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I thought I would just add this to my first recommendation if that is alright. I recently was able to have a repeat visit with this magnificent and spectacular lady on her latest tour stop in Grande Prairie AB. As soon as I saw her ad, I just knew that I had to see her again. Once again, this beautiful woman amazed and thrilled me. I wasn't nearly as nervous this time around and I think our connection was even better but honestly, I think Victoria can make you feel comfortable and relaxed anyway. Just a remarkable, down to earth, friendly quality that is almost impossible to express in words. Not to mention a sensuality and sexiness that really gets the motor revving and the juices flowing. I was so happy, I forgot my watch in her room. Oh well, a good excuse for my next visit (like I need an excuse). Victoria, you are very special and amazing and am looking forward already to our next encounter.

That reminds me of a response I had to a recent review I wrote of you Victoria. For the rest of you, the guy read my well-written review and proceeded to ask me who this woman was and a bunch of other nonsense. I thought my head would explode but I gathered myself and as politely as I could, explained to him that just a couple forums down was the advertising section for our particular area and all her info was right there as well as a link to her website. He posted back thanking me and then asked, "Lovely looking lady, what's her rates, menu?" Luckily, a fellow poster stepped in and set him straight. I may have been banned from the site if I had responded. Thank god for self control. As I read this thread from time to time, it seems that basic reading comprehension has to be at or near the top of the list because 99% of the things some guys do are clearly stated as "no-no's" on virtually every SPs ad and/or webpage. I seriously don't know how you ladies do it. Your patience is amazing. Kudos ladies because I think I might snap if asked some of the shit you get asked.

It's 21st century journalism (I can't even call it journalism with a straight face anymore) in a nutshell, isn't it? The mainstream news media has become a totally ridiculous joke in this modern era. The great journalists of the past must be rolling over in their graves. Honestly, if we look at history, does all of this remind anybody of our studies of Nazi Germany, circa 1936? The government spewing propaganda and the media jumping in with both feet like puppets?

Well said. The foreplay with passionate kissing and "cuddle" play is a huge turn-on for me. Without it, I find sometimes that I even have trouble getting or maintaining an erection. With those things, I am completely turned on and more often than not, have better stamina as well. It's like you say about feeling it in all the warm places and it allows your whole body to be involved. Then afterward, being able to catch our breath while in a soft embrace and caressing her back brings it all full circle.

I've gotten to the point of not even caring what the stores do. I notice but it does nothing as far as my shopping. I'm a guy who goes in, finds what I want, pay for it and leave, regardless of the hype or advertising. I spend so much of my money on tools for work and all the day to day stuff that I keep purchases to a minimum. A little something for the grandkids and that's it other than a couple of cards. By mid December, I just want to get it over with. The stores move from one holiday to another so fast too. Hell, immediately following the "Boxing Week" specials, the Valentines Day crap goes out (phoniest holiday ever, imo). Than Easter, Mother's Day, Father's Day, Canada Day, Back-to-school and back to now with Thanksgiving/Halloween. Just a big cycle to make a buck. More power to them, not faulting the stores at all. Without profit, the doors close but I just don't get too excited or "into" it all.

While I was driving home from a great encounter this past weekend, I was listening to some Bob Seger and thought of this thread when I heard "Night Moves" and "Mainstreet". Earlier in the day, I was listening to Queen Latifa and "I put a spell on you" The old jazz standards always set a great mood for me, too. There's a ton of others as well.

It looks like a real thing but I must say, I don't like it. I would think it would be uncomfortable and make a guy sweat really bad. I would think that this thing would possibly put a damper on the encounter. It would get uncomfortable for both, I would think. And does it really serve any useful purpose? Is there really that much risk from skin contact? I don't know, seems a little bit much to me.

