Last weekend I was reconised.......

[Studio 110 by Sophia 150333]

Was out dancing lastweekend with another out of town SP. Having a really great time, feeling like just 2 normal, average girls out for the night. Then this guy comes to talk to us outside the bar. Very handsome, large biceps, well dresser. At first we were sort of week in the knee's by his good looks. For me, even though he was nice to look at, I am not in the habit of picking up or being picked up in bars. I just do not need yet another date, lol! My freind with me was feeling the same way. So we politly declined his offer, couldnt seem to figure out which one he was trying to pick up anyways. But he kept on saying" so...ladies what's up?"......:so...ladies what"s up?" Finally getting slightly irritated by the same question over and over again, I said nothing is going on, I am heading home, and so is she. Then out of now where, he says, "hey I know you 2 girls, you are from Kerb( trying to proununce cerb)"

"kerb?" I say, "I dont know where kerb is, but I am from Moncton" Pretending to not know WTF he was talikng about. Again he says it" ya...your from Kerb" Again acting dumbfounded I answer " I am from NB, I dont where the hell kerb is!"

So she and I were going to grab a cab where they all are staioned, but I was a bit werided out by all of that, so we took an alternate route just in case he would attempt to fallow us home. Now I am not normally easliy spooked but when you got a bunch of young guy's drinking and one gets "shoot down" you really don't know how it can end. I hope that this person will read this, and understand that it is NEVER OK to approach us in that way!! We are in a vaunerable postion in our work, and do not need to feel vaunerable when we go out for a good time! If i had met this guy in the past, perhaps I would have felt better about it. But I never met him. Also had I met him before, I would be upset that he would "out" me when I am in company of freinds.

I assume he may be new to this, perhaps do not know the protocol of seeing an SP in public, so here it is.....NEVER APPROCH TO SP IN PUBLIC!!!!

 

Additional Comments:

Thanks megforfun.....It was quick thinking for sure, lol!

[Jabba 18389]

What a F**k Head!!

[roamingguy 300291]

What a jerk. Even if he was a newbie, and doesn't know that it's inappropriate to come up to a SP in public, once you said not interested, he should have ended it, instead of continuing to follow/harass you.

You handled it well, this guy, needs lessons on common sense manners and courtesy.

RG

[Studio 110 by Sophia 150333]

WOW!! Thanks everyone, Your support is valed for sure:))

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

I would have gotten some big guy named Bubba at the bar to plummel him.

[Winnipegcub 21293]

Would be good if you run into him when he is out with his friends and stop him and say..."hey aren't you peckerhead from CERB?" "What are you doing here looking for an escort?" Then maybe he would get it!

[Studio 110 by Sophia 150333]

Hahahaha awsome!! i was thinking like perhaps i should have not been so offended! It is great to see so many would have felt the same way!!

[JuliasUndies 7288]

Oh Geeze! I feel so bad, what a perfectly good night gone creepy bad!

In a situation when guys are being jerks..I have a tendency to raise my voice and demand my way over due child support and how he left me standing at the alter to be with his true love "Mike" and just cause they didn't work out doesn't make it any easier for me and our child we share together that never sees Daddy or get's child support from cause he's too busy buying his boyfriend new loafers...

They leave before I finish my sentence. *Compliments to my acting career"

[explorer69 3513]

oh geeze! I feel so bad, what a perfectly good night gone creepy bad!

In a situation when guys are being jerks..i have a tendency to raise my voice and demand my way over due child support and how he left me standing at the alter to be with his true love "mike" and just cause they didn't work out doesn't make it any easier for me and our child we share together that never sees daddy or get's child support from cause he's too busy buying his boyfriend new loafers...

They leave before i finish my sentence. *compliments to my acting career"

lmfao......

[antlerman 17064]

.........................Very handsome, large biceps, well dresser. At first we were sort of week in the knee's by his good looks. For me, even though he was nice to look ..................

 

well that rules me out of the picture......hahahah

 

But seriously.......get a life guys...or use your hands more

[PistolPete 61421]

Is this the guy? Weirdo eh?

[Lowdark 5613]

Priceless. This is soomething Bugs bunny would approve of. If people won't learn through common sense, public humiliation will usually do the trick.

 

Oh Geeze! I feel so bad, what a perfectly good night gone creepy bad!

