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I understand that these things are annoying to say the least for all you ladies but I can't help but laugh at the utter stupidity of some guys. I don't know, I just have to find the humor. I hope you ladies can find humor in some of it too. At least, when you look back at it after the initial frustration and anger. The one that puzzles me is one that I talked to a provider about once. The guy phones, texts, whatever and books a session. Than starts the haggling. When she says "look buddy, the price is the price." He has the audacity(read stupidity here if you like, lol) to tell her he's a stud and hung like a horse and doesn't really need to "buy" sex. We could never figure out why he called her in the first place. I don't know how you ladies keep your sanity with some of these idiots at times. I really admire you all for hanging in there for the good ones. Please remember we aren't all bad.:icon_biggrin:

That stuff always boggles my mind. I definitely could see that being a huge no-no for you ladies. Honestly, why some guys are so lacking in self-esteem that they have to talk about, send pictures of or anything else of their dick is sad in a way. Seriously, do they not understand that you women have seen all sorts of them and are not impressed in the least. Additional Comments: Oh and as for the L word and getting possessive, can't understand how some people don't grasp the concept of boundaries. Absolutely crazy, imo for that to even get into the consciousness Not that I couldn't like one of you ladies a lot if we were intimate on several occasions but liking someone and being a friend is okay. Know where the line is and don't go near it. Tongue in cheek, I do say my little guy does "love" pussy, lol. Of course, he can't make life decisions or get jealous so it's all good.:dncdick:

well said, it is about the person and not the label in all human interactions.

One thing to add to my earlier comment. I will not ever fall into some scenario where my emotions control my brain. It's not in my makeup and never will be. Therefore, I have no worry of becoming too emotionally connected to a provider despite seeing her more than once. Do I like that lady and feel a connection? Certainly, that is one reason why I repeat with her but it is also nice to be able to avoid the hassles of looking, researching, etc and knowing the likes, dislikes. Comfort is important. I also wouldn't try to book with a lady that clearly expresses that she does not like booking married men, although I haven't really seen too many providers out there who are that particular in that aspect. And obviously, some here have expressed how much they enjoy this part of the business.

Very good point, Cristy. We can express our likes, desires, preferences, etc and not always be PC. I think most intelligent people understand that and accept it for what it is. Nobody should ever be offended by honesty as long as it isn't intentionally harmful. It seems most of the guys and gals on here understand this aspect pretty well.

I guess it never really dawned on me that some providers might feel a little more secure knowing a client is married and really isn't looking to get too serious. Like RG says, I bet there are lots of hobbyists who are single that also are secure and mature enough to understand the dynamic of what these encounters are. We, as clients, know that this isn't a love affair that is going to be fraught with the danger of obsession or fatal attraction. For some of us, that is what we need. That's not to say we don't form a friendship and trust that has obvious emotional undertones. But we know where the line is and stay clear. I guess that's more of a maturity aspect than being married or single. As for me, yes, I am married. I admit that. I love my wife and she is great but for the last 3 years and I fear for quite a few more, our marriage is a long distance one (approx 1400 km). We see each other for about 2-3 weeks a year. I'm not trying to justify anything here, just explaining why I do this. This dynamic allows me to fullfill my needs while maintaining a privacy and discretion that affairs or dating can't provide. I need not worry about someone getting emotionally attached to me and doing something stupid and/or crazy.

The question being do nice breasts make a woman sexy? The simple answer is Nice breasts are sexy but no, they are not what makes the woman sexy, per se. Now, I won't lie. I love, love, love breasts. Big titties, little titties, round titties, oblong titties, perky titties, saggy titties. I love em all. But true sex appeal for me goes much deeper. I've said it before, I know, but intelligence, class and that inner beauty and spark are where the sexiness come from. The outer shell, as it were, while being visually enticing and exciting is only the first part of the overall package. It catches the eye but not necessarily the brain or the libido for me. Just one man's opinion. As for your augmentation, Miss Cristy, they are spectacular but I would wager you would be just as sexy with your natural breasts. Your intelligence and obvious kind heart would make you sexy no matter what, imo. Jus sayin.

