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[piano8950 32577]

Summer had a very interesting blog post about sharing this part of her life with a family member. It was a very interesting read.

 

To those who have revealed this profession to loved ones, how did it go?

[Winnipegcub 21293]

So I know a few of the ladies offer different services like SP or MP. My question for the ladies is - Assuming you haven't done it, what other service would you like to try?

- Being a Dancer in a Club?

- Providing a Dom Service?

- Being an Escort?

- Providing Massage Service?

- Other

And maybe answer why as well or why you haven't yet tried it.

Here is your chance cause you don't really need to do it so just might have an interest or fantasy. Look forward to your thoughts.

[qwertyaccount 15793]

What's the strangest outfit/costume you've been asked to wear?

 

What's the weirdest role-play you've been asked to do?

[LeeRichards 177238]

Well seeing that I LOVE oysters and they are an aphrodisiac apparently

 

Would it be cool or NOT cool .....

 

To invite you to my suite and have a bucket of raw oysters and a bottle of wine on each nightstand with bibs ? Nekkid with bibs on. :) haha Seriously ?

[Midnite-Energies 110563]

When it comes to services I'm very open to many things and many conversations. Limits presently include space and instruments and appropriate partners. I love meeting and exploring with someone. Finding out what they like and enjoy and then seeing what else that might expand into. You have to have someone open to a longer term relationship and open communication for that though. I'm very fetish friendly and even if I'm not into something, I think it's great the other person is and would try to recommend someone for them. Mostly for me it's about time and space.

 

@Lee...you can keep the oysters, I'd rather you be the aphrodisiac although nekkid with bibs might be fun! tee hee

[Miss S. Lane 67128]

Have you ever wanted to meet a particular cerb member in person, and get really nervous due to certain perception or expectation you have of them?

 

 

Absolutely, and hope very much that they book so I can :) hehehe

 

As for nerves, I believe I have been more nervous meeting the women of cerb than the men!!

[Raven Rain 10542]

Well I have tried being a dancer in a club just a couple times

it was a lot of fun. I would like learn some pole moves and practice at it

Also I would like to dance as fun way to be physically active.

I always admired dancers;so it has always been a fantasy to be a

dancer.

 

So I know a few of the ladies offer different services like SP or MP. My question for the ladies is - Assuming you haven't done it, what other service would you like to try?

- Being a Dancer in a Club?

- Providing a Dom Service?

- Being an Escort?

- Providing Massage Service?

- Other

And maybe answer why as well or why you haven't yet tried it.

Here is your chance cause you don't really need to do it so just might have an interest or fantasy. Look forward to your thoughts.

[Emma Alexandra 123366]

So I know a few of the ladies offer different services like SP or MP. My question for the ladies is - Assuming you haven't done it, what other service would you like to try?

- Being a Dancer in a Club?

- Providing a Dom Service?

- Being an Escort?

- Providing Massage Service?

- Other

And maybe answer why as well or why you haven't yet tried it.

Here is your chance cause you don't really need to do it so just might have an interest or fantasy. Look forward to your thoughts.

 

Hmmm I haven't tried dancing but believe me you wouldn't want to see me dance either. I dance like Elaine Venus. Haha

 

 

What's the strangest outfit/costume you've been asked to wear?

 

panty hose on my hands.

 

 

 

Well seeing that I LOVE oysters and they are an aphrodisiac apparently

 

Would it be cool or NOT cool .....

 

To invite you to my suite and have a bucket of raw oysters and a bottle of wine on each nightstand with bibs ? Nekkid with bibs on. :) haha Seriously ?

 

shhhhh your not supported to give out my secrets

[Katherine of Halifax 113931]

Well seeing that I LOVE oysters and they are an aphrodisiac apparently

 

Would it be cool or NOT cool .....

 

To invite you to my suite and have a bucket of raw oysters and a bottle of wine on each nightstand with bibs ? Nekkid with bibs on. :) haha Seriously ?

 

 

Lee Richards I bet whatever you might have up your sleeve would be very cool. Go ahead baby push that envelope, we all love you !

[roamingguy 300291]

Hmmm I haven't tried dancing but believe me you wouldn't want to see me dance either. I dance like Elaine Venus. Haha

 

I bet we all would love to see you dance Emma

 

 

RG

[Fresh start 17467]

Now I get everybody has their own schedules and all, but I've notice some may entertain during the workday others evening and even some very late early morning.

