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I believe that so many reasons abound as to why men choose paid company rather than a GF, wife, what have you, but I look at asshats who post shit like Curious describes this way: They are paying us and the reality is that these guys fall into the "NEED TO PAY FOR IT" category. Their "personality", I imagine, leaves no other options. It's also why they live on sites that not only allow, but encourage & reward the disparaging of women who actually let them play with their boobies. These sad little men, with their sad little winkies that they need to pay to get touched, and make me imagine on the other side of the keyboard sits this usually have the social skills of an inbred jackal & couldn't get it ANY other way. I don't feel sorry for them. Because they are the rage-aholics who will never have a healthy relationship, likely are on every douche list in the country & if SPs/MAs were to suddenly disappear, they would explode in utter frustration knowing they haven't the ability to ever get laid again! They know it, they resent it, so they turn it around to blame the imperfect woman who probably cringed at their touch regardless of the cash in hand. Sandi P.S. Feel free to repost this on any other site out there. I have no fear since I don't do bestiality!

Thank you for sharing, Eva. :) On the opposite side, I have some wonderful clients who have very intense orgasms as well. :) I, personally, think it is really awesome, but I can tell that sometimes some of them are embarrassed or think that I will think they are strange. Nothing could be further from the truth, as I think it is beautiful! I can imagine that at another point, they may have felt judged, possibly by a less understanding, less open partner. Sharing an orgasm with another person is such a personal and intimate thing, it needs to be handled with care. This is when people are often at their most vulnerable. It's like a sneeze or any other bodily function... Everyone kind of does it a bit differently, and it's best when you just let it out naturally and completely. Unnaturally stifling it will only lessen it. Anyone who accepts this, and openly welcomes all the juices, smells, noises and uncontrollable movements that come with a great sexual experience, will be a gem to their partner. :) P.S. The way you described your orgasm turned me on :cooter: xo

Hopefully this beautiful and insightful post was also posted on the other ERB board(s) where you are an active member :) It would be quite "interesting" to see the feedback you get too...

Let me first just say that I can openly admit that I am an intense cummer. When I get off, I feel it with my whole body; I shiver and shake, I yell, I moan, I arch my back, I lose my breath. I never thought of this as a bad thing, I always thought it was sexy, exciting and hot for a guy to see what his cock has done to me. Then, several times in my personal and professional life, I've had guys half-smirk, giggle, or look at me with a blank stare and scoff out an "Ummm... are you okay?!" as if I have done something embarrassing or weird. Of course, in the moment I was taken aback, humiliated and it made me feel totally self-conscious... and the more times it happened, the more awkward about it I became, to the point where now I have a hard time cumming at all - in fact 95% of the time I don't. So I ask - why do men ask this rude, annoying question, and how could they possibly think this would make a woman feel comfortable with them sexually? How would it make you feel (if you're a man), if when you whipped your cock out, a woman giggled at you and said "Is that it??" - different question, same gist. I am working to overcome this complex now, but it kind of pisses me off that people's thoughtless and oblivious comments have affected me to the point where I now have trouble enjoying the very thing I love most. I am an extremely sexual being, yet I suddenly have a mental block that stops me from getting to orgasm because I don't think it's sexy or like I'm "doing it right". What's with that?!

If a client jerks an SP around enough ( cancelling multiple times) or no shows her then it's justified. Don't waste their time by doing this and there won't be a problem. Most won't call back and are considered time wasters and would be blacklisted by the SP. And if an SP did this, there would be holy hell to pay for if it were a last minute cancellation or she no showed. A professional SP will make it up to the client at a reduced rate or more time offered. If a client is intent on seeing a certain SP then keep the appt or cancel in sufficient amount of time. Other businesses will ask for the same so why should it be any different for an SP? I recently missed a hair appt because I was sick and cancelled on short notice and had to pay a cancellation fee of $100. Why? because it's policy and I respect the guy who's been doing my hair for the last 13 years and he is losing money. Short term cancellations aren't that easy to replace right away. And I also respect him and what he does.

Deposits And Cancellation Fees..for real?! Yes, for real LOL Every lady runs their business the way they want/need. If you don't appreciate certain specific business models, I am positive you will find many others who will accommodate your needs ;) I am one of the ladies who require a deposit under certain circumstances and also has a cancellation policy. Why you might ask? So people who are not serious about meeting with me or are not reliable do not waste my time. Cheers :)

Husband tells of his life married to a sex worker By Lucy Kippist http://www.heraldsun.com.au/lifestyle/husband-tells-of-his-life-married-to-a-sex-worker/story-fni0d7e4-1226693480721

Penny Arcade made a comic related to the phenomenon, The Greater Internet Fuckwad Theory.

