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[Emma Alexandra 123366]

I have great memories of many gents but the ones that stand out most are:

 

renting me an apartment in Manhattan for a month.

 

Baking me cookies.

 

Sending flowers

 

And one of the best was when my mom passed away several of my clients got together and sent me money. This meant I didn't have to think about work for awhile.

 

 

[Bianca Jaguar 39183]

wow Emma...that is awesome!!

[CristyCurves 169032]

I have great memories of many gents but the ones that stand out most are:

 

 

And one of the best was when my mom passed away several of my clients got together and sent me money. This meant I didn't have to think about work for awhile.

 

 

 

People that are there at those very hard times are those to be cherished. It is those times when we all need support. You are very lucky to have such special and thoughtful clients.

 

Additional Comments:

What is the most memorable thing a client has done for/with you?

(Something that stood out...hmm, pun intended...something romantic, kind, funny, touching, weird, whatever it may be, but something that you remember with fondness, intrigue, or even bafflement!)

 

Some are aware of how much I love animals and support shelters. So the gents that made donations on behalf of me are my most memorable gifts/favors to date.

[Gentleman11 10508]

You have two individuals - one is a regular client and the other is a reputable cerb member who has never seen you. If they happen to want to book you at about the same time, who will you give preference to?

Food for thought - God forbid the former should find out about the latter. If I was the regular, the initial reaction upon finding out would not be one of joyesness....

[Bianca Jaguar 39183]

Food for thought - God forbid the former should find out about the latter. If I was the regular, the initial reaction upon finding out would not be one of joyesness....

 

Absolutely Gentleman11 and with good reason...that's why ethics are on top of my list! That is also why some of us ask for compensation when we get last minute cancellation...unfortunatly reg do cancel last minute also!

BJ

[roamingguy 300291]

You have two individuals - one is a regular client and the other is a reputable cerb member who has never seen you. If they happen to want to book you at about the same time, who will you give preference to?

 

If the lady has booked a particular date and time for an individual already, even two minutes before me, and I was the regular, I respect the premise of first come first serve. If there is any benefit to being a regular, one shouldn't be bumping a lady's scheduled encounters. As a regular, or even a new client, one thing, first and foremost is to still remember and respect that this is the lady's livelihood, and you expecting her to bump or cancel a scheduled encounter may lead to her lose that encounter for good, which equals to loss of income for her. A gentleman, especially a regular would not want to see a lady lose any income.

A rambling

 

RG

 

Additional Comments:

Absolutely Gentleman11 and with good reason...that's why ethics are on top of my list! That is also why some of us ask for compensation when we get last minute cancellation...unfortunatly reg do cancel last minute also!

BJ

 

I had to cancel last minute once on a lady I see regularly, she got paid in full plus tip by me. While I cancelled last minute due to illness, and it wasn't my fault I got sick, but it wasn't the lady's fault at all...but why should she be at a loss because I was sick. She got compensated in full because she would otherwise be at a loss income wise because she set aside a time and date for me, a time and date I wasn't going to make.

And she didn't need to ask me for a cancellation fee, I just had to find out how to get the money to her (email money transfer)

A rambling

 

RG

[Guest P**aq]

Have you ever had a client do something sweet/kind/nice that it made you cry?

[Guest R**3*9]

I am by nature a pretty genteel person, and I don't have a very assertive personality...at least until I'm comfortable with people...LOL

 

In my limited experiences I have learned that I'm not really able to relax without a measure of affection. If I can't relax I don't feel any kind of connection and without that the experience falls flat and isn't very enjoyable.

 

Can anyone suggest any questions that I may be able to ask to help me get a feel and a sense as to how affectionate someone may be able to be? I understand that I show up smelling of motor oil, beer and cigarettes none will want to be affectionate with me LOL.

 

Also, are there things I can do to increase the chances that one of you beautiful ladies could show me a little tenderness. :icon_biggrin: During or before a meet.

