Gatineaukid 130 Report post Posted January 24, 2013 In ottawa it is becoming a regular thing that is offered . Personally I am not a fan. I mean who is happy after only 15 minutes? It seems animalistic even 30 minutes seems rushed. But if it is being offered it must mean there is a demand 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
A****y E*e 6175 Report post Posted January 24, 2013 I mean, I think it comes down to different strokes for different folks, really (pun definitely intended). I also prefer a longer session, but lots of people are looking for a quick lunch break or some stress relief, and if everyone involved in that encounter is happy with it, then I don't see it as a problem at all. Plus, i definitely see the allure of a quickie sometimes, and the fantasy of meeting someone sneakily between meetings or appointments for a quick and intense session of great sex seems really hot... 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mister_crufty 4891 Report post Posted January 24, 2013 Ah quickies...that's my problem, not my solution. ;-) They call me the minute man....MSOG is the only way for me. Ain't no way I'm gonna get the lady off in 15... That's not to say it's impossible...some ladies can be super quick when they put their mind to it but I think most women need a little more time. Is it okay for it to be all about me some times? I don't know...that's another tough concept to wrap my head around. Not sure I'm ready to go there yet. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aimtoplease1 1839 Report post Posted January 24, 2013 You might not go for the 15 min. everytime but like Audrey said...between meetings...the fantasy of going for a quickie...like in the movies when the couple comes in the door & starts ripping each others clothes off & eating each other up like there's no tomorrow!!! SHIT....I'm going for a quickie!!! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mister_crufty 4891 Report post Posted January 24, 2013 Hmm...I like the way you think. I don't think I could ever do it with someone I don't know but I guess if there were a provider that I had a really good relationship with, that kind of raw passion might be fun. "Alright boys, here's the plan. In, out. Nobody gets hurt." - Bugsy (Kevin Nealon) You might not go for the 15 min. everytime but like Audrey said...between meetings...the fantasy of going for a quickie...like in the movies when the couple comes in the door & starts ripping each others clothes off & eating each other up like there's no tomorrow!!! SHIT....I'm going for a quickie!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gabriella Laurence 301887 Report post Posted January 24, 2013 I always wondered how you can even say hi, undress, have fun, clean up, get dressed again and be out the door in 15 minutes lol 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Katherine of Halifax 113931 Report post Posted January 24, 2013 (edited) I always wondered how you can even say hi, undress, have fun, clean up, get dressed again and be out the door in 15 minutes lol I guess a quick kiss and a cuddle and away you go, no clean up necessary!! Edited January 24, 2013 by Katherine spelling Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fortunateone 156618 Report post Posted January 24, 2013 I always thought it was 'code' for a blow&go session, nonFS, just a bj kind of thing. Here there are some who are non-GFE 15 minute FS sessions, but it seems like a waste of time and energy promoting that as an option. For something lower rate and low risk, as in for clients who aren't sure they want more on a first visit, why not offer that non-FS thing, which might take about 15 minutes, and everyone is on their way. To me the 15 minute for a FS session kind of degrades the experience down to nothing, almost a waste of money might as well throw it away, or get someone in the car for a car date. Save time and money lol. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xxxAxxx 21016 Report post Posted January 24, 2013 To me the 15 minute for a FS session kind of degrades the experience down to nothing, almost a waste of money might as well throw it away, or get someone in the car for a car date. Save time and money lol. I kinda feel the same way I guess, having a 15mins session implies it is all about sex, only sex, and very fast no time to savor it sex. I'm glad it's offered to those who like it that way, but I for one don't see the connection between that type of service and the word courtesan....just mho. There's a lot more than "quick, hard sex" to my sessions, even if the sex was quick and hard. ;) 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mister_crufty 4891 Report post Posted January 25, 2013 Agree with all of the above. Quickies only really work if you're already there, like in a relationship. Honestly, I can't imagine less than an hour ever being enough for me. Good sex takes time. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
castle 38816 Report post Posted January 25, 2013 Quickies are a blast! Every now and then that is lol. I have many fond memories of the odd, completely random, unplanned and unexpected quickies with my ex's. I think in the context of this hobby, the occasional 15 minute quicky could be really fun with a lady with whom you already have an established and healthy sp/client relationship and have already taken previous longer encounters to get to know each other. But I can't really see a 15 minute encounter being all that gratifying for either party on a first time meeting. But that's me. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicolette Vaughn 294340 Report post Posted January 25, 2013 I may be in the minority when I say this and some may not like what I'm about to say but some people just don't want to pay or and often think that paying for sex is just another product or service and think they can haggle with one provider if the other says no. Seeing escorts isn't a need or necessity from a basic needs standpoint but so many guys tend to think that it is and make it a point to tell ladies that they are a commodity. And from what I've heard from other SP friends that I know are telling me that now guys are asking for encounter promising to pay back the next day or regular clients asking for a discount from a discount that has already been given. So where does it end? What we're offering is a more intimate service and while I understand half hour appts serve a purpose and seem to satisfy those who offer them and the customers who endulges in them but 15 minutes? It would definitely make me a clockwatcher. I don't like the mindset of guys I've encountered who are looking for 15 mins. I'm not a fan of them and don't offer them. I'm not a blowup doll and won't be treated like one. 