So I was wondering does certain time attract certain type of clientele? Is there a particular time that is more popular? What part of day or night is your preference?

 

Myself I kinda enjoy the early morning or mid afternoon due to easier to take time off/out of my day.

 

Ps. If I'm not home by 9pm I start to get cranky lol!

[Emma Alexandra 123366]

Now I get everybody has their own schedules and all, but I've notice some may entertain during the workday others evening and even some very late early morning.

So I was wondering does certain time attract certain type of clientele? Is there a particular time that is more popular? What part of day or night is your preference?

 

Myself I kinda enjoy the early morning or mid afternoon due to easier to take time off/out of my day.

 

Ps. If I'm not home by 9pm I start to get cranky lol!

 

Im sure it's different for some of us but my busiest time seems to be between 3 and 6. Many times everyone that wants to see me ask for the same time on the same day..that's one of the reasons for advance bookings. I don't work late. I'm an early riser so mornings are fun. Wink

 

[IsaMassage 54318]

I hear you... the everyone wanting to book at the same time... sometime you can work your magic and make things work but lots of times is just not there..

I am an early riser.. I used to work day time before.. mornings. .. ow because I decided to go back to school I have to work evenings. ... I still get up at 5am... but nothing pisses me off more than calls at 1 or 2 am... I know I should put the phone on silent. .. but I forget because I pass out..and is that day this stupid calls come.... Now I make sure I get up and I send message to anyone that contacts me late at night to properly read adds (my hours are there) and it shows absolutely lack of respect to be contacted at that time.. I think Is simple common sense

[Miss S. Lane 67128]

So I was wondering does certain time attract certain type of clientele? Is there a particular time that is more popular? What part of day or night is your preference?!

 

 

In regards to clientele and times of appointments, I definitely notice a difference. Business men tend to see me during their work day as it tends to be convenient. Couples I see in the evenings almost exclusively!

 

As for my preference, anytime after 9am and before 9pm is great :)

[Jay67 688]

If I were to book a 4 hour session with a SP, the first hours being dinner and the next two hours being an incall, what would the rates be? Would I have to pay for a 4 hour incall rate?

 

Please don't get the wrong idea, I'm not looking for a discount or anything like that, I would just like to know what the rates would be for something like this.

[Emma Alexandra 123366]

If I were to book a 4 hour session with a SP, the first hours being dinner and the next two hours being an incall, what would the rates be? Would I have to pay for a 4 hour incall rate?

 

Please don't get the wrong idea, I'm not looking for a discount or anything like that, I would just like to know what the rates would be for something like this.

 

Speaking for myself only my rate isn't for what I do it's for time spent together.

[fortunateone 156618]

I know at time I get so tired dealing with people myself that I wish I could quite my job and just stay home and relax.... :) What about you, how do you cope with it? Do you ever get tired of dealing with people?

 

Just Asking!! ;)

 

 

i find the best way is to just not answer the phone. My quitting time is 9pm, but it isn't that unusual for me to sometimes just be weary of dealing with anyone new, and while i might give out my info, i am just likely to say, not available today, but I will be tomorrow.

 

Sometimes the idea of getting ready for someone who may or may not show up is worse later at night than it is a say 2:00 pm . They may show up, and they may not, and if not that is about 45 minutes of waiting time to find out, and by that time it is close to 10pm, so my way of dealing with being tired of dealing with people for that particular day is to just not be available after 9pm. ;)

 

Additional Comments:

Now I get everybody has their own schedules and all, but I've notice some may entertain during the workday others evening and even some very late early morning.

So I was wondering does certain time attract certain type of clientele? Is there a particular time that is more popular? What part of day or night is your preference?

 

Myself I kinda enjoy the early morning or mid afternoon due to easier to take time off/out of my day.

 

Ps. If I'm not home by 9pm I start to get cranky lol!

 

 

 

9pm is my cranky time as well. My 'hours' are 9am to 9pm, with a maybe 9am in there. it depends on if i am getting up and dealing with my pets, my coffee, and opening up the drapes, blinds and so on before actually going to get showered and ready for the day.

 

I think that some of the sps who are late night to early morning may be in hotels. Being in my own incall, I have found that day time is easily the busier time of day, 11am to 7pm roughly. But i won't see anyone after 10pm anyway, tho the phone does still ring at 2am, 3am, 4am 5am, etc. So there is definitely something happening at those times of the night. it is just a different type of client than i am willing to see.