 

Thank you, this has been a very informative thread to read.

[Guest k *** t***n]

Here's a question for you ladies. I like to compliment ladies on their appearance i.e if I'm particularly struck by a certain feature. For instance I might say something like "you have the most beautiful eyes" etc.

It seems that sometimes SPs deflect this kind of praise or give a quick "thank you."

 

Are sincere compliments acceptable?

What is unacceptable?

 

I must admit I get a rush if someone compliments me, especially because there is no reason or 'must' for them to do so. Im there to be their slave so for them to compliment me is quite nice to hear.

 

Lets put the shoe on the other foot now so to speak

let's say you go out on a date with a guy (a civilian social date) and you like him and he likes you, and then he says, btw I see escorts. Would you continue to date him or no longer date him

 

RG

Been with the same Man for 4 years and we see escorts together :)

Sex is sex. Love is special between him and I. Ive got no problem sharing him with a hot lady and watching him get offffff :)

 

Lots of descriptors are used in this industry like Upscale, Elite, VIP, High End, Exclusive, escort, companion, courtesan, sex work (er), clients, dates etc.

 

Is there a stigma or shame associated with using terms like prostitute and john which we don't see used very often yet are also apt descriptors?

 

Peace

MG

 

Personally...and im quite weird, but it turns me on to be called anything 'bad'. Prostitute,whore,slut, etc. love it all :)

[Emma Alexandra 123366]

I am by nature a pretty genteel person, and I don't have a very assertive personality...at least until I'm comfortable with people...LOL

 

In my limited experiences I have learned that I'm not really able to relax without a measure of affection. If I can't relax I don't feel any kind of connection and without that the experience falls flat and isn't very enjoyable.

 

Can anyone suggest any questions that I may be able to ask to help me get a feel and a sense as to how affectionate someone may be able to be? I understand that I show up smelling of motor oil, beer and cigarettes none will want to be affectionate with me LOL.

 

Also, are there things I can do to increase the chances that one of you beautiful ladies could show me a little tenderness. :icon_biggrin: During or before a meet.

 

Thank you, this has been a very informative thread to read.

 

I think being kind and showing tenderness to a person should come naturally. Especially in this business.

 

You can email or pm the person your interested in and feel them out. Ask them questions. Tell them what your looking for. Most of us like to engage a bit through Email before we meet.

[Bianca Jaguar 39183]

I think being kind and showing tenderness to a person should come naturally. Especially in this business.

 

You can email or pm the person your interested in and feel them out. Ask them questions. Tell them what your looking for. Most of us like to engage a bit through Email before we meet.

 

Good answer Emma..my thought also :)

[Guest Miss Jane TG]

You have two individuals - one is a regular client and the other is a reputable cerb member who has never seen you. If they happen to want to book you at about the same time, who will you give preference to?

 

My regular for sure! He is the most "reputable" for my own purposes ;)

[Johnny Canuck 5347]

Being in this industry unfortunately carries certain stigmas not just for the the lovely SP's but also Hobbyist's alike and we know that the one thing that we all value is discretion; so my question that I want to put forth is this:

 

As an SP who may be in a relationship where your job is known by your significant other, would you have any issues or qualms with them indulging in being a hobbyist?

[Katherine of Halifax 113931]

Being in this industry unfortunately carries certain stigmas not just for the the lovely SP's but also Hobbyist's alike and we know that the one thing that we all value is discretion; so my question that I want to put forth is this:

 

As an SP who may be in a relationship where your job is known by your significant other, would you have any issues or qualms with them indulging in being a hobbyist?

 

 

I would not. Those of us who are partnered or married depend on the support we get from our SO. Many times they help us book tickets, rooms and keep the home running while we are away. They also support us financially, if we have a bad week their paycheck is in the bank, guaranteed. This allows us not to fret about seeing X number of people and saves a lot of stress.

 

In return for all this if my SO wanted to see someone else that is a treat he totally deserves.