There's a similar story right here on cerb. Just follow this link and scroll down to post #26 for a very moving account. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=15487&page=3

well this is the time in my life when I say farewell and see you later.. I would love to thank everybody for welcoming me into cerb with open arms and open hearts!! cerb has showed me how genuine and true this business can be!! and I definitely love having the pleasure of having everybody's company even the people I have not yet met.. the last two years here in Ottawa have been wonderful and I'm very thankful, I have made some wonderful true friends and I have worked for the best woman I could ever have worked for ever Angie!!! so this is definitely not goodbye but its just see you later xoxoxo I wish nothing but the best for everyone much love. my very last day here will be August 25th kennidi kummings

Don't stop doing it! Yell, scream, pant, whatever....please!!

Travel for sure, this year I've driven all over the States, next year will bring Costa Rica, Newfoundland, and possibly the Yukon Baking Reading Biking Exercise Playing on cerb Masturbating I used to be crafty, my speciality was making personalized sock monkies for friends. I should get back into crafting. I'd love to knit but I have three cats so there is no point, they would just jump at the yarn. This winter for sure I intend to teach myself French, I meant to last winter but failed miserably.

I've been with a girl who is also a huge cummer, she moans, yells, grips on like crazy and trembles, shakes and quivers like an earthquake is going through her entire being.....and it's sexy as hell, personally I couldn't get enough of it......loved , loved ,loved to watch her cum, it was so intense and incredibly sexy. Guys should be so lucky to experience such a beautiful, sensual thing. That is so hot.

I would eliminate heinous and violent crime, domestic abuse, sexual abuse, child abuse and the one that gets me the most is child sexual abuse...... I would if I could eliminate that ..... right after I hang every one of those peeps from their penises from a highwire and the judges that like to let them out on parole after 3-5 years of a 15 plus year sentence !!!! Then I would go find Cleo and have an orgasm ;) Be happy :)

The Secret World of the Student Sex Worker By Rebecca Schofield http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/rebecca-schofield/student-sex-workers_b_3706988.html

Ummm, Kirkland? lol

My take on it for whatever it's worth. This lifestyle and business (yes, let us not forget it is at it's core a business) is very unique and unlike any other business that I can think of. There are some gentlemen who seek out a lady for sex, and nothing more. And there are ladies who provide sex only and nothing more. And that is a mutually beneficial arrangement for both the lady and gentleman and there is nothing wrong with that. But there are gentlemen who seek out, for lack of a better word, companionship. And there are ladies who provide companionship. Usually it is ladies who offer what is a GFE. And not a rule, but in my experience, this GFE has turned out to have no menu, the encounter unfolds naturally Companionship to me is two adults seeing one another and seeing if you click/connect. That doesn't happen with every lady you'll meet, nor does it happen with every client the lady sees...it is that something undefined, and natural, call it chemistry if you will. If you two like each other's company, the gentleman will call the lady for a second, third, forth etc encounter. And why see a lady for repeat encounters. It has to be more, much more than just sex and looks. If it was just sex, that is really just a physical act. If just looks, well there are a lot of beautiful women here. But a lady offering companionship, and it evolves. That means the gentleman feels relaxed to open up and talk to the lady. And the lady feels relaxed and opens up too. There is obviously trust and respect between the two, and it may evolve to a friendship within the confines of this lifestyle. I emphasize that because the friendship first should be it's own reward, no special expectations nor asking for discounts from the lady...that to me is despicable and something a gentleman and friend would never do. And second, the friendship still respects the boundaries in this lifestyle. You don't see her in the lady's civilian life and she doesn't see you in your civilian life. But when you do see each other, it is in paid encounters, it's just the encounter is two friends getting together, not a SP meeting a client So short answer (after I catch my breath here LOL) is yes I certainly think a connection can be made between a lady and gentleman. Obviously chemistry plays a big part in this connection, not every lady and gentleman will connect beyond the immediate encounter. The fact that at it's core this is a business transaction, to me doesn't diminish any connections made. Looked another way, this business has allowed the gentleman to meet a lady which has developed into, because of chemistry, a connection, maybe a friendship. A long winded rambling RG

