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    Very very sexy!
  2. Equality doesn't count for much when there is a double standard. Mentioning "screaming and some rushing the stage" of course reminds of Beetlemania which according to this: https://www.chicagotribune.com/news/ct-xpm-1986-12-14-8604030230-story.html came about partially b/c: "In a highly sexualized society (one sociologist found that the number of explicitly sexual references in the mass media had doubled between 1950 and 1960), teen and preteen girls were expected to be not only `good` and `pure` but to be the enforcers of purity within their teen society--drawing the line for overeager boys and ostracizing girls who failed in this responsibility. To abandon control--to scream, faint, dash about in mobs--was, in form if not in conscious intent, to protest the sexual repressiveness, the rigid double standard of female teen culture." The above was written in 1986, a simple search for "double standard culture female" provides evidence that this effect is likely still highly relevant, here: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2013/06/130603142237.htm. To the original post -- it's literally impossible to defend specific cases of unwanted groping but when you are talking about "change in society" and thinking about Greenteal's example IMHO we need to allow women more license than we would men since they are still impacted by a double standard that was clearly described over 3 decades ago. Generally I don't think there is any place in 2019 for us to admonish women for "acting out", even if in black-and-white terms it may seem "undesirable" or "extreme".
  3. https://vimeo.com/68004667
  4. Only once I had a sub-contractor's employee flash pictures on their phone during a break and was like: "I know her" in a way that you knew what he was getting at.
  5. It looks like he's smiling so that's a good sign lol
  6. Are these boots? What are they? They are brilliant on Averie Moore
  7. Problem is most dudes seem think that respecting all women, to the same degree you respect your mom for giving you your fucking life, is somehow equivalent to being castrated. Same toxic masculinity you see in bros bitching about being "pussy whipped" wrt a woman or mocking other men about it. Same toxic masculinity you see in bros calling out all women when they've been mistreated in a particular circumstance. Same toxic masculinity you see when men justify hitting or verbally abusing a woman. It's all related. Personally I trend toward not ever revoking respect since overall that seems like a more harmful example as a pattern of behaviour than being inconvenienced and potentially suffering (in silence of course ). For me it's never a question of respect, it's a question of association or disassociation. I can choose not to communicate with someone and still respect who they are. Personally I wouldn't wish anything bad to happen to anyone, but also want absolutely nothing to do with a lot of people.
  8. www.youtube.com/watch?v=E16mSWkYaoA
  9. Recently, I did find this really helpful and thought to share: https://skipthegames.com/articles/escort-resources/the-escorts-guide-to-the-well-endowed-client Especially part 3 which reads: "Typically, clients with large penises aren’t into masochistic sex and are uninterested in hurting you or causing you physical injury simply for their pleasure. However, if they aren’t cautious, it’s very possible that you will experience pain. If your client doesn’t seem to comprehend that his size is an issue, gently explain it to him as you share a few details about the female anatomy."
  10. www.youtube.com/watch?v=3j8ecF8Wt4E www.youtube.com/watch?v=QIwWYXJbxGY www.youtube.com/watch?v=t3AVtQkEHaE www.youtube.com/watch?v=O8lFeVfYw_s www.youtube.com/watch?v=pWHayNNgu7Y
  11. Oh, for me the sex is always fun.. lol. Nothing better than getting tangled up in someone. I just wish I knew better to tell if and when she is getting over-extended with it. An unfortunate side-effect of the nature of the arrangement I guess.
  12. You're completely overthinking this. And don't make me laugh. You can't even tolerate that a stranger you paid a really insignificant amount of money to tolerate your own company for a limited amount of time turns out to be slightly older and as a result you completely lose control of the situation and are miserable after agreeing about it? And this causes you to call out all the women? Listen where I'm from if the time came and it was you and the walrus and you didn't absolutely suit up, show up and bro-fist afterwards you would lose your fucking man card. For me I try to focus on what it takes to be a man rather than wasting energy on bitching about who "deserves" respect. Me: You:
  13. Firstly: Secondly: https://knowyourmeme.com/photos/1326674-all-women-are-queens Case closed.
  14. IMHO there is nothing more attractive than an insatiable woman! You are a lucky guy to have had such an experience.
  15. Yes, and to be perfectly clear my last post was responding to Raquel Brooks's: "I tried to reassure them that nobody targets the mature providers, but fears are fears" which I should have quoted and NOT the underage stuff then reiterated by Rambler1980. Apparently there is a moderator delay here and the other comment was submitted before mine which I didn't see. In the example I provided it was clear that the Yoga teacher was well past legal age and the comparisons I make are only relevant to that circumstance.
  16. The reason this comes up is I've never in my life been very fast to finish but lately it's gotten were I'm not even able to at all so I was randomly looking into that and came across research about painful intercourse (and it isn't guys experiencing this). What I learned is that most vaginas are actually not suited to long sessions (even with lots of lube and gentle motion!), but more interestingly is that the time window of her enjoyment, or even tolerance really, is actually much shorter than I had ever assumed. I've been getting PMs here saying the number is about 10 minutes but could be slightly longer with sufficient arousal. I get the erotic value of deliberate pain in the right setting but I don't see anything exciting in unintentional pain or discomfort. If I think I'm going to be doing anything downtown longer than 10 minutes that should qualify as a topic of discussion ahead of time. I'm feeling pretty awful at the thought and my past behaviour and it's turned into something of a sexual identity crisis. Ignorance isn't a personality trait I like to admit to but that seems to have been exactly the case, all I can do is try to be better going forward.
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