Is kissing allowed?

[nntsci 11075]

I always make sure I have breath mints when I see a gal.

 

I find this discussion of the importance of kissing reminded me of Monty Python sex education scene... where John Cleese asks the students how do you get her juices flowing and after several suggestion, he says, a kiss... start her off with a little kiss.

 

"What's wrong with a kiss, boy? ��? Why not start her

off with a nice kiss? You don't have to go leaping straight

for the clitoris like a bull at a gate. Give her a kiss, boy."

 

 

and I think that's true for men too...

[casey 2936]

I would like to share my personal experience with an MA who did not allow kissing on the lips and intimate areas. The trickiest part is that I asked her during the duo shower but my polite question wasn't explicitly answered. My first thought was that she was rather shy. As I attempted to kiss her gently, she would turn her cheek and her body. I took this as a no and I accepted it wholeheartedly. I felt a dilemma in her as she valued me as a good and gentle client. At the same time, she probably didn't want to "lose" me too soon. I read her mind to find out that she was hoping that I would still enjoy to receive some of her other`skills' during the session. This turns out to be very true!

 

I put a serious thought and I decided to let her know how much I appreciated her. As I had the opportunity while she was massaging me in front, what I actually did was performing some light gentle kissing on her neck and shoulder (pecking) while making long inhale of deep breath like you were enjoying the smell of her body. Then, I brought my lips closer to her chin (don't kiss) while giving her another slow and long inhale. The next move is the most critical. I gradually moved my nose slowly to her lower lips and to the angle part and again, making a sensual slow inhale as long as you want (be careful not to touch your lips on hers). She seemed to enjoy what I did to her. I sensed that she felt more comfortable to know that I was respecting her boundary. She reacted to this by voluntarily open her mouth a little with a heavy breathing which allowed me to smell her entire lips and mouth with my lips closed. I loved the smell of her lips and mouth which was warm and moist. And these fun moments continued with a periodic soft moanings and whispering compliments.

 

I can assure you that this experience is equally tantalizing. The best part, she gave me a wonderful compliment that I was one of her best "boyfriend" whom she have ever met. That was really sweet and lovely! Having this unique experience will definitely make me want to repeat with her again.

[the big g 163]

Kissing MA's or SP's?

[JohnnyJ1981 916]

Kissing is a MAJOR turn on for me when the chemistry is there! I make my heart pound and my "junior" extra stiff. Then I don't want a massage anymore...I want what my raw animal instincts are telling me to do at a genetic level...in essence ensuring the survival of the human race!

[Guest v****rias**de]

I can't speak for the other ladies, but I would just ask. I would find it very gentleman like.

[shortguy1990 226]

I contacted this MA and asked about kissing. She said it's ok but to my surprise once I arrived and the session started she said no tongue. I Was disappointed, I was under impression kissing means tongue use.

[Lephturn 2649]

I'm so glad I read this message before my session today! I'm new at this and have only had a couple of experiences, but neither one really were what I was looking for. This thread helped me identify what might be missing and how to identify the right MA to meet that need.

 

I joined CMJ today, and Alura walked me through the options and what not, and I used what I learned here to ask for the kissing and intimacy that I really wanted. I met many beautiful girls but then I met Strawberry and she greeted me with a warm hug and a kiss - so sweet. I asked a couple of other girls their preferences on kissing, but it didn't matter much because Strawberry created such a connection with me in 30 seconds that I chose her with no hesitation, and boy am I glad I did!

 

I didn't lunge in and stick my tongue down her throat of course, but there was lots of kissing and wow - there was lots of kissing and she was so intimate that it was amazing.

 

If you are not sure who to go to, I'd suggest one of the good places like CMJ where they will bring plenty of beautiful girls to meet with you. Based on how they greeted me it was pretty clear who might like that sort of thing. For any I was unsure about I just politely asked how they felt about kissing and they answered plus I got to watch their body language as they did so. It was quite clear. :)

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

I'm sort of curious as to where the line is drawn between MA and SP? Besides the one obvious factor, it seems as though in the last few years those lines have been blurred.

