A question for the ladies of Cerb

[emiafish 30979]

Hi. My name is emiafish and I am a cunnilingus aficionado. In fact, I may be addicted to eating pussy. I've been hooked ever since my first fledgling attempt when I was a young lad. From what I've read on the boards, I'm not alone. There are a lot of muff divers out here.

 

It has been my great honour and pleasure to have worshiped at the alter of womanhood of many women over the years. I've come to two conclusions.

 

1. Vagina are like snowflakes, no two are exactly alike.

2. No two women react in the same way to the same stimulation.

 

So here is my question.

 

How do you like to have your pussy eaten?

 

Is your clitoris super sensitive from the start? Or does sensitivity build up during the session?

 

Do you like the soft gentle approach or do you like the intensity and pressure to build as you approach climax?

 

Do you like fingers? Some don't because of hygiene and safety issues.

 

Do you like long flat tongue licks or quick flicks from the tip of the tongue?

 

Do you like to be sucked? Lightly or with gusto?

 

What about patterns and rhythm? Do you like your licker to stick with one style or do you like changes in pattern?

 

Can you describe the sensations of the best head you've ever had?

 

I have more than just an passing curiosity. Like many providers & clients, I strive to make our encounter as pleasurable as possible for my partner. Your candid feedback will serve as reference for those of us who seriously love to make oral love.

[fishstick 3041]

Cant wait to hear the replies on this one.

[Studio 110 by Sophia 150333]

In the beginning I need a soft and constant type pressure, until my clit starts to swell and throb while it begins to radiate heat into my thighs right to my belly.

 

Then, changing to a nice rhythm in a circular motion and a slow lick down and up ...

 

Now my clit is swollen and full, it is the ultimate "lady boner" now. The true clit is poking out from her hood, and now you can suck it. Suck it gentle, then hard and back again to gentle. Meanwhile the tip of your tongue compress on top, and small flicks.

 

Once I do reach my most pinnacle point of climax, I will grab you, digging fingers into your shoulders, tighten up and then here is the BIG MOAN...ahhhhh, exhale and convulse into a arched back.

 

Once done, you better back up, cause I may turn into a praymanthis.......hahahaha JK!!!

 

MMM, wow , hope my phone rings now LOL

[Chanel Monroe 150]

oh wow, I have yet to experience anything like this. Sounds amazing, just reading your post made my pussy tighten & now it beginning to throb. thanks for the tease ;)

[Studio 110 by Sophia 150333]

oh wow, I have yet to experience anything like this. Sounds amazing, just reading your post made my pussy tighten & now it beginning to throb. thanks for the tease ;)

 

Stick around, we are blessed with many talented men here! And if they don't, come visit me, I will take care of that for you! hehe

[muncher459 1040]

excellent question, hoping for many detailed answers....

[chocolatelover228 120]

This will be the hottest post!

[Maddy 270]

Hot post. My answer is yes! Try it all, I'll let you know what is and what is not working *wink*, but from the moans, groans and arched back and the grabbing of your head to keep you there, should indicate that in itself. lol

[emiafish 30979]

This is a good start. I realize that it may be difficult to articulate what turns your crank. So here is the same question from the other side.

 

What is the worst pussy eating No-No in your books?

 

Too much attention to the clitoris? It's not a chew toy after all!

Too rough with the digits? You are not a puppet!

Too soft? Too hard?

Teeth are not a good option?

What about the porn star spit? Some may like it, others may be disgusted.

 

This is your chance ladies. Educate us so that we might become the muff diver of your dreams. Any and all advice is greatly appreciated. Any experiences or funny stories that you might share would be great too.

[EmilyRushton 253346]

Personally, this is a topic that should be discussed in private between two people face to face.

While you may think this is a great idea, someone will read this post religiously and try all listed on their next date - which is a recipe for disaster.

No matter what I like and enjoy behind closed doors - chemistry is key for intimacy and if we don't click no matter what you try WONT work. AS well what works for one does not work for or with all.

[WriteOn 3250]

If you do it behind closed doors you'll get one opinion. I for one would love to hear from as many women as possible, it's a learning experience. Knowing of course just because one woman likes a certain thing doesn't mean all women like it. But if I learn a few new tricks it's only going to help me in the future.