 

Additional Comments:

If I were to book a 4 hour session with a SP, the first hours being dinner and the next two hours being an incall, what would the rates be? Would I have to pay for a 4 hour incall rate?

 

Please don't get the wrong idea, I'm not looking for a discount or anything like that, I would just like to know what the rates would be for something like this.

 

 

Everyone has different rates. The rates for extended dates tend to be based on their full hourly rate for the first hour, and possible discounted or lower rate for the other 3. You might see her hour rate is 300, but for 4 hours as a dinner date, not full play time date, as $750. (300 plus 3x150) You might see her charge $1200 (4 x $300) . You might see her charge $600 (300 plus 3 x $100).

 

Some sps have a 2 hour minimum, so that same sp would be 2x300 plus discounted rate x 2

 

If she has a $200 hour rate, same kind of mathematics will result in different rates lol.

 

In any case, basically, as already mentioned, you will be paying a rate for all the hours she spends with you, not based entirely on what amount of that time is going to be spent on playtime. Regardless that the meal is paid for, she is a paid companion, being a companion has a rate just as providing services has a rate.

[Midnite-Energies 110563]

I find 10a-1p is my busy time but then again my hours are the way they are to accommodate other responsibilities and commitments I have. I expect I lose the afternoon business because of this but it is what it is. When I originally started I thought there would be more evening business but it didn't turn out that way. My preference is for anytime I'm able to spend time with someone!

[Miss S. Lane 67128]

If I were to book a 4 hour session with a SP, the first hours being dinner and the next two hours being an incall, what would the rates be? Would I have to pay for a 4 hour incall rate?

 

Please don't get the wrong idea, I'm not looking for a discount or anything like that, I would just like to know what the rates would be for something like this.

 

 

I certainly cannot speak for every SP. However for myself I offer a rate for this very thing. My hourly rate is $350, however my rate for a dinner date (4hrs, 2 out 2 in) is $1100. However it TOTALLY depends on the SP, so check with the individual SP :)

[Guest S****r]

Re: late night callers

 

Unfortunately, these tend to be guys who it took an evening of drinking or partying to get up the nerve to send a text. You can imagine the kinds of texts we get. Not to say ALL late night callers are like that, but I think I can say the majority of them are.

 

The nicer late-night business is from those who schedule it for late because they work an evening or night shift.

[Guest c**io**m7]

Hi ladies,

 

I am going to get personal here:

 

Scenario: you are a single lady out with your girlfriends and you meet a guy who piques your interest. You spend the next couple hours with drinks, dancing, whatever...he wants your number, you give it. Let's say he calls and you go on a more intimate date such as a nice dinner.

At what point do you let him know your line of work and how do you deal with the worry that he may judge you?

[Emma Alexandra 123366]

We are judged all the time. Sad to say but true. I've been in this situation more then once..sometimes if you tell them right off what you do they think "Wow, all the free sex i can have". That isn't true by the way. wink .If you tell them later then they may walk away or they get it. Some dudes think they get it but it takes a special someone that really does. When dating someone it takes a lot more time to hit the sheets. wink

[Studio 110 by Sophia 150333]

Hi ladies,

 

I am going to get personal here:

 

Scenario: you are a single lady out with your girlfriends and you meet a guy who piques your interest. You spend the next couple hours with drinks, dancing, whatever...he wants your number, you give it. Let's say he calls and you go on a more intimate date such as a nice dinner.

At what point do you let him know your line of work and how do you deal with the worry that he may judge you?

 

When I was single this happened often. For me, I would say so by the second date, if it were a proper date. The scenario you mention, is just a meeting, so need to get personal.

But the second date after you get my number, I would face to face tell you. I would rather be judged face to face rather then a txt. But as a general rule, you wont get me in bed that night anyways, you need to do a bit more then take me out to dinner one night. So no worries off my back if you think your gonna get a frebbie, lol... Then see by your reaction if I would see you again.

Life is tricky, and I do not want more complications by hiding the fact.

[LeeRichards 177238]

We are judged all the time. Sad to say but true. I've been in this situation more then once..sometimes if you tell them right off what you do they think "Wow, all the free sex i can have". That isn't true by the way. wink .If you tell them later then they may walk away or they get it. Some dudes think they get it but it takes a special someone that really does. it takes a lot more time to hit the sheets. When dating someone wink

 

Oh shit !! How much time Emma ? Tic Toc Tic Toc. NOT GETTING ANY YOUNGER HERE YA KNOW !!! hahaha I think I just got another grey hair while I typed that and gained a pound ;)

[Bianca Jaguar 39183]

Why did you get into escorting in the first place?