 

I offer both massage and escorting services but if someone wants more than a massage but not quite full companion, I will make an adjustment and charge a rate in between.

 

Then there are those who try to strike out for more than what was intended and they need to be reminded that it is a massage session they booked for. Lol. I'm all for kissing and am GFE by nature but the reigns do need to be pulled in at times because there are those to the other extreme who REALLY get caught up in the moment ( I don't mean kissing) wanting to take it further. It feels like I'm being put on the spot to which I say...next time visit me for a companion session. Lol.

 

I think the best thing is to ask in advance about things such as kissing. Where one MA may offer someone else may not.Always ask because no one wants to be disappointed.

[Venus Reign 1190]

I would be lost without kissing! I think it is interesting to look into the world of MAs, as I have been thinking about offering such services.

[Guest st*****ens**ors]

Places like CMJ do draw a pretty clear distinction between MA and SP services, the latter being strictly prohibited. However, kissing and cuddling, which are often considered gfe extras by sp's seem to be left to the discretion of the attendant.

 

But clearly, anyone booking an appointment with clearly defined boundaries should respect them.

[Lephturn 2649]

I think the best thing is to ask in advance about things such as kissing. Where one MA may offer someone else may not.Always ask because no one wants to be disappointed.

 

I completely agree. When meeting or communicating with a lady for the first time I will politely ask how she feels about kissing and how she feels about me massaging and exploring her body. I'm new to this and only visit MAs right now, but what is working is coming in to CMJ or Brass and having them allow me to meet several available ladies so I can ask these questions. Sometimes when you meet a lady in person her warm embrace and kiss answers those questions up front and you don't need to ask!

 

I completely respect all of the ladies I have met, no matter their particular restrictions. (I don't like that word but I can't find a better one right now.) Overall I have been blown away at how warm, caring, and open these ladies have been. I marvel at the power they have to open themselves to sensation, to let their fears, hangups, and defenses down and let their sensual energy flow. It is a touch of the divine, and being wrapped in that energy by a sweet goddess is an amazing thing.

 

XOXO

[Marcar 1140]

I always ask what the rules are with any provider and certainly respect any restrictions that the ladies tell me. I try to read forums and look for GFE and/or DFK acronyms. I am very selective and go to a lot of effort to make sure that I'm squeaky clean with fresh breath and I don't understand how any person can meet such lovely ladies without basic hygiene. I understand that YMMV and the need for chemistry however a date without kissing makes me feel a little rejected and I usually don't repeat. I'm taking a few notes from this forum ladies!!

[Guest Knowledge]

Kissing just makes the whole session that much better and more intense IMO.

[mrmatt822 1040]

The most important thing if it's important to you is to ask. My rule of thumb is that if they say yes right away without knowing you, they offer it to everyone. I prefer an answer along the lines of them deciding once they have met you.

 

They almost all use social media oor have an email address. Let them know what you like and see how it goes :-)

[someguy 67067]

So far most of the girls I've met so far kiss. But a few didn't, I still had a good time, but if they had kissed it would have been a great time :).

If I have contact with them, I ask thru email or pm. But sometimes I will take a chance and upon a recommendation will see a girl that knows nothing about me. These are the girls that usually don't kiss much. If you go in for a kiss, they turn and give you a cheek.

sometimes they are a lot of fun anyways.

[KarynSvensen 2074]

So far most of the girls I've met so far kiss. But a few didn't, I still had a good time, but if they had kissed it would have been a great time :).

If I have contact with them, I ask thru email or pm. But sometimes I will take a chance and upon a recommendation will see a girl that knows nothing about me. These are the girls that usually don't kiss much. If you go in for a kiss, they turn and give you a cheek.

sometimes they are a lot of fun anyways.

 

The best way to be sure is to ask that's for sure :) a little text/email is easy and being behind the keyboard prevent from getting too shy about it.

 

I like to give a few hints to my guest, so they have an idea about what they can or can't do.

 

I love kissing and without it... I just don't feel as much passion. I like to be the one initiating the kissing, it is a good way to break the ice and get everyone comfortable :).

