonize over a menu, I'll go to MacDonalds. If I want to meet a special lady, I'll watch her posts here for awhile and then I'll talk to her in some manner. It really doesn't take too long for me to decide whether or not we'll click. I'm pretty easy going and low maintenance and I seem to gravitate towards those who have a sense of humor and appear to have a genuine interest in seeing me as a person in addition to being a client. I don't see my friends as escorts, really. I think of them more as friends with benefits. Every lady is different, but if I treat them as a lady, they'll treat me as a friend. The first hug and smile are the icebreakers....and then it's all good.

Got stood up twice by the same provider (no names necessary) and as I was walking away from the failed second rendezvous there was a young homeless person. I gave him $100 and I have to say that while it was not the satisfaction I was looking forward to, the look on his face was very rewarding. Hope everyone's day is as good as mine now will be. :)

Cristy...if every moves you do is to get adknowledgement and appreciation it may be deceptful If someone ask help..ask a reference or ask infos...i think it is common courtesy to respond with a thank you..Giving someone compliments..Well it is very nice of you and get even better if they adknowledge but as per example i don't see my profile posts very often..And when a lady only write to me to either compliments me or ask advices i have to be honest that it doesn't go in priority as i am usually behind schedule and need to catch up on my emails for my current tours... I think if it is a fellow sp that ask help..a thank you is well deserve as you take some of your time to cater for that person and you don't really have to But keep in mind that you shouldn't do anything with the expectations of reward. xVJ

Miss Victoria, You of all people have nothing to prove! You are extraordinary in your very being and anyone who questions that is, without a doubt, unworthy of you in any capacity. I agree with backrubman that the art of seduction is indeed forgotten and sorely missed. It is why my minimum visit is 2 hours. The first part is a "get to know you" and if we don't click, my guest leaves with his $, my best wishes and recommendations of someone more to his liking. I don't want to play if it isn't "right" for both of us. I can always tell if he's not into me and I certainly know when the chemistry is wrong. No amount of $ makes that situation worthwhile. cat

i think that many of the ladies have reviews everywhere where you can have an idea what is available..Demanding to be assure before a meeting(anyway for me)is never really taken positive especially when i prefer to not discuss sexual activities via email,pm,phone before an encounter. For many ladies if you need to have the guarantee it is a turn off and also that you dismiss her valuable reputation.Not to say may offend her too..And remember also that building higher expectation base on a wider menu or countless of reviews usually bring to disapointement..It is like this...The movie is never as good as the book you read. Coming in a meeting with open mind and no high expectations can reflect on personality(i am someone that feed myself a lot of the energy of others) and bring a more than expected fabulous meeting. VJ

There was a thread I read a while back about facebook privacy where SP/MA's are concerned. So when I read this article about this alarmingly creepy app I couldn't help but think about you ladies. Just a head's up for those who don't already have a beefed up security on their social networking. http://www.cultofmac.com/157641/this-creepy-app-isnt-just-stalking-women-without-their-knowledge-its-a-wake-up-call-about-facebook-privacy/ It's a lengthy read but it's worth it. Be careful and safe out there everyone!

I would like to add that sometimes Mother Nature's "gift" comes without any warning and at an innapropriate time. It is entirely conceivable that she started her period while you were engaged in intercourse.

I believe Winston Churchill once said that "a civilization can be judged by how it treats its prisoners." With that in mind what good can (pardon the pun) come from depriving inmates of the ability for self pleasure? I mean they are already locked up with their freedom removed, what harm can come from masturbation? Besides how much money would need to be invested into new security measures such as guards, cameras, etc. just to keep an inmate from touching themselves? Do we really need masturbation police?

What you were asking was for a way to determine fees.... A little different from discussing fees, no one replied with anything on fees, so I think your safe here. Nothing wrong with making an inquiry on how to do something.

thanks for agreeing it is a good topic i honestly turn to a guy friend and ask him what i should do because i have been crying the last few days..People come to me with so high demand..They are disapointed or are mad when i tell that their approach cool me off...They see one girl happy with the fact she is gfe and give one shot and i am here and they almost want me to prove why they should see me when i do double...it is an insult..not only they don't treat me as human beein but are mad that i notice it

Peachy, I find that people who try to highlight their education or test people tend to miss the point about education. If someone needs to rely on a degree or some lettering behind their name to prove something, they're probably lacking in some department. What is learned in university these days tends to assist in your ability to grasp new information and use it, not teach you the definitive answer to all of lifes questions. This can also be learned through life experience, and can be learned better that way my most pepople. People who rely on a degree miss this point and think it makes them smart...and sadly the opposite it usually true for these types. Unfortunately, where I work is very degree oriented and people whose IQ wouldn't break the century mark strut around with dual masters or PhDs like a peacock tail while denigrating those without. I have a university education and prefer the company of those who have learned life lessons, not necessarily stats 101; they're more intelligent and actually know things through experience. Be proud of your life experience, you're better for it. Additional Comments: I am, however, horrified at my typos:D

