Totally see where you're coming from on this. There are many MAs who for many reasons - at least some of the time - don't give a 'decent massage with some sensuality thrown in' as I would define it either. Whether it's because that's what they think clients want or what they've been trained to do by others - or just what they end up doing in the moment, who can say. My advice is always to be respectful and tell each lady you meet what sort of session you're looking for (ideally beforehand, via social media), and then chat with her in the room or over a drink prior to going in. And stick with ladies you click with. I like meeting new ladies regularly too, but if I really want what I want, if you know what I mean, I go to ladies I have strong chemistry with and can really relax from the get go without having to try. Good luck - this is an amazing hobby.