What are age norms?

[Zorotime 120]

Hi, I'm new to this hobby. Recently on my own again and am not interested in another relationship. Seeing an escort is about just right for my needs right about now, but I am concerned that my preferences towards young SPs may not be well received. I'm in my early 50s and am attracted to 20 and 30 year old providers, but not exclusively as there are many in their 40s I find very attractive. My questions are:

 

Is it normal for mature men like me to frequent these younger escorts?

 

Do younger providers welcome mature clients?

 

Should I search for SP company closer to my age?

 

Thanks,

[Capital Hunter 18263]

I am in this hobby to see younger girls in their early to mid 20's which is almost half my age. If I wanted to see ladies my own age I meet them in the bars or at work are plenty around. I think it is normal for a gentleman to be attracted to younger ladies.

 

I don't see why younger providers won't see you if you are nice to them and treat them well. Some even strongly prefer more mature guys than guys their own age because they are likely treated better in all probabilities by more mature gents. Remember this is not chossing a GF or BF. It is more like you will be paying for their time in a private place not a romantic relationship in public.

 

If you are asking about dating someone much younger in public then it may be a different story altogether. It depends on how well maintained you are yourself for your age. A young looking gent with head full of youthful hair with little or no face wrinkes has a better chance to date in public with a much younger lady without drawing attention than the one who looks older with a belly and grey or balding hair and face full of wrinkes and the young lady may not accept the invitation fear embarassment. Mind you I have witnessed even in semi public places like strip bars men more than 2 to 3 times older hugging and kissing the younger girls like a GF lol even I become sometimes astonished to see that and rub my eyes a few times!!!!!!!. but no it does not happen in dance bars, restaurants and parks and libraries lol. Remember if it is a paid date nothing of sexual nature must occur in a public place (or even talk of it). In any case as long as it is private, and you treat them well, it will be fine, regardless.

[LuxeMulvari 65764]

Hi there, and welcome to our community;) As a younger provider, I can say I prefer to see 35+ clients. I have no problem with younger gents closer to my age, but I find I click better and the chemistry is often more suitable with older gents.

 

Age and looks is really irrelevant to me though in deciding whether or not I will enjoy a gent's company, the deciding criteria is someone who is respectful in all our correspondence, who I think I will be stimulated by intellectually and enjoy conversing with, and who shows a genuine interest in meeting with ME, as opposed to just the services I provide ;)

[Boomer 33202]

Look I'm I my sixties and I haven't found my age to be a barrier. In fact, I think you'll find your age to be an asset as I think many women prefer a little grey. WE aren't as rushed and are a little more considerate and attentive to our partners. I think it was one of the presidential debates where Regan demolished his opponent by commenting that he wouldn't hold his age against him.

 

Good luck, just have fun and enjoy the opportunity.

[DukeSSk 3430]

Do younger providers welcome mature clients?

I've seen a handful of ladies in their mid-20s clearly state in their ads that they only see men 30 or 40+. Even when they don't have an age restrictions, you can kind of get the hint that older gentlemen are preferred.

 

Shouldn't be an issue like the others have said above.

 

Good luck and enoy :)

[cat 262460]

Age is only a factor if you make it one in this industry. What is important is to find a provider that appeals to you on more than just a physical level. There are some very mature young ladies on here that take their work seriously and treat their clients with the same respect they receive. At your age, you already realize that great sex takes more than just a beautiful body, it takes passion, spirit and the intelligence to ensure all your needs are met. You've certainly come to the right place, just do your research and have fun...

cat

[roamingguy 300291]

I'm 51 and have been partaking in this lifestyle since July 2010

I've seen ladies from mid twenties to fifty.

What matters most of all imho is the connection you make with a lady

Never has my age been a consideration with the ladies I've seen

What ladies do like is a client who is a gentleman

RG

[Frank7 3939]

I wouldn't worry about your age. I've never seen ladies state don't wont see someone over X.

On the other hand, i've seen a bunch say they only provide for 35+, wich sucks a bit for me. =P

[cometman 35115]

Old farts love to say things like "It ain't the size of it.....it's how you use it".

Extrapolating from there, you'll do fine with who ever you're with if you treat them like a lady.

[emiafish 30979]

Age is just a number. I'm 55 and have been a hobbyist for more than thirty years, since before it was called a hobby. While it is common for an older man to be attracted to a much younger lady, I've found that the emotional age is as important as the physical.

 

Younger SP's who welcome older clients (most do) tend to be older emotionally. I've also found many mature providers who look young and act younger. For my money, I prefer a provider with an attitude that matches my own hedonistic nature, regardless of age.

 

Everyone differs, hence more than one flavour at Baskin Robins. What ever your particular kink there is most likely a provider for you. Take advantage of this community and its resources and happy hobbying.

[LeeRichards 177238]

Should I search for SP company closer to my age?

 

Thanks,

 

Nope.

 

This is the perfect opportunity for you relax and spend time with a lady you want to be with that attracts you, in the age preference you want to experience. SP willing of course.

 

Just enjoy Zorotime :) There are some amazing Cerb ladies out there waiting to meet you.

[cu***ngl***us 2024]

The only thing you should worry about age is cheese and wine. If you treat the ladies with respect it doesn't matter what your age is.