I agree that discretion is the cornerstone of our relationships in this business and I do hope cooler heads prevail in that thought as far as outing these hypocrites. I also understand the frustration of it all but I agree with fortunateone that fear of the unknown doesn't help us. Right now, everything is speculation as to how all of this will play out. I refuse to live in a state of fear over an unknown but I do understand that fear is a strong human emotion that is hard for people to overcome. We all tend to get irrational to some degree when fear clouds our judgement. So let's just wait and see how this plays out. Like it's been said, I've been committing illegal acts the whole time I've been in this lifestyle and I will continue to do so but I will keep my wits about me and be intelligent about what I am doing, just as I always have been. I doubt anyone will be "outing" my sorry ass anyway. Nothing to gain by it.:grin:

Obviously, nothing out in cyberspace is "totally secure" but you brought up NSA and CSEC so that is why the response. Sorry if it offends, didn't mean to. It's just when mentioning stuff like that, paranoia is the first thought that comes to mind. Conspiracy theories and all that stuff, right. Maybe just say BBM isn't totally secure and leave it at that and you won't get the response you did. Again, my apologies if offense taken.

I'm with you RG. The killer, then the courts, then the media continue to victimize this young lady and for what? Because she is/was native and a sex trade worker? Facts that should never, EVER have any bearing on this case. This asshat gets stoned and drunk, can't get it up so he chokes the life out of her.Not only that, he tried to dispose of the body. Yes, when he sobered up, he came clean but that was likely only because he realized that he would be caught anyway. What really bothers me is this notion that he should get any leniency at all because he is A) white B) a jock and C) can afford a high priced mouthpiece. Even now, he blames it all on the drugs and doesn't take full responsibility. Yes, it is only day parole but imo, he should never see the light of day again. Murder is murder and this is not justice.

Okay, I don't know if anyone has heard of this or seen it and I'm not sure if this is the right place to post it but here goes anyway. I saw this article on another forum and frankly, I'm disgusted that this is our system of justice. While they want to make criminals of all of us, they allow this killer to walk the streets even though he doesn't accept responsibility for his actions. The victim's family, understandably is appalled and dismayed, to say the least. Here's the link. link to the Calgary Sun article.

As for NSA and CSEC, I'm with ice and others, let's not go overboard with the paranoia here. They have much more important shit to deal with in a world on the verge of total destruction. Yes, LE will be a little more vigilant for awhile after the new legislation comes in and will want to "make an example" of some "pervert" out here. I'll tell you what, I'll fall on my sword if need be and publicize my info. Let them come and get me and try to prove anything in a court of law. They have to prove I am purchasing sex (I never talk about money with an SP, ever and never mention sex in email or text or PM or whatever). As I said before in my earlier post, I already give the ladies more info without being asked. I don't care if they know who I really am and how to reach me.

I would have to say none of the above, although soon single/divorced, hopefully. Been living 1000+ miles away from her for 3 years, not legally separated but might as well be. Marriage was the biggest mistake of my life. I've hated virtually every minute of it. Before that, tried the dating scene, hated it. FWB/ fuck buddies doesn't work. They say no strings and before you know it, want to move in and take it to the "next level". Frankly, this is the only lifestyle that fits my needs. The sex is great and I can be friends with the lady without any entanglements. Am I selfish? Yes, I am but I prefer solitude most of the time and this hobby allows me to have a release while not compromising my personal space. It is also far safer than some of the alternatives, imo.

Well, I just scrapped FB. I just can't stand all the bullshit on there and things like this annoy me no end. I think FB has gotten totally out of hand with crap like this. You have no real privacy regardless of your settings because they monitor everything once your email is tied to them. You can put up all the firewalls and what- not and they will be okay for awhile, then, boom, FB finds a way around them and you are at it again. At least that's my experience with them. I'm not super tech savvy though and don't know how to do a lot of the advanced protection stuff either so maybe others have better luck.

For me, the chemistry isn't really something that I can say is a factor because I never know how that will be until we actually meet. I would say that looks are a very small pert of things as I am attracted to a vast variety of ladies. Reviews are something that plays a small part but they can be subjective. Honestly, if I were to say what makes the decision more often than not, it's the ads/website wording and language. I read the entire thing, not just rates and services and look at the gallery. A well written introduction and description can go a long way to giving me an idea of who I am to meet. I like intelligence, a certain sophistication and class and mostly, a great sense of humor and wit. I'm attracted to ladies that have fun in what they do and aren't afraid to show their nerdy, geeky side even. A great sense of humor and laid back attitude are a huge turn-on for me.

A good piano ballad is always good. John Legend/ All of Me has some serious sex appeal in the video.

