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I have to admit that I like to remain with one SP as well. The SP I usually visited became unavailable last fall so I've been of testing the waters with other SPs, sort of experimenting and looking for that connection again. Once found I plan to focus my time with her. But I agree with previous posts that when I see a post made by an SP that catches my eye, I'll do some research there. View previous recos, look at any SP websites and do a little bit of communication prior to the date. It's pretty much worked so far, including weeding out a few that seemd uninterested.

This is possibly the best thread I've read since discovering CERB last summer. I think everyone should thank Cat and the MOD for the light they've shed on the mechanics behind how an agency works. Everyone should consider themselves better for it. For my part, lacking the experience of many of the other members, I have had very excellent experiences with SPs who are agency and independant and some questionable ones on both sides as well. One thing I always try to determine is if the SP is treated well and protected by her agency, if there is one. But Cat brings up a point that makes my blood hot. Whenever I hear about "men" who treat SPs poorly, without provacation or reason, my patience definitely expires. It boggles my imagination how useless these guys are. It makes you wonder how they may treat other people in their lives, particularly an SO. I have always strived to make sure that I treat the ladies with respect and dignity, and if I have not then it is my failure of character. NO matter how the SP is percieved, they deserve to be treated well. I hope the ladies who grace CERB know how well they're regarded and appreciated and can forget the losers who forget it. Or didn't know it to begin with.

Umm, wow . . . I knew nurses have to put up with a lot but this is almost biblical stupidity.

After nearly 2 weeks of PMs back and forth, I had the true privilege of visitng Isabellaw this evening. It was worth the wait. A lovely woman with a great body, she is responsive, electric and this was far from a mechanical encounter. Turns out I enjoyed more than the hour we agreed on and she was more than patient with my ragged nerves. The fact that she is contributing some of her proceeds from weekend visits to a sick friend speaks to her character. This woman is a genuine treasure and deserves to be treated as such. Do I plan to repeat-definitely, if she'll have me.

The Canadian Olympic Committee should forge a uniqur, one of a kind gold medal just for her. Tremendous spirit and emotional fortitude.

Why do people smoke when they know the horrific damge its doing to their body? Why do they get behind the wheel drunk or drive while typing on their blackberries? Why do people have unprotected sex on one night stands? Too many people are obsessed with instant gratification and their selfishness and avarice overide their ability to think logically. Take out a fourth mortgage-why not? They see short term satisfaction and are oblivious to the consequences. But Seymour also hit the nail on the head. This isn't a regualr consumption industry-no receipts, no returns or complaints department or satisfaction surveys. The men who participate in this business need to exercise their own discretion and police their own conduct. In short, everyone needs to be responsible for themselves. Ugly idea, I know.

There was an SP I saw on a pretty regular basis and Valentine's Daty of last year I went to visit her after not being able to since the previous October. I guess she wasn't sure who was on the other side of the door because when she opened it she looked at me shocked for a second and then jumped at me and wrapped me up in a the best bear hug ever. It was probably the best night we'd spent up to that point. I made sure to bring her flowers every time after that. A very, very close second was this past Christmas when I made the best decision of visiting Angeleyes and her friend Chloe. I brought teddy bears and they brought the ice cream and you can use your imaginations fro the rest.

There are two young women who come to mind, without taking anything away from any ladies I have visited recently or may in the future. The first young lady I visited for a while before I stumbled on CERB (she went by a number of names). There was really nothing spectacular about the visits, but she was beautiful and I looked forward to every opportunity I had to visit her. The second was a young lady named Nina from Jet Set. She was a gfe and the time I had the privilege of sharing with her was excellent. There was never any regrets and she made me feel special with her conversation and her smiles just as much as anything else. As far as I can tell Jet Set just sort of closed shop shortly before Christmas (I had even taken the liberty of getting her a Chrsitmas present-how's that for a tear jerker). I wish both of them the absolute best and hope they're happy, healthy and whoever they're with is treating them like gold.