I don't think anyone should be taking this gentle reminder personally. Yes the visitor can sometimes come without warning and be unpredictable, but I don't think that's what this thread is about. Sometimes the lady may very well be in the know about her "visitor" and simply not clue the client in on it because she wants that $200. I am NOT saying this of all ladies, and certainly not of any ladies on here. So please don't bite my head off. In my experience the majority of ladies will have enough respect for us to let us know if it's that time of the month and will simply offer restricted services during that time or will take the time off. But sadly there is the minority who will not. Unfortunately not everyone on this planet is honest and respectful, men and women alike. I think this reminder is for those ladies who purposely leave out that little bit of information when booking the appt. If you're not that kind of lady then there's no sense in taking offense to it. I don't take offense to the many "reminder" threads about gentleman's hygiene and/or cancellations, etc because I know I'm not that kind of client and I know those threads have nothing to do with me.

Men are entitled to their opinion as well. Sure we may start our period unexpectedly But we usually know around when it should start. The gentlemen should be informed. Blood is not a little issue. Blood can be deadly.

Please DO NOT have conversations on the ladies recommendation threads, if you want to ask questions about a lady do it in the discussion areas (put a link to the recommendation if you wish) but please DO NOT ask questions or make comments on the recommendation threads that are not adding to the recommendation. Your just BUMPING it and in some cases posting bad questions. Today alone I had to remove a comment from someone bitching that the lady owed him money, I had to remove a comment asking if she does BBBJTC and another asking about a different lady! Come on guys please DO NOT do this. and ladies... remember you can not post a reply on your recommendation threads either. If someone has posted something you do not like on your rec thread simply FLAG it using the REPORT THIS icon on the post.

Last night, I had this amazing looking visitor drop in for 1 hour. Well this Tall Beautiful Blonde walked up my drive way and I could not believe my eyes. She is BEAUTIFUL! and very friendly. Her pictures do not do her justice. She looks like a 10. She is smoking hot, beautiful smile and perfect white teeth . She is tall firm and tight.Lulus 4 U as a perfect body. She as long blonde hair and Beautiful Natural C Boobies. Oh ya she was wearing really tight lulus. She wears them very well and feeling them on her with my hands all over bumm and legs was a treat. But the lulus could not stay and play so off to the floor they go Mmmmmmmmmmm Lulus 4 Me was naked in my bed. Her ASS is perfectly tone, like a Heart upside down..Yummy ! She Beautiful Hot and yes very very Yummy. OK her service is the best, she loves to give and receive, and any position she will try. Warning::she is very vocal, Close your window boys, Co's you will get busted by the neighbourhood.. I like vocal women, it makes me feel more manly having a perfect 10 blonde screaming like a rock star. Please be good to her, she will make you a very happy man, and you will REMEMBER HER 4 EVER !! I will. Lulus 4 U, I like U Baby xxx

Saw Angel today and I have to say that she's that an angel sent from heaven.Her body is what I'd describe as heavenly.Her breast's 34dd's that just amazing. Her whole body is amazingly sexy.She's also very good company guys.I have to say I'm incouraged to try other girls with this agency in the future.

Olivia Newton John-Physical Not only is she good looking, but as the video shows, it's the overweight guys (like me) that have a shot LOL RG

I thought this post was about a different kind of fur too! I've commented on how hard it is to find an SP who isn't shaven. Love fur!

A thank you is always welcomed. When giving advice (that's been asked), I have been thanked. When asking advice and receiving it, I always thank, its just common courtesy. Same goes for helping.

I am sure you will get some interesting feedback on this The First Nations have strong views ... As do many Newfoundlanders ... Or those from central SW Ontario where Canada's mink industry used to be centred Me - I am with you cristy ... The civilization process should have moved us beyond this discussion And, to my FN friends, I maintain my consistent arguement ... I will support all your traditional rights, if you practice them in the traditional way ... No motor boats or snow machines or rifles or GPS or etc. while hunting or fishing

Definitely you should do some market research to see what the range of rates is in your area. Another thing to consider is how much you need to make to achieve your goals. Then you need to look at how many appointments per week you would find reasonable to do, and which you can reasonably expect to get. Between these three factors, you will be able to determine the right rate for you, and also set a reasonable budget that will help you avoid problems. Best of luck!

Christy, taken directly form the rules & FAQ section of cerb: Ladies rates should not be up for public debate/discussion. IMO Determining what rate structure works for you, is part of being self-employed and should be a personal decision. Kim

2for1 plastic surgery. Yup, just saw a commercial from Starz Plastic Surgery. Pass!

Well I for one have met you VJ....and I found you to be an amazing lady to spend time with. Vibrant, fun, funny and easy to talk to. As a fella that does not set high expectations but justs lets things happen naturally....the chemistry was there and I had an oh sooo wonderful time with you in every way. You Rock Vic !!