Well being a webcam model first, clients on cam were asking if i met in person...I met my first client that way...then I met Carrie Moon who helped me out building my first website and got me started in Ottawa...thank you Carrie :)

 

What is the best thing about being an SP?

Being my own boss...making my own Schedule...meeting amazing gents and having great encouters (amazing sex) and being able to provide for my kids :)

 

It is bound to happen...

 

How do you react when a client says he loves you? [awkward]

 

Never happened to me yet...I mean never heard the L word yet but sometimes action speak louder then words....

Will you see that client again?

Yes but will make sure that feeling are not in the way...communication !!

What do you like least about being an escort?

Bad hygiene...Rushed sessions...

 

Sex is a very intimate activity. Some hobbyists prefer to have a "regular" lady as the connection can build and make for an even more intimate experience. How do you, as escorts, shield yourself from an emotional attachment and remain only business? I know this is a very personal question and no-one will be insulted if you prefer not to answer.

 

That happens a lot too...at least for me! I keep repeating to myself that they are clients and im a provider and it has to stay that way...definately not easy sometimes...

 

Another question. How did you feel after your first time as an SP? I'm guessing somewhat exciting, but of course everyone is different. I would love to hear back on this question!

I felt nervous...but once we met I felt amazing and knew I was meant for this!

 

Q. As an SP, MP, or Dancer....has it been important to have friends, confidants, mentors in the business? Do you draw upon them or find you work best just keeping to yourself?

Oh yes absolutely!! I have met ladies here that i consider now my BBF and continue to meet more and more wonderful ladies...

 

What would you say to a guy that would love to visit an SP but feels very intimidated and don't think he is good enough! (lol....And of course I am asking for a friend!! ) ;)

 

I would say take the plunge and stop worrying...thats what we are here for and most would make you feel at ease the minute you walk in :)

 

Can I ask another question? I was wondering if you have ever had a "date" that was so hot that it eclipsed your best experience in your civilian life? Or is that an impossibility perhaps given the lesser chance for intimacy by only seeing the client for an hour or two at a time.

(Last question today, I promise!)

Oh yes It happened more then once lol...when the client walks out and you go...OMFG that was amazing!!!

 

What do SP's do to mentally prepare themselves for a session?

Make sure my room is ready...music...have a nice hot shower, get dressed up , make up and picture the encounter...gets me even more frisky!!

 

I was asked if I was ever a male sp. I have been both thrown and confused by this. Not knowing wether to feel complimented or insulted. To be honest I have felt both. How should this be taken? What does this mean?

 

For me I would think its a compliment..sexy, handsome and great lover! ;) just MHO

 

 

Q- how do you deal with a client you don't want to see again chemistry wasn't there or just for any reason. Do you ignore or do you just explain when they call or email you wish not to seem them again

 

If there is no chemistry usually they dont book again as its probably mutual! In my case I just say I'm booked or not available...I do that with no shows or just real bad encouter (only happened once)

 

Thank you summer for a wonderful thread!

BJ xxx

 

Additional Comments:

Hi ladies,

 

I am going to get personal here:

 

Scenario: you are a single lady out with your girlfriends and you meet a guy who piques your interest. You spend the next couple hours with drinks, dancing, whatever...he wants your number, you give it. Let's say he calls and you go on a more intimate date such as a nice dinner.

At what point do you let him know your line of work and how do you deal with the worry that he may judge you?

When i meet guys that way and we spend time together...usually im very upfront with what i do...I do mention that im not working now and what he is seeing is the real me... I will let him know early so if he wants to take me out on a more intimate date...there is no secret!

BJ xxx

 

Additional Comments:

I'm a early bird so I really enjoy mornings...afternoon also but when it gets too late like past 11pm...I have to get really psych to have an encounter past that time...sometimes it works good but I have turned down lots of demands after 11...unless hes a reg...then I will see him!

And yes guys that call or text after midnight are not the clients you want to meet...

BJ

Now I get everybody has their own schedules and all, but I've notice some may entertain during the workday others evening and even some very late early morning.

So I was wondering does certain time attract certain type of clientele? Is there a particular time that is more popular? What part of day or night is your preference?

 

Myself I kinda enjoy the early morning or mid afternoon due to easier to take time off/out of my day.

 

Ps. If I'm not home by 9pm I start to get cranky lol!