That is an interesting take on sarcasm. I think sometimes it can be pretty harmless banter but it definitely is used a lot by insecure people on the internet. Sincerity seems to be a somewhat lost art, kinda like common sense and following the "golden rule". Sarcasm and putting down others to make us feel better about ourselves seems to be getting more common by the day. PS. Thank goodness for sites like this one that maintain a more positive, enlightened approach to message boards.

Personally, I will never understand how anyone could go see someone to be intimate and not be clean. It's mind-boggling. Honestly, I say keep all of his damn money and hope he gets the message that this is unacceptable. Probably won't take though. If a guy goes out to see a lady, being that nasty, he probably is too stupid to realize what's going on anyway.

Lmao. Shit stories are always so funny. I hate public washrooms. People are such slobs. The "non-flusher" and the "seat splasher" are my pet peeves. No reason for it, imo.

Well, for me, I would obviously understand if the lady was under the weather or if you are extremely tired and not feeling well, I would completely understand if you called me and explained that, too. As for bumps and bruises, definitely not something to worry about. I work in plumbing and heating and I get more cuts and bruises and crap all over then a little bit. (It's all okay, my tetanus shots are up to date, lol.) Hell, a couple weeks ago,I had a big scar on my forehead from smacking it on some ductwork so I figure a little thigh or butt bruise is no biggy. Those little "imperfections" just make it more real and enjoyable. :biggrin:

thx but fstop hit the nail on the head. All good now. Don't even know how I did that but was hitting buttons on here that I couldn't even see, lol.

there we go, thx:biggrin:

So my CERB page has shrunk on my computer screen to about 1/3 of the scree. Don't know how, why or what the hell I did but it's driving me nuts. Can't seem to correct it. I'm tech challenged here so is there anyone out there who has an idea what I could do. This is the only site that is doing this and I can't figure out why.I can barely see what I just typed so hope the spelling is okay.

I feel that if a good connection is made and felt, then repeating is a good thing. After 2-3 visits, the comfort level is awesome. We both know the other persons likes, we aren't guessing anymore and we know those special things that arouse our partner. We also do this without the serious emotional entanglements that can muddy the waters of other types of encounters. That is not to say that I, as a client and her, as a provider don't develop a friendship and trust. We do and it is a wonderful thing but we both accept the boundaries that this dynamic requires. There are no judgements, just safe, fun experiences that hopefully, leave us both breathless and wanting more.

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Well, as you can see, my location is just a tad off the beaten path here so this issue has not come up. However, if I were to be travelling and found I was nearby and wanted to book a date with one of you lovely ladies, I would include my CERB handle in my opening email, text, phone conversation or whatever just so you may have a slight glimpse of the type of person who was asking. I don't see how our handle here should be kept a secret when I've already told the lady my real name. It doesn't make much sense to mention CERB and hide that, imo.

This is probably something that has been posted before. I don't know and am too lazy to check old threads. But it occurs to me after the last couple days that we sometimes take for granted that an escorts life is all peaches and cream. They set up a nice incall location, post an ad, the calls come in and the clients show up. They pay, play and everybody is happy. The lady tidies up and ready for the next lucky fella. Kind of a lather, rinse, repeat scenario. Or the lady goes on tour, sets herself up in a nice discreet hotel location and pretty much the same thing. Well, yesterday, I came across a few things that made me realize that this isn't always the case. I read (on a different board) a story of a touring lady running into one mishap after another and because of it all, actually barely breaking even while on her first week on tour. Another story of a lady who received a man at her door who rudely told her she wasn't as hot as her pictures and too old (although her website is clearly defined with her age, body type and well laid out photos). The loser walked and business lost. I posted something on here that cheered someone up (no names needed) who had a rough go this weekend and was feeling a little down. I didn't even realize I was doing something nice at the time but glad I did. I guess my point here is that we all need to step back sometimes and put ourselves in other peoples shoes. We say things on message boards and do things in life possibly without any ill intent but our words and actions often effect even the strongest of people. We all get our feelings hurt and lose our self confidence and it might behoove all of us to say a kind word now and then for no other reason but to just help our fellow human beings out. Most on here are pretty aware of all of this and are pretty good at keeping things positive so this isn't directed at anyone. Just a general thought is all. Okay, my rambling is over, lol. Go back to having fun y'all.