[Studio 110 by Sophia 150333]

I would not. Those of us who are partnered or married depend on the support we get from our SO. Many times they help us book tickets, rooms and keep the home running while we are away. They also support us financially, if we have a bad week their paycheck is in the bank, guaranteed. This allows us not to fret about seeing X number of people and saves a lot of stress.

 

In return for all this if my SO wanted to see someone else that is a treat he totally deserves.

 

 

I agree. I often times see some ladies ads, and ask my partner if he would like to book with her. He has not yet, but we do at times book a lady together. I do like lady love from time to time to.

The only time I would have an issue with this is if he was hiding it from me, or maybe spending too much time with the same lady over and over. Then I would feel put aside:(

 

Like you say Katherine "a treat" is deserved.

 

Being an MA, I do treat him with spa sessions about once a week so he feels cared for too. :)

[Guest D***el B***e]

How many times have you fallen for a client ... fallen, as in fallen in love! It must happen more than we think, or more than you sometimes let out.

[Midnite-Energies 110563]

@Rob369 as Emma said, you can always engage in some conversations with the person you're interested in prior to meeting to determine if they are open to what you're looking for. This is also a great time for post reading as well, especially the ones involving topics that are more affectionate or sensual in nature ie: kissing, touch, cuddling, playfulness etc. This will give you a deeper understanding of the person you wish to see. Websites, blogs etc. are also great indicators. It may take a little effort but your pleasure is worth it for finding someone who can give you what you want and need!

 

When it comes to a partner wanting to indulge in the hobby, I have to say it would depend on the circumstances. Trust is definitely needed as is communication. If they are interested in pursuing this because they are not feeling loved or valued, than that is something that needs to be dealt with and not ignored because it can lead to many issues. If it is simply a matter of variety, interest or treat, as long as there has been open communication about things, then certainly. Indulging together can also be a great experience to deepen the relationship and keep the fires burning.

 

I have had clients bring me a thoughtful gift or write just to say they were thinking of me. It's the simple things that mean the most to me. I am myself in what I do so anything genuine makes me smile. I care about people and it's nice to have that returned.

[A1B2C3D4E5 1120]

Great thread!

 

Here's a few questions of my own.

 

1) As someone who started about 6 months ago I would like to ask: How do I become the ideal kind of client? Keeping in mind that I always arrive freshly showered and clean shaved. I bring a small gift with me, tip afterwards and stay within the girl's boundaries and even left a glowing review. I also pre-book my next appointment as I'm leaving the appointment and never had to reschedule or cancel (knocking on wood :p) So, how can I even better the experience of the girl I'm seeing? What else should I be looking into doing?

 

2) Do you generally like regulars more or new clients?

 

3) What's your definition of a regular client? (once a month? a couple of times a year? once a week? etc)

 

4) When it comes to booking times, what range do you prefer? (half an hour, 1 hour, 2 hours, overnight etc)

 

5) What's your opinion on a client contacting you to wish you a happy birthday, or merry Christmas or something of that sort?

 

6) Separate but related to the last point. How do you feel about a client sending you a brief thank you note after the appointment?

 

7) If you contact a client between bookings, is that an open invitation to keep in touch between appointments?

 

Thanks in advance! Sorry if that's too many questions!

[Midnite-Energies 110563]

@ A1B2C3D4E5

 

It sounds like you already have the high points of being a great client covered. The things after that I say are specific to you and your provider. There is a laundry list of things you an do to be a good client but to be a great client, you need to be on for your specific SP. We are all individuals and have likes and dislikes, things that excited us and turn us on and people we connect with. To be a great client, you need to develop a relationship within the boundaries and learn her as she will learn you. Great clients are not born, they are created with time and attention.

 

I for one love both my regulars and meeting new people. Both create excitement, energy and possibilities. There is always the potential to build and I love that aspect with both.

 

I think a regular client is anyone you see regularly but that is "their" regular. It could be weekly, bi weekly, monthly, every few months etc. It's a consistent thing.