Hey guys, I like starting random discussion threads, so here's the random discussion of the day: What are your hobbies? Myself, I am a HUUUGE knitter, and any crafting in general really. I love art of all kinds so I like to draw, paint, scrapbook, do digital art... I've always been a "modder" by nature so I generally like to modify things in some way to make it "mine" - unique and original. I guess that's why I want to take up a sewing or seamstress class, as I've dreamt of learning to make my own clothes/shoes for AGES. Other than that, I love to read - especially awful, trashy romance novels (they are AWFULLY DELIGHTFUL nyuk nyuk nyuk) and learn. Language has always been an interest of mine, and I have learned (and lost) several languages over my life - French, Spanish, some German and started learning Russian and Czech, but over time I have lost them because I don't speak them often enough... One of those cases of "use it or lose it" I'm afraid. And ummm... I'm a huge nerd, so I like playing video games a lot. I'm an introvert, so I tend to gravitate towards solitary hobbies as you can tell (lol). I play World of Warcraft, StarCraft 2, Anno 2070, Diablo 3, The Sims, all kinds of puzzle games (I love puzzles!), and whatever else I find on Steam that peaks my interest. What about you guys?! What are you into?

Cerb is not shown to members only. Guests are limited to 5 page views most of the time before getting the NAG screen to register but most of the site is indexed by google and can be read by NON MEMBERS. To participate on the site however it requires a membership. Still not a "PUBLIC PLACE" it is a form of MEDIA and has no physical "PLACE" unless you count the physical location where the data is stored on the server as the 1's and 0's that make up the site are stored on a computer is a NON PUBLIC secured building

First I like to say that's awesome, and I love seeing a woman quiver in ecstasy. Although I must say, if it where to happen without me knowing prior I may ask "are you ok" but not to the intend of offending or embarrassing you, but more of checking in with you. Some woman during orgasm need to stop and recuperated other may not want you to stop. To be honest the first time I had sex with a woman with intense orgasm I was surprised cause something like that never happened before. My wife who was my first and long time lover was the only experience I had and she was a quiet non intense orgasm. For the longest time I felt insecure with myself because I thought I wasn't doing something right. Now I've learned with the woman I've been with they all have orgasm differently. Ps when the woman orgasm hmmm such a turn on and makes me cum much harder.

I forgot one. Dance Dance Revolution. Yes, seriously. Usually played with no pants on (cause that's how I roll).

By all means Eva try to keep your orgasm explosive, so scream, yell, shake, let your eyes roll in the back of your head. I was getting turned on by the description of your orgasm that I got hard in my pants at work. If a guys ask you if you are ok! just tell him that you are great and that you want another one like that one quickly and repeatedly. 10/10 for the description of your orgasms.

The amount of gorgeous women in this thread who play WoW, excuse me I need a towel...

Travel. Europe, Japan, some part of North America. I am leaving in barely a month for a 5 weeks trip in Europe. -Ropes. I am crazy obsess with rope bondage. Hell, I travelled halfway across the world, for it and will do it again! -Videos games. Wow, Skyrim, Final Fantasy, Diablo 3...as long as it's RPG and on PC I am most likely willing to play it. -Discovering new wines and cheeses

Many SP's get tremendous amounts of cancellations and it's just bad for their business. Some of them just get sick of it and have to charge a fee. I guess it should happen to people that have cancelled more than once because that's a little sketchy. I'm really not surprised SP's are doing this though.

Me too! :biggrin: I try to avoid pants whenever possible.

I would promote worldwide masturbation to help everyone chill out because to paraphrase the late, great Waylon Jennings,"If all men masturbated every morning, all wars would end".

People often don't believe me when I say it, but I don't even own one pair of jeans. In my many years as an office worker, there would be special 'jeans' days - and I was all... uh... I'll wear my skirt and heels anyway. I'm all for casual clothes, but when most people are in jeans, I'm in leggings, or a skirt, or both. OH! I do have one pair of really short jean shorts, those I like :D

Just to climb out on a humourous limb for a minute, I'd erase all boy bands. From history. For ever. After that, well let's just say there are some people with certain behaviour traits I'd acquaint myself with very diabolically. Healthy people who park in handicap spaces, you'd be first in line, followed by the people who actually listened to the boy bands before I sent them packing for oblivion.