[cat 262460]

The only thing you should worry about age is cheese and wine. If you treat the ladies with respect it doesn't matter what your age is.

 

Meat also falls into this category I think...

cat

[Athos 108589]

Not much more to add. I'm turning 51 this year. I've seen ladies aged 19 - 50ish. One of my all time favourite providers was in her mid-40s, but one of the most amazing sessions I've had recently was with a beautiful lady in her 20s.

 

When I send my introductory e-mail I often tell the lady how old I am, so they have a bit of an idea what to expect. It has never been an issue.

 

Age is more likely to be a factor for hobbyists who are young, then for us silverbacks!

 

Porthos

[Guest t****ster***ke]

not to oversimplify, but if you have respect, money and a penis, you should not encounter any problems ;) even the penis is optional really, but i find it makes things more fun!

[JoyfulC 132299]

As long as your preferences are legal, I don't think you should second guess them.

 

And yes, many younger SPs find older men more attractive than men their own age. I was like that when I was younger. And I still prefer older men today.

 

As an SP, though, a word of advice: stay fit. This doesn't mean you have to be as thin as a model or run off and invest in hair plugs. I'm not talking about that type of fitness. I'm talking about flexibility and stamina. The oldest customer I've ever had was going to turn 90 in the last year I saw him. And yet, he was one rompin' stompin' experience! I have had many friends in their 70s and 80s who love to play on my liberator shapes and who will chase me around the massage table, or just take time out to invite me to dance nude when a favourite song comes on the radio.

 

But I've also had problems with customers with physical challenges, and these have happened with men as young as their 30s. There is an amount of energy required to achieve an orgasm. We never think about it until it is isn't there, but this is definitely one of the biggest obstacles to enjoying yourself in a session. The other is flexibility. And again, you really don't have to be too old to lose this. You don't need to be able to bend over backwards or put your head between your knees, but if you have difficulty (in the absence of arthritis or some disability) getting on and off the bed, moving around the bed, getting up, etc., it will diminish your enjoyment of this experience. It doesn't take a big commitment to exercise to stay within a good range of fitness and flexibility, but walking a few extra steps a day, taking the stairs instead of the elevator, and stretching regularly will go a long way to ensuring you can continue to enjoy this sport well into your golden years.

 

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Oh! And masturbate daily!!

[PhantomKnight 7914]

I'm 26,

 

I enjoy this hobby. Nothing like meeting beautiful women of all ages who can teach you many things. I've learned more through women I've seen than most university classes I've taken.

 

I hope to continue this until I'm much older. :)

[mrgreen760 37785]

Age matters to me in that I have a minimum and a maximum age of providers that I'll seek out.

That being said I also have a an age point for when I'll exit the game.

 

I also feel it's incumbent on me to be in as good of shape as I can be for my age. If I expect it of some one else, I should also expect it of me.

 

Peace

MG

[ben71 100]

I have been on cerb for a while, but I have yet to partake in the services of an SP. I am about to turn 22 and seeing the strong preference of many SPs for older men makes me a little apprehensive about contacting a provider if and when I decide to. Are these feelings warranted or are many SPs open to younger guys?

 

I can imagine that some younger guys have caused bad experiences due to their immaturity and disrespect, but I hope that hasn't ruined it for those of us that are mature and respectful.

[Athos 108589]

I have been on cerb for a while, but I have yet to partake in the services of an SP. I am about to turn 22 and seeing the strong preference of many SPs for older men makes me a little apprehensive about contacting a provider if and when I decide to. Are these feelings warranted or are many SPs open to younger guys?

 

I can imagine that some younger guys have caused bad experiences due to their immaturity and disrespect, but I hope that hasn't ruined it for those of us that are mature and respectful.

 

Just explain your situation, be respectful and polite, and I'm sure you'll have no problems. Some ladies may choose not to see you, but there are others who will. Far better to be upfront about your age, and find a suitable provider, than to show up, surprise the lady, and have a potentially awkward situation.

 

Porthos

[oldblueeyez 15475]

Recently on my own again and am not interested in another relationship. Seeing an escort is about just right for my needs right about now

 

Welcome to the club! Life ain't so bad single, now is it? As long as we have lovely CERB ladies to frequent, how can we not be happy living are lives freely in our mandens? :P

 

Regarding your question; why worry? Just get in there and get hornin'! Time's a wastin'!

[Frank7 3939]

I have been on cerb for a while, but I have yet to partake in the services of an SP. I am about to turn 22 and seeing the strong preference of many SPs for older men makes me a little apprehensive about contacting a provider if and when I decide to. Are these feelings warranted or are many SPs open to younger guys?

 

I can imagine that some younger guys have caused bad experiences due to their immaturity and disrespect, but I hope that hasn't ruined it for those of us that are mature and respectful.

 

You shouldn't worry. I was 23 the first time i saw an SP, and both ladies i've seen didn't seem to mind my age. Specialy the one i repeated 5-6 times. =P

[parkershellby45 678]

I too am an old fart, 52, and most of the SP's on PEI are in their 20's and not one of them made me feel like they were doing me a favour by seeing me, but believe me they were, such sweet generous young ladies, I would like to thank each and every one of them, especially Aubrey, yummy.