[roamingguy 300291]

If you do it behind closed doors you'll get one opinion. I for one would love to hear from as many women as possible, it's a learning experience. Knowing of course just because one woman likes a certain thing doesn't mean all women like it. But if I learn a few new tricks it's only going to help me in the future.

 

But doing it behind closed doors, you'll get the opinion, the most important opinion btw, that matters at that time.

 

RG

[WriteOn 3250]

Personally I wouldn't ask a woman how she liked her pussy licked during an encounter, but to each their own.

[EmilyRushton 253346]

Personally I wouldn't ask a woman how she liked her pussy licked during an encounter, but to each their own.

You should not have to ask, you should go with the flow or she should direct you - pretty plain and simple.

[mrgreen760 37785]

If you have to ask.....you're doing it wrong.

 

Peace

MG

[WriteOn 3250]

You should not have to ask, you should go with the flow or she should direct you - pretty plain and simple.

 

 

Then I'm not sure what you meant here.

 

Personally, this is a topic that should be discussed in private between two people face to face.

[Studio 110 by Sophia 150333]

Well I suppose if your into writing and talking about how you like your experience, then post it and chat about it, otherwise ...just wait till your face to face and chat.

 

I for one enjoyed writing how I like to experience that, and I suppose the OP was curious to read about it. I found it fun and sexy thread myself!

I have often asked my partners how they like certain things, it is just interesting to see how each person is different and yet alike:)

 

Afterall, do we not ask questions and post to get to know each other?

[Midnite-Energies 110563]

Personally, I love to write about sex and talk about sex however this is one of those questions that to me, is more about the titillation than the actual pleasure. I enjoy such a variety of sensations that vary depending on the day of the week and the person I'm with. I don't always like the same speed, pressure, laps or licks. I also find that everyone has something special they bring to the table so it really IS about connection and chemistry. You can direct 5 people to do the same motion and they will all interpret it differently. I've been blown away by what someone has done and found myself craving it afterwards (both with and without orgasm).

 

Pussy licking is about enthusiasm, cues, enjoyment and going with the flow, the same as cock sucking. Give yourself over to the moment, be fully present and pay attention to your partners cues, give and take but most of all ENJOY!

[mrrnice2 157005]

Oh dear. This makes me think of what to me now is a rather funny story but originally, not so much!

 

I was married to the same woman for almost 40 years and luckily as the years went by sex became better and better all the time. I know,I know,I was really lucky!

 

Anyway, it got to the point where I could make her orgasm fast, like really fast, and stronger and stronger all the time. Well, I figured that I had it all worked out, nothing to this, but it sure was fun.

 

Then, after she was was gone and I saw my first few ladies on Cerb I walked into those encounters thinking that well, maybe I wasn't God's gift to women, but at least that, "OK she's going to have a REALLY good time." Like wow, really confident.

 

Ah, nope. Not the case. Ain't true. Wasn't true. And sure as hell still isn't true!

 

It was and still is the fact that what worked for my wife was not the same as what works for someone else. I was actually pretty depressed about it at first.

 

Now I am sort of a slow learner I guess because it took me a while to figure this little fact out. Every woman is different. They will each have their own little buttons here, or places there,or touches around, or kisses in a certain way that is what works for them individually. So I guess the answer is that it comes with personal experience between two individuals.

 

But now I just accept that it is really fun to practice and learn, and sometimes I even get it right!

[emiafish 30979]

Personally, this is a topic that should be discussed in private between two people face to face.

While you may think this is a great idea, someone will read this post religiously and try all listed on their next date - which is a recipe for disaster.

No matter what I like and enjoy behind closed doors - chemistry is key for intimacy and if we don't click no matter what you try WONT work. AS well what works for one does not work for or with all.

 

Normally I don't respond to posts of differing opinions. But in this case I thought a response is warranted. At first, I took Emily's post as a rebuke. I could almost see the virtual finger wagging in my face. But upon reflection, I realized that Emily was just expressing her personal belief.

 

With all due respect, I'd like to offer a different perspective. I am of that age group that remembers life before the Internet, before Facebook and Twitter and most certainly before Cerb. Discussions behind closed doors propagated wide spread ignorance. As a young lad,thirsty for information about the opposite sex, reference materials were scarce. Open and honest discussion about sex and sexual activity between consenting adults was unheard of.