If I could....I would like to convince people that they do have the ability to make the world a better place. Be it a simple act of kindness, a smile, a handshake or a generous donation of time or money....it can all make a difference. The motto of the day is not "if I could I would"...it should be "if I can, I will". Additional comments: What Cleo said.

Orgasms for all! Seriously. If everyone had at least one orgasm every day, I truly believe many issues would simply go away. Orgasms make people happy... and happy people don't fuck with others.

I was going to watch it but it ends past my bedtime...I paid today for last night for watching The Departed, it ended real late. And damn, Godfather II on tomorrow night, but it runs late Why don't they start those longer running movies earlier in the evening, like 6pm RG

Do away with , and erase it's entire history & effect on humanity. :biggrin: Sounds simple enough.

She was there today Beautiful as ever!!!

If I could do just one thing, I would eradicate child poverty, hunger, and abuse...children are the future of the world, given the proper chance they can grow to cure all the worlds ills and injustice!!

When I first embarked on this adventure, I thought I was too old. A friend reminded me that the hottest, most successful female actors are in their forties and up. Now, granted a lot of them have had a bit of "help", who can deny the ultimate sexiness that a sexually confident mature lady exudes. There comes a time when a woman embraces her strengths and ignores her perceived short comings. With age comes acceptance. I feel that I am beautiful and therefore act as such. I remember my late teens and early twenties, I wouldn't leave the house (even to run for milk) without fully styled hair and makeup. I covered my freckles, I tamed my curls, I accented my invisible lashes and plumped my skinny lips. Now I embrace what I used to think of as flaws and rejoice in my incredible sexual appetite; another great milestone to the aging process. As a younger women, I was so preoccupied by what I should look like and do that sex was almost a chore and not an enjoyment. Now....while I love to please, I can finally allow myself to be pleased. Errr....forgot the topic of the thread, went off on a tangent lol.

Learning that my mothers heart issues are nothing serious, or so I'm being told.

The case with now magazine was dropped because the laws specifically state a "public place" and a "place" is a physical location not a newsprint or other media publication (such as the internet) until the law is redefined the internet is not a public place.

Thanks to you.. You are such a sweetheart! Yes, sometimes it sad to read that kind of stuff.. But the funniest part is that the one who *always* have something bad to comment about everything are the one who need to look to themselve in the mirror. I have been called "fat" on this *erb by someone who is 3times my size...LOL To be honest, I dont really care as Im comfortable with my body (most of the time.. Im a woman after all! Lol) and there is a lot of men who likes me the way I am.. !! Im honest on my description and my pictures.. If Im not your type, you can keep it for yourself! No? Lol I dont even log into that board anymore.. No time for such negativity! Nobody is perfect after all! ;)

Is over 40 and fabulous!

...or more experienced would be a better term :)

Thanks for asking this! I'm a huge fan of older women!

