Why all posts about Bp ladies?

[Mikeyboy 27113]

Isn't the "Escort Discussion for Nova Scotia" section the perfect spot to discuss... um... well... escorts from Nova Scotia? ;)

 

Seriously though. I don't see the issue with people feeling free to ask questions, as long as they follow the rules of the site. If someone doesn't like to read all of those posts, then that is their choice. I don't read them all myself unless I might have something useful to add, but I think people should feel free to ask, and benefit from the experiences of others. The nice thing about this site is that it only allows for the positive responses so it doesn't degenerate into name calling and bashing.

 

I also suspect that many of the new members to this site (hobbiests and sp's alike) arrive here based on finding these discussions. I think it would be counter productive to limit the discussion to members only.

 

If it is a matter of desiring more stimulating topics in this section, then by all means please start these discussions. I agree that it would be refreshing.

 

Just my thoughts. And I mean these comments with all due respect. (And I really mean that Amelia. I am a fan ;) ) I just couldn't help but notice a lack of activity of any kind in this section since this thread, and I don't believe that this benefits anyone.

 

Mikey

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31676]

I personally don't think she meant anything by it....hell I use to wonder why all the post about bp girls too on here I thought it was for us Lyla ladies but it don't bother me none...I post on both anyways

[Guest S****r]

I personally don't think she meant anything by it....hell I use to wonder why all the post about bp girls too on here I thought it was for us Lyla ladies but it don't bother me none...I post on both anyways

 

My thoughts, too. I found it very strange at first.

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

The reality is that BP does not have a discussion forum. Lyla does. Yes, its frustrating when guys are asking about new BP ladies, or ladies that have been around and can't be discussed. However, the guys do want to see more then their regulars. This is the nature of the business. So, yes, they come here to see if anyone has seen a new girl posting on BP. I always try to encourage these new ladies create an account here. Most don't know about it.

 

Lyla is the only site that allows civil discussions. So, instead of complaining, lets encourage it.

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31676]

I haven't seen anyone complain. ... just being curious as to why...and personally I don't care either way...as I said i post on both...

[Midnite-Energies 110563]

I think much of it stems from the way LYLA used to operate. It was a community of like minded individuals and mentions of BP were not permitted because the site itself was exclusive. There was a mindset of participation on both fronts and was considered a good gauge of both clients and ladies. People spent a lot of time establishing themselves as reputable.

 

The decision was then made to allow discussion on BP and there was a shift more towards hobbyists than providers and participation dropped off somewhat. It didn't matter if you participated or were established or even on the board anymore and most of the discussions were about people not here. Then C36 hit and this became more prominant.

 

Not saying it's a bad thing...just a big change in the board and the way it's used. I'm all for people being safe.

[Guest S****r]

I think much of it stems from the way LYLA used to operate. It was a community of like minded individuals and mentions of BP were not permitted because the site itself was exclusive. There was a mindset of participation on both fronts and was considered a good gauge of both clients and ladies. People spent a lot of time establishing themselves as reputable.

 

The decision was then made to allow discussion on BP and there was a shift more towards hobbyists than providers and participation dropped off somewhat. It didn't matter if you participated or were established or even on the board anymore and most of the discussions were about people not here. Then C36 hit and this became more prominent.

 

Not saying it's a bad thing...just a big change in the board and the way it's used. I'm all for people being safe.

 

I think you hit the nail on the head. It used to be more of a community. Now it is more of an information board, maybe.

[Mikeyboy 27113]

I think much of it stems from the way LYLA used to operate. It was a community of like minded individuals and mentions of BP were not permitted because the site itself was exclusive. There was a mindset of participation on both fronts and was considered a good gauge of both clients and ladies. People spent a lot of time establishing themselves as reputable.

 

The decision was then made to allow discussion on BP and there was a shift more towards hobbyists than providers and participation dropped off somewhat. It didn't matter if you participated or were established or even on the board anymore and most of the discussions were about people not here. Then C36 hit and this became more prominant.

 

Not saying it's a bad thing...just a big change in the board and the way it's used. I'm all for people being safe.

 

I agree with most of this except for the fact that participation has dropped off since the change. In my mind (and I've been here going on 7 years) it increased a lot at that point. This specific section used to go days and even weeks without a post. Since then membership and activity has increased dramatically. Some might argue that they don't care for the type or direction of the activity but I think it can be argued that there is more of it.

Just an observation.