In a situation when guys are being jerks..I have a tendency to raise my voice and demand my way over due child support and how he left me standing at the alter to be with his true love "Mike" and just cause they didn't work out doesn't make it any easier for me and our child we share together that never sees Daddy or get's child support from cause he's too busy buying his boyfriend new loafers...

They leave before I finish my sentence. *Compliments to my acting career"

[toine 30556]

Well, very sorry to hear about this guy misbehaving like this, and I must say your replies were just right, and quick witted. Being quick witted is a great quality to have...

Playing devil's advocate, it may just be the case that he really rapidly felt like a dork, and that the heat of the moment explains his first comment, and alcohol the latter ones... Still, it does not excuse his messing with your evening of fun with a friend.

Enjoy life, go and dance with your friends, and don't worry too much about dorks. Life is too short for that.

Best,

toine

[bcguy42 38594]

Oh, where is a knee to the groin when you need one? One never tires of hearing of the underwhelming stupidity of some people...

[JuliasUndies 7288]

LOL!!! Thank heavens it's approved because I often post quick reply before reevaluating what it is I have just said and the affects it might have..

I do still love the one where I just start coughing wildly on them and sneezing in their drink and neck, that one generally works just brilliantly.

[Ashley Ann 75247]

How shitty....most individuals should know better than to approach you and/or call you out like that...however, I can honestly say from a couple of past experiences..not all do, which you have also unfortunately been exposed to as well.

 

However, these things are likely to happen a little more often when you show your gorgeous face in your pics, please note: I am not saying that this is right, or deserved, because it soooo was not....I am just a little surprised :icon_surprised: when ladies who show their face in pics are so shocked when they are recognized and/or approached...especially within this type of business. By no means am I suggesting that you should not show your face in your pics and/or is deserved. That is not what I am suggesting at all.:)

 

Yes there are many smart, classy & respectful guys who know better...but when it comes to this profession, there are so maaaaaany lurkers and/or losers who get off on insulting or embarrassing sp's. (both male & female)

 

Again, I am not saying it's right, it's wrong...but only in a perfect world can you expose yourself as a sp and never run into these types of situations.

 

Buddy acted like a loser...and you handled the situation well. You stayed calm, cool and collected.:bigclap:

[Studio 110 by Sophia 150333]

Yes Vennessa, I often wondered if this would happen, as I do photgraph my face. tell you the truth it is the very first time it ever happened, strange seeing how I am in such a small town.

I suppose I have to weigh out the pro's and con's to this, I know most of my dates love the fact they can see my face, there are flip sides to everything isn't there? Many like it when they cant see the face leaving an air of mystery.

But ya, I think I will continue the way I do things, as most people are not so impolite with this type of situation. Thanks though, it is food for thought:)

[Guest t**obb****]

treat him like the rockstar you are.

"I appreciate fans, but this is my private time",

Grab your friend and leave and say wtf? and laugh all the way home.

 

they likely won't know what cerb/kerb is anyway and wouldn't bother to check.

 

i'm not much for revenge, to much energy and i don't care about the other person that much.

[shymale 10234]

sorry to hear about this sophia. just know that the majority of men on cerb know to respect the ladies privacy.

[Guest **cely***r***ne]

Thanks for this Sophia. I was upset about this too. Especially the next day when he began texting me on my bus ride home, of which was a whole other upsetting matter. I will not post the details here because it could be posted in another thread...but needless to say, he was rude with his conversation.

 

There are a few threads on the importance of discretion but it cannot be explained enough apparently. When I go out with friends and am being introduced to people, I am me, Angel does not exist at that moment. And to be outed as Angel in puplic, was not only embarrasing - seeing as I had just introduced myself as someone else....it is also a piss off.

 

When you take notice to someone you know, in this case an SP, a polite wave in passing or a slight nod of the head in recognizance is surely enough until you get home or online and can PM or email her to say what is on your mind n'est pas?

 

No matter how macho and buff or handsome you are...as soon as you open your mouth and all that comes out is ugly....you are definitely NOT going to impress me at all. And that evening with Heman wannabe, has made me second guess the bodaciously buff....big in the body...small in the brain.

(And I mean no offense to anyone of the muscley nature...my attitude is directed solely to this loser)

[want_sumfun69 770]

What a douche! sure, people get stupid when they drink, but know your damn limit and don't be a douche.