 

Today we have a fantastic opportunity to share experiences of a very private and personal nature in the forums of Cerb. I hope others feel comfortable enough to share their views and experiences. I'd hate to think that, even here, the remenants of an era long past might try to suppress or dissuade open exchanges between adults. Which, BTW, I do not think was Emily's motive.

 

As to the assertion that individuals will use the posts here as a road map to be followed religiously when they next find themselves face to vagina, I also have to say "Really"? I think that is tantamount to saying violent TV makes kids violent, or sexual content will promote rape. It is an old argument that does not stand upto critical thinking, or to the research. My original post states two key observations. No two vagina's are the same and no two women react the same way to the same stimulation. That was the whole point of the post and the thread.

 

I had hoped that by sharing preferences and experiences, we could together illustrate that there is no magic button, that learning from our partners is key and the Venus Butterfly is bullshit. Keeping this to ourselves or behind closed doors seems, to me, to be a disservice to those who want to learn to be better lovers.

 

One final point. Sometimes men can be dense. We might not pick up subtle changes in body tension, or understand what you mean by a moan or groan. Should I go harder or softer or stay the same? During the moment, it might be awkward to raise one's head to ask, "does that feel good" or "am I doing it right"? As much as we'd sometimes wish, we can't read minds. While explicit text can be stimulating, it is also educational. I hope the ladies of Cerb look on this as a chance to enlighten and educate those of us who are dedicated pussy lovers, be they gifted amateurs, virgins or master lickers. We all could learn something from each other.

[Boomer 33202]

I enjoyed reading Sophia's descriptive story, maybe a fact or not, but a good read.

 

I've thought of myself as a long term learner, so I usually tell the lady in question, if you are enjoying yourself you are welcome to give me some coaching, your wish is my command.

[jg24 3707]

I would have to say that unless you have had ladies complain about how you DATY then it should be kept private. I would say most ladies will tell you if it is not working for them when you perform DATY.

 

I would think most ladies will keep this private as one person said some guys would try everything that was posted in the original post.

[WriteOn 3250]

I would have to say that unless you have had ladies complain about how you DATY then it should be kept private. I would say most ladies will tell you if it is not working for them when you perform DATY.

 

I would think most ladies will keep this private as one person said some guys would try everything that was posted in the original post.

 

 

Why would you keep something private that gives you pleasure? Now if you asked women you work with the question I could see how it would be inappropriate. But, if this isn't the site where this question could/should be asked then I ask you where should a fellow go to get tips on how to pleasure a woman orally??

 

This is a site full of women you have more experience than your average woman, they know common things that most guys do wrong, they know what things guys do that they like, why not share? Why keep it private? I honestly don't get that point of view.

[roamingguy 300291]

Why would you keep something private that gives you pleasure? Now if you asked women you work with the question I could see how it would be inappropriate. But, if this isn't the site where this question could/should be asked then I ask you where should a fellow go to get tips on how to pleasure a woman orally??

 

This is a site full of women you have more experience than your average woman, they know common things that most guys do wrong, they know what things guys do that they like, why not share? Why keep it private? I honestly don't get that point of view.

 

Because it isn't just about you. It's also about the lady, her wishes, and her boundaries. And many ladies state in their websites they do not want graphic reviews. So posting on CERB (or other board) details about something you and a lady did in private and which she wishes kept private, is why it is inappropriate to talk about it in a public forum.

At the time of the encounter, the lady will guide you if your not doing things right for her. And that's where and when you and the lady you see

can click and develop a chemistry, not from you reading posts, and assuming one size fits all so to speak

A rambling

 

RG

[WriteOn 3250]

Because it isn't just about you. It's also about the lady, her wishes, and her boundaries. And many ladies state in their websites they do not want graphic reviews. So posting on CERB (or other board) details about something you and a lady did in private and which she wishes kept private, is why it is inappropriate to talk about it in a public forum.

 

No one was asking for graphic reviews. It was "a question for the ladies", the ladies who are not comfortable with sharing are free not to respond.

 

I might expect this response in the BBJCIMSW thread, but I am surprised to see it here. But then again, to each their own :)