[Guest S****r]

I agree with most of this except for the fact that participation has dropped off since the change. In my mind (and I've been here going on 7 years) it increased a lot at that point. This specific section used to go days and even weeks without a post. Since then membership and activity has increased dramatically. Some might argue that they don't care for the type or direction of the activity but I think it can be argued that there is more of it.

Just an observation.

 

I'm not sure that's accurate. I remember mod posting stats a time or two to show us how much we lost when the law went into effect. I haven't seen any recent stats though. It has likely come up a bit since then, but still not the numbers it was. Maybe someone can ask mod. That would be interesting to know.

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

I know the NS section increased from when I first joined. Used to be a couple of posts here and there. It was all about Ottawa. I'm glad NS and NB are active. Just need to get PEI and NFLD more active.

[Victoria Phoenix 3403]

I am with Danielle,, I post on both,, actually more-so what's the issue again?!

[Brad 49548]

I can understand people wanting to use this section to help find information on someone they are interested in. Yes, sometimes it would be nice if everyone would use google image search or tineye themselves first, or check to see if a conversation already exists, as it seems doing all that would preclude the need for half the threads. But that's a problem all forums have and nothing new. And while in some cases it may be laziness but we have to keep in mind that what seems common sense for some is new and unknown to others.

 

And at the end of the day I'd rather people ask and so be safe. Helping each other avoid scams is best for all of us--gents and legitimate ladies alike--isn't it?

 

I like the idea of this board being primarily about community, but safety and information are legitimate aspects as well. A nice thing is that it isn't an either/or scenario. As this very thread proves, when an engaging topic or question is posed that catches people's interest, people will contribute and converse.

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

I am with Danielle,, I post on both,, actually more-so what's the issue again?!

 

This is the Original Poster.

 

If you've concerns, why come here to this board? Typically ladies get on here last, so the massive amounts of random posts about this one and that one is now taking over our discussion boards in NS!

Why?!?

You men not doing your home work and instantly coming here to vent or what? Surely there's other things to talk about then Ashley,Tiffany, Brandi,MissCanada, Deborah from bp or cl etc...

These silly posts are ruining good chats/discussions we could be having...

My oponion only. Hehe...

[Guest S****r]

My guess is that almost all of us post on both, along with many other sites.

[Mikeyboy 27113]

I'm not sure that's accurate. I remember mod posting stats a time or two to show us how much we lost when the law went into effect. I haven't seen any recent stats though. It has likely come up a bit since then, but still not the numbers it was. Maybe someone can ask mod. That would be interesting to know.

 

You are correct that there was a dip over a year ago when the new legislation came in. (Although my understanding is that this has bounced back substantially in the past year. ) I was referring to the time years ago before the decision to allow links to BP and select other sites. (It used to be forbidden). I'm not even suggesting causality between the two things. Just that there are substantially more active members now that in those days.

[Midnite-Energies 110563]

I think part of the reason for more activity is that prior to BO being permitted here, you could look up many profiles and have a history of posts or recos so people felt comfortable with the knowledge they gained by that or could see who to contact via PM if they needed more info on someone.

 

Now, most of the BP ladies are not here and many are "new" in the sense they haven't been around long (read a year or more) and there is very little information so in order to gain some, the conversation has to begin. Mind you, there are a lot of cross conversations or redundant ones whether from lack of search knowledge, time, effort etc.

 

As has been said, being safe is very important especially with the way things are now. Just most of the local conversations are focused on BP.

[damatt 340]

I'd like to weigh in on that....if you show up and the place seems sketchy and the lady equally so and not even close to what her pics are, you have the option to just leave.

problem solved

 

Additional Comments:

I have to agree a bit.....social media being what it is, and this hobby being what it is, its very easy to spread rumours and misinformation. I would suggest to anyone to neither accept or dismiss anything said. do your own research, talk to the lady.

The problems that ladies are facing with advertising on BP, from what I have been told, are expensive and exhausting. Most said that they just don't have the extra time and money to advertise on CERB or other review boards.

[Ice4fun 78396]

A surprising number of ladies on BP have never heard of LYLA... they are new to the industry and frankly BP works for them. Whenever I meet a lady I will ask if they are on LYLA and often take a minute to show them the site... some of those ladies do in fact follow through and join but many don't.

 

We often say on here that women have the right to run their business as they see fit I guess if we mean that then it includes using BP if they want too. Let's face it lots of extremely reputable ladies here on LYLA Use BP.

 

Just My Opinion

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

BP is the Uber of the esorting industry right now lol.