Well, I am going to be 55 next month and without bragging too much, look like I'm late 30's or early 40's, especially the physique. However, the aches and pains of arthritis, tendinitis, muscle strain etc remind me daily that I am indeed much older than 40. :grin:

A lady after my own heart. Some of my favorite musicians on your list. Brothers in Arms is one of my all-time favorite songs and albums. And love most anything by E.C. Also a huge Carlos Santana fan and SRV as well.

I think this is one of those things like age preference, body type, looks or whatever that we have discussed before. Different strokes for different folks (pun intended). For me, it is mostly GFE but that varies as well. Each time is something a little different, even when I repeat with a favorite lady. That's part of what keeps it interesting and fresh. I don't really have any particular service that's a "must have". As the other guys have said, it's more about just being in the company of this beautiful woman and letting things develop naturally. The really great ladies have a way of knowing exactly how to proceed and lead me to where I want to go, even if I don't know where that is.

I have no problem giving a lady my full name and email address. I usually do that anyway. Hell, I'll count my pubic hairs and give you an itemized list if it pleases you. (okay, that may be going a little too far). In all seriousness though, I have no problem with some type of verification process if required. I don't hide much and don't much care who knows what. I will echo the sentiment about it being an established provider with some track record. Of course, I really don't go out on a limb with the BP types, etc. anymore so it's a moot point.

I agree wholeheartedlly with that sentiment. I know that there are those out there who just want to make the LG happy and don't care about things like the nuances of the language. But I love, love, love reading a well written, intelligent, thought provoking ad. It can, for me, enhance the potential meeting and make it even a better experience. The prose can be sensuous, funny or whatever. Just don't give me some generic, run of the mill stuff. If a guy wants that just stick to BP and CL, imho. And ladies, it is unfortunate that some guys claim to read your ad or website and then still ask questions that are clearly stated as "no-nos" to ask. Like negotiating, bb or whatever it may be. This is why these forums are so important to keep going. Guys have to heed these words of advice and everybody will be happier in this hobby. A happy SP who hasn't been railed with asinine bullshit all day makes for a happy client (me, hopefully:biggrin:), when the encounter happens.

I can't see it as a problem. If anything, it would probably put my mind at ease knowing the place is safer to a degree. Hell, we've all likely lived in or had friends who lived in apartment buildings with buzzers over the years, right. I do agree that a building with security people asking where you are going could be an issue, more so for the SP than the client though. I mean, after about a month of different guys coming and saying, "I'm visiting a friend in Apt 218.", it might set off some warning bells, right. And not even thinking escort, they might start thinking drug dealer or whatever.

Nobody ever denied that the cops would do this. This was obviously a sting set up for under age girls working on the streets and the men that are cruising the back alleys, so to speak. This is something that is done regularly and will still be going on when C36 comes in. Yes, they have resources for this. And again, this is in a more major city where local LE do have more manpower. Any of my comments that I have posted regarding this has more to do with LE in smaller places and with the notion that they will target a single reputable SP residence and try to nab each guy one at a time or that they will somehow sit and monitor emails and texts looking for that one needle in the haystack. I don't see them devoting as much effort into the scenarios I just mentioned is all I've stated.

That is my thinking too. I have worked with and known several RCMP officers over the years. There are a few who can be hard asses but the vast majority use common sense and good judgement and they understand that the courts are already too overloaded and the jails are too full. They also understand that some legislation is flawed and only serves to increase their already heavy workload while making the politicians look good in the eyes of the general populace. The gun registry was that type of law just as this law is.

I do agree that LE may try to pull a few stings here and there in major cities where they have some flexibility in their budget. But only at first, imo, just to appease the politicians. I can't say for sure and I don't know what forces like OPP will be like. However, I find it highly unlikely that the more remote areas where a small detachment of RCMP is the only law in town, will actually devote a quarter of their force to investigate and target any more than they are now. Some time back, I was having some "pillow talk" with an SP friend and she said the cops came to her motel room one day. All they wanted to know was that she was of legal age and not being coerced or forced by a pimp. They knew full well that she was using the room as an incall (which is still illegal, btw) and didn't really care. They were just concerned with her safety and nothing more. Of course, up here in the north country, LE has a different perspective about the laws and how to enforce them.