Recommendation- Soleil: When I 1st got in contact with Soleil, it was a different kind of situation for me. You see, I am a 24 year old male who has Cerebral Palsy and am confined to a wheelchair. At this time I was a virgin and was thinking that I was never going to lose my virginity. My life is really hard and there is not much joy in it. I had been talking with several Sp?s, and had actually been told by one of them that Soleil would be good for my situation. Let me tell you, I am so happy the sp I was talking with, Recommended her form me. Upon receiving Soleil?s name I sent her an email explaining my situation, and within the hour she replied back, within the hor. At this point I knew things were off to a good start. I told her that I had a disability and was in a wheelchair, she was fine with that. It was amazing. She wanted to know all about me and my needs before our time together. She really cares about her work. This was the 1st time in my life that a woman and her beauty and intelligence, wanted to me with me. Here is another point that shows she cares about her clients. With me having a disability, it is pretty much impossible for me to travel. So, she came to me, sounds simple enough, right? The only catch is that I live 4 hours away from the city. This was not a problem for her, at all. When she asked me where I lived I got very afraid, that she was going to tell me that she could not come and see me. The truth is she was excited about the challenge to come and see me. She knew that I need some happiness in my life, and she was not let distance stand in her way. That is a true description of an ?OutCall? She is truly a great person. Without her having such a great personality, there is no way this would have ever happened for me. Before our night together, I would sometimes email her up to 3 times per day with questions, and/or comments. She replied to every one of them. This really put my mind at ease. When Soleil arrived at my door, it was truly a sight to behold. She is an absolutely stunning woman. Her Eyes, legs Breasts, and hot body, are just a few of her attributes, there are many more. She gave me a hug and our night got underway. I must say something before I continue you. Being intimate with me is not an easy thing what so ever. She even helped me urinate (go to the washroom) throughout the night. She was great. This was such a nice feeling for me, trust me helping me go to the bathroom, is not as easy thing to do. Even though this was her 1st time doing this, it was like she had done it 1000 times before. Taking off my garments is not easy at all, ether, due to my very tight muscles. She still did it with a huge smile on her face. During all of this it is very hard for me with my disability, to look ?sexy? Soleil, however, treated me like I was the sexiest man alive. She helped feed/ drink water throughout the night as well, as we had snacks. (trust me, I needed the food and water, lol) My hands do not work well. So, I need help with everything this was so nice of her...... Remarkable.... she did not get upset or anything, just wanted to know what she could do next to help me. By her helping me with ALL of my needs I cancelled my homecare staff, and it was just me and her for the whole night. 2nd, have a slight speech impairment that makes me hard to understand. With Soleil however, she understood everything I said. We did some stuff in my power chair. 1st I am not going to go into detail, but it was magical. What happened next was truly amazing to me. Well, we moved to my bed. Sounds normal enough, right? Not for me it isn?t. You see, I cannot stand up No; I must use a lift to transfer. I had told Soleil about this earlier in our conversations. She had no problem with it. Seeing it in person can me a much different thing. She did not mind in the least, all I have to say is WOW!!!!!!!!!. This is not an easy thing to, but she helped me with no problems. After we got into the bed she helped move me around, as I cannot roll over, or anything. We then engaged in carnal relations, it was wonderful. After we were done, she gave me a sponge bath. We then slept in my bed for the night. Not before we talked and held each other. I could not ask for my 1st time to be anymore better. In the morning we woke each other up, so to speak, lol. Then she gave me a kiss goodbye, and was on her way. If you?re looking for a person, who puts her clients need?s 1st, and treats you like a king; she is the one for you. Not on did she help me lose my virginity, I have made a friend for life. Her name mean?s sunshine and this is what she has brought into my hard disabled life.

After all these years......finally I found it :)

I've been known to grace the WoW on occasion *blush* I as well love to read, I appreciate good wines and whiskies, and awesome culinary adventures. Now on to the other spectrum of my interests, I firmly believe that every human being should jump out of a perfectly good plane at least once a week. I love skydiving. When I can't do that I'm a bit of a tinkerer, my project right now is the Harley I'm building in my shed. I have a fetish for tattoos and other similar art, I have one sleeve and a few large pieces, currently working on the other. When all else fails, nothing beats laying in a hammock on a sunny day or sitting around the campfire on a cool autumn night!

Me too, I saw godfather was on and had to watch because.........I couldn't refuse.lol How about Abe Vigoda as Tessio? T.V. shows "Fish" and "Barney Miller" were only a few years after G., but Abe looks 30 years younger. Hmmmm, I'm really showing my age. probably no one remembers those shows.

More specifically for this audience... there was a Supreme Court verdict (I forget the case, alas) where they ruled that the Internet in general was not a "place" that might apply to the laws relating to prostitution. That's why the ladies can advertize here - and anywhere else online - without fear of prosecution. Given that this is a SCC ruling, it probably won't change short of Parliament enacting some new law to make it illegal.

For me it is mostly her expression on her face .. And when you ask her about what you want she looks at you like your crazy for asking something like that .. And then she does it lol .. Over all great massage she is open to suggestions great finish .. Always leave happy .. So I can put up with the odd till south point is back from holidays

Well I already posted in the introduction thread so I figure I'll fill out some more details here. Just cause I feel like it I suppose. Halifax born and raised but spent 5 years in TO. Work for DND contractor designing/manufacturing rifle scopes to CDN/US military. Avid target shooter both hand gun and rifle. Married (not happily but not unhappily) father of 2 gorgeous girls 18 and 15. Main pastimes are photography and motorcycles, usually at the same time. Very shy at first when meeting people but tend to open up with usually an inappropriate joke. (I can't seem to help myself) OH yes, I have a 7" penis, if measured from the asshole, once around the shaft and just past the tip. (see what I mean?)

Your link is blocked, but there is only one Kayla in the city, so I will say Yes, pics are real. I have seen her. She has started posting some new pics. She is one of the best. Awesome BBBJ, natural D rack, and totally into Greek. If you have any questions feel free to PM.