+1 on pretty much everything everyone else said. I haven't met very many people who judge others based on their level of education. Those I have met who do this have generally been dispensed with pretty quickly :) As it happens, I was fortunate enough to get a pretty good formal education... but that's due in large part to good choice of parents and the way I happen to be inclined (I'm a horrible nerd at heart :) ). I'm certainly not going to judge others who were less lucky at birth, or whose talents lie in spheres other than the purely academic, or who simply chose to walk a different road. Finally, here's a picture of two college drop-outs. Clearly they'll never achieve anything worth... oh, wait...

I am one of the few lucky ladies who no longer has that time of the month, but I do understand where the guys are coming from. Being a Bi-girl I have had it happen to me. I have showed up for a "play" date just to find out her monthly is there and I made the trip for nothing. It can be very disappointing and I felt she should have told me before I left. (In my case she knew she was). I also agree with some of the ladies who have stated that sometimes they can't predict when it will hit. So I think the point of the thread was if you are regular on your monthly please be honest with your guests and things will go better. But guys also please remember that not all ladies can plan ahead and sometimes things just happen. When I used to get mine it would be at spuratic times and sometimes I would get it a couple of times in one month. It was not something I could schedule around or plan. Please all play safe and have fun!

I agree, periods sometimes can't be helped & they arrive early like the annoying relative who will not stay at the hotel you suggested. It happened early in my career & I was mortified. The guy punched his fist into the counter of the hotel bathroom & it was one of the few times I felt a rush of adrenaline attributed to fear. Believe me, while a man may be unimpressed, we are the ones at risk of being alone with someone whose reaction is not rational. I know no women who would do this on purpose. When I was later apologizing to my agency boss because the client flipped she looked at me & said "Hey, relax, I am not upset. It happens. Besides, he is having relations with a 32 year old woman of child bearing age. If he doesn't realize it might happen & can't handle it, tough." I was still embarrassed but I felt better & it put it in perspective. I am neither pre-pubescent nor post-menopausal & to me it's not the same as hygiene, but equal to a client who burps while kissing you or farts while you are going down on him. Especially if he is in a relaxed state of bliss. It happens you know. Can it be helped? Probably not & I imagine he is upset where I am not. Some things in life are simply out of our control. Especially bodily functions. No woman wants it to happen & I imagine when it does, as in my case, she is as unhappy if not more. If she DID know & did not inform, condoms notwithstanding, that is inconsiderate but I agree with Cat. Bills need to be paid & kids need to be fed. And life will go on! Sandi

"Formal education will make you a living; self-education will make you a fortune." Jim Rohn

Reading the responses to this thread gives me all sorts of warm fuzzy feelings. It's great to see so many thoughtful comments on the nature intelligence, and the things that make someone an interesting companion to spend time with. I dropped out of school when I was 16, to further my unconventional education. Like April Dawn, a lot of people are surprised to hear that about me. We have this cultural notion of a dropout as lazy, unintelligent, and unmotivated. What I find particularly lazy is the way that people are so quick to judge others for these surface details and not for their personality, skill, and insight. Formal education is just one way that people can learn and exercise their minds. Thank goodness it's not the only one- what a boring world we would have, then! Don't let these clients get you down. They are the ones showing their ignorance. By being the successful SP that you are, you have proved your smarts quite adequately, I think.

Pfft don't ever let anyone make you feel low about your education! You can be the most educated person in the world but it does not necessarily make you "smart", being life smart or "street" smart can make you more educated then anyone with a "formal" education...It's your personality that draws them in and keeps them in ;) Being educated can come in so many different types of levels, anyone who belittle's you about your mind is the "uneducated" one!!!

I will reiterate...not all of us have a regular, calendar counting type of menstruation. Nor do all of us have any warning signs of it's impending arrival. This could make for an uncomfortable or unpleasant experience (one I have not yet gone thru, touch wood) so bear in mind that the lady may not have been trying to deceive!

Cometman beat me to it. If your personality shines then that is the most important quality you could possess. Besides, your writing style indicates an intelligence that cannot necessarily be obtained in school.

I seem to recall that there were a few reminder threads started over the last few months... perhaps they should have all been handled in private too? Even though some subjects/reminders are redundant, especially the ones about hygiene and safety, these are always subjects that will keep coming back every so often. I also don't understand why when 'we', the ladies, start a thread and share our concerns it is considered acceptable but when a gentleman does it he gets treated in a hostile manner. Yes, I totally agree and it can definitely happen when we least expect it.

Lexy you are way too sweet a girl to have that kind of stuff happen to you.

Same as if you got a 'civilian' woman pregnant ;)

Well..... I bought a bag of BBQ peanuts not long ago.....and it said on the bag "may contain nuts" hmmmmmmm

For Christ sake it's one of their last freedom. Let them masturbate in peace. Also the right of masturbating probably keep the stats of rape a bit more down that if they weren't allowed.