I think that maybe at some sub-conscious level, black represents the dark side of our nature so it gets thought of more in terms of "sex appeal". Personally, I like some of the blues that are out there, blue being my favorite color. To echo most guys though, the woman behind the lingerie is the key, not just how she looks but how she presents herself. Her confidence and sex appeal will shine through any outfit she is wearing. One thing I will say, if you request the outfit, at least take the time to enjoy it. Like Cristy says, it takes some effort and time on her part to honor your request, make it worth her while and appreciate it. I know I will if I get the opportunity.:motion:

Lmao, I love that answer. And no, I don't think Alaska really counts, lol. To be serious though, I truly believe that all ladies, everywhere are beautiful in their own way. I think the true attraction comes from inside, not the outer shell. As I've said in other threads, intelligence, wit and sophistication are all huge turn-ons for me and those qualities can be found in women the world over.

Well, I'm fairly new here and still sort of navigating around but I pretty much echo what has already been mentioned. The aspect of a positive, respectfull discourse among people here is a huge plus for me. I've been on all kinds of different forums and it seems that some people just can't grasp the concept of this. The people I've seen posting here seem to truly embrace this though. The appreciation we receive with the "thanked" posts makes us feel good too. It's nice when other people like what you have to say and it isn't always debate just for the sake of debating. Additional Comments: Oh yeah, I forgot. I get to have conversations with and see pictures of beautiful, wonderful, open-minded ladies too. Now if I could just win the lottery so I can spend my days traveling the country to meet all these lovely women in person, my life would be complete. :icon_biggrin:

I think that right there is the whole key to this conversation. Really well said, Ms. Nicolette. There is no such thing as perfection and people have to realize that. I never go into this expecting some fantasy that is, frankly, unattainable. I do, however, understand (and appreciate) that you ladies have to put your best "side" out there because you are obviously trying to attract potential customers. We, as clients, just have to realize this and understand the dynamic of advertising. I think we do but sometimes forget when it comes to this particular industry. (little brain fogs big brain and our idiot asses go off half-cocked into lala land)

I think that would be a good idea. Then only registered users are are looking at profiles. If people aren't willing to sign on, why have the privilege of being able to browse? As for the blocking thing, I don't quite understand why we would register, create a profile, post on a message board and then not allow others to view said profile but yet expect to view their profile. It doesn't seem right and I agree with Cristy, there should be a way to do the same to those.

Very well stated Cristy. I agree completely. Never expect exactly what you see. There are too many factors that go into the photos. Especially if the shots seem to be professional ones. For face pics, top notch makeup people will often do a makeover that the woman can never recreate for herself. And photographers can often get just the perfect angles and shots that hide even the smallest imperfections. Honestly, the photos aren't the thing that gets me when looking for an encounter. It's the wording and the sincerity that comes through. I look for wit, intelligence and confidence. I don't need the generic " hot babe" "will rock your world" drivel that many ads seem to have in them. There is an art to the spoken or written word that I find attractive. If you can capture that art, you can capture our attention and even the guys who are more visual will subconsciously feel that. For example, I read Cristycurves webpage and was blown away before even looking at the gallery. Trust me, these things are a huge turn-on.

Ramble on RG, it's all good, lol. Seriously though, it is so true. To the guys who do this, some things to remember. YOU called her, YOU requested the service, YOU are the one looking for this. She did not initiate contact or try to hard sell (pun very much intended) you. Trying to haggle is rude, disrespectful and utterly pointless. Go back to where ever it is that you get that "better deal" or go home. When you have contacted a lady that offers a much better experience than you are obvious accustomed to, expect to compensate her accordingly. As a matter of fact, bring extra for the tip you should need to give for this wonderful experience. They might not want to come work in the oil patch if they don't like inflation. As for generalizing, it's usually not a good idea but, in this case, it seems to be a trend. ps. My guess is the ones who haggle are the ones who can afford it anyway. That seems to be my experience in all walks of life. I get it with my work as a plumber too.