Its ironic that the Sun, which makes a good chunk of change advertising Escorts, Massage Attendants and Adult Services in their classified section and depends on its daily Sunshine Girl for a generous portion of its circulation (and once had a weekly feature devoted to local Gentlemen's clubs) would use such language.

They did indeed use the term Hooker, MOD. I typed it as it appeared in the print version.

Thanks for the background MOD. The problem is that John Q Public has no idea of the story behind the term and therefore the word conjures up a considerable stigma. You use the word John and people think of dirty, lecherous predator types skulking for women. It's not as insulting as people thinking that SPs are disease ridden, drug addicts selling themselves to feed their various habits when CERB members can tell you that many are classy, dignified women. Could the author not have used terms like "patron", "client" or gentlemen?" The article was apparently suppossed to shed a postive light on CERB's contributions, so using words like John and Hooker, with negative connatations, were contrary to the article's purpose. I've been called far worse, but not by people who are suppossed to be educated.

Maybe there was a different article or wording online. This is how the article was worded/titled in the Thursday edition of the Ottawa Sun. It was great for them to bring up the work and contributions made by the community but the wording (men who visited SPs were referred to as "johns") was typically condacending. But CERB should take great pride in itself. It raised or contributed more money than many other people or businesses. Prime example, Rush Limbaugh, who signed a 400 hundred million contract with his Satelliete Radio company last year, refused to donate a single dollar. CERB members are more worthy of praise than him and his low-minded ilk.

"Who am I? I am the anti-christ. You can tell the angels at the gateway of Heaven you never saw evil so singularly personified as in the face of the man who killed you." Christopher Walken delivered to Anthony Hopkins in True Romance. "You and I are about to have a serious disagreement." Daniel Day Lewis in Last of the Mohicans.

I was spoiled by seeing an SP on a regular basis for some time. I loved the time I spent with her outside of just the erotic side of things as we spent plenty of time cuddling and joking and laughing. Her agency seems to have closed and I haven't been able to find her if she's still providing. I have enjoyed some time with other SPs sort of looking for the same relationshiop but a recent date left a horribly bad taste in my mouth. I booked an hour but had to wait a few minutes (found out later she was wrapping up with a previous client). Conversation was sparse, she spent a good chunk of her time on her Blackberry and I have to admit this put a damper on my enthusiasm. This lead to the dreaded "Is there something wrong with you?" delivered in frustrated tones. And then I was sort of rushed out the door 15 mintues before the end of the hour, told her next customer was on the way. From one extreme to the other.

I've had a lot of experience with the public and it's a demanding, often dangerous, often disgusting creature. I can only imagine some of the stories that didn't make it on here. Maybe the ladies should get together and collect them into a book with an entire chapter devoted to proper behaviour and etiquette. Then again, the "men" who are guilty of these kinds of acts probably aren't too good at reading to begin with.

I think Isabellaw25 raises a good point. The SP's desires and boundaries should always be respected and taking care of their health and hygiene is also taking care of that of the men who visit them. But I hadn't thought about advertising those criteria hurting their business. Personally, I would never entertain the idea of visiting someone who advertised anything goes . . . not just because of the possible health risks but because I think such behaviour may speak to their class as well. I believe that in some countries where escorting is legal, condoms and dental dams are legally mandated. I can only hope that the number of people who visit the SPs here take the time to carefully read their reviews and understand that many of them have plenty to offer regardless of any levels of precaution they demand.

I have to admit I considered it a chance when I visited Miel today (having never seen her previously) but it was well worth it. A natural beauty with a great physique she goes the extra mile to make you feel at ease and comfortable. After a few minutes any apprehension drains away and your free to enjoy your time with her without being anxious. And you will enjoy it. Just remember to treat her with respect and dignity (and a triple triple from the local Timm's) and she'll treat you like gold.

I think we all owe the MOD a drink for eeveryone behaved, dignified and safe. It's a realy thankless job and you are appreciated.