[nntsci 11075]

"I love kissing and without it... I just don't feel as much passion. I like to be the one initiating the kissing, it is a good way to break the ice and get everyone comfortable :smile:. "

 

Glad to here that. I love kissing and I agree, there is not much passion without kissing... even shallow pecks for kissing is a disappointment. Of the girls I've repeated with kissing is probably one of the biggest factors, up there with beauty, a sense of humor, and overall enjoyment.

[Dbass34 2238]

It had been said by other but I'm adding my voice to this... I am very selective guy. While looking for a "partner of the hour", like everybody, certain details are must.

 

When I meet a lady for the first time, kisses are the first real opportunity to create the chemistry. I usually let the lady make the initial contact, I feel it gives her the possibility to set the tone herself and me not to cross any boundary, if she has some. But, if the lady doesn't kiss or is not a good kisser, it is a turn off for me. I'll enjoy my time with this partner but I won't repeat.

[Lionelhu 1011]

I'm a new comer to this and so far have only been an MA guy, but my experiences thus far have been night and day when kissing is allowed. It just takes the intimacy up several levels and frankly for me is the best part of the experience (well, 2nd best after the 'end'). Going forward, I'm hoping to find a way to ensure that any lady I spend time with likes kissing!

[Guest **ng***1]

I didn't read this whole thread, and it may have already be said, but, I think kissing is a staple in intimacy. Not everyone likes it or is good at it. If a guy is going to ask if kissing is allowed, he should probably understand that if you just ate a shawarma, then NO kissing won't be allowed. but if you have fresh breath you have a chance. I always make sure I am clean shaven and fresh breath. I don't jump into a dfk right from the get go, but warm up to see if we have a connection before attempting to kiss. If she hasn't said anything at that point then generally she is open to it. If she does, I completely respect her choice and perhaps ask to understand all her restrictions.

[nntsci 11075]

"Shawarma"

 

I cooked pan fried garlic shrimp and snow peas for a lady last year (the hotel came with a stove, so why not)... we ate it together... she said it was very good... we washed it down with a good bottle of sparkling wine... so neither of us complained when we got back to kissing, because we both tasted of garlic shrimp.

[BigBud 1165]

The best way to be sure is to ask that's for sure :) a little text/email is easy and being behind the keyboard prevent from getting too shy about it.

 

I like to give a few hints to my guest, so they have an idea about what they can or can't do.

 

I love kissing and without it... I just don't feel as much passion. I like to be the one initiating the kissing, it is a good way to break the ice and get everyone comfortable :).

 

This is great advice. For me, kissing is an essential part of having a good time, so sessions without it don't compare to those that include it. I always text a MA I'm interested in meeting beforehand, and I'm clear what I'm looking for. Most 90% I'd say, are happy - if not enthusiastic - to accommodate me, but those who are less comfortable are always upfront and tell me so. Being clear beforehand about what you want is always a good introduction.

[KarynSvensen 2074]

I always text a MA I'm interested in meeting beforehand, and I'm clear what I'm looking for..

 

This is actually a good thing that most gentlemen should do as much for the kissing than other things. Too many show up and get mad because they expect something that wasn't implied or discussed anywhere.

 

Being upfront about your expectations will prevent you from losing your time :). The worst case scenario is to get a no. If the provider go crazy because of a question, well you might of just saved yourself some trouble ;)

[FoxyRoxy 1154]

Always good to ask in room, text or email if the MA kisses or not that way your not disappointed in session when they don't kiss. My personal opionion I love kissing, I'm not a huge fan of using tounge too much( all depends on hygiene) but I find kissing makes me feel more passionate in session and building a bond with the client. That being said, I will use more tongue if I feel like I have good chemistry with the client. I also love body kissing I find it incredibly sensual.

Every MA is differnt though, some are not comfortable at all with kissing their clients and never will but thats up to them to decide. I know some MAs who don't kiss but they still provide an amazing experience.

[Flick 100]

And I would just like to add that Eliza you are a very passionate kisser!