Well this guy, as a general rule doesn't postpone or cancel, unless life happens. When that situation happens, I deal with it hopefully appropriately.
First case, I had a three hour encounter planned in December with a local (not touring) lady. But my truck broke down, major repair costs, biting right into my funds for the encounter. I contacted the lady, postponing our encounter for three weeks, and as a compensation, usually my encounters with her are three hour, I made our make up encounter to four hours from three.
Second case, a cancelled encounter with a touring lady, just happened recently. I came down with a major bug (and had to cancel at the last minute), three weeks flat on my back, and too sick to see the lady. Not my fault I couldn't make it, but the lady shouldn't be out because of my illness. Especially when I factor in on top of it she tours, and bases her expenses for touring will be offset by seeing clients. And she lets me know ahead of time of her tour dates, (knowing I have to plan ahead of time), before officially announcing her dates. I did what I consider was right, compensated her for her time, even though I couldn't see her, via email money transfer.
At the end of the day, as much as this is an escape for the guys, it is the ladies' livelihood. Cancelling an appointment means no money for the ladies to pay their pay bills, put food on the table etc etc etc. If you make an appointment keep it, or don't make an appointment. And if life happens, try to do the right thing
A rambling
RG