Much the same here. Getting confirmation on my choices or informAtion from other hobbyists helped relax me about it. New providers are always a way Awkward thing for me in the best of times. However, it needed to be another hobbyist I recognized from around the boArds for Me to ask or share info with.
I do get asked a lot from my clients about girls I see and I will answer the odd message I get. But it yiLlu needs to be earnest or niche For me to reply.
I too saw the same few ladies all the time and they are now out of province so that is not exactly helpful I will confirm that I repeatedly heard great thingS from several of my clients about a handful of ladies that come up repeatedly. Nothing specific more general personality based.
These clients were also people I chatted with as a hobbyist so it’s a natural topic in out case.