Dave - WebGuy

For me generally unscented light mineral oil, however, it doesn't compare to the difference in feel to the Nuru Gel I've been lucky enough to have been able to make use of and have a few bottles for myself personally (it rinses off with water and pretty much has the same feel as using aloe vera lotion after it's all gone )

planning out my advertising posts for my Ottawa vist. lacking creative enthusiasm today lol

A new case for my guitar (the zipper broke on the old one)

Contact me if you are interested in photography, video or other services potentially around the end of July or beginning of August.

It will certainly change the manner in which business is conducted as far as websites and photography go. Back in 1999 when I had my first dealings regarding the online ventures within this area, mainstream businesses that offered web site design, photography and marketing stayed as far away as possible so that they could not be linked to anyone involved. I can see a return to this, maybe even more distant since it also creates a vague implication that online ventures involving adult material would also be under scrutiny. The whole thing makes me think of a Howard Jones song "No one is to blame" There's a lot of unknowns involved, everything seems intentionally vague so that there's a lot of latitude for interpretation.

Um ... all a test provides is that AT THE TIME OF THE TEST that nothing would come up. STD tests aren't exactly while you wait, so between the test and visit you're have to be prepared to cover a loss of income if you're expecting celibacy between then and the encounter. I know with experience from the porn industry, some contracts require you not be sexually active between the test and the production, so that the test is kept accurate. I've been part of one production where the entire set crew had to take part. There's absolutely no point in asking for a test result because it would be inaccurate or VERY expensive to cover the income between the test and the encounter which is pretty much going to be required.

While the sensation of beng surrounded by a warm wet mouth is changed, there are girls who would be considered "blowjob artists". If you're good enough, then it's just a minor detail that can be overlooked. Pros: - If you're a little more comfortable, you'll probably be a little more enthusiastic, which makes for a better experience - CIM isn't such a big deal realistically. - You can pretty much go from oral to intercourse without any intermission to get a comdom Cons: - Makes it difficult or rules out facials or COB finishes. Not that BBBJ increases the chances of this, but it's more likely that CBJ will also include the above not being available as well - latex allergies

I think more and more there's mention on providers advertising "Men, women and couples" to let potential clients who are female know. Maybe there needs to be some sort of "unisex" icon providers can have in listings, or hopefully a post like this one raises some awareness to make sure that their availability to female clients is in their advertising. Sticky posts never hurt either if they are kept updated ... just sayin

If it wasn't for Carrie I wouldn't know where to find good shawarma while in Ottawa (Yes, Carrie I remember us going to lunch the day of the photos I did for you a few years back) I'm sure there'll be a lot of happy clients out where you're going to.

From a provider standpoint ... If the ads didn't generate business then there wouldn't be the number of ads being posted. At the same time, it's a fairly inexpensive paid advertising venue. It can be effective for some that want to quickly put up an ad while they are working and remove it after they are done for the day. They can have an ad up for a matter of hours, and removed with little trace of it, as opposed to having it placed for days, weeks or months. I do know of a few providers that use the site to let their clientele know that they are available without the use of email or a website by placing ads to let regulars know to call. With that said, elite or courtesan type services shouldn't be expected from an inexpensive ad that may, or may not, be 100% accurate. A lot of people will still come to sites such as CERB to discuss an ad's legitimacy and accuracy. This is because they want to make an informed decision.

I think you read into what I posted a bit much, or missed the part about me using it to inspire me. If someone is putting more effort than expected, and is enthusiastic about it ... I become even more creative, driven and passionate about the project. If a photo shoot was just a photo shoot, fashion photographers would be hired for still-life and landscape photography. While there are fundamentals that are universal, each genre requires a different skill set. I've seen people spend hundreds and sometimes thousands of dollars for absolutely brilliant photos that do nothing besides provide a flawless photo of them. I've seen it more than once where someone has been turned on by the combination of nerves, focused attention and being in a compromising state. On the most part though, it becomes a fun time playing dress-up for the camera.

This is more a discussion of how you feel about doing your photos, whether taking them yourself or having them done by someone. I'd say for a good portion of who I work with, it's "part of the job". They're not necessarily excited about doing them, but not something they spend days looking forward to either. I've encountered some that just want it over and done with, putting photos off for as long as they can. A rare few that might think that they enjoy it a little too much, and get turned-on posing for a camera. I find for myself being behind the camera, the more enthusiasm someone shows for their photos, the more effort and energy I have for putting into the photo shoot. In a sense, I feed off of the positive energy that comes from the front of the camera and am inspired by it.

Reminiscing about my first ever photo shoot in the industry for a blog post ... back in 1999.

If you report and income as employment on what you do. It's work. They don't call it a "profession" for no reason lol

We all get in that mood lol Probably a good day to be working then ;)

I think twitter is a quite useful tool to keep your regulars up to date and give something special as far as advance notice on things to your followers. I find it handy and useful. It lets people feel like they know you a little more personally, and give you a chance to interact with potential clients and regulars. Facebook, on the other hand, may not be a well advised marketing tool in this line of work. While it is very popular, it can be potentially discouraging for people to sign up and follow on their actual accounts. Unless they have a handle account separate from their actual account (or don't give a crap who knows their activities), it's not likely they'll friend the account.

Some will count it towards their time, others won't. Looking at the big picture, you'll have a lot more enjoyment if you're "freshly showered". The 5-8 minutes can mean all the difference in the world what she'd like to do with you. When I get into a situation like that I usually bring my own bodywash and bathball so that I am not only to their liking, but don't have the same scent as the other clients they've seen by doing something different.

Going to make some saucy and messy chicken wings tonight. Think I'm hungry already lol

There's a sexy gap between a woman's legs that can be a huge turn-on for me. If I notice it during a photo shoot, It can definitely make for some seriously hot photos. Not my work, but an example below.

chicken tetrazzini ... and some garlic toast. I've got no wine to drink with it though lmao

Seven of Nine or Jeri Ryan ... In or out of character

I've been friends with a few SP's, but at the same time I'm not exactly on the same side of the fence as most clients. I think it'd be a little awkward to be socially active with someone who I was in a client/provider dynamic. It would be like a complicated version of friends with benefits.

I don't think I'd give up sex for any material object, but doing photography and design for escorts has really limited my available selection. So in a sense I guess I have given up sex for something else I find rewarding in a sense. Only being able to do 1 or the other would make me think long and hard about it, I enjoy the work that much.

I can somewhat sympathize with the OP in the respect that I do a lot of photos that are intended to come off arousing and give a sensual connotation, but at the same time professionalism is a big thing to keep in mind. In my line of work some feed off of getting the photographer worked up and feed off of it to inspire them or get more into it, but a majority appreciate keeping things more professional and polished. It really depends on who's involved. If it were me and a provider was genuinely turned on during a session, I'd hope that she'd just run with it and enjoy. It's pretty difficult to be doing a profession like that and never take any personal interest in it. The more into it that they are, the happier I end up is the way that I look at it.