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cat 262460 Report post Posted January 25, 2013 This afternoon I visited with a guest and before he left he booked a quickie for tomorrow at lunch...for an hour. Whether he needs the full hour tomorrow? Who knows, the 4 hours this afternoon with him was time well spent and thoroughly enjoyed! An quickie for me is an hour, 15 minutes is like brushing my teeth... cat 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S****r Report post Posted January 25, 2013 fuck me now! is good I agree it is with someone you are already hot for, though. I could name several.....hmmmmmm....... Not that I offer this, but.........you have me thinking! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicolette Vaughn 294340 Report post Posted January 25, 2013 I thought I might add that many providers do not want this sort of traffic at their incall location and preparing for a 15, 30 or 1 hour plus client is all the same. If I had a 15 minute client, I would need to have 2 people at my location that day to make up for a half hour customer and even though two 15 minute customers would bring me more money than a single half hour appt, it is often a matter of discretion rather than money on a provider's end and my incall isn't a drive thru. If I had to see a half hour client and make less money than doing two 15 minutes appt, that is what I prefer to do especially where discretion is concerned. Two half hour appts a day or even just a one hour appt will make me more than two 15 minute appts at the end of the day. I just wanted to mention this as sometimes people do not into account what we go through in terms of preparation for the client and while 15 minute appts don't work for me, if someone else offers them, that's their perogative. 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VedaSloan 119179 Report post Posted January 25, 2013 Yeesh, I blow the first 15 minutes teasing you ;) You see what I did there? :dncdick: xx 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mister_crufty 4891 Report post Posted January 25, 2013 I guess I just don't understand the point of "getting off" just for the sake of it. I can get myself off quite easily with no travel or associated costs. I'm looking for an hour of love. The intimacy, the human contact, the feeling of closeness to another human being. That's why chemistry is so important to me. I want to care about you as a person and have a private moment that is fun for both of us. If I had a dream it would be to be the guy that all the ladies look forward to seeing. Not because of the sex being good (although that would be fine too;-) but because they genuinely like me and feel comfortable being themselves with me. You're all beautiful women each in your own way and you deserve to have a good experience just as much as I do. Me paying doesn't change that any more than buying a burger gives me the right to be a dick to a server. When you're happy, I'm happy. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300291 Report post Posted January 25, 2013 Personally I don't see the appeal in a 15 minute encounter. To me a one hour encounter is too quick, which is why absolute minimum time for an encounter for me is two hours. I've had three hour encounters where the first two hours were spent having drinks, and good conversation. That made the time in the bedroom all the better, because it's with a lady I spend time geting to know, or to reconnect with. It's not a quick anonymous fling solely for sexual gratification That said, there must be a demand for it or it wouldn't be offerred...maybe for example a guy who can only see a lady at lunchtime during his workday. This lifestyle is about different strokes for different folks. And all different types of encounters, be it 15 minute specials, or longer gfe experiences, to sleepovers etc etc etc, along with the ladies who provide them and clients that seek them should all be respected. This lifestyle and this community should be judgement free when it comes to what different encounters are offerred and practiced A long winded rambling RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuxeMulvari 65764 Report post Posted January 25, 2013 I think the reasons for 15 minute appointments is pricing. 99.9% of the time its guys wanting the cheapest option. I only offer hourly or longer rendezvous, but back when I would offer 30 minutes, guys would ask me my rate, and upon hearing it say "oh well what about 15 minutes?" They literally want the most "bang for their buck". I feel that guys that seek these out want the sexual experience for the cheapest rate they can find. As Nicolette mentioned, it takes us the same amount of prep time regardless of the time you stay, and I find, which may not be the case for everyone, but 15 and 30 minute rendezvous almost ALWAYS go over, yet the gent never seems to remember to bring the extra compensation for the lady's extra time. I had a gent come to see me once for 15 minutes back when I first started he in Ottawa. He wanted to sit down and chat, so I did, because I like to talk and feel comfortable too, and getting to know each other a bit is quite enjoyable to me. We chatted for about 5 minutes, then I glanced at the clock (yes as Nicolette said these short appointments make us clockwatchers, as any quality sp knows you ALWAYS get the full time you have paid for) He said "What's wrong?" I said with a smile "Well you have 10 minutes left, so we should get started ;)." He said, quite abruptly "Oh clock watching are we? I'll be sure to let the guys on CERB know about this!" I do not like to be bullied. This gent compensated for 15 minutes and got angry with me when I held him to the time he contracted me for. Then to top it off, tried to use CERB as way to threaten me into giving him more time, without the additional consideration. I'm very laid back and down to earth by nature, so 15 minutes and half hours stress me out, I always feel rushed, I don't get to know the gent at all, and the pressure to perform before the clock runs out is too much to bear. Rushing to do anything just doesn't click with me, its just not my style at all. My solution? I only offer hourly or longer rendezvous (my hours are 60-75 minutes depending on your demeanor) and I feel much more relaxed,I get to know the gent a bit too, and as such it allows me to let loose and truly let my inner vixen out ;) I also don't need a clock!! The gents I've met since making my changes are much more suited to my personality and the way I like to play..... passionate, sexy, deep, fun and UNRUSHED. I'm much more fulfilled and much happier now in my chosen field; I would never go back. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mister_crufty 4891 Report post Posted January 25, 2013 Wow....just wow. As a newbie to this I'm still shocked by the jerks you ladies have to put up with. Unfortunately it makes me a little paranoid in my dealings with you because I'm worried about being painted with the same brush, at least when we first meet. Having already overstepped some boundaries through inexperience, I'm wary of making mistakes. On the bright side, most ladies seem remarkably adept at quickly putting me at ease. Damn girls, y'all be CHARMING! :-D I had a gent come to see me once for 15 minutes back when I first started he in Ottawa. He wanted to sit down and chat, so I did, because I like to talk and feel comfortable too, and getting to know each other a bit is quite enjoyable to me. We chatted for about 5 minutes, then I glanced at the clock (yes as Nicolette said these short appointments make us clockwatchers, as any quality sp knows you ALWAYS get the full time you have paid for) He said "What's wrong?" I said with a smile "Well you have 10 minutes left, so we should get started ;)." He said, quite abruptly "Oh clock watching are we? I'll be sure to let the guys on CERB know about this!" I do not like to be bullied. This gent compensated for 15 minutes and got angry with me when I held him to the time he contracted me for. Then to top it off, tried to use CERB as way to threaten me into giving him more time, without the additional consideration. . Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ashley Ann 75247 Report post Posted January 25, 2013 Like most of us said, 15 mins is alllllll about the money! I can totally relate to being on a budget and offering a special rate every now and then...but I have no desire to offer 15min specials as I think they make a service provider look cheap, and well- TBH, I have no desire to spend time with a man who is looking to come in drop his pants, blo & go-I find this to be very "stroll" like, just without the parked car. Part of my business plan is to attain special friendships and nice friendly sexy on going relationships without any strings attached. This is kinda hard to do within 15mins ;) if ya know what I mean. I have many friends who come to an end quickly, before our time is up, and that's A-ok! We just do it again :boobies: In ottawa it is becoming a regular thing that is offered . Personally I am not a fan. I mean who is happy after only 15 minutes? It seems animalistic even 30 minutes seems rushed. But if it is being offered it must mean there is a demand 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest **zz**x Report post Posted January 25, 2013 The quickie can be exciting if you are both in the right frame of mind (i.e. horny as hell) and then it is straight up carnal sex. I find that this kind of sex happens when one is a teenager and you try to sneak sex while parents are around or when one is a parent and the kids are briefly napping etc. It may work witth an sp that you know well and have chemistry with. I can't imagine it being to attractive for an sp to offer it to everyone - then it becomes a rather gross, purely commoditized volume business. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
futileresistenz 28253 Report post Posted January 25, 2013 What we're offering is a more intimate service and while I understand half hour appts serve a purpose and seem to satisfy those who offer them and the customers who endulges in them but 15 minutes? It would definitely make me a clockwatcher. I don't like the mindset of guys I've encountered who are looking for 15 mins. I'm not a fan of them and don't offer them. I'm not a blowup doll and won't be treated like one. You raise a few issues here, but I'd like to focus on this one and ask you (or any SP/MA that wishes to comment) whether the answer would be the same within a "relationship" with a long-standing regular, who you have seen a number of times for longer dates, and have built a trusted, two-way bond and have come to know and like well. I could imagine this to be quite an exciting option, although one could have the same experience with that 15 minutes embedded into one or two hours. ;-) FR Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fortunateone 156618 Report post Posted January 25, 2013 You raise a few issues here, but I'd like to focus on this one and ask you (or any SP/MA that wishes to comment) whether the answer would be the same within a "relationship" with a long-standing regular, who you have seen a number of times for longer dates, and have built a trusted, two-way bond and have come to know and like well. I could imagine this to be quite an exciting option, although one could have the same experience with that 15 minutes embedded into one or two hours. ;-) FR I think the same purpose can be served by booking a half hour, paying for the half hour, but staying 15 minutes with that rush of urgency. people can design their own encounters in this way, but I don't see the point of offering a 15 minute session, or partaking of one. typically when I give out my rates for a half hour, the ones asking about 15 minutes think the rate should be half of the half hour rate. and yes, I have no doubt the majority of guys taking up this session try to get away with going overtime, like the one luxe encountered. Going overtime or insisting on not leaving until done would be the reason for booking a 15 min appt to get more for less, in other words. There are a few who really dont need much time, and I have met a couple, but even them, door to door, washing up, doing the deed, and redressing to be on their way, that is not always just 15 minutes. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fredsmith 5240 Report post Posted January 25, 2013 In ottawa it is becoming a regular thing that is offered . Personally I am not a fan. I mean who is happy after only 15 minutes? It seems animalistic even 30 minutes seems rushed. But if it is being offered it must mean there is a demand If you are correct and it is becoming a regular thing then the demand must be there for it. I realize it's not what a lot of people like but there must be enough people who do like it to have the availability of it increasing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