If I may offer my advice . . . Angeleyes and Chloe are still offering duos this week. The two girls know each other and have a chemistry but they don't interact with each other sexually, in case that's what you were looking for. Angeleyes is a pretty regular advertiser in the Schedule section. I've enjoyed their company twice and if your new to this I can think of worse ways to get your feet wet.

At the risk of shilling, I have one more thing to add. The girls (Angel and Chloe) invited me to visit them on the weekend and I couldn't refuse. They managed to top even themselves. Handcuffs, a blindfold and I will never be able to buy ice cream ever again without a huge smile on my face. They had to pause a few times to let me catch my breath cause I was pretty much dying. And the conclusion was definitely a huge OMG moment. These girls are a priceless treasure and everyone who has the privilege of sharing their company should consider themselves damn lucky. Be gracious and kind to them and they wil be very kind in return.

There's something specific about the dynamic between women I have always been curious about and Bethany touched on it in her previous thoughts. It has always amazed me how often women look at other women like predatory comptetitors for the men in their lives. How often do women look at other women as threats to their relationships? How often do they coin the phrase "she's trying to steal my boyfriend/husband/man" Ummm, if the man in your life can be stolen that easily maybe the relationship is too fragile to take seriously. And if that's the case, shouldn't the malice be directed at him for cheating? After all, he made the choice didn't he? A man can't be stolen, only lured.

I met Chloe during a visit with Angeleyes and am all the happier because of it. A maseuse by trade, her hands are skilled and magical. She exquisitely works your body with a touch that seems to have an uncanny knowledge of a man's tender and sensitive spots. And that's before the benefits of her other SP skills. She offers singles and is also an MA from what I understand but she compliments Angeleyes perfectly and these two are a tag team from heaven. This was my fist time meeting Chloe and while I was nervous participating in a threesome with someone I had just met, Chloe has a nice, natural charm. She's a beautiful, friendly newcomer and everyone who plans on treating her with respect and dignity should enjoy her this holiday season (word to the wise, I think she likes cookies). Too bad they don't make stockinge big enough for these girls to fit in. Santa would have lot more letters if they did.

I've had the opportunity to enjoy Angel's company on several occasions but tonight she was with her friend Chloe and the experience was even better than what I've come to expect from my time with Angel. And that's saying something. After a quick shower seeing two beautiful women in varying stages of undress waiting on the bed was worth the fee itself. Our time together started with a four handed massage and only got better from there. And Angel was outstanding as usual. I don't which was a more sexy ending, her looking at me after my end of session shower, in all her naked glory, hands on hips, saying "I see your still hard as a rock and I have to do something about that . . ." or modeling her new scarf with just a pair of high heels and a mischievous smile. She's adventurous, beautiful and remarkably cool. And she has great taste in duo friends. Make sure to treat her with respect and dignity and get her something nice for Christmas-she deserves it all.

I am in the same school of thought on the death penalty as Erin and some of the other posters. I don't support it and never will for a variety of reasons. But having said that, the people who indulge in, profit from and distibute child pornography are evil-plain and simple. I'm not being religous or anything foolish like that, but child pornagraphers are arguably more vile and heinous than rapists and child porn is a form of modern slavery, victimizing those who could never protect themselves in any capacity. This is a case where I don't believe in rehabilitation. Their punishment should be life in prison, period. And not just regular prison. Denied the site of the sun, the taste of fresh air and even the sound of another human being's voice for the rest of their days. This fate sounds evil in and of itself, and perhaps it is, but if the world had hoped that constant negotiation and good vibes could stop Hitler how many people would be speaking German right now? And how many people would have been swallowed by the Holocaust? And that's what child pornography is- a Holocaust of human suffering and slavery.

Does anyone know if the agency Jet Set Companions is still in business? Their number keeps coming back as no longer in service. There was someone in particular whose company I enjoyed and everything seemed fine last month. I was wondering if anyone was aware if the agency was still in business.