 

Personally I love two hour sessions as it allows that extra time to snuggle, talk, laugh or explore. These sessions say that you enjoy the person you're with. Shorter are still great especially in this world of "busy".

 

I love maintaining a connection with people whether just to say hi, acknowledge a birthday or a holiday so when someone thinks of me, it is definitely smile worthy. I always like to acknowledge someone after our first meeting as everyone provides me something to smile about. I follow the lead of the other person though, if they don't go for that sort of thing or don't want it, then I don't do it and I don't expect it. It's difficult sometimes when you just want to say hello when many times it's taken as a play for business.

[qwertyaccount 15793]

I've heard a lot about weird or inappropriate text messages and guys sending dick pictures - what are some of the funniest or strangest text messages you've received?

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

I've heard a lot about weird or inappropriate text messages and guys sending dick pictures - what are some of the funniest or strangest text messages you've received?

 

There are so many strange and funny ones that they don't seem to realize:

 

I want to suck your cock.

Um, really - you do know I am a women?

 

I'm really horny right now. Help me please.

I'm on my way baby!

[Bianca Jaguar 39183]

Great thread!

 

Here's a few questions of my own.

 

1) As someone who started about 6 months ago I would like to ask: How do I become the ideal kind of client? Keeping in mind that I always arrive freshly showered and clean shaved. I bring a small gift with me, tip afterwards and stay within the girl's boundaries and even left a glowing review. I also pre-book my next appointment as I'm leaving the appointment and never had to reschedule or cancel (knocking on wood :p) So, how can I even better the experience of the girl I'm seeing? What else should I be looking into doing?

 

2) Do you generally like regulars more or new clients?

 

3) What's your definition of a regular client? (once a month? a couple of times a year? once a week? etc)

 

4) When it comes to booking times, what range do you prefer? (half an hour, 1 hour, 2 hours, overnight etc)

 

5) What's your opinion on a client contacting you to wish you a happy birthday, or merry Christmas or something of that sort?

 

6) Separate but related to the last point. How do you feel about a client sending you a brief thank you note after the appointment?

 

7) If you contact a client between bookings, is that an open invitation to keep in touch between appointments?

 

Thanks in advance! Sorry if that's too many questions!

1)wow...not much to add here...if you walk in with a smile, that's a bonus :D

I2) adore my regulars because it gets better and better after each appt...that being said I like the excitement of meeting a new client :)

 

3)For me a regular is a repeat client...after a second visit he is considered a regular...now...I have regulars and great regulars ;)

 

4)I prefer longer appointements, no more half hours it's way to rushed, 2 hours and more is my fav that way you can get to know him better and build that connection!

 

5)Oh I love it...so nice to know that someone is thinking of you :D

 

6)That too is appreciated...I usually do not initiate such message but I love receiving them and will definately answer back :)

 

7)If I get in touch with them it's because they asked me to let them know when i was coming back...and I dont mind keeping in touch with reg clients :) as long as it's stays within the client/sp boundaries!

BJxxx

[fortunateone 156618]

I've heard a lot about weird or inappropriate text messages and guys sending dick pictures - what are some of the funniest or strangest text messages you've received?

 

 

I don't have texting on my landline phone, so when someone texts me it converts text to landline, in the form of a voice recording. So the 'voice' has had to reinterpret whatever the text was typed in and as we all know (we can see ad titles that use this) text speak is not in English lol.

 

I've had a couple wtf what that supposed to be texts.

[A1B2C3D4E5 1120]

I don't mean to hijack this thread, but another question came to mind.

 

If there's something you offer as stated on your ads and/or website does it necessarily mean that you like to offer that service? Or does it only mean that you're able to tolerate it? If it's the later, why offer something you don't particularly like doing?

[Bianca Jaguar 39183]

If I offer a service...it means I enjoy doing that service...I wouldn't do something i don't enjoy...that would be torture...JMHO